If he is struggling with what he is asked to do, a loving elder does not quickly conclude that he is not qualified.
وَمَعَ ٱلْوَقْتِ ،‏ يُسَاعِدُهُ ٱلشُّيُوخُ عَلَى بُلُوغِ مُؤَهِّلَاتِ ٱلْخُدَّامِ ٱلْمُسَاعِدِينَ .‏