Have you done something wrong and caused inconvenience or worse to yourself or somebody else? Rather than berate yourself or accuse others, why not simply do your best to correct matters?
दुसऱ्‍यांच्या हातून चूक झाली, तर ‘ असं व्हायला नको होतं ’ अशी प्रतिक्रिया सहजच देऊन आपण मोकळे होतो.