It is not easy for a person who has become emotionally entangled with someone to view his situation objectively. All of us tend to make excuses in an attempt to justify ourselves if our actions are questionable.
فكلنا نميل بطبيعتنا الى خلق الأعذار كي نبرّر انفسنا اذا كانت تصرفاتنا مشكوكا فيها .‏