If we must speak, it would not be wise to approach the offender when we are upset and perhaps might speak a bit rashly.
وَإِذَا كَانَ لَا بُدَّ مِنْ مُفَاتَحَتِهِ ،‏ فَعَلَيْنَا أَنْ نَنْتَظِرَ حَتَّى نَهْدَأَ لِئَلَّا نَتَهَوَّرَ فِي ٱلْكَلَامِ .‏ ‏