To counteract a tendency to be unforgiving, work on having a thankful and appreciative disposition. Make a practice of giving your spouse sincere commendation.
(‏ مت ١٨ :‏ ​ ٢١ ،‏ ٢٢‏ )‏ وَقَدْ أَظْهَرَ بِذٰلِكَ أَنْ لَا حُدُودَ تَقْرِيبًا لِعَدَدِ مَرَّاتِ ٱلْمُسَامَحَةِ .‏ —‏ ام ١٠ :‏ ١٢‏ .‏ *