When you know how much your child loves you and can still tell you that a drug can gain control so that their love is the drug, that is possession. 이를 무시하거나 자녀에게 '네가 나를 사랑했다면 이런 짓을 하지 않았을 거야'라고 말하는 것은 잘못된 생각입니다. They do love you.