As children grow older, they learn to rely more and more on their own judgment and make their own decisions. That is part of becoming an adult.
فَفِي أَيَّامِ صَمُوئِيلَ ،‏ هُزِمُوا شَرَّ هَزِيمَةٍ فِي مَعْرَكَةٍ أَمَامَ ٱلْفِلِسْطِيِّينَ .‏