How? ” Of course, you should present such questions in your own words and in a kind, interested way, not as if you were an interrogator.
عَاجِلًا أَمْ آجِلًا ،‏ سَيَكُونُ عَلَى أَوْلَادِكَ أَنْ يُقَرِّرُوا شَخْصِيًّا مَنْ سَيَخْدُمُونَ .‏