If a Christian senses that he is becoming angry when discussing a matter with a fellow believer, he is wise to heed the counsel found at James 1: 19, 20: “Every man must be swift about hearing, slow about speaking, slow about wrath; for man’s wrath does not work out God’s righteousness. ”
لَا يَخْرُجْ مِنْ فَمِكُمْ كَلَامٌ فَاسِدٌ ،‏ بَلْ كُلُّ مَا كَانَ صَالِحًا لِلْبُنْيَانِ بِحَسَبِ ٱلْحَاجَةِ ،‏ لِكَيْ يُعْطِيَ مَسَرَّةً لِلسَّامِعِينَ » .‏