If your husband is reluctant to make decisions or to take the lead in managing the household, you have at least three options. ( 1) You could constantly point out his failings or (2) you could usurp his role as head of the family or (3) you could sincerely commend him for any efforts he does make.
اذا كان زوجكِ يتردد في اتخاذ القرارات او تولي القيادة في ادارة شؤون المنزل ،‏ فأمامك ثلاثة خيارات على الاقل :‏ (‏ ١ )‏ ابراز مواطن ضعفه باستمرار ،‏ (‏ ٢ )‏ اغتصاب رئاسته ،‏ او (‏ ٣ )‏ مدحه بصدق على كل جهد يبذله .‏