Remember that marriage is not a competition to find out who is stronger, who can shout louder, or who can think of the most cutting remark.
وَفِي ٱلزَّوَاجِ ،‏ يَعْنِي ذٰلِكَ أَنْ نَبْذُلَ فِي سَبِيلِ ٱلْعَلَاقَةِ ٱلزَّوْجِيَّةِ مَا نَرْجُو أَنْ نَنَالَهُ مِنْهَا .‏