Allahu taala says in a hadithi qudsi Be an enemy to your nafsas because your nafsas are an enemy of Me. 즉, 자신의 나프에 순종하고 그 욕망을 쫓는 사람은 알라의 적이 될 것입니다. Many marriagestobe break down before they are set up because of the worldly demands of families.