Having Christlike mildness does what for us? If we were to be harsh, we would likely try the patience of others and alienate them from us.
لَا شَكَّ أَنَّ ٱلْفَظَاظَةَ تُضَايِقُ ٱلْآخَرِينَ وَتُنَفِّرُهُمْ مِنَّا .‏