You can make changes in this regard. You have already set limits in a number of areas of life in which you will just not allow yourself to act in a certain way.
لكِنَّ إِضْمَارَ ٱلِٱسْتِيَاءِ بِسَبَبِ ٱلْأَخْطَاءِ ٱلْمَاضِيَةِ هُوَ عَدِيمُ ٱلْجَدْوَى .‏