The Bible’s counsel can help us in this regard: “In showing honor to one another take the lead ” and,“ Do not become discreet in your own eyes. ”
وَإِذَا حَاوَلْنَا أَنْ نَرَى ٱلْأُمُورَ مِنْ وِجْهَةِ نَظَرِ ٱلْآخَرِينَ ،‏ نُسَاهِمُ فِي وَحْدَةِ ٱلْجَمَاعَةِ .‏ —‏ في ٤ :‏ ٥‏ .‏