If you have truly come to know this young man and have seen for yourself that he is kind and considerate, you do not need to fear a nasty reaction or humiliation.
Ja tu tiešām esi viņu iepazinusi un pārliecinājusies, ka viņš ir laipns un taktisks cilvēks, tev nav jābaidās, ka viņš varētu atbildēt skarbi vai tevi pazemot.