An example, I always say I want to find my... is not just a height, its something more abstract than that. 남자친구를 찾고 싶다는 뜻은 아니지만, 가끔은 의식적으로 그 말을 더 많이 하긴 하지만요. What Im meaning is that I want a shoulder to lean onto when I need it.