And when saying no seems like too much work, they simply say yes ​ — often excusing their decision by saying that they do not want to hurt their children’s feelings.
وإذا شعروا ان رفض طلب الولد سيستلزم الكثير من الاخذ والرد ،‏ يستسلمون بسرعة ويستجيبون له ،‏ مبرّرين تصرفهم عموما بعدم رغبتهم في جرح مشاعره .‏