Usually, however, a batterer will not change unless he (1) admits that his conduct is improper, (2) wants to change his course, and (3) seeks help.
Akan tetapi, biasanya seorang penganiaya tidak akan berubah kecuali ia (1) mengakui bahwa tingkah lakunya tidak pantas, (2) ingin mengubah perilakunya, dan (3) mencari bantuan.