When offended by someone, they want to get even. Granted, most adults will not give a literal shove, but many will push back in subtle ways.
पण दुःखाची गोष्ट म्हणजे, ही जशास - तसे वागणूक फक्‍त लहान मुलांपुरतीच मर्यादित नाही.