But by saying no, he has shown, in effect, that he is not prepared at this time to love and honor you as his wife. He had the right to make that choice.
(‏ ١ بطرس ٣ :‏ ٧‏ )‏ قد يُكنّ لك هذا الشاب تقديرا عميقا كصديقة ،‏ لكن رفضه اظهر بوضوح انه ليس مستعدا ان يحبك ويكرمك كزوجة له ،‏ وهذا طبعا من حقه .‏