For much of a child’s life, and certainly during the important formative years, the closest, most influential associates a child has are his parents.
لِذلِكَ يَحْسُنُ بِٱلْوَالِدِينَ أَنْ يَسْأَلُوا أَنْفُسَهُمْ :‏ ‹ أَيُّ نَوْعٍ مِنَ ٱلْعُشَرَاءِ أَنَا ؟‏