Such conflict can make you feel guilty, especially because you love your relatives dearly and have always tried to please them.
وَهٰذَا قَدْ يُحْزِنُكَ لِأَنَّكَ تُحِبُّهُمْ وَتُرِيدُ أَنْ تُرْضِيَهُمْ .‏