Or could it be that we want to have “the first place ” or even wish to“ lord it over ” others?
خُذْ عَلَى سَبِيلِ ٱلْمِثَالِ أَخًا يَطْمَحُ إِلَى ٱلْحُصُولِ عَلَى مَرْكَزِ إِشْرَافٍ فِي ٱلْجَمَاعَةِ .‏