Secrets, Psychological Health, and the Fear of Discovery.
Keeping secrets from one's partner has been associated with lower well-being and relationship satisfaction. Previous research has suggested that individual differences in self-concealment account for these effects. However, we propose that the fear of discovery (FoD)-defined as the fear that one's secret may be revealed by means other than deliberate disclosure-predicts the extent to which secrets affect well-being beyond the effects attributable to individual differences. Both a cross-sectional and a longitudinal survey (combined N = 471; 54.4% female; M = 39.5) of adults in romantic relationships confirmed that FoD predicted greater preoccupation with the secret, more negative affect, and less relationship satisfaction and commitment beyond that of self-concealment. Multilevel modeling in Study 2 indicated that changes in FoD predicted changes in preoccupation over time. The data are consistent with the notion that FoD promotes greater preoccupation, greater negative affect, and lower levels of relationship well-being.
['Davis|Christopher G|CG|0000-0003-3851-080X', 'Brazeau|Hannah|H|', 'Xie|Elisabeth Bailin|EB|', 'McKee|Kathleen|K|']
D000328:Adult D003430:Cross-Sectional Studies D030881:Disclosure D005239:Fear D005260:Female D006801:Humans D008297:Male D008603:Mental Health D010549:Personal Satisfaction
secrets fear of discovery self-concealment romantic relationships preoccupation