It is not reasonable or loving to expect a couple or their parents to go into debt to pay for a wedding that is beyond their means.
والتوقع ان يتدين العروسان او والديهما ويتحملا عبئا ماديا فوق طاقتهما ليدفعا نفقات الزفاف ليس منطقيا ولا حبيا .‏