However, the concept of yielding to someone else’s wishes ​ — of giving without asking, ‘ What’s in it for me? ’ ​ — has become unpopular with many and even offensive to some.
اما امروزه ارجحیت دادن به خواسته‌های دیگران بدون این که نفعی در کار باشد متداول نیست ،‏ حتی ناخوشایند می‌باشد .‏