A fundamental step is to encourage their children to express their feelings honestly, even if what the children say is difficult for the parents to accept.
اَلْوَجْهُ ٱلْآخَرُ لِلْمَحَبَّةِ هُوَ أَنَّهَا « لَا تَفْرَحُ بِٱلْإِثْمِ ،‏ بَلْ تَفْرَحُ بِٱلْحَقِّ » .‏