For one thing, he instilled in me a sense that I was smart, creative, and interesting, by how fully engaged he was in parenting me. 제가 태어날 무렵에 아버지는 아이를 가질 것이라고는 전혀 예상하지 못하셨죠. He was thrilled, and his delight resulted in a great deal of attention focused on me.