In conveying this to his mother, Jesus was firm but in no way disrespectful or unkind. Mary, in turn, did not feel embarrassed or insulted by her son.
Tāpēc Jēzus atbilde uz mātes ierosinājumu bija stingra, bet nekādā gadījumā ne asa vai aizskaroša, un Marija nejutās par to aizvainota vai apkaunota.