And rather than dictating how you think he or she should be feeling, humbly ask for clarification and express thanks for any help or insight you receive.
وعوض ان تملي عليه مشاعره ،‏ اطلب منه بلطف ان يوضح لك موقفه واشكره على تجاوبه او على لفت نظرك الى امر معين .‏