You can avoid these conflicts. First, though, you need to understand why you might miss important details in what your spouse is saying ​ — even though you think that you are listening.
ولكن عليك ان تعرف اولا لمَ قد تفوتك تفاصيل مهمة من حديث زوجتك ،‏ حتى حين تعتقد انك تصغي اليها .‏