During a conflict, spouses with such attitudes may view each other as adversaries rather than allies and use words that hurt rather than heal.
لذلك قد يعتبر الشخص رفيق زواجه اثناء الخلافات خصما لا حليفا ،‏ فيتفوه بكلمات تدمي الجراح عوض ان تبلسمها .‏