You can avoid much heartache if you wait until you are physically, mentally, and spiritually ready for marriage before you start a romantic relationship with a Christian of the opposite sex.
إِذَا كَانَ جَوَابُكَ نَعَمْ ،‏ فَكَيْفَ يَنْبَغِي أَنْ تَنْظُرَ إِلَى خُطْوَةِ ٱلزَّوَاجِ ؟‏