Confining him may only make him want to escape; constantly criticizing his friends might only increase their appeal; eavesdropping could compel him to find ways to communicate with his friends behind your back.
فإبقاء الولد تحت المراقبة قد يدفعه الى الهروب ،‏ وانتقاد اصدقائه باستمرار ربما يزيد من تعلقه بهم ،‏ كما ان استراق السمع يمكن ان يضطره الى البحث عن طرائق للتكلم مع اصدقائه دون علمك .‏