Such forethought will help an elder to have a conversation that will be meaningful, not trivial.
وَخِلَالَ ٱلزِّيَارَةِ ،‏ يُعِيرُ ٱلشَّيْخُ ٱلْأَخَ أَوِ ٱلْأُخْتَ أُذُنًا صَاغِيَةً فِيمَا يَسْكُبُ مَشَاعِرَهُ أَمَامَهُ .‏