Concerning the steps such a woman was required to take, the Bible states: “She must now shave her head and attend to her nails, and remove the mantle of her captivity from off her and dwell in your house and weep for her father and her mother a whole lunar month; and after that you should have relations with her, and you must take possession of her as your bride, and she must become your wife. ” ​ — Deuteronomy 21: 12, 13.
يقول الكتاب المقدس عمّا كان يجب ان تفعله هذه الاسيرة :‏ « تحلق رأسها وتقلِّم اظفارها وتنزع ثياب سبيها عنها وتقعد في بيتك وتبكي اباها وأمها شهرا من الزمان ثم بعد ذلك تدخل عليها وتتزوج بها فتكون لك زوجة » .‏ —‏ تثنية ٢١ :‏ ​ ١٢ ،‏ ١٣‏ .‏