Do I expect the elders to intervene in my behalf rather than my making real efforts to restore a peaceful relationship?
وَإِذَا كُنْتُ أَعْرِفُ أَنَّ لِأَحَدٍ شَيْئًا عَلَيَّ ،‏ فَهَلْ أَتَجَنَّبُهُ كَيْ أَتَهَرَّبَ مِنْ مُنَاقَشَةِ ٱلْمُشْكِلَةِ مَعَهُ ؟‏ › .‏