The man can often respond more quickly than the woman, but emotionally the time should be right for both mates.
فَحِينَ لَا يُعَامِلُ ٱلزَّوْجُ زَوْجَتَهُ بِرِقَّةٍ وَحَنَانٍ ،‏ قَدْ يَصْعُبُ عَلَيْهَا أَنْ تَتَمَتَّعَ بِٱلْعَلَاقَةِ ٱلْجِنْسِيَّةِ .‏