As drawing a bucket of water out of a well too quickly will cause you to lose some of the water, confronting your teen too forcefully may make you squander a valuable opportunity to learn his thoughts and intentions.
لِإِيضَاحِ ٱلْفِكْرَةِ :‏ إِذَا كُنْتَ تَسْتَقِي مَاءً مِنَ ٱلْبِئْرِ وَسَحَبْتَ ٱلدَّلْوَ بِسُرْعَةٍ ،‏ تَخْسَرُ بَعْضَ ٱلْمَاءِ .‏