Even if your parents are not Witnesses, you want to “honor your father and your mother. ” To be sure, not all families will make the same decisions.
وَلَا تَنْسَ أَنْ تَشْمُلَ ٱلْمَسْأَلَةَ فِي صَلَوَاتِكَ .‏ ‏