Likely you did notice it, at least to a degree. But back then you were probably quicker to make concessions ​ — a skill that you would do well to revive, now that you are married.
लग्नाआधी कदाचित या गोष्टी तुम्हाला कळाल्याही असतील, निदान काही प्रमाणात तरी कळाल्या असतील.