When a person has put in writing his personal instructions regarding his funeral arrangements, it is much easier to reason with non - Witness family members, since they are likely to respect the wishes of the deceased.
اذا كان الشخص قد عبّر خطيًّا عن ارادته بخصوص ترتيبات المأتم ،‏ يكون من الاسهل عندئذ التفاوض مع افراد العائلة غير المؤمنين الذين سيحترمون على الارجح رغباته .‏