Then, if there is reason for concern, you can talk to her, perhaps using points from Questions Young People Ask ​ — Answers That Work, Volume 2.
أَوَّلًا ،‏ عَلَيْكَ أَنْ تُلِمَّ بِكَافَّةِ ٱلْوَقَائِعِ ٱلْمُتَعَلِّقَةِ بِٱلشَّخْصِ ٱلَّذِي ٱخْتَارَتْهُ .‏