For instance, if you are an elder in the Christian congregation, you can ask for holy spirit to help you to give Scriptural counsel to others in a loving manner.
وَفِي وِسْعِ ٱلْوَالِدِينَ أَنْ يَطْلُبُوا تَوْجِيهَهُ أَيْضًا كَيْ يُؤَدِّبُوا أَوْلَادَهُمْ بِمَحَبَّةٍ .‏