But every time I talk to groups of TCKs about this, they share that they dont actually want someone to fix it. 그들은 고칠 수 없다는 것을 알면서도 마치 고칠 수 있는 것처럼 행동하는 어른들을 싫어합니다. They just want someone especially their parents to listen to them, and say its okay to be sad.