Although mild speech is helpful in dealing with opposing relatives, our good conduct can speak even louder.
صَحِيحٌ أَنَّ ٱلْكَلَامَ ٱللَّطِيفَ يُسَاعِدُكَ فِي ٱلتَّعَامُلِ مَعَ ٱلْأَقْرِبَاءِ ،‏ لٰكِنَّ ٱلسُّلُوكَ ٱلْجَيِّدَ مَفْعُولُهُ أَقْوَى .‏ ‏