Are you able to use that knowledge in a positive, kind way to train them? If so, you are proving that you love your children. Encourage Honest Communication
(‏ ارميا ٣٠ :‏ ١١‏ )‏ فَيَا أَيُّهَا ٱلْوَالِدُونَ ،‏ هَلْ تَعْرِفُونَ مَوَاطِنَ ٱلْقُوَّةِ وَٱلضُّعْفِ لَدَى أَوْلَادِكُمْ ؟‏