As noted earlier, rather than involve yourself further in the situation, recommend that he approach the elders.
याआधीच सांगितल्याप्रमाणे, स्वतः काही सल्ला देण्याऐवजी तुम्ही त्या व्यक्‍तीला वडिलांची भेट घेण्यास सांगू शकता.