On the other hand, the marriage relationship is undermined when a couple keep a mental record of old grudges and often use them as ammunition for fresh attacks.
فَٱلْحِقْدُ وَٱلِٱسْتِيَاءُ هُمَا مِثْلُ ٱلشُّقُوقِ ٱلَّتِي تُضْعِفُ تَمَاسُكَ ٱلْبِنَاءِ .‏