Before calling to check on him, my husband and I would pray that Jehovah help us not to respond in kind to angry reactions.
لِذَا قَبْلَ أَنْ نَتَّصِلَ أَنَا وَزَوْجِي لِنَطْمَئِنَّ عَلَيْهِ ،‏ ٱعْتَدْنَا أَنْ نُصَلِّيَ كَيْ نَبْقَى هَادِئَيْنِ إِذَا ٱنْفَعَلَ .‏