After all, you are contemplating marrying each other. And if he is disturbed by some trait or habit of yours, wouldn’t it be loving for him to talk to you about it?
أفليس دليل محبة ان يصارحك بانزعاجه من احدى صفاتك او عاداتك وأنتما مقدمان على الزواج ؟‏