Children too need to stay calm. Especially when they reach their teenage years may they feel that direction from their parents suggests a lack of trust.
وَإِذَا أَصْغَيْتُمْ لَهُمْ بِهُدُوءٍ وَقَبِلْتُمْ مَشُورَتَهُمْ ،‏ فَسَيَحْتَرِمُونَكُمْ وَيُولُونَكُمْ ثِقَتَهُمْ .‏