How can we enhance our ability to select the right words? Selecting the proper words also involves mental effort and good judgment.
فَإِذَا كَانَتْ قُلُوبُنَا مَلْآنَةً بِٱلْمَحَبَّةِ وَٱلْحَنَانِ ،‏ يَخْرُجُ مِنْ فَمِنَا عَلَى ٱلْأَرْجَحِ كَلَامٌ إِيجَابِيٌّ وَبَنَّاءٌ .‏