In contrast, when you express your emotional pain, he learns that feelings are often better expressed than suppressed and that it is normal for him to feel saddened, frustrated, or even angry.
Justru, ketika Anda mengungkapkan kepedihan emosi, ia belajar bahwa perasaan sering kali lebih baik diungkapkan ketimbang dipendam dan bahwa wajar saja baginya untuk merasa sedih, frustrasi, atau bahkan marah.