It would be pointless ​ — even dangerous — ​ to focus all your attention on feeding the congregation while your mate is “starving ” at home.
فَسَيَكُونُ دُونَ جَدْوَى ،‏ حَتَّى خَطِرًا ،‏ أَنْ تَصُبَّ ٱنْتِبَاهَكَ عَلَى ٱلِٱعْتِنَاءِ بِٱلْجَمَاعَةِ فِيمَا تُعَانِي زَوْجَتُكَ ٱلْحِرْمَانَ .‏