Suppose that a disagreement arises between a husband and his wife. A subtle shift from “you ” to“ I ” can prevent a minor disagreement from escalating into a heated argument.
إِنْ كَانَ يَعْقُوبُ يَأْخُذُ زَوْجَةً مِنْ بَنَاتِ حِثٍّ مِثْلَ هَاتَيْنِ مِنْ بَنَاتِ ٱلْأَرْضِ ،‏ فَمَا نَفْعُ حَيَاتِي ؟‏ » .‏