<sod > "When the shooting started, Steve ran with Elaine (his wife) and he helped push her over the fence so that she could escape and told her to keep running to safety," said John Grace, a friend.< eod>< sod >  "When the shooting started, Steve ran with Elaine (his wife) and he helped push her over the fence so that she could escape and told her to keep running to safety," said John Grace, a friend. "Then Steve stayed at the fence and kept helping others over the fence.< eod>