As Blair told NPR, Its not as easy to paint that perfect narrative to describe why people in our situations do what weve done. 그러나 한 가지 확실한 것은 그들의 실수는 우리의 실수가 아니라 그들 자신의 실수라는 것입니다. Correction Roxane Gays name was misspelled in the original version of this story.