Whether we are dealing with those outside or those inside the congregation, even with family members, it is vital to follow the apostle Paul’s counsel: “Let your utterance be always with graciousness, seasoned with salt. ”
وَلكِنْ لِأَنَّ ٱلْأَخَ تَمَالَكَ نَفْسَهُ وَتَكَلَّمَ بِلَبَاقَةٍ ،‏ ٱنْتَهَتِ ٱلْأُمُورُ بِسَلَامٍ .‏