You may want to talk to those who have known this person for some time, such as mature ones in his or her congregation.
या व्यक्‍तीला काही काळपासून ओळखत असलेल्या व्यक्‍तीशी जसे की त्याच्या अथवा तिच्या मंडळीतील प्रौढ व्यक्‍तींशी बोलणे फायदेकारक ठरेल.