Rather than trying to force his associates in the congregation to act in a certain way, a good spiritual shepherd thinks in terms of appealing to their heart.
(‏ تي ١ :‏ ٩‏ )‏ وَلٰكِنْ يَجِبُ أَنْ يَفْعَلَ ذٰلِكَ « بِرُوحِ ٱلْوَدَاعَةِ » .‏