While such a reaction might at times be understandable, the Bible tells us: “Do not say: ‘ I will do to him just as he has done to me. ’ ”
اِمْدَحْ رَفِيقَ زَوَاجِكَ بِصِدْقٍ فِي كُلِّ فُرْصَةٍ سَانِحَةٍ .‏