We can ask Jehovah for his holy spirit so that we can display its fruitage when speaking with our relatives.
(‏ كو ٤ :‏ ٦‏ )‏ فَٱطْلُبْ مِنْ يَهْوَهَ رُوحَهُ ٱلْقُدُسَ ،‏ كَيْ تَعْكِسَ ثَمَرَهُ حِينَ تَتَكَلَّمُ مَعَ أَقْرِبَائِكَ .‏