Tell the person that marital problems are best discussed with his mate, with a mature Christian of the same sex who wants his union to succeed, or with the elders.
برای مثال ،‏ محرم راز شخصی از جنس مخالف نشوید که مشکل زناشویی دارد و بخواهد سفرهٔ دلش را نزد شما پهن کند .‏