In an effort to be of spiritual help, an elder might mention that with the passing of time, some find that what stumbled them no longer seems very important.
فَٱبْقَوْا مُسْتَيْقِظِينَ ،‏ مُتَضَرِّعِينَ فِي كُلِّ وَقْتٍ ،‏ لِكَيْ تَتَمَكَّنُوا مِنَ ٱلْإِفْلَاتِ مِنْ كُلِّ هٰذَا ٱلْمَحْتُومِ أَنْ يَكُونَ » .‏