But finally, I humbled myself and told an experienced elder that I was disturbed by a conflict of loyalties. He helped me to see that to be loyal to God, I needed to stop writing to her.
إِذَا عَلِمْتَ أَنَّ أَخًا أَوْ أُخْتًا قَدِ ٱرْتَكَبَ خَطَأً خَطِيرًا ،‏ فَهَلْ يَدْفَعُكَ وَلَاؤُكَ أَنْ تُسَاعِدَهُ عَلَى طَلَبِ ٱلْعَوْنِ ٱلرُّوحِيِّ ؟‏