“ The family member who is the focus of your resentment may be feeling just fine, enjoying life, and perhaps not at all troubled by any of this, ” writes Mark Sichel in his book Healing From Family Rifts.
ان مَن يضمر الاستياء يشبه شخصا يصفع نفسه متوقِّعا ان يشعر شخص آخر بالالم .‏