And then he backed that up and said he knew that there WERE, but they had to stay in the closet and not talk about it. 제 첫 남자친구였던 벤지에 대해 이야기했는데, 사실 그는 정말 좋은 첫 남자친구였어요. But he would have been a TERRIBLE husband for me, because he was gay.