Instead of giving in to defeatist thinking — perhaps writing off the potential for improvement by saying, “We were never really in love, ”“ We married too young, ” or “We didn’t know what we were doing ” — why not hope for better things and work toward improvement, waiting patiently for results?
Tāpēc neļaujieties pesimistiskām domām un neatmetiet cerības, sakot ” Mēs nemaz īsti nemīlējām viens otru ”, ” Mēs apprecējāmies pārāk jauni ” vai ” Mēs paši nesapratām, ko darām ”, bet gluži otrādi — domājiet pozitīvi, strādājiet pie savas laulības uzlabošanas un pacietīgi gaidiet rezultātus.