Many things a bereaved marriage mate does alone for the first time ​ — such as attending an assembly or the Memorial — ​ can be particularly painful.
(‏ ام ١٧ :‏ ١٧‏ )‏ فَعَلَيْنَا أَنْ نَسْتَمِرَّ فِي تَعْزِيَةِ ٱلْحَزَانَى إِلَى أَنْ تُشْفَى جِرَاحُهُمُ ٱلْعَاطِفِيَّةُ .‏ —‏ اقرأ ١ تسالونيكي ٣ :‏ ٧‏ .‏