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Title: Your Mouth: He's Gotta Have It

Summary: This section of the book focuses on the importance of the mouth as a sexual organ and how to make it irresistible to potential partners. The author discusses the power of the mouth and lips in communication and attraction, and provides tips on how to make the most of their erotic potential. The section also includes information on how to take care of the lips and tongue, and how to use them to their fullest sensual and seductive potential.

Prompt: Write a detailed guide on how to make the most of the mouth and lips as erotic tools. Include information on the power of the mouth in communication and attraction, and tips on how to make the lips look and feel their best. Discuss the importance of oral hygiene and provide suggestions for keeping the lips healthy and kissable. Include tips on how to use the tongue to its fullest sensual potential, and discuss the importance of touch, sight, smell, sound, and taste in cultivating a seductive persona.

Response:
**_Chapter 3_**

**YOUR MOUTH: HES GOTTA HAVE IT**

When it comes to erotic hot spots on the human body, nothing beats our most visual and versatile sex organ, the mouth. With our mouth, uniquely controlled by hundreds of muscles, we can communicate intentions, ideas, and desires, and we can deliver kisses that make him feel like hes in Nirvana.

We forget how powerful our pretty little mouths are. Without a word, we can smile and flirt, we can warm up a room or a lover with peals of laughter, and most especially we can lick, bite, taste, smell, and literally inhale sex through our mouth. A sexy mouth suggests that one sensual opening can lead to another, elsewhere on the body, or in the heart and mind. Our lips suggest contours of genitalia,  and a hint of wetness or the appearance of a tongue implies much more—sex itself.

And as owner of this highly sensitive and tactile sensory organ, we do love to put things in our mouth. Youve no doubt heard the term _orally fixated_ in polite company in reference to smoking cigarettes. Inevitably everyone within earshot gets a little tingle from the implications.

It is true that as a culture were orally fixated, constantly looking for the next thing going into our mouth, and its equally true that the right kind of oral stimulation can really turn us on. So maybe were just a bunch of orally obsessed hedonists—so what? Soak up all the pleasure your lips, tongue, and mouth can afford you. Use it to its erotic maximum every chance you get, and see how your love life explodes.

# **Hot Lips**

Cut to the chase, sexy. Recognize your mouth for the sex organ it is: treat it accordingly, and learn the many delightful things you can do with it before you even kiss. A healthy-looking mouth sends signals to potential partners on subtle levels. Make your entire mouth even sexier by giving it extra attention the next time you brush your teeth. Along with  your lips, brush your tongue to make it look smoother and sexily pink, and be sure to brush the roof of your mouth—an oft-forgotten spot that, if ignored, can contribute to bad breath.

Lips are unabashedly sexual, and they cannot be hidden. So turn up the volume, already. Delight in your lips. They are the most expressive, sensual erogenous zone weve got—and theyre right there on your face. When someone is interested in you, hell look at your lips almost as much as your eyes. To subliminally suggest sex, you can slyly direct him to look at your lips throughout the communication, whether youre talking or not.

Deepen the color of your lips even just slightly and youll draw erotic attention to this powerful visual erogenous zone. You dont need to wear lipstick, though sexy shades (or even a tinted moisturizer) go a long way to attract attention and magnetize your prey. Keep your lips exfoliated by rubbing them lightly with your toothbrush daily, or use your regular exfoliating scrub lightly on your lips each time you use it on your face. This will slough off any dead cells, keep away dry flat bits, and make your lips look supple and naturally healthy. Follow up with a moisturizing balm and a coat of something glossy for extra-sexy appeal.

Our lips swell during arousal, giving off a rosy flush that communicates passion and lust to our lovers on an  animal level. Amp up the lip plump by drawing blood to them via daily exfoliation. Several companies now sell "lip plumping" glosses and lipsticks (most notably Lip Venom by Du Wop) that boost your lips slightly or smooth out the lip surface and fill in the cracks to make lips look larger.

If you feel your lips need more than a gloss or a tingly boost from lip plumpers, there are a number of multi-step lip care regimens you can employ to get your lips in ultra-pretty, kissable shape. Beyond using a high-quality moisturizer such as Nivea, Lancôme, Laura Mercier, or even Biotherm, a lip-beautifying routine might be just what the lip doctor ordered. The multi-step methodology typically includes exfoliation, extracting impurities (using a lip mask), smoothing, moisturizing, and promoting the production of collagen (to prevent aging and wrinkles where your lips meet facial skin). Brands include Serious Lip Treatment by MD Skincare, Eminence Lip Trio Kit, and Mary Kays Satin Lips two-step process.

# **Talented Tongue**

Unlike our lips, our tongue is a naughty, haughty, pink, wet, fleshy, unashamedly sexual body part—and therefore typically kept hidden. A muscle of many tactile talents, the tongue is a clever little package of muscles, glands, and sensitive nerves. Nerves lead from the tongue to the brain, which within an instant of contact sends sensations of touch, scent, and taste. The "flavor" of anything we put in our mouth is a complex combination of taste, smell, touch, texture or consistency, and temperature sensations.

Your lips, tongue, and mouth are controlled by hundreds of muscles that never rest as you smooch, smile, scowl, unconsciously clench your jaw, or suck on your tongue. This diligent network of muscles allow us to soften our lips, pull them apart, draw them closed to an _O_ , and to point or lightly stroke with our tongue. You can lengthen your tongue, shorten it, or move it in a variety of directions while kissing, and your neck and jaw muscles work in tandem to give your tongue greater versatility. These muscles also make the insides of the mouth into a means of suction that can draw lemonade through a straw, or give a kiss an especially naughty twist when you lightly give his inquiring tongue a sucking tug. There are dozens of strokes, licks, and various combinations of suction that youll want to incorporate into your oral arsenal.

# **Mouth Moves**

These basic moves might sound silly at first, but try them a few times to get the hang of them. Theyll be the basis for kissing techniques later in this book, and theyll get your mouth in shape, make you aware of your mouths moves, and give you ideas for ramping up your personal kissing style. Try these at home when youre alone, even in front of a mirror if you want.

❀ Pucker your lips. Hard and small, softer and wider, very soft and very wide (a half-smile).

❀ Purse your lips. Like blowing a kiss: firm and short, soft and fluid, like Marilyn Monroe.

❀ Point your tongue. Stick it out a little, then a lot.

❀ Look in the mirror and soften your tongue. Extend it soft.

❀ Sweep your tongue around your lips—pointed and hard, then flat and soft.

❀ Suck on your sensitive little finger—a little, then a lot.

❀ Kiss the palm of your hand softly, then more firmly; then see how it feels to mash your lips into it. Your palms are sensitive and perfect for practicing the sensations of kissing his lips, face, neck, and more.

❀ On the back of your hand, practice tongue strokes and see how they might feel for your sweetie. Poke, lick, flatten your tongue and sweep, draw letters of the alphabet with the tip.

❀ Make your lips into an _O_ and suck on your palm. Apply suction to draw sensation to the area and then lightly rub your teeth across the sensitive spot.

# **The Wicked Kisser**

Feeling naughty, darling? Draw them into your wicked web by making your whole aura into a seductive hot zone, with your kisses at the center of it. Before you learn to seduce someone elses senses with your super-sensual kisses, youll need to get in touch with the sensuality and sexuality in your own body.

Not everyone feels shes hot all the time, and not everyone needs to be told how to feel sexy, but doing a few nice things for yourself can get you in the right head space for kissing. Then you can build a set of tools (a sensual checklist) to give you confidence and sexiness when you may not be feeling so hot, are feeling nervous, or really want to unleash every trick in the book on your unsuspecting target.

# **Sex Up Your Lips, and the Rest Will Follow**

## _**Touch**_

Splurge on a massage or spa treatment to get back in touch—literally—with your body. Let someone else do all the work while you relax and enjoy healing touch from a massage therapist. Or take a hot bath and treat yourself to some new lotions and potions—have a self-care beauty night. Create some private time to touch your own body the way youd like a lover to, and let your fantasies run wild.

## _**Sight**_

How you look affects how you feel. Purchase items or treatments that make you look polished, sexy, and hot. Get a manicure or pedicure, a facial, a haircut—go in for a wash-and-dry style, just for fun. Indulge in a new lip color or gloss, a new makeup color, or accessories for your ears, hair, and neck. Buy a new item of sexy, comfortable clothing, something relaxed but seductive—or put on an old favorite.

## _**Smell**_

Aromatherapy really works to make us feel sexy, sensual, and at ease with ourselves. If youre the kind of person who wears a fragrance, then youve got it covered with your favorites, but you can also mix things up with a new scent, just for kicks. Those who prefer more subtle ways of scenting their skin should pick up a sexy-smelling new lotion—with a bit on the nape of the neck, your world smells instantly sexier. If your hair covers your ears, you can put a little scent in your hair, or use a yummy-smelling conditioner for when things get deliciously close.

## _**Sound**_

Great music to kiss by is covered later in this book—right now youre going to focus on making yourself sound sweetly seductive. Becoming intimate, in the build-up to the moment of a kiss, means weaving a spell with everything about your mouth: every word you speak—even whispered—will have to be sexy and seductive. Make your voice one of your captivating charms, and learn how to modulate it effectively to the point of contact, and beyond.

Find your sexiest voice. Some people have a difficult time hearing their own voice and might find that trying a few voice exercises gives them a sexier and more resonant sound. Practice speaking not from your throat but from the center of your chest, and power the air from your stomach muscles. Stretch the muscles on your jaw, lips, and tongue to relax your face. Learn to speak softly by lowering your volume (loudness) and pitch (lower notes), but play with resonance.

Try a sentence in a low whisper, deeper than your normal voice. Then try it louder, still a bit deeper. Next, hum, keeping your mouth closed. Now speak the sentence in your low whisper, but with the same resonance as the hum. Youll use these different techniques to find the sexy voice that works best for you, and also to gauge volume over music, to match up with your kissing partners volume, and turn it down as you move in for a kiss.

## _**Taste**_

How you taste to your kissing partner is one thing (more about flavored kisses and other tricks in a bit), but how cultivated and sensual your tasting abilities are is another thing altogether. Wake up those taste buds! A delicious kiss can be like a long, delirious drink of water when youre thirsty,  and youll want to be able to drink in how your lover tastes to the fullest. Sharpen your sense of taste, and heighten your sexuality, by sampling food with aphrodisiac qualities.

Foods with sexual reputations cover a variety of sumptuous textures, perfect for getting you in the right kissing state of mind. Some classics: strawberries with chocolate sauce, a salad of quartered figs, shredded basil with drips of balsamic vinegar, warmed honey, avocados, vanilla bean (can be in ice cream), licorice, candied rose petals, and mango or papaya spears wrapped in mint leaves.


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Title: Kissing: A Field Guide

Summary: This section of the book provides a humorous and informative guide to identifying different types of kissers and their preferred kissing styles. It includes a list of common types of kissers, such as the Rock Star, Yuppie, Art School Brat, and Supervillain, and describes their appearance, attitude, ideal first kiss, and kissing don'ts. The section also includes a list of common types of kisses, such as the First Kiss, Goodnight Kiss, Romantic Kiss, and Good-bye Kiss, and describes their characteristics and when they are typically used.

Prompt: Write a detailed guide to identifying different types of kissers and their preferred kissing styles. Include a list of common types of kissers, such as the Rock Star, Yuppie, Art School Brat, and Supervillain, and describe their appearance, attitude, ideal first kiss, and kissing don'ts. Also include a list of common types of kisses, such as the First Kiss, Goodnight Kiss, Romantic Kiss, and Good-bye Kiss, and describe their characteristics and when they are typically used. Use a humorous and informative tone throughout.

Response:
**_Chapter 4_**

**KISSING: A FIELD GUIDE**

First, lets see whos on the menu, and what he might taste like for a nibble. A field guide to identifying the different types of kissing animals in the smooching zoo can help you find the perfect fit. Will he kiss like a Rock Star, or make love with his lips like a Geek Boy? Learn the difference, see how they like their first kisses, and wow the kiss-target of your dreams into kissing bliss with the right techniques.

# **The Hunters and the Hunted**

## _**Rock Star**_

Appearance: Fashionably disheveled, trendy, and sexy.

Attitude: Ready to rock those lips harder than Judas Priest.

Ideal first kiss: Backstage, in the limo, in a trashed hotel room, or in an atmospheric alleyway.

Kissing dont: Rock stars are born to rock. Let the rocker make the first move.

## _**Yuppie**_

Appearance: Wrinkle-free.

Attitude: Willing to fog up glasses and spill latte for the greater good of kissing.

Ideal first kiss: Tastes like Starbucks or California Zinfandel.

Kissing dont: Loves playfully aggressive kissers, hates overeager or domineering. Know the difference.

## _**Art School Brat**_

Appearance: Thrift-store trendy; no spending limit on hairdo.

Attitude: While others kiss like lower beasts, to them kissing is an art.

Ideal first kiss: After completion of most recent master-piece, or off-hours in the studio.

Kissing dont: Too sensitive to make the first move, theyll give up and make a video blog if you wait for them to kiss you.

## _**Marketing Executive**_

Appearance: Sinister, like a politician. Nice suits.

Attitude: Theres a time for kissing and a time for world domination of my brand—er, work.

Ideal first kiss: Office, after hours.

Kissing dont: Never talk during kisses, unless its dirty talk about corporate branding.

## _**Supervillain**_

Appearance: Evil like the Marketing Executive but with more Spandex and a fluffy white cat.

Attitude: Hell-bent on destroying all that is good and nice.

Ideal first kiss: Secret lair, private island, castle, top of the Washington Monument after starting clock on doomsday device.

Kissing dont: Never smooch in front of the do-gooder enemies and heroes. It just doesnt look right.

## _**Hero**_

Appearance: Proud, big chin, cape.

Attitude: Evil must be stopped, blah, blah, blah.

Ideal first kiss: Suspended over a pit of alligators right before escape, after saving you, or out of costume when you think hes someone else.

Kissing dont: This ones IQ plummets like a lead balloon with a kiss, so only kiss after danger has passed—unless youre the danger.

## _**Gangster**_

Appearance: Changes by location; can be gold chains, a pimpin ride, and baggy pants, or Italian suits and fedoras.

Attitude: Gimme some sugar, baby.

Ideal first kiss: After watching _Scarface_.

Kissing dont: Not during _The Sopranos_ or in front of "the boys."

## _**Romantic**_

Appearance: Bedroom eyes and mussy-touseled hair.

Attitude: Kissing is a beautiful thing shared between two people.

Ideal first kiss: Mountaintop, picturesque vista, picnic for two, movie theater.

Kissing dont: The first kiss has to be perfect with this one; dont rush it.

## _**Man Slut**_

Appearance: Partly undressed; gold chains or cutoff jean shorts a bonus.

Attitude: Whos going home with the king tonight? Or, whos next?

Ideal first kiss: As often as possible.

Kissing dont: Dont expect that quantity means quality—this ones been around the block and back (and forth, and back) because hes not one for polishing his technique. But for quickie smooches, its always a sure thing with a slutmuffin.

## _**Male Model**_

Appearance: A little too perfectly done, and all eyes are on him.

Attitude: Kissing me will make you look like a star.

Ideal first kiss: Only in flattering lighting, no tongues, and definitely no hickeys. If anyone sees it, it will have to look perfect.

Kissing dont: Under no circumstances do you mess up the hair! The hair is sacred.

## _**Rough Trade**_

Appearance: Sexy stubble, jeans, work boots, and a dimpled smile.

Attitude: I work hard, and I kiss like I mean it.

Ideal first kiss: At the end of a great date, with him taking the lead.

Kissing dont: Unless you smell like you ate too many cocktail weenies, its tough to go wrong with this easy-going smoocher.

## _**Geek Boy**_

Appearance: Clothes dont fit, soft and sweaty hands, pale skin, blinded by sunlight, brain like a supercomputer.

Attitude: Afraid of girls but cant stay away. They tend to be inexperienced kissers, yet sincere. Once uncorked, their sensual powers are frightening.

Ideal first kiss: Um, any.

Kissing dont: Quick movements will frighten them, but soft kisses will soothe.

Anyone can kiss. But a kisser who knows her moves is a force to reckon with. A scandalous agenda helps, but becoming familiar with the full range of kisses—what they mean, how to use them, and when to bring out the big guns—makes them roll over and bark the minute your lips enter the room. With all the right moves, that Goodnight Kiss will be a doozy, youll know how to deliver the prefect Taste of Whats to Come, and how to identify and avoid the horrifying Fish Tank Kiss.

# **Types of Kisses**

Some kisses are standard—the Goodnight Kiss is known by kissers worldwide as the end of a perfect, or less than perfect, night. Other kisses are magic tools and a bit more mysterious, such as the Nuzzle. Whether theyre famous or infamous, know your weapons and predicaments, and youll be a kissing superstar.

## _**The First Kiss**_

The most talked about, written about, and stressed about kiss on the planet, the First Kiss is the stuff that fond  memories are made of. Or scary urban legends. Its usually thought of as the first kiss between would-be lovers but it can sometimes happen so spontaneously that its as if youre not in control—the body is having its own fun while the brain spins its wheels in giddy confusion. A first kiss is a romantic kiss, and if its shared between friends, it can change _everything_.

_**Great First Kisses**_

The Sweetheart Kiss
The Lusty Kiss
The Kama Sutra Kiss
The Mad Mack Attack Kiss

## _**The Goodnight Kiss**_

At the end of the evening, when you and your date are about to part ways, its time for the Goodnight Kiss. Sometimes this is the much-anticipated First Kiss, though it can also be a sweet thank-you for a nice evening, or a kiss known as the Taste of Whats to Come. All humanoids know that a Goodnight Kiss can turn into so much more. Thats why we like it. When this kiss is shared between friends who feel a spark of attraction beneath all that friendship mumbo jumbo, we see just how close two friends can get. If you want to stay neutral yet let him know you like him more than a pat on the back, a well-placed Goodnight Kiss lands on the cheek. If you want to send a direct message that youre attracted, plant a light one on the lips.

## _**The Romantic Kiss**_

Everything is perfect—or not—for this intimate and compelling kiss. Romance is so much more than the setting—you can have a romantic kiss in a beautiful garden on a summers day or at a bus stop in a crappy neighborhood. What matters is the intimacy, the connection, and the rose-colored glasses. When you both feel hot for each other and the whole world melts away, its a Romantic Kiss,  no matter where you are, whos watching, or whats going on around you. This kiss is all about the two of you, and it makes you the only two people in the world.

## _**The Good-bye Kiss**_

This can be the fondest farewell, or the kiss-off, depending on how your date went. As a parting gesture it can be sweet and romantic, nervous and exciting, or a final sayonara that can be bittersweet or cold. Typically a kiss on the lips, it can also be a kiss on the cheek or forehead if you dont know him very well or want to keep your friendship within limits. Usually the "good-bye" is said while delivering the kiss—but some sneaky dates might turn the Good-bye Kiss on the cheek into a Romantic Kiss with a quick turn of the head. Be on guard!

## _**The Sweetheart Kiss**_

Light like a butterfly, yet it sends electric shocks up and down his spine—this kiss is delivered sweetly and packs a punch. This is one of the more erotically potent kisses without getting too naughty. The Sweetheart Kiss is a style  of kiss that can be delivered anywhere, anytime you want to focus his attraction to you. These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue, planted on any exposed part of the body that looks inviting. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Purse your lips, then press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. After that, move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation.

## _**The Lusty Kiss**_

This is much like a Sweetheart Kiss, but with more pressure, and you linger as long as you want—make it last, and itll be lusty. In addition, use your hands on his face, neck, and hair (unless hes a male model), and include subtle movements of your head—but no tongue yet. This is the kiss that lights his fire, a nice transition from Sweetheart-kissing to French-kissing (see below), and it says that youre ready to do more than peck each other on the lips or cheeks. Give this one when youre ready to really show em you want em bad, and youre willing to be bad to get what you want.

## _**The Taste of Whats to Come**_

Truly mischievous kissers of every gender know all about this kiss—and its a secret weapon used by femmes fatales worldwide. This is the kiss that the female double agent gives James Bond so he doesnt blow her cover, the kiss that says youre as hot for him on the inside as you look on the outside. Often a full-mouthed French Kiss (see below), it has an urgency and lust matched by no other kiss; it shows him youve got more moves to make him melt than he can imagine. With this kiss you are the aggressor—you lead the kiss from beginning to end.

Pull him close, making eye contact. As you pull his lips to yours, slide your hands up to the back of his head (or cradle his neck if his hair is perfect), and press your body fully against his. Then leap into the kiss, pressing against him more as you pull him into you, firmly caressing his neck or head with your hands the whole time. French-kiss deeply, then pull away as you pull his head back. Smile wickedly, and continue eye contact.

## _**The Kama Sutra Kiss**_

_The Kama Sutra_ has long been revered as a source for romance and eroticism, being simultaneously sexual and subtle in its lingering appreciation of all the senses involved in a simple act of intimacy. The Kama Sutra Kiss, a nose-and-lips combination, is an excellent cuddling, sensual, and nuzzling kiss that can even be done in public without being too brazen. A sign of genuine affection, intimacy and tenderness, it can last from a few seconds to several minutes. The Kama Sutra can be done on any part of the body, but creases, folds, and bends, such as the nape of the neck, between the shoulder blades, behind the ears, and under the jaw, are ideal.

Its simple and feels sexy. Start by moving your lips close to the target area on his skin. Purse your lips for a kiss. Right when you make contact with skin, inhale and gently press your lips and nose into the skin, moving your head back and forth slightly to rub your face around on the spot. Give little Sweetheart Kisses as you nuzzle. This kiss is also wonderful for slowing down any bedroom action, deepening intimacy during lovemaking, or making a seduction into a pivotal take-down experience. Its like the "slow food movement" of kisses.

## _**The Drunk Kiss**_

Sometimes confused with the Romantic Kiss, the Drunk Kiss happens more times then we want it to. It tastes like booze, makes you dizzy, and often leaves you with a sense of confusion and regret the next day (along with a pounding headache). Drunk Kisses are sloppy, drooling, and unattractive to passersby, yet for some reason you always think you look really glamorous and hot while youre going at it. In reality, to sober observers, you actually look like a Nature Channel documentary on gastropod mating—two pink slugs wrestling in slow motion under a waterfall. And if you cant remember it the next day, be certain that everyone else will.

## _**Gladiator Kiss**_

This kiss is all him Tarzan, you Jane, and if you dont mind being moved around like a diminutive doll, when hes good at it, the Gladiator can be a pretty fun ride. Having a guy grab you and kiss you hard, as though he really means it, is hot, especially if he pulls you close and the kiss takes you by surprise—sometimes this is an instant turn-on. At worst, youll feel as if you were being mauled by Bubba tryin to "show the little lady how a man kisses." You are  the conquest, and sure, its all romantic in his eyes, but you might feel like a tenderized steak when hes done molesting your lips.

## _**Mad Mack Attack Kiss**_

Its a stealth kiss. You sneak up on your kissing target and—smooch! Can be done on total strangers you find really hot (avoid Armed Services personnel and guys with bodybuilder girlfriends), or on your sweetie when you want to give him a naughty surprise. Afterward, you may choose to pretend that nothing happened, keep walking to the snack table, or stick around for his bewildered reaction.

## _**French Kiss**_

The most famous kiss in the world is a full, open-mouthed kiss using tongue and lips together in perfect harmony—hopefully. You do not need to be French to deliver an excellent French Kiss. (And as of this writing, there is still no such thing as a Freedom Kiss.) The kiss begins with the meeting of slightly parted lips, then the lips open, and out come the tongues for a little _parlez-vous_. A side effect of  French-kissing is that both parties will have an increased amount of oral lubrication (read: drool), which is a turn-on for some and a gross-out for many others. Some kissers can French for seemingly hours and find it a wonderful pastime.

French-kissing can get pretty wet, so if slippery kisses dont float your boat, then alternate French Kisses with smooches on the neck, ears, and other kissable body parts. Sips of water also help—they give you a second to breathe and smile seductively before diving back in. French-kissing is also not limited to the mouth; some people find fun in Frenching their lovers ears and even the nose! One of the great things about the French Kiss is the creative freedom that comes with it: you can improvise, try out new techniques, or use a variety of techniques to craft your own French Kiss style. There are no rules for this kiss, other than that you enjoy it!

❀ Run your tongue around the teeth and gums
❀ Play with the tongue, taste it, push it around, caress it
❀ Nip at his teeth, lips, and tongue with your lips
❀ Kiss or probe deeply and gently with your tongue
❀ Apply suction on the tongue
❀ Dart your tongue in and out, slowly or rapidly
❀ Suck gently with your mouth
❀ Pull away slightly in midkiss, then go in for more

## _**Angel Kisses**_

So light they almost tickle, these kisses are not done with your mouth, but rather with your eyelashes. Angel Kisses consist of fluttering your eyelash against a sensitive (and sexy) body part to deliver a feathery tickle. Popular Angel Kiss spots include his cheek, lips, eyelids, ears, neck, nipples, and genitals.

## _**Eskimo Kisses**_

A playful favorite for many lovers, these kisses are done with the nose instead of the mouth. Typically, you and your partner rub noses together in an Eskimo Kiss. But see the Kama Sutra Kiss (above) for techniques on other parts of the body.

## _**Snuggle Bunny Kisses**_

So romantic, so cute—this is the ultimate in intimate, loving kisses. You dont need to be in love to share Snuggle Bunnies; you share these nuzzling, closed-mouthed, soft-lipped pecks and smooches of all kinds, on exposed areas of skin, when youre lying down, wrapped around each  other, at a tender, quiet moment. These signify extreme affection for one another. They are perfect before and after sex, in front of a fire or TV, or even on a picnic blanket in a public place.

##  **Scary Kisses**

Kissing isnt always butterflies and bunnies—there are kisses (and kissers) out there that make us want to flee. Or at least will have you checking your watch midway through what started as a sexy smooch but turned into the longest twenty seconds of your life.

But what if you really like the guy? Teach him what you like in kissing. Play a kissing version of follow-the-leader: tell him to do exactly what you do. Reward good behavior with yummy noises, moaning, squeezes with your hands. Discourage deviation from your lesson by pulling back to stop the kiss.

_**Is he a scary smoocher? Learn to identify these hazardous kisses:**_

**The Fish Tank Kiss:** Every girls nightmare. Hes totally cute, funny, the conversation is good—but then you kiss and it feels like hes trying to clean the inside of your mouth as if it was a fish tank. As the minutes pass more slowly than you ever thought possible, you wonder if hes actually looking for treasure. His tongue is too hard, and it darts about quickly and all pokey. You are usually too stunned to decide whether you should wait it out or hold up a "send help" sign. Toss this one back into the sea.

**The Chewing Gum Kiss:** Youve seen these before—a couple joined at the mouth, lips locked in a deep French-kissing session that looks like theyre about to gnaw each others head off. Dont worry, everyone will be fine, but this combination of French Kiss and Fish Tank Kiss with extreme jaw movement looks pretty scary if you watch too many horror movies.

**The Limp Noodle:** So sad, the Noodle. When you lock lips and start to French, and his lips just hang there and his tongue lies there like a slug, you have a Limp Noodle on your hands. No matter how much you push, massage, and prod his tongue to bring it back to life, it plays possum, dead in the middle of the road. There is nothing you can do—youre basically giving mouth-to-mouth to this guy.

## _**Mercy Kisses**_

Sometimes you kiss for fun, and sometimes you just have to give a kiss out of pity—hence the Mercy Kiss. You give these kisses when you feel bad about something, want your date to look good (even though you arent into him), or just feel sorry for the poor sap. Only in the movies do these kisses turn into a blazing romance. If you end up on the receiving end of a Mercy Kiss, just enjoy it and then excuse yourself to go wash your cat.

## _**The Zombie Kiss**_

Another nightmare kiss many of us have experienced, which seems to come from beyond the grave. Its as if all the life drains out of him as he comes in for a kiss: the eyes flutter, clamp shut, or roll back into his head. His face goes slack and lifeless. And the most horrifying part of all: his mouth opens up into a gaping maw, threatening to swallow you whole. Sometimes the Zombie Kisser comes at you like a lost extra from _Night of the Living Dead_ , mouth agape, with a shiny pink sluglike tongue pointing out at you. Scream! Run! Barricade the doors and windows!

## _**The Zoolander Kiss**_

Ever wonder what it would be like to kiss an international male model? The Zoolander makes you feel like youre a pretty prop designed to make him look good as he poses, shifts, and gives his "sexy" face to the world while kissing you. Would he notice if you were gone? Probably not. The Zoolander Kiss is meant purely to compliment the physical beauty of the man kissing you—its not for anyones actual physical pleasure. Its used when trying to impress others or to make someone jealous.


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Title: Deliver a Knockout Kiss

Summary: This section of the book provides detailed instructions on how to deliver a memorable kiss. It covers various techniques, including light, intermediate, and intense, as well as tips on using your hands and body movements to enhance the experience. It also discusses the importance of identifying and utilizing your partner's hot spots.

Prompt: Write a comprehensive guide on how to deliver a knockout kiss. Begin by explaining the importance of having a variety of techniques at your disposal and the role of style, delivery, and hot spots in making a kiss memorable. Then, list and describe the different categories of kissing techniques, including light, intermediate, and intense. Provide examples of each type of technique and explain when and how to use them. Finally, discuss the importance of using your hands and body movements to enhance the kiss and describe how to identify and utilize your partner's hot spots. Use a detailed and informative tone throughout.

Response:
**_Chapter 5_**

**DELIVER A KNOCKOUT KISS**

The kiss that conquers all is your key to paradise—so its important to have a full arsenal of techniques at your disposal. Anyone would be lucky to plant one on your lips—especially when youve got the skills to make him melt.

Its all about style, delivery, and hot spots. With a range of methods to choose among you can develop your own kissing style. Depending on how you feel, or how hot you want him to feel, you can start with nibbles, progress to licks, and on to passionate lip presses. Or make it hotter by adding light lip suction and tongue-to-tongue caresses. Meanwhile, between techniques, you can whisper sweet nothings into his mouth, exciting him even more.

Youll want to know a full range of techniques so you can adjust your style to match that of your partner—an extremely valuable skill. For instance, if your kissing partner starts out lightly grazing your lips, will you know how to return the kiss—or how to gently take it to the next level? Then, when your kissing session really heats up, use advanced, expert tricks to show him youre a make-out master. And dont forget that great kissing isnt just about using your mouth—its about making the most of your hands and body movements and smooching those sexy hot spots all over his body.

# **Techniques**

Kissing techniques come in three main categories: light, intermediate, and intense. Lighter techniques are perfect for first kisses, short kisses, starting out a kissing session, cooling off a particularly hot encounter, and ending a kiss. Intermediate techniques are yummy filling—use these for the duration, mixed liberally with light or intense techniques, depending on how you want the make-out session to go. Intense techniques are exactly that—serious turn-ons, secret weapons, the techniques you pull out when theres no turning back.

In your kissing sessions, try a sequence of light kisses, followed by intermediate, then intense, then a brief pause, and repeat. People with glasses might want to take them off for an extended kissing session, and people with orthodontic braces will want to take care not to press too hard. Experiment with tempo and pacing. Practice the following techniques on the palm of your hand (the sensitive hollow, in the middle), then on a very lucky test subject.

# **Appetizers**

_**Nibble.**_ Nibbles are little bites using only your lips, or your upper lip with your tongue. When you nibble on a part of the body, lightly nip or squeeze the skin between your lips. You can nibble lightly, or with as much force as your lips can muster—either way, the sensations will be pleasant. You can nibble anyplace on the body that sticks out: lips, nose, earlobes, nipples, or on wider expanses of skin such as cheeks, neck, chest, and stomach.

_**Graze.**_ When you graze an area of his body, you simply brush your lips over it. This can be done with small, short movements, or long, wide strokes. Imagine your lips as a paintbrush. Try slow strokes or quick circles. A pair of lips can graze any area of his body, and this is a very sexy way to get acquainted with the scent of your sweeties skin.

_**Trace.**_ Similar in technique to grazing, tracing can be done in all the same ways, but instead using the tip of your tongue. Trace around his lips as if applying lip balm, or trace strokes, shapes, and patterns on other parts of his body—especially any hot spots.

_**Breathe together.**_ With both mouths open, nothing is sexier than inhaling someones breath—literally taking his breath away. Take turns.

_**Sweet kisses.**_ These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Try your best to press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. Purse your lips, then press, then move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation.

# **Dish of the Day**

_**Speak.**_ Whispering or speaking gently into your partners open mouth between kisses is incredibly arousing. Tell him how much you enjoy what youre doing, how good his lips/ tongue/kisses feel, how sexy he looks kissing you, or how excited you are. You can even tell him where you want him to touch or kiss you, if youre feeling daring. Moaning into his mouth is also extremely hot.

_**Lip presses.**_ These are similar to "Sweet Kisses" above, but without any movement, and more pressure. It sounds simple, yet it is very effective in focusing his attention on  your desire—this technique communicates sensual directness. Purse your lips, press firmly against his lips, pull back. Repeat more slowly, controlling the kiss.

_**Bottom lip/top lip.**_ This technique focuses your attentions on his top or bottom lip. You can play with one at a time, or single out one for extra-special attention. The popular lip for this technique is the bottom one, but the top lip is equally sexy and intimate to engage. Lick the lip you choose, nibble it, graze it, suck, and even give it a tiny bite.

_**Corners of the mouth.**_ Dont neglect the corners of his mouth when youre kissing—its easy to forget when you have a pair of sexy lips to nibble on! The corner is where the lips meet, at the edges. This is a highly sensitive area, and it deserves the sweetest kisses, lip presses, licks, and nibbles—but it is so sensitive that you shouldnt overdo it.

_**Open mouth, no tongue.**_ A terrific transition technique that can be used over and over at every stage. Open your mouth a little (never open wide) and kiss wetly, with a lot of lip motion. Its tempting to let your tongue poke out just a bit, but this kiss is much sexier (and theres less saliva) when you keep it in your mouth. Push, suck, pull, rub, and massage with your open lips, but never cover his whole mouth with yours or itll have a suffocating effect that many people detest.

_**Roof of the mouth.**_ This is a highly controversial kissing area because it is so sensitive. Some guys like having the roof of the mouth lightly licked—and if your kissee does, then do it a little, and back off. Others might dislike the sensation because it feels like a tickle, and theyll want to scratch it. Of course, if youre playing mischievous sex games and teasing each other, tickling the roof of his mouth is a sexy and highly intimate way to "get his goat."

# **Dessert**

_**Suck.**_ I touched on light to moderate suction in earlier techniques, but when youre playing for higher stakes, creating  a vacuum with your lips and mouth sends a direct message of sex to your lover. Keep your lips soft and create a seal with your mouth, removing the air a little, or a lot. Suck lips, teeth, tongue, neck—it doesnt have to be a perfect seal, and you can slip around playfully and even make a few sexy noises while youre at it.

_**Lick.**_ Moisten your tongue before you lick, but be sure that it isnt too wet—we all know how awful a slurpy lick can be. Point your tongue yet keep it soft (practice!), and brush it across his lips, lick the corners of his mouth, lick under his chin (if hes not too stubbly). Lick the neck, ears, and nape (base) of the neck. Use wide, flat strokes on wide areas. Make circles, spell words, or press with your tongue as you lick. You can even lick his teeth and tongue.

_**Probe.**_ This technique consists of inserting your tongue into his mouth and slowly, sensuously exploring the teeth and tongue, or the whole of his mouth. Dont rush this one, or use a hardened tongue, or the technique will backfire. Take your time and savor every moment, every flavor, every sensation.

_**Tongue only.**_ This is a no-lip, tongue-only kissing technique. It will make you giggle and smile, or it will make you both very aroused. Make eye contact before you move in for the kiss, opening your lips in a half-smile and extending your tongue in an upward curve. When you reach his tongue, keep your tongue out of your mouth and play your two tongues together, taking a long time to feel the textures and flavor of his tongue, and have fun dancing your tongues around together.

_**French-kissing.**_ Like the tongue-only technique, but advanced. This is an open-mouthed, full-contact kiss with both tongues completely engaged. Purse and press your lips together to begin the kiss, then, at the moment of contact, part your lips and sneak a gentle lick of his lips with your tongue. If his lips part (I bet they will), gently slip your tongue past his lips to taste his tongue. You may pull your tongue back and disengage to repeat the whole kiss over again, or you can linger and continue French-kissing. Touch and caress each others tongues, taking a long time to feel and sense textures and tastes. Lick the center of his tongue, and the sides. Lick his front teeth, upper and lower. Take your time, and enjoy varying the pressure of your tongue and lips. Dont forget to keep your  lips in gentle motion—with this technique, "frozen" or hard lips feel weird.

# **Rock Your Body**

Youre not just a pair of lips and a tongue when youre engaged in a kiss—you have much more at your fingertips (literally) to stimulate your sweetie with and keep him riveted to your lips. Use your hands to touch his shoulders and neck, hold his cheeks (on his face, ahem), or cradle the back of his head. You can caress or grab, knead or massage. Stroke his hair, or if your passions are high, run your hands through his hair, or all over his sexy bald head, should that be the case. Touching his face will be a big, highly charged (and amazingly intimate) turn-on, so caress the forehead, eyes, cheekbones, jawline, even the lips, all while you are kissing. Keep your hands in motion throughout your kissing session.

Eye contact is also extremely important, though when your faces are very close you will want to close your eyes. The more eye contact you make between kisses, the more intense your kisses will become. When your heads come together for a kiss, close your eyes just at the point you feel your eyes straining, to avoid giving him a lingering view of you with your eyes crossed!

A little movement behind the kiss feels heavenly. Move  your head just a little as you kiss—but not so much that he has a hard time following your lips. Subtle movements will change the angle of your lips slightly, resulting in a very passionate kiss. The more intense your kissing becomes, the more you can nuzzle and push with your head and lips—his reactions will tell you to keep going, or you can follow his lead. If he wants you to keep going, hell return your push with enthusiasm, a return push, or even a little moan.

Dont forget to smile between, and during, kisses. Smiling is extremely seductive, and it lets him know youre really enjoying yourself. And, occasionally, stop kissing and enjoy the pause that refreshes: hold his head in your hands, gaze into his eyes for a count of four, then resume kissing.

# **Hot Spots**

Also known as erogenous zones, hot spots on the body make terrifically sensuous places to use your kissing techniques. While genitals are definitely an erogenous zone, I have left them out of the discussion for the purposes of this book.

_**Cheek.**_ Kissing, grazing, and nuzzling the cheek feels wonderful and is almost guaranteed to make anyone smile. A light peck on the cheek can be a friendly greeting, a good-bye, or an excellent first-date kiss.

_**Ears.**_ Kisses, licks, and gentle sucking can drive some guys absolutely wild. This is a serious hot spot, and even the lightest breath here will send shivers up his spine, raise ample goose bumps, and generally get instant attention. Some men become extremely aroused when you lick their ears or suck on an earlobe. Be highly aware that everything you do near an ear is very, very loud.

_**Eyes.**_ Theres something uniquely tender about kissing someones closed eyelid. Not many people do it, but its very pleasant and quite unforgettable. Give him sweet kisses on his (closed) eyelids, eyebrows, the outside corners of the eyes, or just beneath the eyes.

_**Fingers and hands.**_ Grab a hand and kiss and lick the upturned palm, or kiss, lick, and suck the fingertips. This technique is a man-melter, especially if you simulate fellatio on a finger (or fingers), while making eye contact.

_**Feet and toes.**_ Admittedly not a technique for everyone, yet one that some people really love giving and receiving. Some might get so turned on by having their (clean) feet kissed (top and underside), or having their toes sucked, or the sole of their foot licked, that they can barely control themselves. Others may be too ticklish or too self-conscious about their feet to enjoy it. Ask first. If he likes it, you can also rub his foot on your face and neck (or breasts!), and massage a foot as you kiss.

_**Forehead.**_ A very tender, romantic place to kiss. A kiss here says, _I care about you_.

_**Neck.**_ Like the ears, the neck is super sensitive and a sexually supercharged place to kiss. Lick, kiss, nibble, graze, even suck and bite on it—though be aware that your kissee may not want you to leave any marks. Make his neck a canvas for all the different brushstrokes your tongue can paint, and remember that the harder you press with lips and tongue, the more aroused hell get.

_**Shoulders.**_ An often-neglected area for kissing that communicates romance and tenderness. Not as sensitive as the neck, the shoulders do respond erotically to kisses, and they can give any human deep shivers.


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Title: The Rules of the Game

Summary: This section of the book provides guidance on kissing etiquette and how to handle various kissing scenarios. It covers both the dos and don'ts of kissing and discusses the importance of communication and consent. The section also includes tips on dealing with kissing catastrophes, such as encountering a bad kisser or accidentally biting too hard.

Prompt: Write a guide on the rules of kissing, including both the dos and don'ts. Begin by discussing the importance of communication and consent in kissing and explain how to handle it if things go wrong or if your partner is a bad kisser. Then, provide a list of dos and don'ts for kissing, covering topics such as hygiene, body language, and respect for boundaries. Finally, discuss how to handle various kissing catastrophes, such as accidentally biting too hard or encountering a bad kisser. Use a helpful and informative tone throughout.

Response:
**_Chapter 6_**

**THE RULES OF THE GAME**

Its impossible to pick a great kisser out of a crowd. You just never know whos got the sweetest smooches until you kiss, and you certainly cant tell by looking. The only true way to know is to take the leap and kiss the toads—and know what to do when everything goes wrong. We all know what to do when things go right: enjoy it, relax, go back for more, and more! Unfortunately, things dont always go so great and its good to have a backup plan in case your make-out session turns into a make-out catastrophe.

If the hottie you finally get to kiss turns out to be a dud kisser, you need to decide whether its worth continuing or you should execute your exit strategy. This has happened to every girl and boy alive, and how you deal with it can  change your partners kissing habits for the better, or teach you how to pick a better kisser next time. Sometimes, its our own approach that spoils the mood or turns a romantic kiss into a tragicomedy. Know your etiquette for every kissing scenario, and you cant go wrong.

# **Kissing Dos and Donts**

Kissing is one of lifes greatest pleasures that can be shared by two. But not everyone is a perfect kissing match, and certainly not all kissers are created equal. Sadly, we encounter over a lifetime of kissing quite a few kissers who make elementary—or truly awful—kissing _faux pas_ , and it makes us wish that everyone with a pair of lips got their own users manual.

Wouldnt it be great if there was a mandatory kissing politeness class in every high school? Here students would learn that kissing isnt a face-chewing contest. You do not get points for trying to box the tonsils with your tongue. Licking your lips too suggestively before a kiss looks really scary and gross. And above all, kissing is something you do together, rather than to or at another person.

It might be a very long time until kissing etiquette becomes required for graduation into the real world. Until  then, there are a few things to know that will keep you and those you kiss happy to be smooched. Show the following list to anyone you know who might benefit from the advice it offers. Even a friend whos dating someone she just discovered is a bad kisser—it might give her some ideas.

❀ Beautiful, brushed teeth, fresh breath, and supple, moisturized lips make you a delight to kiss. Anything less is a drag.

❀ Its okay to pull away and take a break from kissing without saying anything. Its okay for someone to want to stop completely and offer no explanation. You can talk about it later.

❀ Its not okay to expect a kiss in return for anything. Kisses are gifts, not currency.

❀ Cradling your partners head and face feels wonderful. As long as youre not trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia.

❀ Kissing isnt the checkered flag and starter gun to feel up  your date. Lip contact is not an invitation to ass grabbing or unhooking a bra. The good bits arent going anywhere, and it is in your best interest to take your time.

❀ A kiss does not signify a willingness to have sex, ever—no matter what kind of kiss.

❀ Never approach a kiss with an open mouth, or with an extended tongue.

❀ Never open your mouth wider than your kissing partners lips.

❀ Poking with your tongue is annoying. You are not trying to make a phone call.

❀ Not everyone will like the things you like, and thats okay. You may love to have your sensitive ears licked and breathed on, but he might hate it with a passion. Be open to all kissing styles.

❀ Whenever youre in doubt about how things feel for your kissing partner, or even if its the right time to kiss, ask. Your partner will be happy you care enough to ask.

# **About Hickeys and Love Bites**

In previous sections about biting and sucking, Ive cautioned about leaving marks on his skin, also known as hickeys or love bites. These marks happen when teeth bruise the skin or suction leaves a rashlike discoloration on the skin. The suction created by your mouth draws blood to the surface of the skin, breaking the little capillaries, and scraping your teeth over the skin makes them break even more, blossoming into blood bruises that can range in color from pink to purple.

Overall, its very bad for your skin and the nerve endings, and some say it can cause nerve damage. But for people who love these marks, and the way it feels to get a hickey, its not a huge concern. Often these marks are made unknowingly—it can be totally unintentional, a result of passion. People with sensitive skin or those who bruise easily will get hickeys often from little stimulation of their skin.

Not everyone wants marks from kissing. The reasons can be many, including looking improper at work—bosses, office mates, and customers may find hickeys offensive or unprofessional. If he asks you not to leave visible marks on his neck, do not take it personally or try to second-guess his reasons. It may seriously compromise his work environment or professional reputation, or he just may not want marks on his neck for the entire world to see. Family  members tend to frown on hickeys, as do officials, so if hes going to be appearing in court, seeing valuable or new clients, working in sales, or visiting relatives, be careful.

In general, its a no-no to leave marks in visible places but forgivable in hidden spots. This varies from person to person. He simply might not like the way they look. Be sure to ask him how he feels about love bites before your kisses start to stray away from his mouth, and hell be able to relax knowing hes with a considerate kisser.

# **Kiss Catastrophes and Remedies**

There are great moments in kissing—and then, most unfortunately, there are moments we simply wish had happened to someone else. Kisses should be shared, savored, mutually enjoyed. But sometimes that garlic you had for dinner turns into a horrifying burp, or you collide painfully when you wanted to connect soulfully, or the guy you thought might be a kissing artist is a kissing ingrate, a slobbery mess. What to do? Consult the following kissing cures and youll be smooching a suitable partner like your sexy-bad self again in no time.

_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss and he said no.

_**Treatment:**_ Its almost impossible to believe he could resist your wiles—and yet somehow, he did. Do not fret or take it personally. Did he tell you why? If not, ask. Believe what he tells you and take it at face value as the truth, and decide later if you think he (or his answer) is for real—while you decide if hes still worth it.

_**What went wrong:**_ You have an awful rash from his stubble.

_**Treatment:**_ See the next chapter for beard burn solutions.

_**What went wrong:**_ Your mouth slobbered too much at the wrong moment.

_**Treatment:**_ It happens to the best kissers among us. We taste something good and our mouths overflow in the most ungrateful way. Apologize, smile, and laugh it off. Jokingly offer him a napkin.

_**What went wrong:**_ Burps or hiccups (yours) during a kiss. Worse, other gases are expelled.

_**Treatment:**_ This is one of the most embarrassing of bodily mishaps. All you can think is Body! How can you betray me so?! Since these things are involuntary and we have little or no control over them, all you can do is say "oops," smile, and laugh at the foul cards you have been dealt (hopefully not too foul, or youll want to suggest kissing in a different room, or in a wind tunnel).

_**What went wrong:**_ He turned out to be an awful kisser.

_**Treatment:**_ Consider whether he is good enough overall to retrain and keep. If not, its time to say goodnight. Politely end the kiss with a smile and a few small parting pecks (try to avoid hurting his feelings with your sighs of disappointment), and thank him for a nice time.

_**What went wrong:**_ You want him to go away!

_**Treatment:**_ Moan really, really loud while kissing. Keep your eyes open and let your eyeballs roll up into your head with ecstasy. Between kisses, rock to and fro while humming. Continue your _Exorcist_ impersonation as needed. Alternatively, say an abrupt "Thanks!" and be on your merry way.

_**What went wrong:**_ You had gum in your mouth, you hid it, and he found it.

_**Treatment:**_ Fess up on the spot. Ask if he is horrified. Tell him _you_ are. Instantly get over it. Continue kissing.

_**What went wrong:**_ You bit a little too hard.

_**Treatment:**_ Did you give an unwanted surprise, or did you actually draw blood? Say youre sorry that youre so hungry and suggest that you adjourn for a snack (unless you have to apply a tourniquet to his tongue or face).

_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss too fast and bonked heads/noses/teeth.

_**Treatment:**_ Giggle. Laugh. Pretend it hurt you a little more than it really did, and apologize. Ask if you can try again, and act silly about being extra careful.

_**What went wrong:**_ He keeps doing something you dont enjoy or that annoys you.

_**Treatment:**_ If you want to keep kissing him, gently let him know you dont fancy the painfully hard lip sucking. Or if its something really annoying, stop the kissing altogether  and be upfront about whats bugging you. Chances are good youre not the first to be bugged by this particular behavior, but you might be the first to let him know about it. This is helpful to him in the long run; youre doing him a favor. You can also politely suggest an alternate behavior: "You know, I really like to start kisses with both mouths closed and work up to tongues after a long time. Can we try it my way for a little while?"


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Title: Take Your Kissing to the Next Level

Summary: This section of the book provides advanced techniques and tips for enhancing the kissing experience. It covers a variety of tricks and treats, including temperature play, biting, underwater kissing, and sharing drinks or candy. The section also discusses the importance of flavor and suggests ways to make your kisses more appealing, such as using flavored lipsticks and avoiding stubble burn.

Prompt: Write a guide on how to take your kissing to the next level. Begin by discussing the importance of having a few advanced tricks and treats ready for action. Then, provide a list of techniques, such as temperature play, biting, and underwater kissing. Explain how to perform each technique and include any tips or warnings. Next, discuss the importance of flavor in kissing and suggest ways to make your kisses more appealing, such as using flavored lipsticks and avoiding stubble burn. Finally, provide a list of flavor favorites, including both foods and drinks, and discuss the importance of good oral hygiene. Use a helpful and informative tone throughout.

Response:
**_Chapter 7_**

**TAKE YOUR KISSING TO THE NEXT LEVEL**

Being a great kisser isnt just knowing the techniques of a good kiss, though that certainly helps. No, what transforms a good kiss into a badass, knee-buckling experience is having a few wicked tricks ready for action, anytime. Want to make him do a double-take the next time you kiss? Or make that first kiss the most arousing hes ever tasted by giving it a little twist hes never experienced?

Dont just make yourself the master of the kiss with advanced tricks and treats. Be a kiss guru to lovers and friends by learning tricks that are turn-ons and tricks that make kissing more pleasant for everyone. Tell your friends how to give kisses that taste like their lovers favorite candy, or be the bringer of sage advice on how to cope with  stubble and the rash from mega mack sessions that result in beard burn.

Best of all, these tricks and treats make your kissing world a lot spicier. Make your kisses legendary, the stuff of campfire tales, with advanced kissing techniques passed down through the ages from secret kissing societies and kissing masters, revealed here for the very first time.

# **Tricks and Treats**

_**Cold.**_ Chill the temperature of your mouth with ice or a cold drink before a kiss. Ice cream cools and flavors your mouth. You can even pass an ice cube mouth to mouth. This is a fun surprise trick.

_**Heat.**_ Make your mouth very warm before a kiss for an exciting surprise. Swish a hot beverage around for a second or two, swallow, then give him a kiss.

_**Tickle.**_ Point your tongue into a hard tip and use it to tickle any area you like by flickering it in short, rapid movements.

_**Bite.**_ Easy, now—take small, light bites with your teeth on lips, tongue, or areas of skin. Start very light, and be aware that some guys may not want you to bite them at all, or to leave marks (for a variety of reasons). If he appears to like it (moaning, pushing into your mouth), bite just a little bit harder. Give him almost what he wants—then a little bit more.

_**Underwater.**_ While swimming, pull him under the surface for a smooch. The cold water will intensify the warmth of your mouths, and the water around the seal your mouths make feels amazing. A fun variation is kissing in the shower or under a waterfall.

_**Upside down.**_ This is a lot of fun, and a very playful way to kiss. No one has to hang from a fire escape like Spider-Man (though it looks like fun), and it doesnt take a lot of coordination. One of you hangs your head off the edge of a bed, over the arm of a couch, or off the side of a swimming pool, and see what its like to match mouths upside down.

_**Tongue suction.**_ This is a very naughty trick—you essentially treat your partners tongue as if it were a sensual lollipop, and give a little gentle in-and-out suction. Make a small _O_ shape with your mouth around his tongue, apply a little suction, and slide your lips back and forth, up and down his tongue. Vary your suction and rhythm, and pause intermittently to let the sensations sink in.

_**Sharing a drink.**_ Have you ever really _shared_ a drink? Hold a small amount of delicious drink, such as Champagne or ambrosial fruit juice, in your mouth, and when you kiss, let a sip drain into his mouth. The sexier the beverage, the better. Daring kissers can employ this technique from above, letting the liquid literally drip into his  waiting mouth. To start, sip the liquid, kiss him, let a little bit slip into his mouth, then pull away as more liquid comes out. If it gets messy, lick it off his lips, chin, and neck.

_**Sharing candy.**_ Decadent and delicious, nothing beats a slow-melting piece of butterscotch or peppermint shared by two. Pop it in your mouth, enjoy, and then pass it with a kiss. After a while, ask for it back. Repeat until the candy is gone. You can do this over the course of a party, movie, or make-out session. Can also be done with chewing gum.

_**Sizzling candy.**_ Some candies "pop" or fizz when they make contact with the wet surface of your tongue. Shared by two, these candies can give a French Kiss quite a kick.

_**Wind tunnel.**_ Suck the air from your partners mouth, either slowly or rapidly, depending on the mood. Breathe hot air back in. This can progress to breathing into each others mouth, a highly charged, sexy game.

_**Swap techniques.**_ Tell him you want to be kissed using a technique he really enjoys receiving, then switch and kiss him in one of the ways you really like to be kissed. This is a fantastic way to learn what he likes and to show him what techniques you like best.

_**A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration**_

_**A Room with a View**_ , Helena Bonham Carter and Julian Sands

Shes ambushed in a field of beautiful flowers.

_**Blade Runner**_ , Harrison Ford and Sean Young Sexy, beat-up tough guy kissing scene that sizzles.

_**Bull Durham**_ , Susan Sarandon and Kevin Costner An outrageous build-up to an outrageous kiss.

_**Casablanca**_ , Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman

A searing good-bye kiss.

_**Gone with the Wind**_ , Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh

The ultimate conflict-turned-passionate kiss.

_**The Matrix Reloaded**_ , Keanu Reeves and Monica Bellucci

She wants to know what Neos true love (Trinity) experiences when they kiss.

_**Notorious**_ , Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman Long, unusual, playful, arousing.

_**Sixteen Candles**_ , Molly Ringwald and Michael Schoeffling

Unforgettable, like many first kisses.

_**Some Kind of Wonderful**_ , Mary Stuart Masterson and Eric Stoltz

Kissing lessons that turn into much more.

_**Spider-Man**_ , Kirsten Dunst and Tobey Maguire Deep superhero kisses after a heroic battle cant be beat.

# **Some Other Hot Make-out Flicks**

_Belle de Jour_
_Henry and June_
_Dangerous Liaisons_
_Secretary_ (kinky)
_Eyes Wide Shut_
_The Scent of Green Papaya_
_Y tu mamá también_

# **Flavored Kisses**

Do you taste good? Flavor your mouth with candy, tasty herbs (mint, basil, fennel), ice cream, or a drink of something delicious. Hell never forget that kiss if it tastes like butterscotch, peppermint, chocolate, or even something more exotic like basil, tamarind, or vanilla. Some will even get a charge out of the flavor of coffee or wine. But your kissee wont be back for more if your mouth is stale or tastes like an ashtray.

When you know youll be with someone you want to kiss, keep flavorful items nearby to make your mouth yummier. In a pinch, at a restaurant or bar, you can chew on a variety of garnishes readily available—some might even be in your cocktail glass or sitting demurely on the edge of your dinner plate.

_**Flavor Psychology**_

To be: cool
Nibble: mint

To be: sassy
Nibble: lemon

To be: playful
Nibble: lime

To be: brazen
Nibble: basil leaves

To be: mischievous
Nibble: parsley

To be: feisty
Nibble: ginger

To be: naughty
Nibble: a cherry

To be: dirty
Nibble: an olive

Some items might sound good for flavoring your mouth but are really a bad idea. These include mouthwash (especially Listerine), cough drops, garlic, nuts and seeds (too grainy, yuck), Cheetos, and artificially flavored drinks or snacks, which often leave a sour aftertaste. Never try to cover up strong flavors (such as the garlic you ate at dinner) with gum or mints—it never works, and tastes really gross.

_**Kissing Flavor Favorites**_

❀ mints—Altoids are intense!
❀ butterscotch candy
❀ red wine
❀ Champagne
❀ peaches
❀ cassis
❀ vanilla
❀ chocolate
❀ watermelon
❀ cinnamon
❀ licorice
❀ bubble gum
❀ honey
❀ sex

Its important to keep in mind that there might be flavor factors going on in your body that can adversely affect your flavor from within. Multivitamins can make your mouth taste like a health food store. Antihistamines (and drugs in general, be they prescription or otherwise) can make you taste like chemicals. And strong foods such as curries, garlic, asparagus, broccoli, beets, and red meats will affect your flavor as well. Cigarettes will make you taste like tobacco at best, and like an ashtray at worst.

You can, of course, sweeten yourself from within. If you take vitamins or antihistamines, try to drink lots of water and citrus juices to neutralize the funk these pills leave behind. Make your essence sweeter by adding citrus and other fruits, honey, and cucumber to your diet. Pineapple, lemon, lime, mango, papaya, banana, fresh ginger, and vanilla all make you taste great, and a few days of drinking creative smoothies with these ingredients will make your mouth into a decadent, kissable dessert.

# **Flavored Lipsticks and Gloss**

Remember junior high school, when the big thing was gooey-sweet strawberry lip gloss? Well, times have changed, and todays flavored and scented lipsticks and glosses  come in a variety of consistencies, colors, and flavors. To see a selection of the yummy treats you can spike your smooches with, take a trip to your nearest department store cosmetics counter or to Sephora. There are over a dozen makeup brands with gloss flavors in everything from latte to raspberry frosting, even chocolate martini. These lines of lip glosses add light sparkle and shine while flavoring and scenting your lips with candy flavors such as caramel, cherry, mocha, and more. And to make your kisses more alluring and interesting, the gloss in most of these products plumps up your lips a bit and tingles—a sensation that can be felt by both kissers.

MAC makes vanilla gloss, and Stila has passion fruit, watermelon, lime, and more. On the opposite end of the spectrum is the daily wear lipstick by Chanel, which is not flavored but smells literally like roses, a far cry from stinky, waxy-smelling drugstore shades.

Flavored glosses and lipsticks make your lips smell inviting and taste sweet, but theyre not for everyone. A fresh application combined with a heavy make-out session will have you both sticky from ear to ear, a natural, sometimes fun consequence, but one to consider. Some guys dont like lipsticks or glosses on their kissing partners, preferring to kiss _au naturel_ instead.

When in doubt, ask. And dont forgo something you  really like for the sake of only one guy. On the other hand, many men will enjoy that you went the extra step to make kissing a little sexier, a little naughtier, and they wont mind a little stickiness for the sake of good, not-too-clean fun. If hes worried about messing it up, tell him youve got plenty more where that came from.

Youre not limited to lip gloss if you want add an extra something to your kisses, and you dont have to color your lips if you only want to play around with scent or sensation. Lip moisturizers often contain menthols that cool and tingle your lips, resulting in a decadent icy-hot feeling. And when you kiss, its a sensation shared by two! Look for brands such as Carmex and Blistex Medicated. Last, but not least, if youre looking to shine up your lips by adding glitter, know that it will turn your kisses into an abrasive, exfoliating, grit-in-the-teeth experience.

_**Set the Mood with Music to Make Out By**_

"A Love Supreme," by John Coltrane
"Avalon," by Roxy Music
"Dummy," by Portishead
"Endtroducing," by DJ Shadow
"Exile," by Gary Newman
"Fear of Fours," by Lamb
"Heaven or Las Vegas" and "Victorialand,"
by Cocteau Twins
"Into the Night," by Julee Cruise
"Kind of Blue" and "Sketches of Spain," by Miles Davis
"Ki Oku," by DJ Krush
"Le roi est mort," by Enigma
"Lets Get Lost," by Chet Baker
"Mezzanine," by Massive Attack
"Passion Soundtrack," by Peter Gabriel
"Play," by Moby
"So Tonight that I Might See," by Mazzy Star
"Telegraph," by Bjork
any album by Al Green
any album by Barry White
any album by Billie Holliday

# **Stubble Burn—and How to Avoid It**

When he nuzzles your neck like a big happy kitty and he has just a hint of stubble, it can feel delicious in that scratchy-rough-yummy kind of way. But if you smooch for any period of time and he has short, prickly stubble, it can become quite uncomfortable and leave you with an angry burn—on your face and lips! Exfoliation, the hard way. The more vigorous, intense, and extended the session, the higher your risk for rash. Some men grow facial hair faster than others, and a number of guys have stubble that seems razor sharp the minute it pokes out of his skin. When hes so kissable you have to throw caution to the wind, there are a few things both of you can do to ease the sting of stubble burn.

First, know that a mack session with a stubbly guy is going to be like using a dry exfoliant on your face and lips. Try to go into the kissing session without washing or moisturizing your face, as your tender or moist face will just make you more susceptible to irritation. Afterward, wash your face and lips gently with a soothing cleanser and pat dry. Apply a moisturizer that is noncomedogenic, fragrance-free, and doesnt contain any mineral oils; otherwise, your face will break out or become irritated. If youre bright red and feeling the burn more than usual, use a moisturizer with aloe vera. Dont exfoliate the areas for at least two days.

There are many things he can do to help. He should be shaving with a really good, brand-new razor: opinions are heavily in favor of the Gillette Mach 3. Of course, if he skips a day or two of shaving, the stubble will be much softer and more comfortable to kiss than fresh stubble. Very short stubble, say, about 5-10 hours old, can be the most painful type, as the hairs are at their shortest and most inflexible. Ideally, he should skip a day of shaving, and then take great care to soften the stubble with hot water, hot towels, or even an application of hair conditioner.

Both parties should use a good lip salve afterward to condition the lips and help them heal. Blistex Clear Advance is the most highly recommended in this category.


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Title: The Make-Out Artist

Summary: This chapter discusses the importance of creating a connection, building tension, and being confident in your make-out skills. It provides tips on how to use body language, eye contact, and subtle manipulation to become a legendary make-out artist. The chapter also includes a quiz to help readers determine their style of kissing and provides recommendations on techniques to use based on the results.

Prompt: Write a guide on becoming a make-out artist. Begin by discussing the importance of creating a connection and building tension. Provide tips on how to use body language, eye contact, and subtle manipulation to become a skilled make-out artist. Include a quiz to help readers determine their style of kissing and provide recommendations on techniques to use based on the results. Use a confident and encouraging tone throughout.

Response:
**_Chapter 8_**

**THE MAKE-OUT ARTIST**

Being a make-out artist is all about style and confidence. Armed with the tips presented in this guide, you now have dozens of foolproof techniques for kissing your man _du jour_ from start to finish—even better, from head to toe. As a freshly styled kissing artist, you dont need to set your sights on world domination or creating an army of male slaves. Perhaps youre just tired of being the "good girl" kisser, and youd like to be the man-magnet for a change. Or maybe youre on the prowl for a down-and-dirty fling.

You dont even have to be a saucy dresser to be a first-rate kisser; you can employ your powers to attract, seduce, and kiss unforgettably anytime, anyplace, in any guise. This chapter will help you put your newfound tools  together to become a femme fatale kisser: chemistry, technique, subtle manipulation through body language, and of course, mind control. This is going to make you a legendary make-out artist.

# **Create a Connection**

In chapter 1 of this book I talked about chemistry and making a connection with your physical cues. To get the make-out session started, its all about the messages you send—your body language gives him the right idea. Focus that language through your eyes. Even though youve got the techniques rehearsed and have styled those prettiedup lips to perfection, eye contact is truly the focus of all your efforts. Every move you make hinges on what you do with your eyes. If you keep your eyes closed in movie-kiss imitation bliss, no guy will think you are interested—or _interesting_ —for real.

Anyone can make out by pretending to surrender to the moment with dreamy closed eyes, or staring at his lips (preferably not at the floor, or the clock)—but an artful lover makes eye contact whenever possible. Not all the time; as with driving, youll want to keep your eyes moving. Direct them to the places you want him to think you find interesting, like his lips and neck, and where he puts his hands— but always come back to the center of who he is: his eyes. Most important of all, this will make him feel special and draw him in even closer.

Reel him in like a fish, and keep smiling. The easiest way to disarm, relax, and intrigue a man is with a smile. Even a light smile while kissing will make you appear that much more inviting. As you kiss, let a smile dance constantly on your lips. This really turns guys on: knowing hes the one making you smile is an instant hook. It boosts his ego like crazy. A smile also sends him the message that you have a great sense of humor, youre approachable and open, and being around you is safe and a good time.

# **Keep Your Confidence High**

He might be making the moves, but youre really the one in the drivers seat at all times—and you know it. While making out, stay aware of how you look from the outside. Borrow bits and pieces of your kissing moves from kissing scenes in films you think are hot. (See chapter 7, "A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration.") If you ever get a chance to peep at another couple making out, watch skilled kissers and sexy vixens closely to see how they smile, make eye contact, hold their heads, and laugh. These skills are a snap to make your  own. Take mental notes, and try them out.

Make your make-out strategies "idiot proof" by going over the techniques in this book step by step, repeatedly, and dont leave anything to the last minute. Prepare yourself carefully to make sure you feel comfortable beforehand: you feel sexy in your outfit, you have a few topics to chat about, and you have a backup plan if the make-out session fizzles.

If youre klutzy, plan to distract him by giggling when you bonk noses. Smile wickedly at your prey when you happen to spill your mimosa all over the hors doeuvres as you run your hands through his hair. Act as if to say, _I meant to do that. Watch me now!_ A sense of humor layered with a sense of erotic purpose and determination will make him forget all about the spilled drink—especially if you reveal a bit of cleavage when you mop it up. Then you get to say, as professionally and seriously as possible, "Now, where were we?"

Dont worry about your body image—its all in the lips, the head, and the hips. Youve got a sexy boy toy lined up as your erotic plaything: this situation wont be around forever, so make the most of what youve got to offer. Chances are, youre a lot sexier than you think—because sexy comes from inside, not outside. If youre worried about stacking up to others, in breast size or some other measurement, remember that bigger boobs wont make you sexier, theyll just make you someone with big boobs. Big breasts dont make you a hot kisser, either. And yes, men can say insensitive, critical, inappropriate things. If you find yourself making out with one of these clueless dudes, change the channel. Excuse yourself, and go make out with someone more worthy of your mad skills.

# **Build Tension**

Youll start any make-out session with an appropriate choice of opening kisses: Chapter 2 tells you how to get started. Continue with an assortment of techniques described in chapter 4, including the Sweetheart Kiss, the Lusty Kiss, the Kama Sutra Kiss, Eskimo and Angel Kisses (starting out with no lips), or even the jump-him-now Mad Mack Attack Kiss. Then, once youve started that fire, turn up  the heat by building erotic tension with your hands.

Move your hands to the part of your body where you want to focus his attention: the nape of the neck, eyes, lips, cleavage, or lower. Straighten your clothing (even though you know its going to have to be straightened again), smooth your hair back, coyly replace a fallen bra strap. Or reach over and smooth out a wrinkle on his shirt or trousers.

Every once in a while, between kisses, touch yourself in ways that are suggestive, but never _too_ outrageous. Naughty girl—you can even pretend your hands are his eyes. If youre seated, rub your calves or smooth your hands over your legs. Rub your hands over your arms almost as if you are cold, but slowly. Glide your hand across the back of your neck, feeling the softness of your skin, and even give it a momentary, gentle, stress-relieving rub. Rest your hands on your hips, or on your thighs.

Use your feet as well—feet are quite sexy. Take off a shoe and rub your ankle or foot. Or let one foot do a little recon, sneaking forward to touch his toe for a moment as if by accident, then back. Good feet, doing the dirty work. Then let one foot sneak up against his foot and apply a steady pressure, bringing his attention to the possibilities of both of your bodies touching. Gauge his reaction. See if he returns your pressure or moves away.

# **Accelerate His Attraction (without Giving Away Too Much)**

A good speaker will stand so that his or her body is "open" to everyone listening, especially toward one person in particular. A make-out artist will do exactly the same while kissing. Have your feet apart, knees together (for now, anyway), and keep your arms open and uncrossed. Try to keep your head tilted down slightly to suggest directness in your kissing focus. Keep eye contact, but mix it up. Youre one-on-one, so keep your eye contact consistent while kissing, but take 5-to-10-second visual breaks to let him look at you, too.

If hes primed for more and you want to know if you should turn up the heat, hell give you signs and clues that are your green light. Unless hes really pawing on you or taking control, look for these "keep going" gestures: smiles, nods, little "mmh" noises that punctuate the breaks in your kisses, or small physical prompts like mirroring your kisses. Hell show increased attraction with his body (besides the, um, obvious) by leaning into you more, applying more pressure with his lips, and pulling you closer.

Give him what he wants—almost. And then a little bit more. You can direct his hands, which will likely be wandering. If he has them at the small of your back, slide them up your waist and to the sides of your breasts, all  the while kissing, and then back to your waist. Turn down the heat with lighter kisses. Then bring his hands back near your breasts, and turn the heat back up with a hot, passionate kiss and a lower lip nibble. Now pull back for a smile.

# **Make-Out Techniques: Light and Flirty or Down and Dirty**

Review your quiz answers from chapter 1 to see what style of kissing vixen you are, and determine your course of make-out action based on how you scored. Let your inner Sweet Lips, Power Puss, Hot Lips, or Miss Pure Delicious Poison guide the way. Are you a little of each? No problem! Pick the ones you like to make a style all your own.

## _**Sweet Lips Chic**_

Use your loveliest blossoms to attract the bees to your honey: no matter how you want your kissing sessions to go, your best technique depends on your smile, a knowing look, and easy laughter. Make the most of your Sweet Lips techniques by really working up the first-kiss tips. If you identify with the sexy librarian type, the area where you most need polish will be how to get started. Youll get the best guidance from the "First Kiss Dos and Donts" in chapter 2.

_**The attitude:**_ He melts in your mouth, not in your hands.

_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Sweetheart Kiss, Angel and Eskimo Kisses, Romantic Kiss, Snuggle Bunny Kisses. Get your specifics from the "Appetizers" and "Dish of the Day" menus in chapter 5.

_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Light and sunny. Daytime picnics, beaches, private pretty vistas, romantic walks, sunsets.

_**Make-out checklist:**_ Lip gloss, rose-colored glasses.

## _**Power Puss Vogue**_

Ready to strike the right pose, pucker up, and reel in your bohunk with sass? Power Girl, in this book you get the most from tips about eye contact, and seek out any kissing fix-its in sections on how to deal with guys who dont kiss as well as they look. Youve got the power to pull in anyone you want. You can do what you want with them—be ready to decide whether to go all the way or not.

_**The attitude:**_ Slippery when wet.

_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, Taste of Whats to Come, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses. Get your finer points from the "Appetizers," "Dish of the Day," and "Dessert" menus in chapter 5.

_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Hot and steamy. Bars, clubs, parties (especially theme parties), after-hours bashes, and even on your doorstep as a Goodnight session.

_**Make-out checklist:**_ A sexy scent (perfume, moisturizer, body butter) and tasty lip gloss.

## _**Hot Lips Bombshell**_

Get ready, Bombshell, because when you kiss a boy, hes not going anywhere until you set him free. Delivering a powerful opening kiss is as easy for you as taking candy from a baby boy—and so is letting him know that _youre_ the candy he needs. And youve got the smoldering gaze to back it up. Polish up your pout and make your kissing techniques shine by making the most of tips and tricks on what to do once youre in place and the conversations flowing. You need the most help in focusing on hands, arms, legs, and feet, and using them to your best advantage.

_**The attitude:**_ Dangerous curves.

_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Taste of Whats to Come, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses, more French Kisses. Pick your pinpoint techniques mostly from the "Dish of the Day" and "Dessert" menus in chapter 5.

_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Heat wave, all the way. Anything that gets you close and personal is where you can work your magic: an intimate corner of a pub, a booth, in a corner at a wedding dinner, the interrogation room, the scene of the crime, private parties, dark movie theaters, museums, cocktail affairs, and boardroom affairs.

_**Make-out checklist:**_ A compact mirror for lipstick fix-its when you need the pause that refreshes (or you get caught) and super-sexy underwear.

## _**Miss Pure Delicious Poison**_

Men: theyre whats for dinner. Style, panache, and a touch of supervillainess insanity make you the most magnetic and kissable woman in the room, whether youre arriving in an explosion of smoke, gliding in on the backs of your henchmen, or simply sitting on your mechanical throne stroking your fluffy white cat. Who cares if you come on too strong when youre the one holding the ray gun? Making men melt with your lips comes naturally; the only spot you need to perfect is the switch—when things dont go as planned, you get cranky. Dont seek vengeance—just keep your exit strategies in line. And dont forget that turning _down_ the volume of your kissing powers can be just as powerful as cranking them up.

_**The attitude:**_ When Im bad, Im better.

_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Lusty Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, reverse Gladiator Kisses, tease him down with  some Sweetheart Kisses, then come back with more French Kisses. Choose heavily from the "Dessert" menu in chapter 5.

_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Your affections and your make-out sessions are like a storm. They rage in, wreak havoc, and subside just as quickly. Dramatic conditions suit you best: castles, underground labs, back rooms, rooftops, evil lairs, tech conferences, haunted woods, abandoned shacks, private islands, penthouse suites, ice fortresses, and secret hideouts.

_**Make-out checklist:**_ Daytime disguise in your purse or utility belt, and edible body butter. _**Wicked flirt checklist:**_ Bad girl, good girl. Its an endless cycle. Now youre ready to join the party. Dont leave the house without your utility belt, magic lasso, and kick-ass bag of kissing tricks and techniques. Make notes and try to keep track of your conquests—kissing legends all have lists on their refrigerators, too.