If we allow God’s spirit to produce self - control within us, this will be apparent to others because of our godly speech and conduct. Go On Walking by Spirit
لِذلِكَ يُتَوَقَّعُ مِنَ ٱلشُّيُوخِ ٱلْمَسِيحِيِّينَ أَنْ يَضْبُطُوا أَنْفُسَهُمْ .‏