You may want to study his example as discussed in chapter 8 of the book God’s Word for Us Through Jeremiah.
لكِنَّنِي كُنْتُ أَسْأَلُهَا هَلْ هِيَ مُسْتَعِدَّةٌ لِتَحَمُّلِ ٱلْمَسْؤُولِيَّةِ إِذَا فَشِلَ زَوَاجِي .‏