Kurt goes on to say: “In time, his manners became mine. Treating people with courtesy becomes automatic.
فَمُعَامَلَةُ ٱلنَّاسِ بِتَهْذِيبٍ أَمْرٌ عَفْوِيٌّ يَصْدُرُ عَنِ ٱلْمَرْءِ بِدَافِعٍ ذَاتِيٍّ ،‏ لَا بِدَافِعِ ٱلْوَاجِبِ » .‏