Focus on the problem, not just the person. Resist the tendency to analyze who is right and who is wrong.
فِي هذِهِ ٱلْحَالِ ،‏ يَنْبَغِي أَنْ يَتَحَدَّثَ ٱلشَّخْصُ عَنِ ٱلْمُشْكِلَةِ لَا عَنْ رَفِيقِ زَوَاجِهِ .‏