The way the doctor conveyed the information may have a bearing on your feelings, but would you let that determine your decision?
وَفِي حِينِ أَنَّ أُسْلُوبَ ٱلطَّبِيبِ فِي نَقْلِ ٱلْمَعْلُومَاتِ إِلَيْكَ قَدْ يُزْعِجُكَ ،‏ هَلْ تَسْمَحُ لِمَشَاعِرِكَ أَنْ تُؤَثِّرَ فِي قَرَارِكَ ؟‏