So be balanced. Rather than fretting over the attributes you would like to see in your mate, learn to appreciate and enjoy the positive qualities that he or she has now. ​ — Eccl.
وَمَاذَا يُمْكِنُكَ فِعْلُهُ إِذَا شَعَرْتَ أَنَّكَ عَلَى شَفِيرِ ٱلِٱنْهِيَارِ جَرَّاءَ ٱلضَّغْطِ ٱلَّذِي يَتَعَرَّضُ لَهُ زَوَاجُكَ ؟‏