Be realistic and recognize that not all may see things as you do and that it takes time for anyone ​ — whether parent or child — ​ to adjust his thinking. All should realize that problems may be avoided by planning and discussions.
كُنْ وَاقِعِيًّا وَٱعْرِفْ أَنَّهُ لَيْسَ ٱلْجَمِيعُ يَرَوْنُ ٱلْأُمُورَ كَمَا تَرَاهَا أَنْتَ وَأَنَّ تَعْدِيلَ وُجْهَةِ نَظَرِكَ أَوْ وُجْهَةِ نَظَرِ أَوْلَادِكَ يَأْخُذُ وَقْتًا .‏