To love others as we love ourselves means that we view others as we want to be viewed and treat others as we would like to be treated.
قَالَ يَسُوعُ :‏ « كُلُّ مَا تُرِيدُونَ أَنْ يَفْعَلَ ٱلنَّاسُ بِكُمُ ،‏ ٱفْعَلُوا هٰكَذَا أَنْتُمْ أَيْضًا بِهِمْ » .‏