Acquiring these calls for the knowledge of God. Married couples, then, should be serious students of the Bible. And how important are wisdom and discernment?
لِذلِكَ عَلَى ٱلزَّوْجَيْنِ أَنْ يَدْرُسَا ٱلْكِتَابَ ٱلْمُقَدَّسَ بِٱجْتِهَادٍ .‏