{"input": "\n\nQ: What is the main focus of the introduction by Violet Blue?\nA: The main focus of the introduction by Violet Blue is to explain what makes a great kiss and to introduce the reader to the contents of the book.\n\nQ: According to Blue, what is a great kiss like?\nA: According to Blue, a great kiss is like watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year's Eve. It is a vivid moment in time that warms the heart, sharpens the senses, and makes colors more vivid.\n\nQ: What does Blue say about the rarity of great kisses?\nA: Blue says that great kisses are rare, but they don't have to be. She says that most people have to figure out how to kiss through trial and error, and that this can be messy and damaging to one's confidence.\n\nQ: What does Blue say about the purpose of the book?\nA: Blue says that the purpose of the book is to teach the reader how to kiss like a movie star and make the one they are kissing feel as if their favorite song just came on the radio every time their lips come together. She says that the book will teach the reader how to time a kiss perfectly, how to deliver and get a first kiss, and how to ask for kisses with and without words.\n\nQ: What does Blue say about the contents of the book?\nA: Blue says that the book contains oodles of techniques to help the reader come up with and perfect their own style for each lucky person they kiss. She says that the book will teach the reader how to sex up their mouth and make it irresistibly kissable, as well as how to supercharge their kisses with advanced tricks, fun games, and tasty treats. She also says that the book will teach the reader how to keep their lipstick perfect, no matter how hot and heavy their kissing session gets.\n\nQ: What does Blue say about the significance of kissing?\nA: Blue says that kissing is about chemistry and that it can be the moment when we realize we are falling in love. She says that the kind of connection experienced with a kiss can rock us to the core. However, she also says that a kiss can be one of the most lighthearted ways of sharing intimacy with another person.", "response": "\n\n**_Introduction:_**\n\n**THE PERFECT KISS**\n\nA great kiss is like watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year's Eve. There's the countdown to contact, the moment when your heart flutters from your stomach to your chest, and then\u2014the kiss. You hear the noisemakers, people cheering, horns honking, confetti flies through the air, and you're caught in a vivid moment in time. Your heart warms (or ignites like a fuse). Your perspective changes, your senses sharpen, colors become more vivid, and you just know your brights will come out brighter than ever before. At least, that's what it feels like when the right pairs of lips come together in all the right ways. \n\nKisses like this are rare\u2014but they don't have to be. Unfortunately, our lips didn't come with an owner's  manual to tell us how to deliver smooches that stop traffic, start five-alarm fires, and warp the time-space continuum. Most of us have to figure that out by trial and error, and believe me, it isn't pretty. It messes up your lipstick, screws with your confidence, and you wind up pecking a lot of awful kissers. If only we could spot the lousy kissers, fix the ones we like, and if we just had ninjalike kissing skills, we'd be the baddest girls on the block with puckers that make urban legends seem tame. \n\nThat's what this book is for. This is where you learn to kiss like a movie star and make the one you're kissing feel as if his favorite song just came on the radio every time your lips come together. Find out how to time a kiss perfectly, how to deliver and get a first kiss, and how to ask for kisses with and without words. Learn how to know when someone wants to kiss you and what to do if the person you like turns out to be a bad kisser. Solve problems like stubble rash, and what happens when your kiss doesn't turn out the way you'd planned. Discover all the kissing do's and don'ts, and find out all the things you should never do when you kiss someone. \n\nThere are oodles of techniques in these pages to help you come up with\u2014and perfect\u2014your very own style for each lucky someone you kiss, no matter if you're a novice kisser or a make-out queen. Sex up your mouth and make  it irresistibly kissable, then supercharge your kisses with advanced tricks, fun games, and tasty treats. Oh, and if you color your pucker, find out how to keep your lipstick perfect, no matter how hot and heavy (or wet and messy) your kissing session gets. \n\nDon't stop with the lips\u2014know your kissee's hot spots and get the skinny on how and where to kiss parts of the body that'll make them melt. Learn how to French-kiss like an angel (or a naughty devil) and all the different types of kisses and when to use them. Best of all, learn everything you need to make your first kiss with that special someone absolutely perfect and unforgettable. \n\nKissing is about chemistry\u2014sometimes a kiss can be the moment we realize we're falling in love. The kind of connection experienced with a kiss can rock you to the core. But it doesn't have to be with someone you love\u2014a kiss can be one of the most lighthearted ways of sharing intimacy with another person. \n\nYou can kiss as a sport, in a kissing booth for charity, or you can kiss someone just to find out if they are more interesting than you thought\u2014all without commitment to either pair of lips involved. Or, if you choose, kissing can be the most intimate thing you share only with someone you love. But no matter how you kiss, or whom you kiss, you should always make it a doozy. \n\nI hope you have as much fun putting this book into practice as I did doing the research for it. \n\n  \n\n\nSmooches,  \nViolet Blue  \nSan Francisco \n"}
{"input": "\n\nWrite a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that discusses the art of sensual kissing and its importance in seduction. The chapter should explain the various types of kisses and their meanings, the benefits of kissing, and the elements that make a kiss perfect or pitiful. It should also include a quiz to help readers identify their kissing style and a section with advice for each type of kisser.\n\nThe chapter should begin by explaining that kissing is one of the most sensual acts of flirting, foreplay, seduction, and sex. It should emphasize that a great kisser knows a variety of techniques that can be applied in different situations, tricks to make their kisses unforgettable, and strategies to seduce even the shyest pair of lips.\n\nThe chapter should then discuss the different types of kisses and their meanings. For example, it could explain that a light, affectionate peck is a message of tenderness, while a first romantic kiss can be the spark that ignites passions. It should also discuss the benefits of kissing, such as the release of endorphins, the stimulation of the arousal hormone oxytocin, and the increased flow of saliva that washes the teeth in a plaque-dispersing bath.\n\nThe chapter should then explain the elements that make a kiss perfect or pitiful, such as timing, the right pair of lips, location, physical feelings, and emotional connection. It should emphasize that a great kiss happens at the right time, with the right pair of lips, in the right location, and should feel good physically and emotionally.\n\nThe chapter should conclude with a quiz to help readers identify their kissing style and a section with advice for each type of kisser. For example, the quiz could ask readers questions about their kissing habits and preferences, and then categorize them as Sweet Lips, Power Puss, Hot Lips, or Pure Delicious Poison. The advice section should provide tips and techniques for each type of kisser to improve their skills and become more magnetic and unforgettable kissers.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 1_**\n\n**THE SECRET SOCIETY OF KISSING ARTISTS**\n\nThe average woman spends two weeks of her life kissing\u2014but what girl wants to be average? Two weeks of smooches just won't do\u2014especially when you want to be the kind of kisser who has them coming back for seconds. And thirds. Maybe an all-you-can-kiss make-out buffet. With the secrets, tips, techniques, and detailed steps to becoming a master kisser in this book, you'll be more than the average player: you'll be at the top of the kissing game. \n\nKissing is one of the most sensual of all the acts of flirting, foreplay, seduction, and sex we can enjoy. In a kiss, you use all of your senses\u2014and his too. You feel a kiss with your body, your heart, and your mind. You can communicate desire, urgency, caring\u2014anything you want,  because what you're feeling when you kiss someone can be channeled right through you like an electric charge. The greatest kissers know a variety of techniques that can be applied to a range of situations, tricks to make their kisses unforgettable, strategies to seduce even the shyest pair of lips, and how to jump-start that erotic spark with a first (or second, or third) kiss. \n\nThe sensual kisser has a lot more going on than a pair of kissable lips\u2014though I'll tell you all about making your lips silky smooth and utterly irresistible in a bit. A truly sensual kisser is a girl who feels confident and sexy from within, no matter whether she happens to think she looks \"perfect\" at the moment, and a great kisser stays in touch with all of her senses\u2014before kissing even begins. It's like flipping a light switch: when you know a kiss is about to happen, all of your senses sharpen. And once the kiss starts, everything goes into overdrive as you drink in the taste, the smell, the touch, the sound, the feelings. And the person on the receiving end is hooked. \n\n# **What's in a Kiss?**\n\nKissing is a single act that can convey a wide variety of intentions. For instance, one type of kiss, a light, affectionate peck, is a message of tenderness\u2014it can be nonsexual, or a loving reminder. On the other hand, a first romantic kiss, built up to with nervousness and desire, might begin with the softest touch and pull you together like a red-hot magnet. A kiss between lovers is the spark that ignites passions into a blazing fire that may consume you both in a delicious make-out session. This kind of kiss can be more powerful than the need to eat when you're famished. Sometimes the prelude to a kiss is the best part; other times it's only a teasing, playful beginning. \n\nOne kiss can change everything. It can make friends into so much more. A kiss is the moment when sex and science meet, when we know whether our chemistry matches our desire. A casual encounter might turn into a pivotal, life-changing moment, after which ordinary everyday situations with your friend become lustful encounters. Often, when we kiss someone for the first time, we know instantly whether or not we click with them sexually. \n\nKissing is also really good for you and good for everyone around you. The act of kissing makes you feel emotionally ecstatic\u2014it stimulates the release of endorphins, natural opiates similar to the delirious rush we feel while running  and when we fall in love. Prolonged sensual kissing releases the arousal hormone oxytocin, essential for orgasm. And it's good for our teeth, because the increased flow of saliva washes our teeth in a plaque-dispersing bath. Now, doesn't that sound sexy? \n\nMost of all, kissing is fun. Welcome to the world of kissing bandits and superkissers, where you'll learn how to cast an unforgettable, seductive spell with your lips. You'll join the legions of women who can melt a man like butter with a kiss, are always the first ones picked for the kissing booth, and can easily become rulers of small countries with their ability to deliver the perfect kiss anywhere, anytime. \n\nThe tips in this guide will make your past experiences with kissing seem like amateur night, and already-great kissers will find more secret kissing weapons, tips, and tricks to fortify their arsenal of techniques. Here you'll discover can't-fail techniques for ramping up your sensuality, the keys to perfect first kisses, the fine points of timing a kiss, oodles of techniques and surprises, and how to make an innocent kiss turn into a lustful session of tonsil hockey. \n\nYou don't need to be a man-eater or a villainous vixen to deliver the most wicked smooches\u2014though all skill levels are encouraged to apply. Perhaps you're tired of being a one-date wonder or feel that you've missed far too many kissing opportunities. Or maybe you're a would-be kissing  virtuoso, coiled up and ready to spring. Maybe you'd just like to know when and where different types of kisses are appropriate, how to be a better kisser, how to become a more magnetic kisser, or you want to learn new kissing techniques to make your sweetie give you\u2014and your kissable lips\u2014a double-take. This guide gives you concrete tools to nurture your kissing prowess, useful for a lifetime of being a first-rate, unforgettable kisser. \n\n**Kissing Kung Fu: Be at One with the Elements** Kissing begins with a pair of lips and a tongue. Pretty basic stuff. But a delivering a _great_ kiss isn't just \"tab A into slot B.\" What makes the perfect kiss has to do with so much more than a pair of squishy body parts getting mashed together. Desire, passion, tenderness, comfort, lust, yearning for connection, the urge to capitalize on a \"perfect moment,\" and more, all drive us to kiss. Add to that the elements of atmosphere and timing, and you've got a whole slew of ingredients that can make whatever you've got cooking sweet or sour. Examine what elements make a kiss perfect\u2014or pitiful. \n\n\u2740 Timing is everything. In the movies, when the hero leans over to kiss the leading lady, the timing is always perfect\u2014the sun is setting, both kissers feel amorous, birds are chirping, and all is good in the world. In real life, you may have the same experience, or your birds may actually be car alarms, passersby may be wishing you weren't doing that in public, you might be unexpectedly queasy from cocktails or nerves, or a meteor could be on a collision course with Earth. Worse, a kiss when you don't want one isn't a kiss at all\u2014it's a drag. A great kiss happens right when it is supposed to, while an ill-timed kiss can ruin everything and practically peel the paint off the walls. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 You know this: it's got to be the right pair of lips heading for your face, or all bets are off. Is the kisser your fantasy man, or is he a drooling fool from Planet Lame? If your date is Mr. Delicious, then your goodnight kiss has got to be a doozy. But if you don't click with the person planting one on you, then you've got a scary mouthful of \n\nMr. Yikes. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Location, location, location. A wispy kiss on a mountaintop might be your idea of romantic perfection, or a sloppy session on the floor behind your roommate's couch could be at the top of your list. But if you smooch in a  location that isn't right for one of you (say, in a public space that makes you or him feel exposed or otherwise uncomfortable), the kiss will bomb like an attempt to make _Titanic_ into a romantic comedy. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's got to feel good physically, too. Is the kiss a perfect union of lips and tongue, dancing in tandem to create an emotional connection? Does it make an electric spark that sends buzzy, yummy jolts of lust straight to your nethers? Or is it a smooshy mush of slippery lips and tongues that slither like slimy, wilted slugs? If a kiss feels good, you're on top of the world, but if a kiss feels yucky, too wet, or just plain wrong, it's a dud. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 How a kiss makes you feel can make or break a mood, and it's one of the more sublime elements to consider. The feelings behind a kiss are like a supporting actor who completes the character and identity of the leading lady. Is the kiss an emotional gesture that comes from the heart, or a raw animal thing that comes from the groin? And how do you gauge the feelings of the person kissing you? Does he feel the same way? There are ways to tell how your kissee is feeling, and when his signs and signals are green for \"go\" when your own engine is revved, then you're kissing in sync. \n\n\u2740 Believe it or not, the motive for your kiss is communicated through your lips at the moment of contact, and it instantly sets the tone for any given smooch. Perhaps you are a devious femme out on a kissing conquest, taking what you want from the lips of hapless mortals. Lust, kiss, and conquer. Maybe you're a shy and lovely thing, ready to smooch, cuddle with a few sweet fairy kisses, and nuzzle with someone you adore. Or you might be both, depending on which way the kissing goes. A great kiss is made of many elements and can take you down different paths. Think about what you want out of it before you pucker up, buttercup. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Technique is the foundation of your kissing style. And the technique you use depends on all of the factors and goals mentioned above\u2014or you might just be out for fun, freestyling. Either way, your technique says it all, and you'll enjoy kissing, and the reaction your kisses get, when you have an arsenal of styles in your naughty bag of kissing tricks. \n\n# **Kiss Me Deadly, Darling: A Quiz**\n\nKissing might be the one thing you know makes 'em swoon with desire, or kisses might be just part of your playful bag of down-and-dirty flirty tricks. What kind of kisser are you? \n\n_**When I kiss someone for the first time, I never:**_\n\na. make the first move. \n\nb. move my body too close to his. \n\nc. remove all of my clothes, just most of them. \n\nd. set him free, no matter how much he begs. \n\n_**The perfect movie kiss was:**_\n\na. Rhett Butler and Scarlett O'Hara in _Gone with the Wind_. \n\nb. Kirsten Dunst and Tobey Maguire in _Spider-Man._\n\nc. the vampiresses and any poor mortal man in _The Brides of Dracula_. \n\nd. the elevator scene in _Fatal Attraction_. \n\n_**I always make the first move kissing:**_\n\na. never! \n\nb. when I know it's absolutely safe to do so. \n\nc. before the cocktails wear off. \n\nd. when he's trapped like a wild animal. \n\n_**When kissing on the first date, I never:**_\n\na. use tongue. \n\nb. let it get too steamy. \n\nc. let underwear get in the way. \n\nd. . let my emotions get in the way of my evil plans to destroy my enemies. \n\n_**Your philosophy about kissing is:**_\n\na. Kissing is fun but should be shared with someone special. \n\nb. Good kissers are hard to find. \n\nc. They are all my playthings and victims, every last one of them. \n\nd. Never let them up for air. \n\n_**I get ready for a kiss by:**_\n\na. keeping my lips and mouth in beautiful shape. \n\nb. thinking about what kinds of kisses my kissee might really enjoy. \n\nc. swishing with the last gulp of my beer, and off I go! \n\nd. . surveying bedpost notches and emitting a fearful cackle while overwhelmed with evil satisfaction. \n\n_**Kissing someone is how I tell:**_\n\na. what kind of lover he might be. \n\nb. if we really click. \n\nc. how much his girlfriend means to him. \n\nd. . how long it will take to convert such a meddlesome hero to the Dark Side. \n\n_**Your scariest nightmare about kissing contains:**_\n\na. someone who just wants to get in my panties. \n\nb. waiting to kiss someone and then finding out they're a terrible kisser. \n\nc. a man who kisses like he's cleaning a fish tank with his tongue. \n\nd. kittens, romantic sunsets, happy endings, not becoming absolute ruler of the universe, fluffy bunnies, all that is good and nice. \n\n_**My surefire red-hot kissing technique is:**_\n\na. Keep my lips closed together and my hands to myself. \n\nb. Follow his lead with tongue and touching, but take over when things get hot. \n\nc. Try to swallow his entire face, lick everywhere from the neck up, insert entire tongue into his throat. \n\nd. Unhinge jaw, swallow entire man. \n\n# **If you answered mostly \"A,\" you are Sweet Lips.**\n\nYou're sweet as sugar, and your kisses are, too\u2014and the person you're kissing knows that your cute little pucker and slightly naughty smile screams \"sexy!\" Your kissing power lies in your ability to seduce and tease longingly, making your make-out sessions dreamy and lasting, like an all-day lollipop. Attractive lips and a subtle style make your kisses unforgettable; learn a few dirtier tricks and the electric shocks from your tongue will bring them to their knees. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Melts in your mouth, not in your hands.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \"B,\" you are Power Puss.**\n\nMack Daddy, meet Mack Mama. Your lips like to boogie, but before they hit the dance floor, they like to taste, road-test, and compare. You like to sample the goods before committing to a date, or to a make-out session, or even just to see what the local boys taste like\u2014you like to test the water before you jump in. You're a Power Kisser, through and through. Hone your skills, and they'll name a lipstick shade after you. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Victoria's got nothing on my Secret.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \u275dC,\u275e you are Hot Lips.**\n\nYour kisses are like a wildfire, and if you have your way, it'll take a station full of firefighters to control the blaze. You're a femme fatale kisser who never misses, and you're just as happy to give your dates a taste of your tongue and strut away leaving them swooning. Your kisses are the strong, silent type that come and go like a storm, and with a little polishing from the tips in these pages, your lips will be legendary\u2014and lethal. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Hello\u2014my name is Your Addiction.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \"D,\" you are Pure Delicious Poison.**\n\nRemember supervillainess Poison Ivy? She's just a shrub compared to you. A kiss from you, blown on the wind, has been known to wilt flowers and make babies cry miles away. Your plan to conquer the universe one man at a time is unstoppable, and kisses are just the hors d'oeuvres of delicious conquest to you. It's hard to go wrong when you're already so bad, but keeping your kisser in picture-perfect shape and building an arsenal of smooching styles will keep your seductive powers at their most fearful. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"I'm so hungry I could eat\u2014anyone I want.\"**\n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that provides advice on how to initiate a kiss and make it happen in any situation. The chapter should discuss the importance of timing and waiting for the right moment, as well as tips on how to read your partner's signs and send the right message to get what you want. It should also provide advice on how to ask for a kiss without words and make the first move, including do's and don'ts for a successful first kiss. The chapter should be written in a friendly and engaging tone that encourages readers to take action and become confident kissers. The chapter should also include examples and scenarios to help readers understand the concepts.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 2_**\n\n**MAKE IT HAPPEN: GET THAT KISS ANYWHERE, ANYPLACE, ANYTIME**\n\nThe awkward moment: It's happened to you. At the end of the evening, you walk to your car to say good-bye and\u2014your stomach flips. Your heart flutters. Your brain explodes. He looks at you, and you feel an electric charge in the air. Then maybe, just maybe\u2026You get in your car and drive away fast like a frightened little bunny. Let's hope _not_. \n\nAn attack of shyness happens to all kissers, from beginners to the suavest and most experienced lip-lockers. The awkward moment of the first kiss can turn even the coolest cucumber into the biggest spaz. Some people love the moment before the first kiss, the excitement, the terror\u2014the moment you've both been waiting for when attraction leads to intimate contact. Others dread it and will squirm  every which way to avoid having to make a move. The anticipation is delicious, delightful, agonizing\u2014thrilling. It means you're _alive_. \n\nSometimes the anticipation of your first kiss is the best part. Taking your time to build up the attraction and excitement makes your first kiss that much more unforgettable\u2014and wonderfully, passionately explosive. When you're both so eager to kiss that you just can't stand it anymore, your attraction to each other becomes powerful, magnetic\u2014and when the kiss finally happens, you see the stars. Do you have the self-restraint to wait until you just can't take it anymore? \n\nWaiting for the first kiss can be like a tightrope walk. You must proceed very carefully so as not to rush things, on one hand, or send signals that you're not as interested as you really are, on the other. It's a little stressful, but it's much easier when you know how to read your partner's signs and how to send the right message to get what you want. \n\n# **Waiting Is the Hardest Part**\n\nYou might not kiss on the first date for a number of reasons\u2014and he might actually be the one who wants to wait. If he asks to wait a few dates for a first kiss, honor his request with grace and a smile, and relish the thought that anticipation is building up mutually. Don't worry about his reasons; they're probably good ones, whatever they are. Don't second-guess, either. He might simply just be shy! Feed the fires by being casually flirty in subtle physical ways\u2014a touch on the wrist, or standing or sitting a bit too close. And if you've both agreed to wait for that fiery first kiss, you can cuddle, hug, and breathe on each other's lips, only inches away from each other. \n\nSome of you might want to wait a bit for the first kiss to see if there is chemistry between you. Or, like any femme fatale worth the notches on her bedpost, you might want to make him wait simply to enjoy watching him squirm in erotic torment, willing to do anything for your first kiss. Clever smoochers might want to camouflage ill health, such as a flu or allergies, by asking to delay the first kiss for a few dates, until you're feeling better or know the potential kissee a bit better. Maybe you have already rushed to first base, or second or third, too fast for your own liking, and you want to take a bit more time to smell the roses. \n\nIt's perfectly fine to tell him you want to wait a bit before  your first kiss, or to wait until the third date. Reassure him that it's not personal (he might feel insulted or insecure) and explain that you just don't want to rush a good thing. Tell him that you'll make the first move when you're ready to enjoy it completely. \n\nIf you prefer not to announce your intentions, be sure to give him other signals that you're interested; otherwise he'll think you don't want him at all. Yikes! Flirt with him, lightly touch his arm or hands now and then, brush against him a little when you walk down the sidewalk, make plenty of eye contact, smile a lot, and don't be afraid to stand or sit closer than a regular friend might. \n\nIf he moves in for a kiss and you're still not ready, place your hands flat on the front of his shoulders to gently, firmly stop him. Stay close, smile, and sweetly say, \"I'm not ready yet. But I will be soon. It means a lot that you're cool with that.\" You can softly kiss his cheek instead. Some guys might not understand why you want to wait for a kiss. They might protest, get upset, be pushy, demand reassurance, or argue. The rotten ones will insist. (This is okay if you know that you enjoy a little playful protest in your romantic relationships.) But the guys who are truly worth kissing will listen \n\nand will want to understand your motives\u2014and the really fun ones will want to draw out the anticipation and savor the first-kiss waiting game as much as you do. \n\n# **Does He Really Want It?**\n\nYes, hot pants, they all want you. But only give 'em a little nibble at a time. When sizing up your toy for a potential smooch, make sure he's really ready for the close-up by looking for physical clues that reveal his readiness. Some guys will make it fairly obvious that it's now or never by moving in for the kiss, but others will display unconscious physical signs to indicate readiness and kissability. And I'm not talking about what's happening in his trousers. It's especially essential to know what to look for with shy guys who want to be respectful of your kissing boundaries. Are you sending the green light? Often, they want to kiss us oh-so-badly, but they have no idea that we actually want them to kiss us! Also, it's tough to tell if someone wants to go beyond friendship or not, especially when your judgment is clouded by your own attraction to someone you realize is becoming more than just a friend. \n\nIt's up to you to figure out if he wants it or not. Does he call, text, IM, Tweet, or email you frequently? If you're out together on a date or just hanging out, remember that he could choose to be spending his in-person time with someone else. But he's with _you_. Put yourselves in a situation that would be an ideal time for a kiss, such as saying good-bye, and watch his body language closely for unconscious signs of attraction. Make sure you see two \"kiss now\" signals before you take the leap with your lips. \n\nJust what are those signals? Prolonged and repeated eye contact is a sure sign of interest, and combined with close physical proximity is a sure signal of an impending kiss. If you catch him checking you out, bust him playfully with a smile that says \"gotcha!\" and flirt shamelessly, enjoying every moment. One careless glance from him isn't enough, but if there is a second look, stay tuned for more. When his second look lingers for a bit, consider this an engraved invitation: you've got him right where you want him. If the eye contact is fleeting and you can't tell if it's intentional or not, wait to see if it happens more than once and look for another physical clue just to be sure. \n\nHere are a few clues to look for: \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue** : Look to the lips. When people are tense or uninterested, they keep their lips clamped together. But when  someone finds you hot and wants a smooch, their lips will part slightly in an inviting gesture. Like, smiling! Licking the lips (not in a gross or creepy way!) or touching the lips with a finger can indicate high kissing interest. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue** : Unconscious imitation is someone's way of showing that they'll follow your lead, including up to the moment of a kiss. Watch and see if he mirrors your body language\u2014legs crossed or uncrossed, the position of his hands and arms, shoulders squared to face you directly, and of course, mirrored facial expressions such as eye contact, smiling, and moving in close. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue:** Close physical proximity. Arms brushing when you walk, a slight touch on the arm or hand, orbiting your stance in crowded rooms, standing so your shoulders touch, being just a half step closer to you than he would to someone who's just a friend. Notice whether he's keeping an eye on where you are and where you're standing. Often, interested men will have conversations with others near you or (especially) right behind you. Another clue that precedes a kiss is for him to hold open a door for you in a way that intentionally has him leaning in close as you move past. This is a great opportunity for a smile\u2014or a kiss. \n\n# **How to Get Him to Kiss You**\n\nOf course, there's nothing wrong with the direct approach. Some people love nothing more than to have their partner simply ask for a kiss. Have you ever hoped for a kiss, not gone for it or even asked for one, and then not been kissed? I can predict how well that technique is working for you. A girl or guy who's a little bit (or a lot) aggressive when it comes to the sweet pastime of kissing gets what they want, and many women and men love a partner who isn't afraid to take control. \n\n_**Ask for that kiss:**_\n\n  \n\n\n\"May I have a kiss, please?\"  \n\"Kiss me!\"  \n\"You can kiss me now.\"  \n\"I think you deserve a kiss for that.\"  \n\"Aren't you forgetting something?\"  \n\"Can we kiss now?\"  \n\"Pucker up, buttercup.\" \n\nAsking for it is only one option for getting him to put those sexy lips right where you want them: on you. You don't always have to ask with words; you can hypnotize him with a few super-sexy moves. Seriously. Even if you're the direct-approach kind of girl, words may not be appropriate for the scenario you find yourself in; you may have to be quiet for some reason, or asking for a smooch outright may simply not be your style. No problem. Whether you're shy or cunning, you have an arsenal of tricks to choose from. \n\n# **How to Ask for a Kiss without Words**\n\nFirst, open up your body language so he can sense that you're receptive for him to put the moves on you. Or that you're even interested: you can convey a lot of interest just by the way you carry yourself. Pull your shoulders back and take a slow, deep breath, and imagine your shoulders opening wider, with the center of your chest pulling upward. Straighten up your posture and arch (curve) your lower back a bit. Sitting or standing, you can do all this within the space of a few breaths and no on will notice\u2014except, subliminally, him. Pull your head up and back just slightly, as well. \n\nEye contact is the golden key for getting that kiss without actually asking for it out loud. Your kissing mind-control efforts are centered on what you do with your eyes, and if  you stare at the ground (or anywhere but his eyes and lips), he'll think you're not interested. To get his attention, you can softly touch his arm, shoulder, or the back of a hand. \n\nDid you take the \"Kiss Me Deadly, Darling\" test in chapter 1? Choose your techniques from the options below. Each of them is an excellent prelude to making the first move if you get tired of waiting and just want to plant one on him to see if he's worth it! \n\n_**For Sweet Lips sweeties:**_\n\nMake eye contact, smile, and incline your head close to his. If you're shy or nervous you can look away at intervals, but be sure to always return your eyes to his and smile softly as you make contact again. \n\n_**For Power Puss playas:**_\n\nLet your eyes linger for a relaxed breath. Make eye contact, and then break it to look at his lips, and then back to his eyes. Smile. A sexy, closed-mouth smile with the corners of your mouth is an erotic invitation\u2014use this sweetly tricky  smile to your advantage. Repeat as needed, and don't be afraid to maintain eye contact while blinking. \n\n_**For Hot Lips and Poison Kiss divas:**_\n\nYour lips are the most suggestive, sensual erogenous zone you've got\u2014work it, girl, and get his attention focused right where it belongs. The instant you want that smooch, subliminally make him look at your lips to suggest kissing (and sex). Enjoy playing around with what touches your lips, how you touch them, and what slips between them. Bite your lower lip suggestively while smiling to tease and tempt. Rub your lips together softly and smile. Bite the end of your finger for a second\u2014tilting your head down to do this is very flattering to your eyes and face. Touch your straw to your lips before you take a sip. Rub your lips lightly on the edge of a glass, as if you are doing it unconsciously. If you're not sure he is paying attention, direct his gaze to your lips with a pen, a finger, a straw, a snack, a lollipop, or a spoon. If you're feeling really bold, move your lips close to his without making contact while you talk, and linger for a breath or two to push it even further. \n\n# **Making the First Move**\n\nThe first kiss is often a make-or-break deal, where both of you find out if all this excitement is really what it's cracked up to be. If the object of your desire doesn't make the first move, getting up the courage to initiate the kiss is important, but equally crucial is how you kiss him the very first time. Your technique is everything here, because it communicates much more about you than words and gives him a direct indication of the passion that's got you all fired up. \n\nIt's debatable whether you should French-kiss (with your tongue) when you kiss someone the very first time. Certainly, at the moment of contact, your tongue should remain within your mouth\u2014but how the kiss progresses past that point is a matter of assessing the direction and flow of the kiss. If you press lips and are overcome with passion and crazy desire, you'll find your tongues dancing within moments, seemingly without any permission from your brain. When that happens, you just have to go with it. And if your first kiss turns out to be the kind where he passionately grabs you and you both uncontrollably start dancing the tongue tango, no one will blame you for not following any first-kiss \"rules.\" \n\nBut unless you're crawling all over each other like love weasels on a hot summer night, keep that tongue in check until you've kissed three or four times, or until you've been open-mouth kissing for several minutes. \n\n_**First Kiss Do's and Don'ts:**_\n\nDo smile a lot, even while kissing. \n\nDo keep eye contact. \n\nDo make sure you have nice breath. \n\nDo remember to come up for air. \n\nDo start slow. \n\nDo begin with small movements of the lips, head, body, and hands. \n\nIf you make the first move, do pull back after the first kiss to gauge his or her response. \n\nDo keep your lips soft and the muscles relaxed\u2014not hard or tight. \n\nDo keep your tongue in your mouth (see above). \n\nDo linger for a moment after the kiss. Especially for a smile. \n\nDo pay attention to where your noses are going and avoid a collision. \n\nDon't approach the kiss with your mouth open. \n\nDon't worry if you collide! Laugh and move in again slow. \n\nDon't jam your tongue in his mouth. \n\nDon't slobber! \n\nDon't make yummy noises\u2014yet. \n\nDon't make overly loud kissing or \"smacking\" noises. \n\nDon't let your hands wander. \n\nDon't start off with bites or suction. \n\nDon't rush\u2014savor this moment, even if you're nervous. \n\nDon't worry about what you look like. \n\nDon't attempt this kiss if you're not feeling well. \n\nDon't finish the kiss abruptly, even if you don't like it. \n\nDon't forget to breathe! \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that focuses on the importance of the mouth and its role in creating an erotic and seductive experience. The chapter should discuss the power of the mouth as a visual and versatile sex organ, and provide tips on how to make the most of its potential. This includes suggestions for making the lips appear fuller and more attractive, as well as information on the role of the tongue and its many tactile talents. The chapter should also provide guidance on how to use the mouth to create different sensations and experiences during a kiss, such as suction, licks, and various combinations of strokes. The chapter should be written in a friendly and engaging tone that encourages readers to experiment with their own mouths and discover their unique kissing style. The chapter should also include examples and scenarios to help readers understand the concepts.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 3_**\n\n**YOUR MOUTH: HE'S GOTTA HAVE IT**\n\nWhen it comes to erotic hot spots on the human body, nothing beats our most visual and versatile sex organ, the mouth. With our mouth, uniquely controlled by hundreds of muscles, we can communicate intentions, ideas, and desires, and we can deliver kisses that make him feel like he's in Nirvana. \n\nWe forget how powerful our pretty little mouths are. Without a word, we can smile and flirt, we can warm up a room or a lover with peals of laughter, and most especially we can lick, bite, taste, smell, and literally inhale sex through our mouth. A sexy mouth suggests that one sensual opening can lead to another, elsewhere on the body, or in the heart and mind. Our lips suggest contours of genitalia,  and a hint of wetness or the appearance of a tongue implies much more\u2014sex itself. \n\nAnd as owner of this highly sensitive and tactile sensory organ, we do love to put things in our mouth. You've no doubt heard the term _orally fixated_ in polite company in reference to smoking cigarettes. Inevitably everyone within earshot gets a little tingle from the implications. \n\nIt is true that as a culture we're orally fixated, constantly looking for the next thing going into our mouth, and it's equally true that the right kind of oral stimulation can really turn us on. So maybe we're just a bunch of orally obsessed hedonists\u2014so what? Soak up all the pleasure your lips, tongue, and mouth can afford you. Use it to its erotic maximum every chance you get, and see how your love life explodes. \n\n# **Hot Lips**\n\nCut to the chase, sexy. Recognize your mouth for the sex organ it is: treat it accordingly, and learn the many delightful things you can do with it before you even kiss. A healthy-looking mouth sends signals to potential partners on subtle levels. Make your entire mouth even sexier by giving it extra attention the next time you brush your teeth. Along with  your lips, brush your tongue to make it look smoother and sexily pink, and be sure to brush the roof of your mouth\u2014an oft-forgotten spot that, if ignored, can contribute to bad breath. \n\nLips are unabashedly sexual, and they cannot be hidden. So turn up the volume, already. Delight in your lips. They are the most expressive, sensual erogenous zone we've got\u2014and they're right there on your face. When someone is interested in you, he'll look at your lips almost as much as your eyes. To subliminally suggest sex, you can slyly direct him to look at your lips throughout the communication, whether you're talking or not. \n\nDeepen the color of your lips even just slightly and you'll draw erotic attention to this powerful visual erogenous zone. You don't need to wear lipstick, though sexy shades (or even a tinted moisturizer) go a long way to attract attention and magnetize your prey. Keep your lips exfoliated by rubbing them lightly with your toothbrush daily, or use your regular exfoliating scrub lightly on your lips each time you use it on your face. This will slough off any dead cells, keep away dry flat bits, and make your lips look supple and naturally healthy. Follow up with a moisturizing balm and a coat of something glossy for extra-sexy appeal. \n\nOur lips swell during arousal, giving off a rosy flush that communicates passion and lust to our lovers on an  animal level. Amp up the lip plump by drawing blood to them via daily exfoliation. Several companies now sell \"lip plumping\" glosses and lipsticks (most notably Lip Venom by Du Wop) that boost your lips slightly or smooth out the lip surface and fill in the cracks to make lips look larger. \n\nIf you feel your lips need more than a gloss or a tingly boost from lip plumpers, there are a number of multi-step lip care regimens you can employ to get your lips in ultra-pretty, kissable shape. Beyond using a high-quality moisturizer such as Nivea, Lanc\u00f4me, Laura Mercier, or even Biotherm, a lip-beautifying routine might be just what the lip doctor ordered. The multi-step methodology typically includes exfoliation, extracting impurities (using a lip mask), smoothing, moisturizing, and promoting the production of collagen (to prevent aging and wrinkles where your lips meet facial skin). Brands include Serious Lip Treatment by MD Skincare, Eminence Lip Trio Kit, and Mary Kay's Satin Lips two-step process. \n\n# **Talented Tongue**\n\nUnlike our lips, our tongue is a naughty, haughty, pink, wet, fleshy, unashamedly sexual body part\u2014and therefore typically kept hidden. A muscle of many tactile talents, the tongue is a clever little package of muscles, glands, and sensitive nerves. Nerves lead from the tongue to the brain, which within an instant of contact sends sensations of touch, scent, and taste. The \"flavor\" of anything we put in our mouth is a complex combination of taste, smell, touch, texture or consistency, and temperature sensations. \n\nYour lips, tongue, and mouth are controlled by hundreds of muscles that never rest as you smooch, smile, scowl, unconsciously clench your jaw, or suck on your tongue. This diligent network of muscles allow us to soften our lips, pull them apart, draw them closed to an _O_ , and to point or lightly stroke with our tongue. You can lengthen your tongue, shorten it, or move it in a variety of directions while kissing, and your neck and jaw muscles work in tandem to give your tongue greater versatility. These muscles also make the insides of the mouth into a means of suction that can draw lemonade through a straw, or give a kiss an especially naughty twist when you lightly give his inquiring tongue a sucking tug. There are dozens of strokes, licks, and various combinations of suction that you'll want to incorporate into your oral arsenal. \n\n# **Mouth Moves**\n\nThese basic moves might sound silly at first, but try them a few times to get the hang of them. They'll be the basis for kissing techniques later in this book, and they'll get your mouth in shape, make you aware of your mouth's moves, and give you ideas for ramping up your personal kissing style. Try these at home when you're alone, even in front of a mirror if you want. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Pucker your lips. Hard and small, softer and wider, very soft and very wide (a half-smile). \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Purse your lips. Like blowing a kiss: firm and short, soft and fluid, like Marilyn Monroe. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Point your tongue. Stick it out a little, then a lot. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Look in the mirror and soften your tongue. Extend it soft. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Sweep your tongue around your lips\u2014pointed and hard, then flat and soft. \n\n\u2740 Suck on your sensitive little finger\u2014a little, then a lot. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Kiss the palm of your hand softly, then more firmly; then see how it feels to mash your lips into it. Your palms are sensitive and perfect for practicing the sensations of kissing his lips, face, neck, and more. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 On the back of your hand, practice tongue strokes and see how they might feel for your sweetie. Poke, lick, flatten your tongue and sweep, draw letters of the alphabet with the tip. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Make your lips into an _O_ and suck on your palm. Apply suction to draw sensation to the area and then lightly rub your teeth across the sensitive spot. \n\n# **The Wicked Kisser**\n\nFeeling naughty, darling? Draw them into your wicked web by making your whole aura into a seductive hot zone, with your kisses at the center of it. Before you learn to seduce someone else's senses with your super-sensual kisses, you'll need to get in touch with the sensuality and sexuality in your own body. \n\nNot everyone feels she's hot all the time, and not everyone needs to be told how to feel sexy, but doing a few nice things for yourself can get you in the right head space for kissing. Then you can build a set of tools (a sensual checklist) to give you confidence and sexiness when you may not be feeling so hot, are feeling nervous, or really want to unleash every trick in the book on your unsuspecting target. \n\n# **Sex Up Your Lips, and the Rest Will Follow**\n\n## _**Touch**_\n\nSplurge on a massage or spa treatment to get back in touch\u2014literally\u2014with your body. Let someone else do all the work while you relax and enjoy healing touch from a massage therapist. Or take a hot bath and treat yourself to some new lotions and potions\u2014have a self-care beauty night. Create some private time to touch your own body the way you'd like a lover to, and let your fantasies run wild. \n\n## _**Sight**_\n\nHow you look affects how you feel. Purchase items or treatments that make you look polished, sexy, and hot. Get a manicure or pedicure, a facial, a haircut\u2014go in for a wash-and-dry style, just for fun. Indulge in a new lip color or gloss, a new makeup color, or accessories for your ears, hair, and neck. Buy a new item of sexy, comfortable clothing, something relaxed but seductive\u2014or put on an old favorite. \n\n## _**Smell**_\n\nAromatherapy really works to make us feel sexy, sensual, and at ease with ourselves. If you're the kind of person who wears a fragrance, then you've got it covered with your favorites, but you can also mix things up with a new scent, just for kicks. Those who prefer more subtle ways of scenting their skin should pick up a sexy-smelling new lotion\u2014with a bit on the nape of the neck, your world smells instantly sexier. If your hair covers your ears, you can put a little scent in your hair, or use a yummy-smelling conditioner for when things get deliciously close. \n\n## _**Sound**_\n\nGreat music to kiss by is covered later in this book\u2014right now you're going to focus on making yourself sound sweetly seductive. Becoming intimate, in the build-up to the moment of a kiss, means weaving a spell with everything about your mouth: every word you speak\u2014even whispered\u2014will have to be sexy and seductive. Make your voice one of your captivating charms, and learn how to modulate it effectively to the point of contact, and beyond. \n\nFind your sexiest voice. Some people have a difficult time hearing their own voice and might find that trying a few voice exercises gives them a sexier and more resonant sound. Practice speaking not from your throat but from the center of your chest, and power the air from your stomach muscles. Stretch the muscles on your jaw, lips, and tongue to relax your face. Learn to speak softly by lowering your volume (loudness) and pitch (lower notes), but play with resonance. \n\nTry a sentence in a low whisper, deeper than your normal voice. Then try it louder, still a bit deeper. Next, hum, keeping your mouth closed. Now speak the sentence in your low whisper, but with the same resonance as the hum. You'll use these different techniques to find the sexy voice that works best for you, and also to gauge volume over music, to match up with your kissing partner's volume, and turn it down as you move in for a kiss. \n\n## _**Taste**_\n\nHow you taste to your kissing partner is one thing (more about flavored kisses and other tricks in a bit), but how cultivated and sensual your tasting abilities are is another thing altogether. Wake up those taste buds! A delicious kiss can be like a long, delirious drink of water when you're thirsty,  and you'll want to be able to drink in how your lover tastes to the fullest. Sharpen your sense of taste, and heighten your sexuality, by sampling food with aphrodisiac qualities. \n\nFoods with sexual reputations cover a variety of sumptuous textures, perfect for getting you in the right kissing state of mind. Some classics: strawberries with chocolate sauce, a salad of quartered figs, shredded basil with drips of balsamic vinegar, warmed honey, avocados, vanilla bean (can be in ice cream), licorice, candied rose petals, and mango or papaya spears wrapped in mint leaves. \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that provides a humorous and playful field guide to identifying different types of kissers. The chapter should include descriptions of each type of kisser, along with their appearance, attitude, ideal first kiss scenario, and any kissing do's and don'ts. The chapter should cover a variety of types, including the Rock Star, Yuppie, Art School Brat, Marketing Executive, Supervillain, Hero, Gangster, Romantic, Man Slut, Male Model, Rough Trade, and Geek Boy. The chapter should also discuss different types of kisses, such as the First Kiss, Goodnight Kiss, Romantic Kiss, Good-bye Kiss, Sweetheart Kiss, Lusty Kiss, Taste of What's to Come, Kama Sutra Kiss, Drunk Kiss, Gladiator Kiss, Mad Mack Attack Kiss, French Kiss, Angel Kisses, Eskimo Kisses, Snuggle Bunny Kisses, and Scary Kisses. The chapter should be written in an engaging and entertaining tone that encourages readers to have fun with their kissing experiences.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 4_**\n\n**KISSING: A FIELD GUIDE**\n\nFirst, let's see who's on the menu, and what he might taste like for a nibble. A field guide to identifying the different types of kissing animals in the smooching zoo can help you find the perfect fit. Will he kiss like a Rock Star, or make love with his lips like a Geek Boy? Learn the difference, see how they like their first kisses, and wow the kiss-target of your dreams into kissing bliss with the right techniques. \n\n# **The Hunters and the Hunted**\n\n## _**Rock Star**_\n\nAppearance: Fashionably disheveled, trendy, and sexy. \n\nAttitude: Ready to rock those lips harder than Judas Priest. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Backstage, in the limo, in a trashed hotel room, or in an atmospheric alleyway. \n\nKissing don't: Rock stars are born to rock. Let the rocker make the first move. \n\n## _**Yuppie**_\n\nAppearance: Wrinkle-free. \n\nAttitude: Willing to fog up glasses and spill latte for the greater good of kissing. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Tastes like Starbucks or California Zinfandel. \n\nKissing don't: Loves playfully aggressive kissers, hates overeager or domineering. Know the difference. \n\n## _**Art School Brat**_\n\nAppearance: Thrift-store trendy; no spending limit on hairdo. \n\nAttitude: While others kiss like lower beasts, to them kissing is an art. \n\nIdeal first kiss: After completion of most recent master-piece, or off-hours in the studio. \n\nKissing don't: Too sensitive to make the first move, they'll give up and make a video blog if you wait for them to kiss you. \n\n## _**Marketing Executive**_\n\nAppearance: Sinister, like a politician. Nice suits. \n\nAttitude: There's a time for kissing and a time for world domination of my brand\u2014er, work. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Office, after hours. \n\nKissing don't: Never talk during kisses, unless it's dirty talk about corporate branding. \n\n## _**Supervillain**_\n\nAppearance: Evil like the Marketing Executive but with more Spandex and a fluffy white cat. \n\nAttitude: Hell-bent on destroying all that is good and nice. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Secret lair, private island, castle, top of the Washington Monument after starting clock on doomsday device. \n\nKissing don't: Never smooch in front of the do-gooder enemies and heroes. It just doesn't look right. \n\n## _**Hero**_\n\nAppearance: Proud, big chin, cape. \n\nAttitude: Evil must be stopped, blah, blah, blah. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Suspended over a pit of alligators right before escape, after saving you, or out of costume when you think he's someone else. \n\nKissing don't: This one's IQ plummets like a lead balloon with a kiss, so only kiss after danger has passed\u2014unless you're the danger. \n\n## _**Gangster**_\n\nAppearance: Changes by location; can be gold chains, a pimpin' ride, and baggy pants, or Italian suits and fedoras. \n\nAttitude: Gimme some sugar, baby. \n\nIdeal first kiss: After watching _Scarface_. \n\nKissing don't: Not during _The Sopranos_ or in front of \"the boys.\" \n\n## _**Romantic**_\n\nAppearance: Bedroom eyes and mussy-touseled hair. \n\nAttitude: Kissing is a beautiful thing shared between two people. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Mountaintop, picturesque vista, picnic for two, movie theater. \n\nKissing don't: The first kiss has to be perfect with this one; don't rush it. \n\n## _**Man Slut**_\n\nAppearance: Partly undressed; gold chains or cutoff jean shorts a bonus. \n\nAttitude: Who's going home with the king tonight? Or, who's next? \n\nIdeal first kiss: As often as possible. \n\nKissing don't: Don't expect that quantity means quality\u2014this one's been around the block and back (and forth, and back) because he's not one for polishing his technique. But for quickie smooches, it's always a sure thing with a slutmuffin. \n\n## _**Male Model**_\n\nAppearance: A little too perfectly done, and all eyes are on him. \n\nAttitude: Kissing me will make you look like a star. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Only in flattering lighting, no tongues, and definitely no hickeys. If anyone sees it, it will have to look perfect. \n\nKissing don't: Under no circumstances do you mess up the hair! The hair is sacred. \n\n## _**Rough Trade**_\n\nAppearance: Sexy stubble, jeans, work boots, and a dimpled smile. \n\nAttitude: I work hard, and I kiss like I mean it. \n\nIdeal first kiss: At the end of a great date, with him taking the lead. \n\nKissing don't: Unless you smell like you ate too many cocktail weenies, it's tough to go wrong with this easy-going smoocher. \n\n## _**Geek Boy**_\n\nAppearance: Clothes don't fit, soft and sweaty hands, pale skin, blinded by sunlight, brain like a supercomputer. \n\nAttitude: Afraid of girls but can't stay away. They tend to be inexperienced kissers, yet sincere. Once uncorked, their sensual powers are frightening. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Um, any. \n\nKissing don't: Quick movements will frighten them, but soft kisses will soothe. \n\nAnyone can kiss. But a kisser who knows her moves is a force to reckon with. A scandalous agenda helps, but becoming familiar with the full range of kisses\u2014what they mean, how to use them, and when to bring out the big guns\u2014makes them roll over and bark the minute your lips enter the room. With all the right moves, that Goodnight Kiss will be a doozy, you'll know how to deliver the prefect Taste of What's to Come, and how to identify and avoid the horrifying Fish Tank Kiss. \n\n# **Types of Kisses**\n\nSome kisses are standard\u2014the Goodnight Kiss is known by kissers worldwide as the end of a perfect, or less than perfect, night. Other kisses are magic tools and a bit more mysterious, such as the Nuzzle. Whether they're famous or infamous, know your weapons and predicaments, and you'll be a kissing superstar. \n\n## _**The First Kiss**_\n\nThe most talked about, written about, and stressed about kiss on the planet, the First Kiss is the stuff that fond  memories are made of. Or scary urban legends. It's usually thought of as the first kiss between would-be lovers but it can sometimes happen so spontaneously that it's as if you're not in control\u2014the body is having its own fun while the brain spins its wheels in giddy confusion. A first kiss is a romantic kiss, and if it's shared between friends, it can change _everything_. \n\n_**Great First Kisses**_\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\nThe Sweetheart Kiss  \nThe Lusty Kiss  \nThe Kama Sutra Kiss  \nThe Mad Mack Attack Kiss \n\n## _**The Goodnight Kiss**_\n\nAt the end of the evening, when you and your date are about to part ways, it's time for the Goodnight Kiss. Sometimes this is the much-anticipated First Kiss, though it can also be a sweet thank-you for a nice evening, or a kiss known as the Taste of What's to Come. All humanoids know that a Goodnight Kiss can turn into so much more. That's why we like it. When this kiss is shared between friends who feel a spark of attraction beneath all that friendship mumbo jumbo, we see just how close two friends can get. If you want to stay neutral yet let him know you like him more than a pat on the back, a well-placed Goodnight Kiss lands on the cheek. If you want to send a direct message that you're attracted, plant a light one on the lips. \n\n## _**The Romantic Kiss**_\n\nEverything is perfect\u2014or not\u2014for this intimate and compelling kiss. Romance is so much more than the setting\u2014you can have a romantic kiss in a beautiful garden on a summer's day or at a bus stop in a crappy neighborhood. What matters is the intimacy, the connection, and the rose-colored glasses. When you both feel hot for each other and the whole world melts away, it's a Romantic Kiss,  no matter where you are, who's watching, or what's going on around you. This kiss is all about the two of you, and it makes you the only two people in the world. \n\n## _**The Good-bye Kiss**_\n\nThis can be the fondest farewell, or the kiss-off, depending on how your date went. As a parting gesture it can be sweet and romantic, nervous and exciting, or a final sayonara that can be bittersweet or cold. Typically a kiss on the lips, it can also be a kiss on the cheek or forehead if you don't know him very well or want to keep your friendship within limits. Usually the \"good-bye\" is said while delivering the kiss\u2014but some sneaky dates might turn the Good-bye Kiss on the cheek into a Romantic Kiss with a quick turn of the head. Be on guard! \n\n## _**The Sweetheart Kiss**_\n\nLight like a butterfly, yet it sends electric shocks up and down his spine\u2014this kiss is delivered sweetly and packs a punch. This is one of the more erotically potent kisses without getting too naughty. The Sweetheart Kiss is a style  of kiss that can be delivered anywhere, anytime you want to focus his attraction to you. These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue, planted on any exposed part of the body that looks inviting. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Purse your lips, then press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. After that, move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation. \n\n## _**The Lusty Kiss**_\n\nThis is much like a Sweetheart Kiss, but with more pressure, and you linger as long as you want\u2014make it last, and it'll be lusty. In addition, use your hands on his face, neck, and hair (unless he's a male model), and include subtle movements of your head\u2014but no tongue yet. This is the kiss that lights his fire, a nice transition from Sweetheart-kissing to French-kissing (see below), and it says that you're ready to do more than peck each other on the lips or cheeks. Give this one when you're ready to really show 'em you want 'em bad, and you're willing to be bad to get what you want. \n\n## _**The Taste of What's to Come**_\n\nTruly mischievous kissers of every gender know all about this kiss\u2014and it's a secret weapon used by femmes fatales worldwide. This is the kiss that the female double agent gives James Bond so he doesn't blow her cover, the kiss that says you're as hot for him on the inside as you look on the outside. Often a full-mouthed French Kiss (see below), it has an urgency and lust matched by no other kiss; it shows him you've got more moves to make him melt than he can imagine. With this kiss you are the aggressor\u2014you lead the kiss from beginning to end. \n\nPull him close, making eye contact. As you pull his lips to yours, slide your hands up to the back of his head (or cradle his neck if his hair is perfect), and press your body fully against his. Then leap into the kiss, pressing against him more as you pull him into you, firmly caressing his neck or head with your hands the whole time. French-kiss deeply, then pull away as you pull his head back. Smile wickedly, and continue eye contact. \n\n## _**The Kama Sutra Kiss**_\n\n_The Kama Sutra_ has long been revered as a source for romance and eroticism, being simultaneously sexual and subtle in its lingering appreciation of all the senses involved in a simple act of intimacy. The Kama Sutra Kiss, a nose-and-lips combination, is an excellent cuddling, sensual, and nuzzling kiss that can even be done in public without being too brazen. A sign of genuine affection, intimacy and tenderness, it can last from a few seconds to several minutes. The Kama Sutra can be done on any part of the body, but creases, folds, and bends, such as the nape of the neck, between the shoulder blades, behind the ears, and under the jaw, are ideal. \n\nIt's simple and feels sexy. Start by moving your lips close to the target area on his skin. Purse your lips for a kiss. Right when you make contact with skin, inhale and gently press your lips and nose into the skin, moving your head back and forth slightly to rub your face around on the spot. Give little Sweetheart Kisses as you nuzzle. This kiss is also wonderful for slowing down any bedroom action, deepening intimacy during lovemaking, or making a seduction into a pivotal take-down experience. It's like the \"slow food movement\" of kisses. \n\n## _**The Drunk Kiss**_\n\nSometimes confused with the Romantic Kiss, the Drunk Kiss happens more times then we want it to. It tastes like booze, makes you dizzy, and often leaves you with a sense of confusion and regret the next day (along with a pounding headache). Drunk Kisses are sloppy, drooling, and unattractive to passersby, yet for some reason you always think you look really glamorous and hot while you're going at it. In reality, to sober observers, you actually look like a Nature Channel documentary on gastropod mating\u2014two pink slugs wrestling in slow motion under a waterfall. And if you can't remember it the next day, be certain that everyone else will. \n\n## _**Gladiator Kiss**_\n\nThis kiss is all him Tarzan, you Jane, and if you don't mind being moved around like a diminutive doll, when he's good at it, the Gladiator can be a pretty fun ride. Having a guy grab you and kiss you hard, as though he really means it, is hot, especially if he pulls you close and the kiss takes you by surprise\u2014sometimes this is an instant turn-on. At worst, you'll feel as if you were being mauled by Bubba tryin' to \"show the little lady how a man kisses.\" You are  the conquest, and sure, it's all romantic in his eyes, but you might feel like a tenderized steak when he's done molesting your lips. \n\n## _**Mad Mack Attack Kiss**_\n\nIt's a stealth kiss. You sneak up on your kissing target and\u2014smooch! Can be done on total strangers you find really hot (avoid Armed Services personnel and guys with bodybuilder girlfriends), or on your sweetie when you want to give him a naughty surprise. Afterward, you may choose to pretend that nothing happened, keep walking to the snack table, or stick around for his bewildered reaction. \n\n## _**French Kiss**_\n\nThe most famous kiss in the world is a full, open-mouthed kiss using tongue and lips together in perfect harmony\u2014hopefully. You do not need to be French to deliver an excellent French Kiss. (And as of this writing, there is still no such thing as a Freedom Kiss.) The kiss begins with the meeting of slightly parted lips, then the lips open, and out come the tongues for a little _parlez-vous_. A side effect of  French-kissing is that both parties will have an increased amount of oral lubrication (read: drool), which is a turn-on for some and a gross-out for many others. Some kissers can French for seemingly hours and find it a wonderful pastime. \n\nFrench-kissing can get pretty wet, so if slippery kisses don't float your boat, then alternate French Kisses with smooches on the neck, ears, and other kissable body parts. Sips of water also help\u2014they give you a second to breathe and smile seductively before diving back in. French-kissing is also not limited to the mouth; some people find fun in Frenching their lover's ears and even the nose! One of the great things about the French Kiss is the creative freedom that comes with it: you can improvise, try out new techniques, or use a variety of techniques to craft your own French Kiss style. There are no rules for this kiss, other than that you enjoy it! \n\n\u2740 Run your tongue around the teeth and gums  \n\u2740 Play with the tongue, taste it, push it around, caress it  \n\u2740 Nip at his teeth, lips, and tongue with your lips  \n\u2740 Kiss or probe deeply and gently with your tongue  \n\u2740 Apply suction on the tongue  \n\u2740 Dart your tongue in and out, slowly or rapidly  \n\u2740 Suck gently with your mouth  \n\u2740 Pull away slightly in midkiss, then go in for more \n\n## _**Angel Kisses**_\n\nSo light they almost tickle, these kisses are not done with your mouth, but rather with your eyelashes. Angel Kisses consist of fluttering your eyelash against a sensitive (and sexy) body part to deliver a feathery tickle. Popular Angel Kiss spots include his cheek, lips, eyelids, ears, neck, nipples, and genitals. \n\n## _**Eskimo Kisses**_\n\nA playful favorite for many lovers, these kisses are done with the nose instead of the mouth. Typically, you and your partner rub noses together in an Eskimo Kiss. But see the Kama Sutra Kiss (above) for techniques on other parts of the body. \n\n## _**Snuggle Bunny Kisses**_\n\nSo romantic, so cute\u2014this is the ultimate in intimate, loving kisses. You don't need to be in love to share Snuggle Bunnies; you share these nuzzling, closed-mouthed, soft-lipped pecks and smooches of all kinds, on exposed areas of skin, when you're lying down, wrapped around each  other, at a tender, quiet moment. These signify extreme affection for one another. They are perfect before and after sex, in front of a fire or TV, or even on a picnic blanket in a public place. \n\n##  **Scary Kisses**\n\nKissing isn't always butterflies and bunnies\u2014there are kisses (and kissers) out there that make us want to flee. Or at least will have you checking your watch midway through what started as a sexy smooch but turned into the longest twenty seconds of your life. \n\nBut what if you really like the guy? Teach him what you like in kissing. Play a kissing version of follow-the-leader: tell him to do exactly what you do. Reward good behavior with yummy noises, moaning, squeezes with your hands. Discourage deviation from your lesson by pulling back to stop the kiss. \n\n_**Is he a scary smoocher? Learn to identify these hazardous kisses:**_\n\n**The Fish Tank Kiss:** Every girl's nightmare. He's totally cute, funny, the conversation is good\u2014but then you kiss and it feels like he's trying to clean the inside of your mouth as if it was a fish tank. As the minutes pass more slowly than you ever thought possible, you wonder if he's actually looking for treasure. His tongue is too hard, and it darts about quickly and all pokey. You are usually too stunned to decide whether you should wait it out or hold up a \"send help\" sign. Toss this one back into the sea. \n\n**The Chewing Gum Kiss:** You've seen these before\u2014a couple joined at the mouth, lips locked in a deep French-kissing session that looks like they're about to gnaw each other's head off. Don't worry, everyone will be fine, but this combination of French Kiss and Fish Tank Kiss with extreme jaw movement looks pretty scary if you watch too many horror movies. \n\n**The Limp Noodle:** So sad, the Noodle. When you lock lips and start to French, and his lips just hang there and his tongue lies there like a slug, you have a Limp Noodle on your hands. No matter how much you push, massage, and prod his tongue to bring it back to life, it plays possum, dead in the middle of the road. There is nothing you can do\u2014you're basically giving mouth-to-mouth to this guy. \n\n## _**Mercy Kisses**_\n\nSometimes you kiss for fun, and sometimes you just have to give a kiss out of pity\u2014hence the Mercy Kiss. You give these kisses when you feel bad about something, want your date to look good (even though you aren't into him), or just feel sorry for the poor sap. Only in the movies do these kisses turn into a blazing romance. If you end up on the receiving end of a Mercy Kiss, just enjoy it and then excuse yourself to go wash your cat. \n\n## _**The Zombie Kiss**_\n\nAnother nightmare kiss many of us have experienced, which seems to come from beyond the grave. It's as if all the life drains out of him as he comes in for a kiss: the eyes flutter, clamp shut, or roll back into his head. His face goes slack and lifeless. And the most horrifying part of all: his mouth opens up into a gaping maw, threatening to swallow you whole. Sometimes the Zombie Kisser comes at you like a lost extra from _Night of the Living Dead_ , mouth agape, with a shiny pink sluglike tongue pointing out at you. Scream! Run! Barricade the doors and windows! \n\n## _**The Zoolander Kiss**_\n\nEver wonder what it would be like to kiss an international male model? The Zoolander makes you feel like you're a pretty prop designed to make him look good as he poses, shifts, and gives his \"sexy\" face to the world while kissing you. Would he notice if you were gone? Probably not. The Zoolander Kiss is meant purely to compliment the physical beauty of the man kissing you\u2014it's not for anyone's actual physical pleasure. It's used when trying to impress others or to make someone jealous. \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that provides detailed instructions on various kissing techniques. The chapter should include explanations and examples of light, intermediate, and intense techniques, as well as tips on using tempo, pacing, and body language to enhance the kissing experience. The chapter should also discuss the importance of paying attention to hot spots on the body, such as the cheek, ears, eyes, fingers and hands, feet and toes, forehead, and neck, and provide guidance on how to kiss and touch these areas. The chapter should be written in an engaging and informative tone that encourages readers to experiment with different techniques and find their own unique kissing style.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 5_**\n\n**DELIVER A KNOCKOUT KISS**\n\nThe kiss that conquers all is your key to paradise\u2014so it's important to have a full arsenal of techniques at your disposal. Anyone would be lucky to plant one on your lips\u2014especially when you've got the skills to make him melt. \n\nIt's all about style, delivery, and hot spots. With a range of methods to choose among you can develop your own kissing style. Depending on how you feel, or how hot you want him to feel, you can start with nibbles, progress to licks, and on to passionate lip presses. Or make it hotter by adding light lip suction and tongue-to-tongue caresses. Meanwhile, between techniques, you can whisper sweet nothings into his mouth, exciting him even more. \n\nYou'll want to know a full range of techniques so you can adjust your style to match that of your partner\u2014an extremely valuable skill. For instance, if your kissing partner starts out lightly grazing your lips, will you know how to return the kiss\u2014or how to gently take it to the next level? Then, when your kissing session really heats up, use advanced, expert tricks to show him you're a make-out master. And don't forget that great kissing isn't just about using your mouth\u2014it's about making the most of your hands and body movements and smooching those sexy hot spots all over his body. \n\n# **Techniques**\n\nKissing techniques come in three main categories: light, intermediate, and intense. Lighter techniques are perfect for first kisses, short kisses, starting out a kissing session, cooling off a particularly hot encounter, and ending a kiss. Intermediate techniques are yummy filling\u2014use these for the duration, mixed liberally with light or intense techniques, depending on how you want the make-out session to go. Intense techniques are exactly that\u2014serious turn-ons, secret weapons, the techniques you pull out when there's no turning back. \n\nIn your kissing sessions, try a sequence of light kisses, followed by intermediate, then intense, then a brief pause, and repeat. People with glasses might want to take them off for an extended kissing session, and people with orthodontic braces will want to take care not to press too hard. Experiment with tempo and pacing. Practice the following techniques on the palm of your hand (the sensitive hollow, in the middle), then on a very lucky test subject. \n\n# **Appetizers**\n\n_**Nibble.**_ Nibbles are little bites using only your lips, or your upper lip with your tongue. When you nibble on a part of the body, lightly nip or squeeze the skin between your lips. You can nibble lightly, or with as much force as your lips can muster\u2014either way, the sensations will be pleasant. You can nibble anyplace on the body that sticks out: lips, nose, earlobes, nipples, or on wider expanses of skin such as cheeks, neck, chest, and stomach. \n\n_**Graze.**_ When you graze an area of his body, you simply brush your lips over it. This can be done with small, short movements, or long, wide strokes. Imagine your lips as a paintbrush. Try slow strokes or quick circles. A pair of lips can graze any area of his body, and this is a very sexy way to get acquainted with the scent of your sweetie's skin. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Trace.**_ Similar in technique to grazing, tracing can be done in all the same ways, but instead using the tip of your tongue. Trace around his lips as if applying lip balm, or trace strokes, shapes, and patterns on other parts of his body\u2014especially any hot spots. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Breathe together.**_ With both mouths open, nothing is sexier than inhaling someone's breath\u2014literally taking his breath away. Take turns. \n\n_**Sweet kisses.**_ These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Try your best to press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. Purse your lips, then press, then move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation. \n\n# **Dish of the Day**\n\n_**Speak.**_ Whispering or speaking gently into your partner's open mouth between kisses is incredibly arousing. Tell him how much you enjoy what you're doing, how good his lips/ tongue/kisses feel, how sexy he looks kissing you, or how excited you are. You can even tell him where you want him to touch or kiss you, if you're feeling daring. Moaning into his mouth is also extremely hot. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Lip presses.**_ These are similar to \"Sweet Kisses\" above, but without any movement, and more pressure. It sounds simple, yet it is very effective in focusing his attention on  your desire\u2014this technique communicates sensual directness. Purse your lips, press firmly against his lips, pull back. Repeat more slowly, controlling the kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Bottom lip/top lip.**_ This technique focuses your attentions on his top or bottom lip. You can play with one at a time, or single out one for extra-special attention. The popular lip for this technique is the bottom one, but the top lip is equally sexy and intimate to engage. Lick the lip you choose, nibble it, graze it, suck, and even give it a tiny bite. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Corners of the mouth.**_ Don't neglect the corners of his mouth when you're kissing\u2014it's easy to forget when you have a pair of sexy lips to nibble on! The corner is where the lips meet, at the edges. This is a highly sensitive area, and it deserves the sweetest kisses, lip presses, licks, and nibbles\u2014but it is so sensitive that you shouldn't overdo it. \n\n_**Open mouth, no tongue.**_ A terrific transition technique that can be used over and over at every stage. Open your mouth a little (never open wide) and kiss wetly, with a lot of lip motion. It's tempting to let your tongue poke out just a bit, but this kiss is much sexier (and there's less saliva) when you keep it in your mouth. Push, suck, pull, rub, and massage with your open lips, but never cover his whole mouth with yours or it'll have a suffocating effect that many people detest. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Roof of the mouth.**_ This is a highly controversial kissing area because it is so sensitive. Some guys like having the roof of the mouth lightly licked\u2014and if your kissee does, then do it a little, and back off. Others might dislike the sensation because it feels like a tickle, and they'll want to scratch it. Of course, if you're playing mischievous sex games and teasing each other, tickling the roof of his mouth is a sexy and highly intimate way to \"get his goat.\" \n\n# **Dessert**\n\n_**Suck.**_ I touched on light to moderate suction in earlier techniques, but when you're playing for higher stakes, creating  a vacuum with your lips and mouth sends a direct message of sex to your lover. Keep your lips soft and create a seal with your mouth, removing the air a little, or a lot. Suck lips, teeth, tongue, neck\u2014it doesn't have to be a perfect seal, and you can slip around playfully and even make a few sexy noises while you're at it. \n\n_**Lick.**_ Moisten your tongue before you lick, but be sure that it isn't too wet\u2014we all know how awful a slurpy lick can be. Point your tongue yet keep it soft (practice!), and brush it across his lips, lick the corners of his mouth, lick under his chin (if he's not too stubbly). Lick the neck, ears, and nape (base) of the neck. Use wide, flat strokes on wide areas. Make circles, spell words, or press with your tongue as you lick. You can even lick his teeth and tongue. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Probe.**_ This technique consists of inserting your tongue into his mouth and slowly, sensuously exploring the teeth and tongue, or the whole of his mouth. Don't rush this one, or use a hardened tongue, or the technique will backfire. Take your time and savor every moment, every flavor, every sensation. \n\n_**Tongue only.**_ This is a no-lip, tongue-only kissing technique. It will make you giggle and smile, or it will make you both very aroused. Make eye contact before you move in for the kiss, opening your lips in a half-smile and extending your tongue in an upward curve. When you reach his tongue, keep your tongue out of your mouth and play your two tongues together, taking a long time to feel the textures and flavor of his tongue, and have fun dancing your tongues around together. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**French-kissing.**_ Like the tongue-only technique, but advanced. This is an open-mouthed, full-contact kiss with both tongues completely engaged. Purse and press your lips together to begin the kiss, then, at the moment of contact, part your lips and sneak a gentle lick of his lips with your tongue. If his lips part (I bet they will), gently slip your tongue past his lips to taste his tongue. You may pull your tongue back and disengage to repeat the whole kiss over again, or you can linger and continue French-kissing. Touch and caress each other's tongues, taking a long time to feel and sense textures and tastes. Lick the center of his tongue, and the sides. Lick his front teeth, upper and lower. Take your time, and enjoy varying the pressure of your tongue and lips. Don't forget to keep your  lips in gentle motion\u2014with this technique, \"frozen\" or hard lips feel weird. \n\n# **Rock Your Body**\n\nYou're not just a pair of lips and a tongue when you're engaged in a kiss\u2014you have much more at your fingertips (literally) to stimulate your sweetie with and keep him riveted to your lips. Use your hands to touch his shoulders and neck, hold his cheeks (on his face, ahem), or cradle the back of his head. You can caress or grab, knead or massage. Stroke his hair, or if your passions are high, run your hands through his hair, or all over his sexy bald head, should that be the case. Touching his face will be a big, highly charged (and amazingly intimate) turn-on, so caress the forehead, eyes, cheekbones, jawline, even the lips, all while you are kissing. Keep your hands in motion throughout your kissing session. \n\nEye contact is also extremely important, though when your faces are very close you will want to close your eyes. The more eye contact you make between kisses, the more intense your kisses will become. When your heads come together for a kiss, close your eyes just at the point you feel your eyes straining, to avoid giving him a lingering view of you with your eyes crossed! \n\nA little movement behind the kiss feels heavenly. Move  your head just a little as you kiss\u2014but not so much that he has a hard time following your lips. Subtle movements will change the angle of your lips slightly, resulting in a very passionate kiss. The more intense your kissing becomes, the more you can nuzzle and push with your head and lips\u2014his reactions will tell you to keep going, or you can follow his lead. If he wants you to keep going, he'll return your push with enthusiasm, a return push, or even a little moan. \n\nDon't forget to smile between, and during, kisses. Smiling is extremely seductive, and it lets him know you're really enjoying yourself. And, occasionally, stop kissing and enjoy the pause that refreshes: hold his head in your hands, gaze into his eyes for a count of four, then resume kissing. \n\n# **Hot Spots**\n\nAlso known as erogenous zones, hot spots on the body make terrifically sensuous places to use your kissing techniques. While genitals are definitely an erogenous zone, I have left them out of the discussion for the purposes of this book. \n\n_**Cheek.**_ Kissing, grazing, and nuzzling the cheek feels wonderful and is almost guaranteed to make anyone smile. A light peck on the cheek can be a friendly greeting, a good-bye, or an excellent first-date kiss. \n\n_**Ears.**_ Kisses, licks, and gentle sucking can drive some guys absolutely wild. This is a serious hot spot, and even the lightest breath here will send shivers up his spine, raise ample goose bumps, and generally get instant attention. Some men become extremely aroused when you lick their ears or suck on an earlobe. Be highly aware that everything you do near an ear is very, very loud. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Eyes.**_ There's something uniquely tender about kissing someone's closed eyelid. Not many people do it, but it's very pleasant and quite unforgettable. Give him sweet kisses on his (closed) eyelids, eyebrows, the outside corners of the eyes, or just beneath the eyes. \n\n_**Fingers and hands.**_ Grab a hand and kiss and lick the upturned palm, or kiss, lick, and suck the fingertips. This technique is a man-melter, especially if you simulate fellatio on a finger (or fingers), while making eye contact. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Feet and toes.**_ Admittedly not a technique for everyone, yet one that some people really love giving and receiving. Some might get so turned on by having their (clean) feet kissed (top and underside), or having their toes sucked, or the sole of their foot licked, that they can barely control themselves. Others may be too ticklish or too self-conscious about their feet to enjoy it. Ask first. If he likes it, you can also rub his foot on your face and neck (or breasts!), and massage a foot as you kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Forehead.**_ A very tender, romantic place to kiss. A kiss here says, _I care about you_. \n\n_**Neck.**_ Like the ears, the neck is super sensitive and a sexually supercharged place to kiss. Lick, kiss, nibble, graze, even suck and bite on it\u2014though be aware that your kissee may not want you to leave any marks. Make his neck a canvas for all the different brushstrokes your tongue can paint, and remember that the harder you press with lips and tongue, the more aroused he'll get. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Shoulders.**_ An often-neglected area for kissing that communicates romance and tenderness. Not as sensitive as the neck, the shoulders do respond erotically to kisses, and they can give any human deep shivers. \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that provides detailed advice on kissing etiquette and how to handle awkward or unpleasant situations. The chapter should include a list of kissing do's and don'ts, as well as tips on how to deal with bad kissers, hickeys, and love bites. The chapter should also discuss common kissing catastrophes and provide remedies for each situation, such as burping during a kiss, accidentally biting too hard, or colliding with your partner's nose or teeth. The chapter should be written in an engaging and informative tone that encourages readers to approach kissing with confidence and respect for their partners.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 6_**\n\n**THE RULES OF THE GAME**\n\nIt's impossible to pick a great kisser out of a crowd. You just never know who's got the sweetest smooches until you kiss, and you certainly can't tell by looking. The only true way to know is to take the leap and kiss the toads\u2014and know what to do when everything goes wrong. We all know what to do when things go right: enjoy it, relax, go back for more, and more! Unfortunately, things don't always go so great and it's good to have a backup plan in case your make-out session turns into a make-out catastrophe. \n\nIf the hottie you finally get to kiss turns out to be a dud kisser, you need to decide whether it's worth continuing or you should execute your exit strategy. This has happened to every girl and boy alive, and how you deal with it can  change your partner's kissing habits for the better, or teach you how to pick a better kisser next time. Sometimes, it's our own approach that spoils the mood or turns a romantic kiss into a tragicomedy. Know your etiquette for every kissing scenario, and you can't go wrong. \n\n# **Kissing Do's and Don't's**\n\nKissing is one of life's greatest pleasures that can be shared by two. But not everyone is a perfect kissing match, and certainly not all kissers are created equal. Sadly, we encounter over a lifetime of kissing quite a few kissers who make elementary\u2014or truly awful\u2014kissing _faux pas_ , and it makes us wish that everyone with a pair of lips got their own user's manual. \n\nWouldn't it be great if there was a mandatory kissing politeness class in every high school? Here students would learn that kissing isn't a face-chewing contest. You do not get points for trying to box the tonsils with your tongue. Licking your lips too suggestively before a kiss looks really scary and gross. And above all, kissing is something you do together, rather than to or at another person. \n\nIt might be a very long time until kissing etiquette becomes required for graduation into the real world. Until  then, there are a few things to know that will keep you and those you kiss happy to be smooched. Show the following list to anyone you know who might benefit from the advice it offers. Even a friend who's dating someone she just discovered is a bad kisser\u2014it might give her some ideas. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Beautiful, brushed teeth, fresh breath, and supple, moisturized lips make you a delight to kiss. Anything less is a drag. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's okay to pull away and take a break from kissing without saying anything. It's okay for someone to want to stop completely and offer no explanation. You can talk about it later. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's not okay to expect a kiss in return for anything. Kisses are gifts, not currency. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Cradling your partner's head and face feels wonderful. As long as you're not trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Kissing isn't the checkered flag and starter gun to feel up  your date. Lip contact is not an invitation to ass grabbing or unhooking a bra. The good bits aren't going anywhere, and it is in your best interest to take your time. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 A kiss does not signify a willingness to have sex, ever\u2014no matter what kind of kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Never approach a kiss with an open mouth, or with an extended tongue. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Never open your mouth wider than your kissing partner's lips. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Poking with your tongue is annoying. You are not trying to make a phone call. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Not everyone will like the things you like, and that's okay. You may love to have your sensitive ears licked and breathed on, but he might hate it with a passion. Be open to all kissing styles. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Whenever you're in doubt about how things feel for your kissing partner, or even if it's the right time to kiss, ask. Your partner will be happy you care enough to ask. \n\n# **About Hickeys and Love Bites**\n\nIn previous sections about biting and sucking, I've cautioned about leaving marks on his skin, also known as hickeys or love bites. These marks happen when teeth bruise the skin or suction leaves a rashlike discoloration on the skin. The suction created by your mouth draws blood to the surface of the skin, breaking the little capillaries, and scraping your teeth over the skin makes them break even more, blossoming into blood bruises that can range in color from pink to purple. \n\nOverall, it's very bad for your skin and the nerve endings, and some say it can cause nerve damage. But for people who love these marks, and the way it feels to get a hickey, it's not a huge concern. Often these marks are made unknowingly\u2014it can be totally unintentional, a result of passion. People with sensitive skin or those who bruise easily will get hickeys often from little stimulation of their skin. \n\nNot everyone wants marks from kissing. The reasons can be many, including looking improper at work\u2014bosses, office mates, and customers may find hickeys offensive or unprofessional. If he asks you not to leave visible marks on his neck, do not take it personally or try to second-guess his reasons. It may seriously compromise his work environment or professional reputation, or he just may not want marks on his neck for the entire world to see. Family  members tend to frown on hickeys, as do officials, so if he's going to be appearing in court, seeing valuable or new clients, working in sales, or visiting relatives, be careful. \n\nIn general, it's a no-no to leave marks in visible places but forgivable in hidden spots. This varies from person to person. He simply might not like the way they look. Be sure to ask him how he feels about love bites before your kisses start to stray away from his mouth, and he'll be able to relax knowing he's with a considerate kisser. \n\n# **Kiss Catastrophes and Remedies**\n\nThere are great moments in kissing\u2014and then, most unfortunately, there are moments we simply wish had happened to someone else. Kisses should be shared, savored, mutually enjoyed. But sometimes that garlic you had for dinner turns into a horrifying burp, or you collide painfully when you wanted to connect soulfully, or the guy you thought might be a kissing artist is a kissing ingrate, a slobbery mess. What to do? Consult the following kissing cures and you'll be smooching a suitable partner like your sexy-bad self again in no time. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss and he said no. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ It's almost impossible to believe he could resist your wiles\u2014and yet somehow, he did. Do not fret or take it personally. Did he tell you why? If not, ask. Believe what he tells you and take it at face value as the truth, and decide later if you think he (or his answer) is for real\u2014while you decide if he's still worth it. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You have an awful rash from his stubble. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ See the next chapter for beard burn solutions. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ Your mouth slobbered too much at the wrong moment. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ It happens to the best kissers among us. We taste something good and our mouths overflow in the most ungrateful way. Apologize, smile, and laugh it off. Jokingly offer him a napkin. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ Burps or hiccups (yours) during a kiss. Worse, other gases are expelled. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ This is one of the most embarrassing of bodily mishaps. All you can think is Body! How can you betray me so?! Since these things are involuntary and we have little or no control over them, all you can do is say \"oops,\" smile, and laugh at the foul cards you have been dealt (hopefully not too foul, or you'll want to suggest kissing in a different room, or in a wind tunnel). \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ He turned out to be an awful kisser. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Consider whether he is good enough overall to retrain and keep. If not, it's time to say goodnight. Politely end the kiss with a smile and a few small parting pecks (try to avoid hurting his feelings with your sighs of disappointment), and thank him for a nice time. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You want him to go away! \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Moan really, really loud while kissing. Keep your eyes open and let your eyeballs roll up into your head with ecstasy. Between kisses, rock to and fro while humming. Continue your _Exorcist_ impersonation as needed. Alternatively, say an abrupt \"Thanks!\" and be on your merry way. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You had gum in your mouth, you hid it, and he found it. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Fess up on the spot. Ask if he is horrified. Tell him _you_ are. Instantly get over it. Continue kissing. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You bit a little too hard. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Did you give an unwanted surprise, or did you actually draw blood? Say you're sorry that you're so hungry and suggest that you adjourn for a snack (unless you have to apply a tourniquet to his tongue or face). \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss too fast and bonked heads/noses/teeth. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Giggle. Laugh. Pretend it hurt you a little more than it really did, and apologize. Ask if you can try again, and act silly about being extra careful. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ He keeps doing something you don't enjoy or that annoys you. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ If you want to keep kissing him, gently let him know you don't fancy the painfully hard lip sucking. Or if it's something really annoying, stop the kissing altogether  and be upfront about what's bugging you. Chances are good you're not the first to be bugged by this particular behavior, but you might be the first to let him know about it. This is helpful to him in the long run; you're doing him a favor. You can also politely suggest an alternate behavior: \"You know, I really like to start kisses with both mouths closed and work up to tongues after a long time. Can we try it my way for a little while?\" \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that focuses on advanced techniques and tricks to take your kissing to the next level. The chapter should include a list of different techniques such as using temperature, tickling, biting, and underwater kissing. It should also provide advice on sharing drinks and candy during a kiss, and suggest some movies with iconic kissing scenes to watch for inspiration. Finally, the chapter should discuss the importance of flavor in kissing, including tips on how to enhance your natural flavor and recommendations for flavored lip products.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 7_**\n\n**TAKE YOUR KISSING TO THE NEXT LEVEL**\n\nBeing a great kisser isn't just knowing the techniques of a good kiss, though that certainly helps. No, what transforms a good kiss into a badass, knee-buckling experience is having a few wicked tricks ready for action, anytime. Want to make him do a double-take the next time you kiss? Or make that first kiss the most arousing he's ever tasted by giving it a little twist he's never experienced? \n\nDon't just make yourself the master of the kiss with advanced tricks and treats. Be a kiss guru to lovers and friends by learning tricks that are turn-ons and tricks that make kissing more pleasant for everyone. Tell your friends how to give kisses that taste like their lover's favorite candy, or be the bringer of sage advice on how to cope with  stubble and the rash from mega mack sessions that result in beard burn. \n\nBest of all, these tricks and treats make your kissing world a lot spicier. Make your kisses legendary, the stuff of campfire tales, with advanced kissing techniques passed down through the ages from secret kissing societies and kissing masters, revealed here for the very first time. \n\n# **Tricks and Treats**\n\n_**Cold.**_ Chill the temperature of your mouth with ice or a cold drink before a kiss. Ice cream cools and flavors your mouth. You can even pass an ice cube mouth to mouth. This is a fun surprise trick. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Heat.**_ Make your mouth very warm before a kiss for an exciting surprise. Swish a hot beverage around for a second or two, swallow, then give him a kiss. \n\n_**Tickle.**_ Point your tongue into a hard tip and use it to tickle any area you like by flickering it in short, rapid movements. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Bite.**_ Easy, now\u2014take small, light bites with your teeth on lips, tongue, or areas of skin. Start very light, and be aware that some guys may not want you to bite them at all, or to leave marks (for a variety of reasons). If he appears to like it (moaning, pushing into your mouth), bite just a little bit harder. Give him almost what he wants\u2014then a little bit more. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Underwater.**_ While swimming, pull him under the surface for a smooch. The cold water will intensify the warmth of your mouths, and the water around the seal your mouths make feels amazing. A fun variation is kissing in the shower or under a waterfall. \n\n_**Upside down.**_ This is a lot of fun, and a very playful way to kiss. No one has to hang from a fire escape like Spider-Man (though it looks like fun), and it doesn't take a lot of coordination. One of you hangs your head off the edge of a bed, over the arm of a couch, or off the side of a swimming pool, and see what it's like to match mouths upside down. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Tongue suction.**_ This is a very naughty trick\u2014you essentially treat your partner's tongue as if it were a sensual lollipop, and give a little gentle in-and-out suction. Make a small _O_ shape with your mouth around his tongue, apply a little suction, and slide your lips back and forth, up and down his tongue. Vary your suction and rhythm, and pause intermittently to let the sensations sink in. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sharing a drink.**_ Have you ever really _shared_ a drink? Hold a small amount of delicious drink, such as Champagne or ambrosial fruit juice, in your mouth, and when you kiss, let a sip drain into his mouth. The sexier the beverage, the better. Daring kissers can employ this technique from above, letting the liquid literally drip into his  waiting mouth. To start, sip the liquid, kiss him, let a little bit slip into his mouth, then pull away as more liquid comes out. If it gets messy, lick it off his lips, chin, and neck. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sharing candy.**_ Decadent and delicious, nothing beats a slow-melting piece of butterscotch or peppermint shared by two. Pop it in your mouth, enjoy, and then pass it with a kiss. After a while, ask for it back. Repeat until the candy is gone. You can do this over the course of a party, movie, or make-out session. Can also be done with chewing gum. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sizzling candy.**_ Some candies \"pop\" or fizz when they make contact with the wet surface of your tongue. Shared by two, these candies can give a French Kiss quite a kick. \n\n_**Wind tunnel.**_ Suck the air from your partner's mouth, either slowly or rapidly, depending on the mood. Breathe hot air back in. This can progress to breathing into each other's mouth, a highly charged, sexy game. \n\n_**Swap techniques.**_ Tell him you want to be kissed using a technique he really enjoys receiving, then switch and kiss him in one of the ways you really like to be kissed. This is a fantastic way to learn what he likes and to show him what techniques you like best. \n\n_**A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration**_\n\n_**A Room with a View**_ , Helena Bonham Carter and Julian Sands \n\nShe's ambushed in a field of beautiful flowers. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Blade Runner**_ , Harrison Ford and Sean Young Sexy, beat-up tough guy kissing scene that sizzles. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Bull Durham**_ , Susan Sarandon and Kevin Costner An outrageous build-up to an outrageous kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Casablanca**_ , Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman \n\nA searing good-bye kiss. \n\n_**Gone with the Wind**_ , Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh \n\nThe ultimate conflict-turned-passionate kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**The Matrix Reloaded**_ , Keanu Reeves and Monica Bellucci \n\nShe wants to know what Neo's true love (Trinity) experiences when they kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Notorious**_ , Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman Long, unusual, playful, arousing. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Sixteen Candles**_ , Molly Ringwald and Michael Schoeffling \n\nUnforgettable, like many first kisses. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Some Kind of Wonderful**_ , Mary Stuart Masterson and Eric Stoltz \n\nKissing lessons that turn into much more. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Spider-Man**_ , Kirsten Dunst and Tobey Maguire Deep superhero kisses after a heroic battle can't be beat. \n\n# **Some Other Hot Make-out Flicks**\n\n_Belle de Jour_  \n_Henry and June_  \n_Dangerous Liaisons_  \n_Secretary_ (kinky)  \n_Eyes Wide Shut_  \n_The Scent of Green Papaya_  \n_Y tu mam\u00e1 tambi\u00e9n_\n\n# **Flavored Kisses**\n\nDo you taste good? Flavor your mouth with candy, tasty herbs (mint, basil, fennel), ice cream, or a drink of something delicious. He'll never forget that kiss if it tastes like butterscotch, peppermint, chocolate, or even something more exotic like basil, tamarind, or vanilla. Some will even get a charge out of the flavor of coffee or wine. But your kissee won't be back for more if your mouth is stale or tastes like an ashtray. \n\nWhen you know you'll be with someone you want to kiss, keep flavorful items nearby to make your mouth yummier. In a pinch, at a restaurant or bar, you can chew on a variety of garnishes readily available\u2014some might even be in your cocktail glass or sitting demurely on the edge of your dinner plate. \n\n_**Flavor Psychology**_\n\nTo be: cool  \nNibble: mint \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: sassy  \nNibble: lemon \n\nTo be: playful  \nNibble: lime \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: brazen  \nNibble: basil leaves \n\nTo be: mischievous  \nNibble: parsley \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: feisty  \nNibble: ginger \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: naughty  \nNibble: a cherry \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: dirty  \nNibble: an olive \n\nSome items might sound good for flavoring your mouth but are really a bad idea. These include mouthwash (especially Listerine), cough drops, garlic, nuts and seeds (too grainy, yuck), Cheetos, and artificially flavored drinks or snacks, which often leave a sour aftertaste. Never try to cover up strong flavors (such as the garlic you ate at dinner) with gum or mints\u2014it never works, and tastes really gross. \n\n_**Kissing Flavor Favorites**_\n\n\u2740 mints\u2014Altoids are intense!  \n\u2740 butterscotch candy  \n\u2740 red wine  \n\u2740 Champagne  \n\u2740 peaches  \n\u2740 cassis  \n\u2740 vanilla  \n\u2740 chocolate  \n\u2740 watermelon  \n\u2740 cinnamon  \n\u2740 licorice  \n\u2740 bubble gum  \n\u2740 honey  \n\u2740 sex \n\nIt's important to keep in mind that there might be flavor factors going on in your body that can adversely affect your flavor from within. Multivitamins can make your mouth taste like a health food store. Antihistamines (and drugs in general, be they prescription or otherwise) can make you taste like chemicals. And strong foods such as curries, garlic, asparagus, broccoli, beets, and red meats will affect your flavor as well. Cigarettes will make you taste like tobacco at best, and like an ashtray at worst. \n\nYou can, of course, sweeten yourself from within. If you take vitamins or antihistamines, try to drink lots of water and citrus juices to neutralize the funk these pills leave behind. Make your essence sweeter by adding citrus and other fruits, honey, and cucumber to your diet. Pineapple, lemon, lime, mango, papaya, banana, fresh ginger, and vanilla all make you taste great, and a few days of drinking creative smoothies with these ingredients will make your mouth into a decadent, kissable dessert. \n\n# **Flavored Lipsticks and Gloss**\n\nRemember junior high school, when the big thing was gooey-sweet strawberry lip gloss? Well, times have changed, and today's flavored and scented lipsticks and glosses  come in a variety of consistencies, colors, and flavors. To see a selection of the yummy treats you can spike your smooches with, take a trip to your nearest department store cosmetics counter or to Sephora. There are over a dozen makeup brands with gloss flavors in everything from latte to raspberry frosting, even chocolate martini. These lines of lip glosses add light sparkle and shine while flavoring and scenting your lips with candy flavors such as caramel, cherry, mocha, and more. And to make your kisses more alluring and interesting, the gloss in most of these products plumps up your lips a bit and tingles\u2014a sensation that can be felt by both kissers. \n\nMAC makes vanilla gloss, and Stila has passion fruit, watermelon, lime, and more. On the opposite end of the spectrum is the daily wear lipstick by Chanel, which is not flavored but smells literally like roses, a far cry from stinky, waxy-smelling drugstore shades. \n\nFlavored glosses and lipsticks make your lips smell inviting and taste sweet, but they're not for everyone. A fresh application combined with a heavy make-out session will have you both sticky from ear to ear, a natural, sometimes fun consequence, but one to consider. Some guys don't like lipsticks or glosses on their kissing partners, preferring to kiss _au naturel_ instead. \n\nWhen in doubt, ask. And don't forgo something you  really like for the sake of only one guy. On the other hand, many men will enjoy that you went the extra step to make kissing a little sexier, a little naughtier, and they won't mind a little stickiness for the sake of good, not-too-clean fun. If he's worried about messing it up, tell him you've got plenty more where that came from. \n\nYou're not limited to lip gloss if you want add an extra something to your kisses, and you don't have to color your lips if you only want to play around with scent or sensation. Lip moisturizers often contain menthols that cool and tingle your lips, resulting in a decadent icy-hot feeling. And when you kiss, it's a sensation shared by two! Look for brands such as Carmex and Blistex Medicated. Last, but not least, if you're looking to shine up your lips by adding glitter, know that it will turn your kisses into an abrasive, exfoliating, grit-in-the-teeth experience. \n\n_**Set the Mood with Music to Make Out By**_\n\n\"A Love Supreme,\" by John Coltrane  \n\"Avalon,\" by Roxy Music  \n\"Dummy,\" by Portishead  \n\"Endtroducing,\" by DJ Shadow  \n\"Exile,\" by Gary Newman  \n\"Fear of Fours,\" by Lamb  \n\"Heaven or Las Vegas\" and \"Victorialand,\"  \nby Cocteau Twins  \n\"Into the Night,\" by Julee Cruise  \n\"Kind of Blue\" and \"Sketches of Spain,\" by Miles Davis  \n\"Ki Oku,\" by DJ Krush  \n\"Le roi est mort,\" by Enigma  \n\"Let's Get Lost,\" by Chet Baker  \n\"Mezzanine,\" by Massive Attack  \n\"Passion Soundtrack,\" by Peter Gabriel  \n\"Play,\" by Moby  \n\"So Tonight that I Might See,\" by Mazzy Star  \n\"Telegraph,\" by Bjork  \nany album by Al Green  \nany album by Barry White  \nany album by Billie Holliday \n\n# **Stubble Burn\u2014and How to Avoid It**\n\nWhen he nuzzles your neck like a big happy kitty and he has just a hint of stubble, it can feel delicious in that scratchy-rough-yummy kind of way. But if you smooch for any period of time and he has short, prickly stubble, it can become quite uncomfortable and leave you with an angry burn\u2014on your face and lips! Exfoliation, the hard way. The more vigorous, intense, and extended the session, the higher your risk for rash. Some men grow facial hair faster than others, and a number of guys have stubble that seems razor sharp the minute it pokes out of his skin. When he's so kissable you have to throw caution to the wind, there are a few things both of you can do to ease the sting of stubble burn. \n\nFirst, know that a mack session with a stubbly guy is going to be like using a dry exfoliant on your face and lips. Try to go into the kissing session without washing or moisturizing your face, as your tender or moist face will just make you more susceptible to irritation. Afterward, wash your face and lips gently with a soothing cleanser and pat dry. Apply a moisturizer that is noncomedogenic, fragrance-free, and doesn't contain any mineral oils; otherwise, your face will break out or become irritated. If you're bright red and feeling the burn more than usual, use a moisturizer with aloe vera. Don't exfoliate the areas for at least two days. \n\nThere are many things he can do to help. He should be shaving with a really good, brand-new razor: opinions are heavily in favor of the Gillette Mach 3. Of course, if he skips a day or two of shaving, the stubble will be much softer and more comfortable to kiss than fresh stubble. Very short stubble, say, about 5-10 hours old, can be the most painful type, as the hairs are at their shortest and most inflexible. Ideally, he should skip a day of shaving, and then take great care to soften the stubble with hot water, hot towels, or even an application of hair conditioner. \n\nBoth parties should use a good lip salve afterward to condition the lips and help them heal. Blistex Clear Advance is the most highly recommended in this category. \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that focuses on becoming a 'make-out artist'. The chapter should provide tips on creating a connection, building confidence, and using body language to attract and seduce. It should also discuss techniques for building tension and accelerating attraction without giving away too much. Finally, the chapter should offer advice on different styles of kissing, including light and flirty or down and dirty, and provide a checklist of items to bring for a successful make-out session.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 8_**\n\n**THE MAKE-OUT ARTIST**\n\nBeing a make-out artist is all about style and confidence. Armed with the tips presented in this guide, you now have dozens of foolproof techniques for kissing your man _du jour_ from start to finish\u2014even better, from head to toe. As a freshly styled kissing artist, you don't need to set your sights on world domination or creating an army of male slaves. Perhaps you're just tired of being the \"good girl\" kisser, and you'd like to be the man-magnet for a change. Or maybe you're on the prowl for a down-and-dirty fling. \n\nYou don't even have to be a saucy dresser to be a first-rate kisser; you can employ your powers to attract, seduce, and kiss unforgettably anytime, anyplace, in any guise. This chapter will help you put your newfound tools  together to become a femme fatale kisser: chemistry, technique, subtle manipulation through body language, and of course, mind control. This is going to make you a legendary make-out artist. \n\n# **Create a Connection**\n\nIn chapter 1 of this book I talked about chemistry and making a connection with your physical cues. To get the make-out session started, it's all about the messages you send\u2014your body language gives him the right idea. Focus that language through your eyes. Even though you've got the techniques rehearsed and have styled those prettiedup lips to perfection, eye contact is truly the focus of all your efforts. Every move you make hinges on what you do with your eyes. If you keep your eyes closed in movie-kiss imitation bliss, no guy will think you are interested\u2014or _interesting_ \u2014for real. \n\nAnyone can make out by pretending to surrender to the moment with dreamy closed eyes, or staring at his lips (preferably not at the floor, or the clock)\u2014but an artful lover makes eye contact whenever possible. Not all the time; as with driving, you'll want to keep your eyes moving. Direct them to the places you want him to think you find interesting, like his lips and neck, and where he puts his hands\u2014 but always come back to the center of who he is: his eyes. Most important of all, this will make him feel special and draw him in even closer. \n\nReel him in like a fish, and keep smiling. The easiest way to disarm, relax, and intrigue a man is with a smile. Even a light smile while kissing will make you appear that much more inviting. As you kiss, let a smile dance constantly on your lips. This really turns guys on: knowing he's the one making you smile is an instant hook. It boosts his ego like crazy. A smile also sends him the message that you have a great sense of humor, you're approachable and open, and being around you is safe and a good time. \n\n# **Keep Your Confidence High**\n\nHe might be making the moves, but you're really the one in the driver's seat at all times\u2014and you know it. While making out, stay aware of how you look from the outside. Borrow bits and pieces of your kissing moves from kissing scenes in films you think are hot. (See chapter 7, \"A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration.\") If you ever get a chance to peep at another couple making out, watch skilled kissers and sexy vixens closely to see how they smile, make eye contact, hold their heads, and laugh. These skills are a snap to make your  own. Take mental notes, and try them out. \n\nMake your make-out strategies \"idiot proof\" by going over the techniques in this book step by step, repeatedly, and don't leave anything to the last minute. Prepare yourself carefully to make sure you feel comfortable beforehand: you feel sexy in your outfit, you have a few topics to chat about, and you have a backup plan if the make-out session fizzles. \n\nIf you're klutzy, plan to distract him by giggling when you bonk noses. Smile wickedly at your prey when you happen to spill your mimosa all over the hors d'oeuvres as you run your hands through his hair. Act as if to say, _I meant to do that. Watch me now!_ A sense of humor layered with a sense of erotic purpose and determination will make him forget all about the spilled drink\u2014especially if you reveal a bit of cleavage when you mop it up. Then you get to say, as professionally and seriously as possible, \"Now, where were we?\" \n\nDon't worry about your body image\u2014it's all in the lips, the head, and the hips. You've got a sexy boy toy lined up as your erotic plaything: this situation won't be around forever, so make the most of what you've got to offer. Chances are, you're a lot sexier than you think\u2014because sexy comes from inside, not outside. If you're worried about stacking up to others, in breast size or some other measurement, remember that bigger boobs won't make you sexier, they'll just make you someone with big boobs. Big breasts don't make you a hot kisser, either. And yes, men can say insensitive, critical, inappropriate things. If you find yourself making out with one of these clueless dudes, change the channel. Excuse yourself, and go make out with someone more worthy of your mad skills. \n\n# **Build Tension**\n\nYou'll start any make-out session with an appropriate choice of opening kisses: Chapter 2 tells you how to get started. Continue with an assortment of techniques described in chapter 4, including the Sweetheart Kiss, the Lusty Kiss, the Kama Sutra Kiss, Eskimo and Angel Kisses (starting out with no lips), or even the jump-him-now Mad Mack Attack Kiss. Then, once you've started that fire, turn up  the heat by building erotic tension with your hands. \n\nMove your hands to the part of your body where you want to focus his attention: the nape of the neck, eyes, lips, cleavage, or lower. Straighten your clothing (even though you know it's going to have to be straightened again), smooth your hair back, coyly replace a fallen bra strap. Or reach over and smooth out a wrinkle on his shirt or trousers. \n\nEvery once in a while, between kisses, touch yourself in ways that are suggestive, but never _too_ outrageous. Naughty girl\u2014you can even pretend your hands are his eyes. If you're seated, rub your calves or smooth your hands over your legs. Rub your hands over your arms almost as if you are cold, but slowly. Glide your hand across the back of your neck, feeling the softness of your skin, and even give it a momentary, gentle, stress-relieving rub. Rest your hands on your hips, or on your thighs. \n\nUse your feet as well\u2014feet are quite sexy. Take off a shoe and rub your ankle or foot. Or let one foot do a little recon, sneaking forward to touch his toe for a moment as if by accident, then back. Good feet, doing the dirty work. Then let one foot sneak up against his foot and apply a steady pressure, bringing his attention to the possibilities of both of your bodies touching. Gauge his reaction. See if he returns your pressure or moves away. \n\n# **Accelerate His Attraction (without Giving Away Too Much)**\n\nA good speaker will stand so that his or her body is \"open\" to everyone listening, especially toward one person in particular. A make-out artist will do exactly the same while kissing. Have your feet apart, knees together (for now, anyway), and keep your arms open and uncrossed. Try to keep your head tilted down slightly to suggest directness in your kissing focus. Keep eye contact, but mix it up. You're one-on-one, so keep your eye contact consistent while kissing, but take 5-to-10-second visual breaks to let him look at you, too. \n\nIf he's primed for more and you want to know if you should turn up the heat, he'll give you signs and clues that are your green light. Unless he's really pawing on you or taking control, look for these \"keep going\" gestures: smiles, nods, little \"mmh\" noises that punctuate the breaks in your kisses, or small physical prompts like mirroring your kisses. He'll show increased attraction with his body (besides the, um, obvious) by leaning into you more, applying more pressure with his lips, and pulling you closer. \n\nGive him what he wants\u2014almost. And then a little bit more. You can direct his hands, which will likely be wandering. If he has them at the small of your back, slide them up your waist and to the sides of your breasts, all  the while kissing, and then back to your waist. Turn down the heat with lighter kisses. Then bring his hands back near your breasts, and turn the heat back up with a hot, passionate kiss and a lower lip nibble. Now pull back for a smile. \n\n# **Make-Out Techniques: Light and Flirty or Down and Dirty**\n\nReview your quiz answers from chapter 1 to see what style of kissing vixen you are, and determine your course of make-out action based on how you scored. Let your inner Sweet Lips, Power Puss, Hot Lips, or Miss Pure Delicious Poison guide the way. Are you a little of each? No problem! Pick the ones you like to make a style all your own. \n\n## _**Sweet Lips Chic**_\n\nUse your loveliest blossoms to attract the bees to your honey: no matter how you want your kissing sessions to go, your best technique depends on your smile, a knowing look, and easy laughter. Make the most of your Sweet Lips techniques by really working up the first-kiss tips. If you identify with the sexy librarian type, the area where you most need polish will be how to get started. You'll get the best guidance from the \"First Kiss Do's and Don'ts\" in chapter 2. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ He melts in your mouth, not in your hands. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Sweetheart Kiss, Angel and Eskimo Kisses, Romantic Kiss, Snuggle Bunny Kisses. Get your specifics from the \"Appetizers\" and \"Dish of the Day\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Light and sunny. Daytime picnics, beaches, private pretty vistas, romantic walks, sunsets. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ Lip gloss, rose-colored glasses. \n\n## _**Power Puss Vogue**_\n\nReady to strike the right pose, pucker up, and reel in your bohunk with sass? Power Girl, in this book you get the most from tips about eye contact, and seek out any kissing fix-its in sections on how to deal with guys who don't kiss as well as they look. You've got the power to pull in anyone you want. You can do what you want with them\u2014be ready to decide whether to go all the way or not. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ Slippery when wet. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, Taste of What's to Come, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses. Get your finer points from the \"Appetizers,\" \"Dish of the Day,\" and \"Dessert\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Hot and steamy. Bars, clubs, parties (especially theme parties), after-hours bashes, and even on your doorstep as a Goodnight session. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ A sexy scent (perfume, moisturizer, body butter) and tasty lip gloss. \n\n## _**Hot Lips Bombshell**_\n\nGet ready, Bombshell, because when you kiss a boy, he's not going anywhere until you set him free. Delivering a powerful opening kiss is as easy for you as taking candy from a baby boy\u2014and so is letting him know that _you're_ the candy he needs. And you've got the smoldering gaze to back it up. Polish up your pout and make your kissing techniques shine by making the most of tips and tricks on what to do once you're in place and the conversation's flowing. You need the most help in focusing on hands, arms, legs, and feet, and using them to your best advantage. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ Dangerous curves. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Taste of What's to Come, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses, more French Kisses. Pick your pinpoint techniques mostly from the \"Dish of the Day\" and \"Dessert\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Heat wave, all the way. Anything that gets you close and personal is where you can work your magic: an intimate corner of a pub, a booth, in a corner at a wedding dinner, the interrogation room, the scene of the crime, private parties, dark movie theaters, museums, cocktail affairs, and boardroom affairs. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ A compact mirror for lipstick fix-its when you need the pause that refreshes (or you get caught) and super-sexy underwear. \n\n## _**Miss Pure Delicious Poison**_\n\nMen: they're what's for dinner. Style, panache, and a touch of supervillainess insanity make you the most magnetic and kissable woman in the room, whether you're arriving in an explosion of smoke, gliding in on the backs of your henchmen, or simply sitting on your mechanical throne stroking your fluffy white cat. Who cares if you come on too strong when you're the one holding the ray gun? Making men melt with your lips comes naturally; the only spot you need to perfect is the switch\u2014when things don't go as planned, you get cranky. Don't seek vengeance\u2014just keep your exit strategies in line. And don't forget that turning _down_ the volume of your kissing powers can be just as powerful as cranking them up. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ When I'm bad, I'm better. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Lusty Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, reverse Gladiator Kisses, tease him down with  some Sweetheart Kisses, then come back with more French Kisses. Choose heavily from the \"Dessert\" menu in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Your affections and your make-out sessions are like a storm. They rage in, wreak havoc, and subside just as quickly. Dramatic conditions suit you best: castles, underground labs, back rooms, rooftops, evil lairs, tech conferences, haunted woods, abandoned shacks, private islands, penthouse suites, ice fortresses, and secret hideouts. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ Daytime disguise in your purse or utility belt, and edible body butter. _**Wicked flirt checklist:**_ Bad girl, good girl. It's an endless cycle. Now you're ready to join the party. Don't leave the house without your utility belt, magic lasso, and kick-ass bag of kissing tricks and techniques. Make notes and try to keep track of your conquests\u2014kissing legends all have lists on their refrigerators, too. \n"}
{"input": "Write a chapter for a guidebook on kissing that focuses on 'kissing games'. The chapter should include both party games and games for two people. For party games, describe rules for games such as Spin the Bottle, Sixty Seconds in Heaven, Kissing Bunny, Pass the Apple, Who's for Dessert?, and The Mystery Kiss. For games just for two, describe rules for games such as Ice Princess, Ice, Ice, Baby (More), Chocolate Kisses, Back to the Drawing Board, Blindfold Swap, Catch Me If You Can, Queen of Hearts, Not a Drinking Game, Macho Man, Stare Down, Hey, Driver: Stop Signs, Anything for a Kiss, and Invisible Ink. The chapter should also suggest variations on these games and provide tips for making them more exciting and enjoyable.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 9_**\n\n**KISSING GAMES**\n\nKissing is seductive, kissing is playful; but kissing is also a technique to be learned and refined like an artist, and a skill to be played like an athlete. A girl who is a make-out artist will go down in history as a legend whose kisses are talked about and compared to the finest paintings or the most erotic sculptures a guy would ever want to wrap his lips around. But if you really want to play the game like a skilled gambler, laying down a winning hand the moment you get to his table, I know you're ready if you've learned the techniques in this book. And when it comes to kissing games, I know you're going to play to _win_. \n\nAs of this writing, there is yet to be a Kissing Olympics, though every Valentine's Day around the world,  various cities hold kissing contests. Power Puss alert: can you imagine finding the guy you'd kiss forever, and then showing the world you actually can? Well, in Nanning, China, there's a kissing contest in which one couple kissed for seven hours nonstop to win. But that's nothing compared to the Houston, Texas, couple who kissed for 22 hours straight in 2009: a bridal company organized the \"Longest Kiss Contest\" to win a dream wedding. Hopefully, the grand prize included a case of medical-grade ChapStick. \n\nIt's one thing to be primed to win a gold medal for kissing\u2014that makes you a top player. It's another to have a roster of kissing games at your disposal, and to know which game would be most suitable in a particular situation, so you can walk away the smiling champ. There are games for two and games for groups. Now it's time to learn the games, and the rules of engagement. Even if you're already engaged. \n\n# **Party Games**\n\nYou've got the right attitude and the skills to pay the lip gloss bills; now it's time to show who's the Queen. At racy parties where there are a number of hotties out and about, the best way to break the ice is with a kissing game. You can play kissing games in large or small groups, in a room off to the side or in the middle of the show\u2014for the maximum, delicious tension of seeing who's attracted to whom, and for the pleasure of showing off. Small parties or gatherings can turn entirely into a kissing game. Any way you do it, playing with a crowd of fun-loving, adventurous kissers is a blast. Achieve liftoff with the following kissing party games. \n\n## _**Spin the Bottle**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ an empty bottle. \n\nThe most common kissing game in the world. A group of any size sits in a circle and people take turns spinning an empty bottle. The person spinning the bottle has to kiss whomever the bottle ends up pointing to; the group can self-determine if same-sex kissing is okay, or not\u2014it's all in fun. Then the person who was kissed gets to spin the bottle to see whom she kisses next. Variations on this game  include going in a circle to make sure everyone gets a turn and deciding whether the kissers do the deed in front of the group or run off to a closet or bathroom for the kiss. \n\n## _**Sixty Seconds in Heaven**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ an empty bottle, a private space (closet), red lipstick, and a timer. \n\nThis is a classic, handed down through the ages by teenagers of all stripes. It's a great add-on to Spin the Bottle: The person who gets control of the bottle spins it twice and sends the random couple into a closet for 60 seconds. To increase the stakes, the pair must prove that they shared a kiss\u2014with red lipstick. To play this game to win, one partner slathers their lips with the red lipstick and kisses the other as many times as possible on any area of exposed skin (face, neck, arms, etc.), leaving one lip print for each kiss. When the 60 seconds is up, the closet is opened and lip prints are counted. The pair who left the most lip prints wins. This game can also be played with pairs of already-established couples\u2014each pair of love bunnies gets 60 seconds to kiss as much as possible and win the game. \n\n## _**Kissing Bunny**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a stuffed animal (like a bunny). \n\nSit in a circle and arrange yourselves either guy/girl or randomly; you'll be kissing whomever sits next to you. The stuffed bunny is the stunt bunny\u2014the kissing double. One person takes the bunny and kisses it where they'd like to be kissed, then passes the bunny to the person on their right. The recipient has to kiss them on that spot. Then the person with the bunny kisses the bunny, passes it to the right, and gets their kiss, and so on. After one full circle, reverse the process and pass the bunny to the left. Variations: no part of the bunny can be kissed twice; or, for true gamblers, combine it with Spin the Bottle. \n\n## _**Pass the Apple**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a few apples. \n\nA circular seating arrangement is best for this one as well, so arrange yourselves either guy/girl or randomly; you'll be kissing whomever sits next to you. One person takes an apple in their mouth and bites it, then passes it with their mouth to the person on their right. The recipient has to receive the apple using only their mouth, grabbing it with a bite. This will take some giggly coordination  between the two of them. The apple will get smaller and smaller\u2014until you need a new apple. After one full circle, reverse the process and pass the apple to the left. \n\n## _**Who's for Dessert?**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ whipped cream, chocolate sauce, cherries, or any other lickable dessert topping that's handy. \n\nThis game can be played going around the circle or with the randomness of Spin the Bottle. The person who gets to receive the kiss takes the whipped cream or topping and places it where they'd like to have their \"kiss.\" They can put it wherever they want, or you can set limits. The person who spun the bottle (or whoever's turn it is to do the kissing/licking) has to creatively kiss or nibble the dessert topping off. \n\n## _**The Mystery Kiss**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ blindfolds, scarves, ties, or handkerchiefs. \n\nSeparate an even number of guys and girls (or however you want to mix it up) and stand across the room from  each other, with the men blindfolded. Each girl selects a guy, quietly walks over and kisses him, making sure not to let him know who she is. Playing music will help hide any noise that might give your identity away. After each girl gives a guy a kiss, the ladies line up across the room from the men. The boys take off their blindfolds and try to guess who kissed them. If the boy guesses correctly, the girl is \"out.\" The game continues until there is only one left. Next, swap blindfolds and the guys get their turn. \n\n# **Games Just for Two**\n\nAre you ready to go one-on-one? A little hand-to-hand, or lips to\u2014other places? Kissing games for two are a great way to melt the ice (literally, in one of these games) or spice up what might be an ordinary date, an evening around the house, or anytime you want to make the most of what's right in front of you. \n\n## _**Ice Princess**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a drink with ice cubes in it or a cup of ice. \n\nGet an ice cube; start with it in your mouth, running it over his lips, his cheek and jaw, down his neck, or even his forearms and the sensitive hollow in the palm of his hand. Continue back up to his mouth and then it's his turn. \n\n## _**Ice, Ice, Baby (More)**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a drink with ice cubes in it or a cup of ice, and a timer. \n\nLay your victim down and place an ice cube on his stomach. Then have him gently sit up, allowing the ice cube to slide down his stomach. Wherever it lands, you have to lick and kiss for exactly one minute. \n\n## _**Chocolate Kisses**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ fudge sauce or warmed chocolate syrup, and a spoon or paintbrush. \n\nA delicious turn-on that lets you tease and tempt, or even draw or write messages on your lover's body. With a bottle of hot fudge or chocolate syrup in hand, have your partner lie down or lean back in a comfy chair. Take his  shirt off (or pull it up) and draw or paint on a part of his body with the chocolate. Now lick and kiss it off. \n\n## _**Back to the Drawing Board**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ lipstick and edible body paints (or colorful dessert topping). \n\nLightly draw lip prints someplace on your partner's exposed skin (lipstick or gourmet body paint works well for this). Then fill each of those marks with your own lips! This is especially fun with the body paints. \n\n## _**Blindfold Swap**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ two blindfolds, scarves, ties, or handkerchiefs. \n\nBoth partners blindfold each other. Without using your hands, take turns giving exactly ten kisses to each other. \n\n## _**Catch Me If You Can**_\n\nTell him you want him to give you one kiss but you're not going to let him. When he tries to kiss your cheek, turn your head. If he aims for your lips, duck so he gets your nose. Spice it up by teasing him a little: when he's the one resisting your kisses, try to persuade him to give in and let you kiss him. This is a great game for a dating couple. \n\n## _**Queen of Hearts**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a deck of playing cards. \n\nRemove all the hearts from a deck of ordinary playing cards. One of you shuffles the hearts, fans them out between you, and the other randomly chooses a card that decides how many kisses you will give. Variation: use dice and assign the following body parts to a six-sided die: \n\n1\\. : cheek \n\n2\\. : forehead \n\n3\\. : lips/mouth \n\n4\\. : neck \n\n5\\. : palm of the hand \n\n6\\. : anything goes \n\n## _**Not a Drinking Game**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a film that includes a repetitive activity that could be used for a typical \"drinking game.\" Examples: watching _The Thin Man_ and taking a drink every time the characters do; watching a Coen Brothers film and drinking every time an expletive (such as _f**k_ ) is used; whenever Buffy kills a vampire. You can even watch kissing movies, as recommended in chapter 7. \n\nWhenever the repetitive activity (drinking, swearing, vampire slaying) happens onscreen, you and your partner kiss, but you can't touch each other in any other way until the movie is over. \n\n## _**Macho Man**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a guy who brags about how strong he is. \n\nDoes he think he's tough? Tough enough to get to kiss you? Challenge him to do a set of push-ups\u2014where you make the rules. Lie flat on your back on the floor with your arms at your sides. His assignment is to \"drop and give you twenty\"\u2014twenty kisses. He does push-ups over you, and every time he comes down he gets a reward: a kiss. \n\n## _**Stare Down**_\n\nYou and your partner have a staring contest; the goal is not to blink. The longer you keep your eyes open, the longer he gets to kiss you. \n\n## _**Hey, Driver: Stop Signs**_\n\nWhile the two of you are driving, if you come to a stop sign that is a three- or four-way stop, the passenger has to kiss the driver that many times. \n\n## _**Anything for a Kiss**_\n\nHere, almost anything goes: except kissing. The object of the game is to try to get him to kiss you by doing as you wish to him. You can do anything to lure him to your lips, but you cannot kiss him. Then switch, and he does the same to you. The person to last the longest without giving in wins. \n\n## _**Invisible Ink**_\n\nWith the tip of your tongue, spell a word on the upturned palm of his hand\u2014or the inside of his forearm, his neck, or for the more adventurous, a place he can't see at all. If you want, spell out an instruction, such as \"Kiss my right shoulder.\" If he gets it right, he either follows the instruction (which is its own reward) or gets to kiss you once anywhere he likes. If he gets it wrong, you get to do what you want to him. Take turns spelling words with your tongue. \n\n## _**The Magic Word**_\n\nEach of you decides on a particular word at the beginning of the day, or on a day you have scheduled for a date, but don't tell each other what it is. Throughout the day (or during the date), if either of you says the other person's word, you have to drop everything and kiss the other person immediately. \n"}
{"input": "\n\nQ: What is the main theme of the book?\nA: The main theme of the book is about the art of kissing, including tips, techniques, and advice on how to make it a memorable experience.\n\nQ: What is the tone of the book?\nA: The tone of the book is playful, humorous, and informative.\n\nQ: Who is the intended audience of the book?\nA: The intended audience of the book is anyone interested in improving their kissing skills or learning more about the art of kissing.\n\nQ: What topics are covered in Chapter 1?\nA: Chapter 1 covers the secret society of kissing artists, what's in a kiss, and kissing kung fu techniques.\n\nQ: What is the purpose of the quiz in Chapter 1?\nA: The purpose of the quiz in Chapter 1 is to help readers identify their kissing style and preferences.\n\nQ: What is the focus of Chapter 2?\nA: The focus of Chapter 2 is on how to initiate a kiss and make it happen anywhere, anyplace, and anytime.\n\nQ: What advice is given on making the first move in Chapter 2?\nA: Advice on making the first move in Chapter 2 includes tips on how to signal your interest, build anticipation, and confidently lean in for a kiss.\n\nQ: What is the focus of Chapter 3?\nA: The focus of Chapter 3 is on how to make your mouth irresistible, including tips on hot lips, talented tongues, mouth moves, and the wicked kisser.\n\nQ: What are some of the techniques for delivering a knockout kiss discussed in Chapter 5?\nA: Some of the techniques for delivering a knockout kiss discussed in Chapter 5 include building anticipation, using appetizers to tease, making the main kiss memorable, and adding dessert to seal the deal.\n\nQ: What is the purpose of Chapter 6?\nA: The purpose of Chapter 6 is to provide tips on the dos and don'ts of kissing, as well as how to avoid or handle kiss catastrophes and remedies.\n\nQ: What is the focus of Chapter 7?\nA: The focus of Chapter 7 is on taking your kissing to the next level, including tips on tricks and treats, flavored kisses, and avoiding stubble burn.\n\nQ: What advice is given on building tension in Chapter 8?\nA: Advice on building tension in Chapter 8 includes tips on creating a connection, keeping your confidence high, and using make-out techniques to amp up the attraction.\n\nQ: What is the purpose of Chapter 9?\nA: The purpose of Chapter 9 is to provide ideas for kissing games, both for parties and for couples.\n\nQ: Who wrote the foreword for the book?\nA: William Cane wrote the foreword for the book.\n\nQ: What can readers learn from the field guide in Chapter 4?\nA: Readers can learn about the different types of kisses, including scary kisses, and how to identify the hunters and the hunted in the kissing world.\n\nQ: What are some of the rules of the game discussed in Chapter 6?\nA: Some of the rules of the game discussed in Chapter 6 include avoiding hickeys and love bites, not overdoing it with tongue action, and avoiding bad breath.", "response": "\n\nTable of Contents \n\n  \n\n\nTitle Page\n\nForeword by William Cane\n\nIntroduction: THE PERFECT KISS\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 1: THE SECRET SOCIETY OF KISSING ARTISTS\n\nWhat's in a Kiss?\n\nKissing Kung Fu: Be at One with the Elements\n\nKiss Me Deadly, Darling: A Quiz\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 2: MAKE IT HAPPEN: GET THAT KISS ANYWHERE, ANYPLACE, ANYTIME\n\nWaiting Is the Hardest Part\n\nDoes He Really Want It?\n\nHow to Get Him to Kiss You\n\nHow to Ask for a Kiss without Words\n\nMaking the First Move\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 3: YOUR MOUTH: HE'S GOTTA HAVE IT\n\nHot Lips\n\nTalented Tongue\n\nMouth Moves\n\nThe Wicked Kisser\n\nSex Up Your Lips, and the Rest Will Follow\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 4: KISSING: A FIELD GUIDE\n\nThe Hunters and the Hunted\n\nTypes of Kisses\n\nScary Kisses\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 5: DELIVER A KNOCKOUT KISS\n\nTechniques\n\nAppetizers\n\nDish of the Day\n\nDessert\n\nRock Your Body\n\nHot Spots\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 6: THE RULES OF THE GAME\n\nKissing Do's and Don't's\n\nAbout Hickeys and Love Bites\n\nKiss Catastrophes and Remedies\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 7: TAKE YOUR KISSING TO THE NEXT LEVEL\n\nTricks and Treats\n\nFlavored Kisses\n\nFlavored Lipsticks and Gloss\n\nStubble Burn\u2014and How to Avoid It\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 8: THE MAKE-OUT ARTIST\n\nCreate a Connection\n\nKeep Your Confidence High\n\nBuild Tension\n\nAccelerate His Attraction (without Giving Away Too Much)\n\nMake-Out Techniques: Light and Flirty or Down and Dirty\n\n  \n\n\nChapter 9: KISSING GAMES\n\nParty Games\n\nGames Just for Two\n\n  \n\n\nABOUT THE AUTHOR\n\nCopyright Page\n"}
{"input": " \n\nQ: Who wrote the foreword for the book?\nA: William Cane wrote the foreword for the book.\n\nQ: What is the tone of the foreword?\nA: The tone of the foreword is humorous, conversational, and informative.\n\nQ: What is the purpose of the foreword?\nA: The purpose of the foreword is to introduce the author and the book, as well as to give readers an idea of what they can expect from the content.\n\nQ: What does the author of the foreword think of other books on kissing?\nA: The author of the foreword believes that most books on kissing have been wishy-washy and dull, and that they lack hands-on information.\n\nQ: What does the author of the foreword like about the book?\nA: The author of the foreword likes that the book is comprehensive, that it is full of tips and tricks, and that it delves deep into the hidden meanings of kissing.\n\nQ: Who does the author of the foreword compare the book's author to?\nA: The author of the foreword compares the book's author, Violet Blue, to the iconoclastic Welsh politician and literary analyst Leo Abse, and to the novelist D. H. Lawrence.\n\nQ: What can readers expect to learn from the book?\nA: Readers can expect to learn new ideas about kissing, fresh techniques for the French kiss, and kissing games they may never have tried.\n\nQ: Who is the intended audience of the book?\nA: The intended audience of the book is anyone interested in improving their kissing skills or learning more about the art of kissing.\n\nQ: What does the author of the foreword recommend for readers?\nA: The author of the foreword recommends that readers study the book before their boyfriend or girlfriend does, so they'll have all the advantage in the game of love.", "response": "\n\n**_Foreword_**\n\nI'm not a rude person as a general matter of form, but if I don't say it chances are that no one else will. The fact is that most books on the subject of kissing have been wishywashy and dull to the point of putting the reader to sleep. They pontificate, they introduce footnotes into the discussion, or they adduce so many irrelevant digressions that you're ready to tear your hair out waiting for something of substance, something that you can actually sink your teeth into when you sit down with the one you dote on, or when you get close enough to feel the heat from the face of that angel who makes your heart throb like a thundering Arabian charger. \n\nWhich is why it's a distinct pleasure for me to compose a foreword to this comprehensive how-to guide by Violet Blue and to introduce you to her delectable take on the romance and delights of modern kissing. \n\nJust because I wrote a book called _The Art of Kissing_ doesn't mean I refrain from reading other authors on the subject. Nay, nay! On the contrary, I'm always studying them for pointers that I can use in my own life, and\u2014like I said\u2014usually being disappointed at the shortage of hands-on information they present. _Not so in the present case!_ I'm happy to report that this compendium of tips and tricks is without a doubt the best I've opened in the past many years. Violet Blue is a person well known to me as a leader in the war against that unfortunate puritanical streak that makes America the laughingstock of enlightened and freethinking Western Europeans. We really need to relax when it comes to topics like intimacy, cuddling, and nibbling on your inamorata's earlobe. In some rather remarkable ways, Violet Blue reminds me of that iconoclastic Welsh politician and literary analyst Leo Abse, whose book on Daniel Defoe is enough to make a high school English teacher blush. In like manner, Violet Blue delves deep into the hidden meanings of kissing, she explores the mind of the kisser like it's never been revealed since D. H. Lawrence's _Mr. Noon_ , and she uncorks a vast compendium of exotic and erotic lore calculated to tantalize as well as instruct the neophyte and the _Don Juan_ in all of us. \n\nIf I can get personal for a moment, the reason I like reading books on kissing is simple. They potentially contain new ideas that even I, who have directed kissing demonstrations at literally hundreds of colleges and universities across North America, can learn from. And I can say with confidence that the most experienced kisser will discover valuable ideas from Violet Blue's latest foray into the world of romance. The pages that follow will open your eyes and mind to important new methods of approaching a first kiss, to fresh techniques for the French kiss, and to kissing games you may never have tried. In my opinion, her suggestions for a first kiss (and remember, even if you're in a relationship\u2026there's always at least the _possibility_ of a first romantic kiss with someone _new_ ) are perfectly crafted to guide you through all the psychological and physical joys\u2014and pitfalls\u2014of the process. \n\nYou're on solid ground when you study this book since all the advice is geared to show you how to get the most from your romantic encounters. The chapters that follow are in the grand tradition of all Romantic literature, harking back to the works of Ovid, right on down through the Middle Ages with manuals on courtly love, and up to the present with how-to guides for the rest of us. Whether you're young or old, you're sure to find plenty of good advice in these pages. But read them _before_ your boyfriend or girlfriend does\u2014so _you'll_ have all the advantage in the game of love. \n\n  \n\n\nWilliam Cane \n\nNew York \n"}
{"input": " \n\nQ: Who is the author of the book?\nA: Violet Blue\n\nQ: What is the purpose of the introduction?\nA: The purpose of the introduction is to set the tone for the book and to give readers an idea of what they can expect to learn from it.\n\nQ: What does the author compare a great kiss to?\nA: The author compares a great kiss to watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year's Eve.\n\nQ: What does the author believe about great kisses?\nA: The author believes that great kisses are rare but that they don't have to be.\n\nQ: What does the author think is missing from most people's kissing experience?\nA: The author thinks that most people lack an owner's manual for how to deliver smooches that stop traffic, start five-alarm fires, and warp the time-space continuum.\n\nQ: What does the author think people can learn from the book?\nA: The author thinks that people can learn how to kiss like a movie star and make the one they're kissing feel as if their favorite song just came on the radio every time their lips come together.\n\nQ: What specific topics does the book cover?\nA: The book covers topics such as timing a kiss perfectly, delivering and getting a first kiss, asking for kisses with and without words, knowing when someone wants to kiss you, what to do if the person you like turns out to be a bad kisser, solving problems like stubble rash, and what to do when your kiss doesn't turn out the way you planned.\n\nQ: What does the book teach about lipstick?\nA: The book teaches how to keep lipstick perfect, no matter how hot and heavy (or wet and messy) a kissing session gets.\n\nQ: What does the author think about kissing as a sport?\nA: The author thinks that kissing can be a lighthearted way of sharing intimacy with another person, and that it can be done as a sport, in a kissing booth for charity, or just to find out if someone is more interesting than you thought.\n\nQ: What does the author hope for readers?\nA: The author hopes that readers have as much fun putting the book into practice as she did doing the research for it.", "response": "\n\n**_Introduction:_**\n\n**THE PERFECT KISS**\n\nA great kiss is like watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year's Eve. There's the countdown to contact, the moment when your heart flutters from your stomach to your chest, and then\u2014the kiss. You hear the noisemakers, people cheering, horns honking, confetti flies through the air, and you're caught in a vivid moment in time. Your heart warms (or ignites like a fuse). Your perspective changes, your senses sharpen, colors become more vivid, and you just know your brights will come out brighter than ever before. At least, that's what it feels like when the right pairs of lips come together in all the right ways. \n\nKisses like this are rare\u2014but they don't have to be. Unfortunately, our lips didn't come with an owner's  manual to tell us how to deliver smooches that stop traffic, start five-alarm fires, and warp the time-space continuum. Most of us have to figure that out by trial and error, and believe me, it isn't pretty. It messes up your lipstick, screws with your confidence, and you wind up pecking a lot of awful kissers. If only we could spot the lousy kissers, fix the ones we like, and if we just had ninjalike kissing skills, we'd be the baddest girls on the block with puckers that make urban legends seem tame. \n\nThat's what this book is for. This is where you learn to kiss like a movie star and make the one you're kissing feel as if his favorite song just came on the radio every time your lips come together. Find out how to time a kiss perfectly, how to deliver and get a first kiss, and how to ask for kisses with and without words. Learn how to know when someone wants to kiss you and what to do if the person you like turns out to be a bad kisser. Solve problems like stubble rash, and what happens when your kiss doesn't turn out the way you'd planned. Discover all the kissing do's and don'ts, and find out all the things you should never do when you kiss someone. \n\nThere are oodles of techniques in these pages to help you come up with\u2014and perfect\u2014your very own style for each lucky someone you kiss, no matter if you're a novice kisser or a make-out queen. Sex up your mouth and make  it irresistibly kissable, then supercharge your kisses with advanced tricks, fun games, and tasty treats. Oh, and if you color your pucker, find out how to keep your lipstick perfect, no matter how hot and heavy (or wet and messy) your kissing session gets. \n\nDon't stop with the lips\u2014know your kissee's hot spots and get the skinny on how and where to kiss parts of the body that'll make them melt. Learn how to French-kiss like an angel (or a naughty devil) and all the different types of kisses and when to use them. Best of all, learn everything you need to make your first kiss with that special someone absolutely perfect and unforgettable. \n\nKissing is about chemistry\u2014sometimes a kiss can be the moment we realize we're falling in love. The kind of connection experienced with a kiss can rock you to the core. But it doesn't have to be with someone you love\u2014a kiss can be one of the most lighthearted ways of sharing intimacy with another person. \n\nYou can kiss as a sport, in a kissing booth for charity, or you can kiss someone just to find out if they are more interesting than you thought\u2014all without commitment to either pair of lips involved. Or, if you choose, kissing can be the most intimate thing you share only with someone you love. But no matter how you kiss, or whom you kiss, you should always make it a doozy. \n\nI hope you have as much fun putting this book into practice as I did doing the research for it. \n\n  \n\n\nSmooches,  \nViolet Blue  \nSan Francisco \n"}
{"input": "  \n\nQ: What is the title of Chapter 1?\nA: The Secret Society of Kissing Artists\n\nQ: What does the author suggest about the average amount of time women spend kissing?\nA: The author suggests that the average woman spends two weeks of her life kissing, but that readers should strive to be more than average.\n\nQ: What does the author think about the sensuality of kissing?\nA: The author thinks that kissing is one of the most sensual of all acts of flirting, foreplay, seduction, and sex. In a kiss, you use all of your senses.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the communication that happens in a kiss?\nA: The author says that in a kiss, you can communicate desire, urgency, caring, or anything you want, because what you're feeling when you kiss someone can be channeled right through you like an electric charge.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the range of techniques that great kissers know?\nA: The author says that great kissers know a variety of techniques that can be applied to a range of situations, tricks to make their kisses unforgettable, and strategies to seduce even the shyest pair of lips.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of confidence and being in touch with all of your senses?\nA: The author says that a truly sensual kisser is a girl who feels confident and sexy from within, no matter whether she happens to think she looks \"perfect\" at the moment, and a great kisser stays in touch with all of her senses before kissing even begins.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the variety of intentions that a kiss can convey?\nA: The author says that kissing is a single act that can convey a wide variety of intentions, such as tenderness, affection, nervousness, desire, and lust.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the benefits of kissing?\nA: The author says that kissing is good for you and good for everyone around you. It makes you feel emotionally ecstatic, releases the arousal hormone oxytocin, and is good for your teeth.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the fun of kissing?\nA: The author says that most of all, kissing is fun.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the purpose of the book?\nA: The author says that the purpose of the book is to teach readers how to cast an unforgettable, seductive spell with their lips and to join the legions of women who can melt a man like butter with a kiss.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the range of skill levels that the book is suitable for?\nA: The author says that the book is suitable for all skill levels, from beginners to already-great kissers who want to learn more.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of atmosphere and timing in a kiss?\nA: The author says that atmosphere and timing are crucial elements in a kiss. A great kiss happens right when it is supposed to, while an ill-timed kiss can ruin everything.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of the right pair of lips?\nA: The author says that it's got to be the right pair of lips heading for your face, or all bets are off.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of location in a kiss?\nA: The author says that location is crucial in a kiss. A kiss in a location that isn't right for one of you can bomb like an attempt to make Titanic into a romantic comedy.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of physical sensation in a kiss?\nA: The author says that it's got to feel good physically, too. A kiss that feels good sends buzzy, yummy jolts of lust straight to your nethers, while a kiss that feels yucky is a dud.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of feelings in a kiss?\nA: The author says that the feelings behind a kiss are like a supporting actor who completes the character and identity of the leading lady. The kiss is an emotional gesture that comes from the heart or a raw animal thing that comes from the groin.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of motive in a kiss?\nA: The author says that the motive for your kiss is communicated through your lips at the moment of contact, and it instantly sets the tone for any given smooch.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the importance of technique in a kiss?\nA: The author says that technique is the foundation of your kissing style. The technique you use depends on all of the factors and goals mentioned above, or you might just be out for fun, freestyling.\n\nQ: What does the author say about the quiz at the end of the chapter?\nA: The author says that the quiz is designed to help readers figure out what kind of kisser they are and to give them a sense of their strengths and weaknesses as a kisser.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 1_**\n\n**THE SECRET SOCIETY OF KISSING ARTISTS**\n\nThe average woman spends two weeks of her life kissing\u2014but what girl wants to be average? Two weeks of smooches just won't do\u2014especially when you want to be the kind of kisser who has them coming back for seconds. And thirds. Maybe an all-you-can-kiss make-out buffet. With the secrets, tips, techniques, and detailed steps to becoming a master kisser in this book, you'll be more than the average player: you'll be at the top of the kissing game. \n\nKissing is one of the most sensual of all the acts of flirting, foreplay, seduction, and sex we can enjoy. In a kiss, you use all of your senses\u2014and his too. You feel a kiss with your body, your heart, and your mind. You can communicate desire, urgency, caring\u2014anything you want,  because what you're feeling when you kiss someone can be channeled right through you like an electric charge. The greatest kissers know a variety of techniques that can be applied to a range of situations, tricks to make their kisses unforgettable, strategies to seduce even the shyest pair of lips, and how to jump-start that erotic spark with a first (or second, or third) kiss. \n\nThe sensual kisser has a lot more going on than a pair of kissable lips\u2014though I'll tell you all about making your lips silky smooth and utterly irresistible in a bit. A truly sensual kisser is a girl who feels confident and sexy from within, no matter whether she happens to think she looks \"perfect\" at the moment, and a great kisser stays in touch with all of her senses\u2014before kissing even begins. It's like flipping a light switch: when you know a kiss is about to happen, all of your senses sharpen. And once the kiss starts, everything goes into overdrive as you drink in the taste, the smell, the touch, the sound, the feelings. And the person on the receiving end is hooked. \n\n# **What's in a Kiss?**\n\nKissing is a single act that can convey a wide variety of intentions. For instance, one type of kiss, a light, affectionate peck, is a message of tenderness\u2014it can be nonsexual, or a loving reminder. On the other hand, a first romantic kiss, built up to with nervousness and desire, might begin with the softest touch and pull you together like a red-hot magnet. A kiss between lovers is the spark that ignites passions into a blazing fire that may consume you both in a delicious make-out session. This kind of kiss can be more powerful than the need to eat when you're famished. Sometimes the prelude to a kiss is the best part; other times it's only a teasing, playful beginning. \n\nOne kiss can change everything. It can make friends into so much more. A kiss is the moment when sex and science meet, when we know whether our chemistry matches our desire. A casual encounter might turn into a pivotal, life-changing moment, after which ordinary everyday situations with your friend become lustful encounters. Often, when we kiss someone for the first time, we know instantly whether or not we click with them sexually. \n\nKissing is also really good for you and good for everyone around you. The act of kissing makes you feel emotionally ecstatic\u2014it stimulates the release of endorphins, natural opiates similar to the delirious rush we feel while running  and when we fall in love. Prolonged sensual kissing releases the arousal hormone oxytocin, essential for orgasm. And it's good for our teeth, because the increased flow of saliva washes our teeth in a plaque-dispersing bath. Now, doesn't that sound sexy? \n\nMost of all, kissing is fun. Welcome to the world of kissing bandits and superkissers, where you'll learn how to cast an unforgettable, seductive spell with your lips. You'll join the legions of women who can melt a man like butter with a kiss, are always the first ones picked for the kissing booth, and can easily become rulers of small countries with their ability to deliver the perfect kiss anywhere, anytime. \n\nThe tips in this guide will make your past experiences with kissing seem like amateur night, and already-great kissers will find more secret kissing weapons, tips, and tricks to fortify their arsenal of techniques. Here you'll discover can't-fail techniques for ramping up your sensuality, the keys to perfect first kisses, the fine points of timing a kiss, oodles of techniques and surprises, and how to make an innocent kiss turn into a lustful session of tonsil hockey. \n\nYou don't need to be a man-eater or a villainous vixen to deliver the most wicked smooches\u2014though all skill levels are encouraged to apply. Perhaps you're tired of being a one-date wonder or feel that you've missed far too many kissing opportunities. Or maybe you're a would-be kissing  virtuoso, coiled up and ready to spring. Maybe you'd just like to know when and where different types of kisses are appropriate, how to be a better kisser, how to become a more magnetic kisser, or you want to learn new kissing techniques to make your sweetie give you\u2014and your kissable lips\u2014a double-take. This guide gives you concrete tools to nurture your kissing prowess, useful for a lifetime of being a first-rate, unforgettable kisser. \n\n**Kissing Kung Fu: Be at One with the Elements** Kissing begins with a pair of lips and a tongue. Pretty basic stuff. But a delivering a _great_ kiss isn't just \"tab A into slot B.\" What makes the perfect kiss has to do with so much more than a pair of squishy body parts getting mashed together. Desire, passion, tenderness, comfort, lust, yearning for connection, the urge to capitalize on a \"perfect moment,\" and more, all drive us to kiss. Add to that the elements of atmosphere and timing, and you've got a whole slew of ingredients that can make whatever you've got cooking sweet or sour. Examine what elements make a kiss perfect\u2014or pitiful. \n\n\u2740 Timing is everything. In the movies, when the hero leans over to kiss the leading lady, the timing is always perfect\u2014the sun is setting, both kissers feel amorous, birds are chirping, and all is good in the world. In real life, you may have the same experience, or your birds may actually be car alarms, passersby may be wishing you weren't doing that in public, you might be unexpectedly queasy from cocktails or nerves, or a meteor could be on a collision course with Earth. Worse, a kiss when you don't want one isn't a kiss at all\u2014it's a drag. A great kiss happens right when it is supposed to, while an ill-timed kiss can ruin everything and practically peel the paint off the walls. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 You know this: it's got to be the right pair of lips heading for your face, or all bets are off. Is the kisser your fantasy man, or is he a drooling fool from Planet Lame? If your date is Mr. Delicious, then your goodnight kiss has got to be a doozy. But if you don't click with the person planting one on you, then you've got a scary mouthful of \n\nMr. Yikes. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Location, location, location. A wispy kiss on a mountaintop might be your idea of romantic perfection, or a sloppy session on the floor behind your roommate's couch could be at the top of your list. But if you smooch in a  location that isn't right for one of you (say, in a public space that makes you or him feel exposed or otherwise uncomfortable), the kiss will bomb like an attempt to make _Titanic_ into a romantic comedy. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's got to feel good physically, too. Is the kiss a perfect union of lips and tongue, dancing in tandem to create an emotional connection? Does it make an electric spark that sends buzzy, yummy jolts of lust straight to your nethers? Or is it a smooshy mush of slippery lips and tongues that slither like slimy, wilted slugs? If a kiss feels good, you're on top of the world, but if a kiss feels yucky, too wet, or just plain wrong, it's a dud. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 How a kiss makes you feel can make or break a mood, and it's one of the more sublime elements to consider. The feelings behind a kiss are like a supporting actor who completes the character and identity of the leading lady. Is the kiss an emotional gesture that comes from the heart, or a raw animal thing that comes from the groin? And how do you gauge the feelings of the person kissing you? Does he feel the same way? There are ways to tell how your kissee is feeling, and when his signs and signals are green for \"go\" when your own engine is revved, then you're kissing in sync. \n\n\u2740 Believe it or not, the motive for your kiss is communicated through your lips at the moment of contact, and it instantly sets the tone for any given smooch. Perhaps you are a devious femme out on a kissing conquest, taking what you want from the lips of hapless mortals. Lust, kiss, and conquer. Maybe you're a shy and lovely thing, ready to smooch, cuddle with a few sweet fairy kisses, and nuzzle with someone you adore. Or you might be both, depending on which way the kissing goes. A great kiss is made of many elements and can take you down different paths. Think about what you want out of it before you pucker up, buttercup. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Technique is the foundation of your kissing style. And the technique you use depends on all of the factors and goals mentioned above\u2014or you might just be out for fun, freestyling. Either way, your technique says it all, and you'll enjoy kissing, and the reaction your kisses get, when you have an arsenal of styles in your naughty bag of kissing tricks. \n\n# **Kiss Me Deadly, Darling: A Quiz**\n\nKissing might be the one thing you know makes 'em swoon with desire, or kisses might be just part of your playful bag of down-and-dirty flirty tricks. What kind of kisser are you? \n\n_**When I kiss someone for the first time, I never:**_\n\na. make the first move. \n\nb. move my body too close to his. \n\nc. remove all of my clothes, just most of them. \n\nd. set him free, no matter how much he begs. \n\n_**The perfect movie kiss was:**_\n\na. Rhett Butler and Scarlett O'Hara in _Gone with the Wind_. \n\nb. Kirsten Dunst and Tobey Maguire in _Spider-Man._\n\nc. the vampiresses and any poor mortal man in _The Brides of Dracula_. \n\nd. the elevator scene in _Fatal Attraction_. \n\n_**I always make the first move kissing:**_\n\na. never! \n\nb. when I know it's absolutely safe to do so. \n\nc. before the cocktails wear off. \n\nd. when he's trapped like a wild animal. \n\n_**When kissing on the first date, I never:**_\n\na. use tongue. \n\nb. let it get too steamy. \n\nc. let underwear get in the way. \n\nd. . let my emotions get in the way of my evil plans to destroy my enemies. \n\n_**Your philosophy about kissing is:**_\n\na. Kissing is fun but should be shared with someone special. \n\nb. Good kissers are hard to find. \n\nc. They are all my playthings and victims, every last one of them. \n\nd. Never let them up for air. \n\n_**I get ready for a kiss by:**_\n\na. keeping my lips and mouth in beautiful shape. \n\nb. thinking about what kinds of kisses my kissee might really enjoy. \n\nc. swishing with the last gulp of my beer, and off I go! \n\nd. . surveying bedpost notches and emitting a fearful cackle while overwhelmed with evil satisfaction. \n\n_**Kissing someone is how I tell:**_\n\na. what kind of lover he might be. \n\nb. if we really click. \n\nc. how much his girlfriend means to him. \n\nd. . how long it will take to convert such a meddlesome hero to the Dark Side. \n\n_**Your scariest nightmare about kissing contains:**_\n\na. someone who just wants to get in my panties. \n\nb. waiting to kiss someone and then finding out they're a terrible kisser. \n\nc. a man who kisses like he's cleaning a fish tank with his tongue. \n\nd. kittens, romantic sunsets, happy endings, not becoming absolute ruler of the universe, fluffy bunnies, all that is good and nice. \n\n_**My surefire red-hot kissing technique is:**_\n\na. Keep my lips closed together and my hands to myself. \n\nb. Follow his lead with tongue and touching, but take over when things get hot. \n\nc. Try to swallow his entire face, lick everywhere from the neck up, insert entire tongue into his throat. \n\nd. Unhinge jaw, swallow entire man. \n\n# **If you answered mostly \"A,\" you are Sweet Lips.**\n\nYou're sweet as sugar, and your kisses are, too\u2014and the person you're kissing knows that your cute little pucker and slightly naughty smile screams \"sexy!\" Your kissing power lies in your ability to seduce and tease longingly, making your make-out sessions dreamy and lasting, like an all-day lollipop. Attractive lips and a subtle style make your kisses unforgettable; learn a few dirtier tricks and the electric shocks from your tongue will bring them to their knees. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Melts in your mouth, not in your hands.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \"B,\" you are Power Puss.**\n\nMack Daddy, meet Mack Mama. Your lips like to boogie, but before they hit the dance floor, they like to taste, road-test, and compare. You like to sample the goods before committing to a date, or to a make-out session, or even just to see what the local boys taste like\u2014you like to test the water before you jump in. You're a Power Kisser, through and through. Hone your skills, and they'll name a lipstick shade after you. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Victoria's got nothing on my Secret.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \u275dC,\u275e you are Hot Lips.**\n\nYour kisses are like a wildfire, and if you have your way, it'll take a station full of firefighters to control the blaze. You're a femme fatale kisser who never misses, and you're just as happy to give your dates a taste of your tongue and strut away leaving them swooning. Your kisses are the strong, silent type that come and go like a storm, and with a little polishing from the tips in these pages, your lips will be legendary\u2014and lethal. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"Hello\u2014my name is Your Addiction.\"**\n\n# **If you answered mostly \"D,\" you are Pure Delicious Poison.**\n\nRemember supervillainess Poison Ivy? She's just a shrub compared to you. A kiss from you, blown on the wind, has been known to wilt flowers and make babies cry miles away. Your plan to conquer the universe one man at a time is unstoppable, and kisses are just the hors d'oeuvres of delicious conquest to you. It's hard to go wrong when you're already so bad, but keeping your kisser in picture-perfect shape and building an arsenal of smooching styles will keep your seductive powers at their most fearful. \n\n**Your kissing mantra is: \"I'm so hungry I could eat\u2014anyone I want.\"**\n"}
{"input": " \n\nTitle: Make It Happen: Get That Kiss Anywhere, Anyplace, Anytime\n\nSummary: This section of the book focuses on the importance of the first kiss and how to navigate the awkward moments that can come before it. The author discusses the benefits of waiting for the first kiss and how to use flirty signals to communicate interest. The section also includes tips on how to read physical clues to determine if someone is ready for a kiss and strategies for getting someone to make the first move.\n\nPrompt: Write a detailed guide on how to initiate and navigate the first kiss. Include tips on how to deal with awkward moments, how to communicate interest without being too forward, and how to read physical clues to determine if someone is ready for a kiss. Discuss the benefits of waiting for the first kiss and how to make it unforgettable. Provide strategies for getting someone to make the first move, as well as tips for making the first move yourself if necessary. Include a list of do's and don'ts for the first kiss.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 2_**\n\n**MAKE IT HAPPEN: GET THAT KISS ANYWHERE, ANYPLACE, ANYTIME**\n\nThe awkward moment: It's happened to you. At the end of the evening, you walk to your car to say good-bye and\u2014your stomach flips. Your heart flutters. Your brain explodes. He looks at you, and you feel an electric charge in the air. Then maybe, just maybe\u2026You get in your car and drive away fast like a frightened little bunny. Let's hope _not_. \n\nAn attack of shyness happens to all kissers, from beginners to the suavest and most experienced lip-lockers. The awkward moment of the first kiss can turn even the coolest cucumber into the biggest spaz. Some people love the moment before the first kiss, the excitement, the terror\u2014the moment you've both been waiting for when attraction leads to intimate contact. Others dread it and will squirm  every which way to avoid having to make a move. The anticipation is delicious, delightful, agonizing\u2014thrilling. It means you're _alive_. \n\nSometimes the anticipation of your first kiss is the best part. Taking your time to build up the attraction and excitement makes your first kiss that much more unforgettable\u2014and wonderfully, passionately explosive. When you're both so eager to kiss that you just can't stand it anymore, your attraction to each other becomes powerful, magnetic\u2014and when the kiss finally happens, you see the stars. Do you have the self-restraint to wait until you just can't take it anymore? \n\nWaiting for the first kiss can be like a tightrope walk. You must proceed very carefully so as not to rush things, on one hand, or send signals that you're not as interested as you really are, on the other. It's a little stressful, but it's much easier when you know how to read your partner's signs and how to send the right message to get what you want. \n\n# **Waiting Is the Hardest Part**\n\nYou might not kiss on the first date for a number of reasons\u2014and he might actually be the one who wants to wait. If he asks to wait a few dates for a first kiss, honor his request with grace and a smile, and relish the thought that anticipation is building up mutually. Don't worry about his reasons; they're probably good ones, whatever they are. Don't second-guess, either. He might simply just be shy! Feed the fires by being casually flirty in subtle physical ways\u2014a touch on the wrist, or standing or sitting a bit too close. And if you've both agreed to wait for that fiery first kiss, you can cuddle, hug, and breathe on each other's lips, only inches away from each other. \n\nSome of you might want to wait a bit for the first kiss to see if there is chemistry between you. Or, like any femme fatale worth the notches on her bedpost, you might want to make him wait simply to enjoy watching him squirm in erotic torment, willing to do anything for your first kiss. Clever smoochers might want to camouflage ill health, such as a flu or allergies, by asking to delay the first kiss for a few dates, until you're feeling better or know the potential kissee a bit better. Maybe you have already rushed to first base, or second or third, too fast for your own liking, and you want to take a bit more time to smell the roses. \n\nIt's perfectly fine to tell him you want to wait a bit before  your first kiss, or to wait until the third date. Reassure him that it's not personal (he might feel insulted or insecure) and explain that you just don't want to rush a good thing. Tell him that you'll make the first move when you're ready to enjoy it completely. \n\nIf you prefer not to announce your intentions, be sure to give him other signals that you're interested; otherwise he'll think you don't want him at all. Yikes! Flirt with him, lightly touch his arm or hands now and then, brush against him a little when you walk down the sidewalk, make plenty of eye contact, smile a lot, and don't be afraid to stand or sit closer than a regular friend might. \n\nIf he moves in for a kiss and you're still not ready, place your hands flat on the front of his shoulders to gently, firmly stop him. Stay close, smile, and sweetly say, \"I'm not ready yet. But I will be soon. It means a lot that you're cool with that.\" You can softly kiss his cheek instead. Some guys might not understand why you want to wait for a kiss. They might protest, get upset, be pushy, demand reassurance, or argue. The rotten ones will insist. (This is okay if you know that you enjoy a little playful protest in your romantic relationships.) But the guys who are truly worth kissing will listen \n\nand will want to understand your motives\u2014and the really fun ones will want to draw out the anticipation and savor the first-kiss waiting game as much as you do. \n\n# **Does He Really Want It?**\n\nYes, hot pants, they all want you. But only give 'em a little nibble at a time. When sizing up your toy for a potential smooch, make sure he's really ready for the close-up by looking for physical clues that reveal his readiness. Some guys will make it fairly obvious that it's now or never by moving in for the kiss, but others will display unconscious physical signs to indicate readiness and kissability. And I'm not talking about what's happening in his trousers. It's especially essential to know what to look for with shy guys who want to be respectful of your kissing boundaries. Are you sending the green light? Often, they want to kiss us oh-so-badly, but they have no idea that we actually want them to kiss us! Also, it's tough to tell if someone wants to go beyond friendship or not, especially when your judgment is clouded by your own attraction to someone you realize is becoming more than just a friend. \n\nIt's up to you to figure out if he wants it or not. Does he call, text, IM, Tweet, or email you frequently? If you're out together on a date or just hanging out, remember that he could choose to be spending his in-person time with someone else. But he's with _you_. Put yourselves in a situation that would be an ideal time for a kiss, such as saying good-bye, and watch his body language closely for unconscious signs of attraction. Make sure you see two \"kiss now\" signals before you take the leap with your lips. \n\nJust what are those signals? Prolonged and repeated eye contact is a sure sign of interest, and combined with close physical proximity is a sure signal of an impending kiss. If you catch him checking you out, bust him playfully with a smile that says \"gotcha!\" and flirt shamelessly, enjoying every moment. One careless glance from him isn't enough, but if there is a second look, stay tuned for more. When his second look lingers for a bit, consider this an engraved invitation: you've got him right where you want him. If the eye contact is fleeting and you can't tell if it's intentional or not, wait to see if it happens more than once and look for another physical clue just to be sure. \n\nHere are a few clues to look for: \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue** : Look to the lips. When people are tense or uninterested, they keep their lips clamped together. But when  someone finds you hot and wants a smooch, their lips will part slightly in an inviting gesture. Like, smiling! Licking the lips (not in a gross or creepy way!) or touching the lips with a finger can indicate high kissing interest. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue** : Unconscious imitation is someone's way of showing that they'll follow your lead, including up to the moment of a kiss. Watch and see if he mirrors your body language\u2014legs crossed or uncrossed, the position of his hands and arms, shoulders squared to face you directly, and of course, mirrored facial expressions such as eye contact, smiling, and moving in close. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 **Clue:** Close physical proximity. Arms brushing when you walk, a slight touch on the arm or hand, orbiting your stance in crowded rooms, standing so your shoulders touch, being just a half step closer to you than he would to someone who's just a friend. Notice whether he's keeping an eye on where you are and where you're standing. Often, interested men will have conversations with others near you or (especially) right behind you. Another clue that precedes a kiss is for him to hold open a door for you in a way that intentionally has him leaning in close as you move past. This is a great opportunity for a smile\u2014or a kiss. \n\n# **How to Get Him to Kiss You**\n\nOf course, there's nothing wrong with the direct approach. Some people love nothing more than to have their partner simply ask for a kiss. Have you ever hoped for a kiss, not gone for it or even asked for one, and then not been kissed? I can predict how well that technique is working for you. A girl or guy who's a little bit (or a lot) aggressive when it comes to the sweet pastime of kissing gets what they want, and many women and men love a partner who isn't afraid to take control. \n\n_**Ask for that kiss:**_\n\n  \n\n\n\"May I have a kiss, please?\"  \n\"Kiss me!\"  \n\"You can kiss me now.\"  \n\"I think you deserve a kiss for that.\"  \n\"Aren't you forgetting something?\"  \n\"Can we kiss now?\"  \n\"Pucker up, buttercup.\" \n\nAsking for it is only one option for getting him to put those sexy lips right where you want them: on you. You don't always have to ask with words; you can hypnotize him with a few super-sexy moves. Seriously. Even if you're the direct-approach kind of girl, words may not be appropriate for the scenario you find yourself in; you may have to be quiet for some reason, or asking for a smooch outright may simply not be your style. No problem. Whether you're shy or cunning, you have an arsenal of tricks to choose from. \n\n# **How to Ask for a Kiss without Words**\n\nFirst, open up your body language so he can sense that you're receptive for him to put the moves on you. Or that you're even interested: you can convey a lot of interest just by the way you carry yourself. Pull your shoulders back and take a slow, deep breath, and imagine your shoulders opening wider, with the center of your chest pulling upward. Straighten up your posture and arch (curve) your lower back a bit. Sitting or standing, you can do all this within the space of a few breaths and no on will notice\u2014except, subliminally, him. Pull your head up and back just slightly, as well. \n\nEye contact is the golden key for getting that kiss without actually asking for it out loud. Your kissing mind-control efforts are centered on what you do with your eyes, and if  you stare at the ground (or anywhere but his eyes and lips), he'll think you're not interested. To get his attention, you can softly touch his arm, shoulder, or the back of a hand. \n\nDid you take the \"Kiss Me Deadly, Darling\" test in chapter 1? Choose your techniques from the options below. Each of them is an excellent prelude to making the first move if you get tired of waiting and just want to plant one on him to see if he's worth it! \n\n_**For Sweet Lips sweeties:**_\n\nMake eye contact, smile, and incline your head close to his. If you're shy or nervous you can look away at intervals, but be sure to always return your eyes to his and smile softly as you make contact again. \n\n_**For Power Puss playas:**_\n\nLet your eyes linger for a relaxed breath. Make eye contact, and then break it to look at his lips, and then back to his eyes. Smile. A sexy, closed-mouth smile with the corners of your mouth is an erotic invitation\u2014use this sweetly tricky  smile to your advantage. Repeat as needed, and don't be afraid to maintain eye contact while blinking. \n\n_**For Hot Lips and Poison Kiss divas:**_\n\nYour lips are the most suggestive, sensual erogenous zone you've got\u2014work it, girl, and get his attention focused right where it belongs. The instant you want that smooch, subliminally make him look at your lips to suggest kissing (and sex). Enjoy playing around with what touches your lips, how you touch them, and what slips between them. Bite your lower lip suggestively while smiling to tease and tempt. Rub your lips together softly and smile. Bite the end of your finger for a second\u2014tilting your head down to do this is very flattering to your eyes and face. Touch your straw to your lips before you take a sip. Rub your lips lightly on the edge of a glass, as if you are doing it unconsciously. If you're not sure he is paying attention, direct his gaze to your lips with a pen, a finger, a straw, a snack, a lollipop, or a spoon. If you're feeling really bold, move your lips close to his without making contact while you talk, and linger for a breath or two to push it even further. \n\n# **Making the First Move**\n\nThe first kiss is often a make-or-break deal, where both of you find out if all this excitement is really what it's cracked up to be. If the object of your desire doesn't make the first move, getting up the courage to initiate the kiss is important, but equally crucial is how you kiss him the very first time. Your technique is everything here, because it communicates much more about you than words and gives him a direct indication of the passion that's got you all fired up. \n\nIt's debatable whether you should French-kiss (with your tongue) when you kiss someone the very first time. Certainly, at the moment of contact, your tongue should remain within your mouth\u2014but how the kiss progresses past that point is a matter of assessing the direction and flow of the kiss. If you press lips and are overcome with passion and crazy desire, you'll find your tongues dancing within moments, seemingly without any permission from your brain. When that happens, you just have to go with it. And if your first kiss turns out to be the kind where he passionately grabs you and you both uncontrollably start dancing the tongue tango, no one will blame you for not following any first-kiss \"rules.\" \n\nBut unless you're crawling all over each other like love weasels on a hot summer night, keep that tongue in check until you've kissed three or four times, or until you've been open-mouth kissing for several minutes. \n\n_**First Kiss Do's and Don'ts:**_\n\nDo smile a lot, even while kissing. \n\nDo keep eye contact. \n\nDo make sure you have nice breath. \n\nDo remember to come up for air. \n\nDo start slow. \n\nDo begin with small movements of the lips, head, body, and hands. \n\nIf you make the first move, do pull back after the first kiss to gauge his or her response. \n\nDo keep your lips soft and the muscles relaxed\u2014not hard or tight. \n\nDo keep your tongue in your mouth (see above). \n\nDo linger for a moment after the kiss. Especially for a smile. \n\nDo pay attention to where your noses are going and avoid a collision. \n\nDon't approach the kiss with your mouth open. \n\nDon't worry if you collide! Laugh and move in again slow. \n\nDon't jam your tongue in his mouth. \n\nDon't slobber! \n\nDon't make yummy noises\u2014yet. \n\nDon't make overly loud kissing or \"smacking\" noises. \n\nDon't let your hands wander. \n\nDon't start off with bites or suction. \n\nDon't rush\u2014savor this moment, even if you're nervous. \n\nDon't worry about what you look like. \n\nDon't attempt this kiss if you're not feeling well. \n\nDon't finish the kiss abruptly, even if you don't like it. \n\nDon't forget to breathe! \n"}
{"input": " \n\nTitle: Your Mouth: He's Gotta Have It\n\nSummary: This section of the book focuses on the importance of the mouth as a sexual organ and how to make it irresistible to potential partners. The author discusses the power of the mouth and lips in communication and attraction, and provides tips on how to make the most of their erotic potential. The section also includes information on how to take care of the lips and tongue, and how to use them to their fullest sensual and seductive potential.\n\nPrompt: Write a detailed guide on how to make the most of the mouth and lips as erotic tools. Include information on the power of the mouth in communication and attraction, and tips on how to make the lips look and feel their best. Discuss the importance of oral hygiene and provide suggestions for keeping the lips healthy and kissable. Include tips on how to use the tongue to its fullest sensual potential, and discuss the importance of touch, sight, smell, sound, and taste in cultivating a seductive persona.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 3_**\n\n**YOUR MOUTH: HE'S GOTTA HAVE IT**\n\nWhen it comes to erotic hot spots on the human body, nothing beats our most visual and versatile sex organ, the mouth. With our mouth, uniquely controlled by hundreds of muscles, we can communicate intentions, ideas, and desires, and we can deliver kisses that make him feel like he's in Nirvana. \n\nWe forget how powerful our pretty little mouths are. Without a word, we can smile and flirt, we can warm up a room or a lover with peals of laughter, and most especially we can lick, bite, taste, smell, and literally inhale sex through our mouth. A sexy mouth suggests that one sensual opening can lead to another, elsewhere on the body, or in the heart and mind. Our lips suggest contours of genitalia,  and a hint of wetness or the appearance of a tongue implies much more\u2014sex itself. \n\nAnd as owner of this highly sensitive and tactile sensory organ, we do love to put things in our mouth. You've no doubt heard the term _orally fixated_ in polite company in reference to smoking cigarettes. Inevitably everyone within earshot gets a little tingle from the implications. \n\nIt is true that as a culture we're orally fixated, constantly looking for the next thing going into our mouth, and it's equally true that the right kind of oral stimulation can really turn us on. So maybe we're just a bunch of orally obsessed hedonists\u2014so what? Soak up all the pleasure your lips, tongue, and mouth can afford you. Use it to its erotic maximum every chance you get, and see how your love life explodes. \n\n# **Hot Lips**\n\nCut to the chase, sexy. Recognize your mouth for the sex organ it is: treat it accordingly, and learn the many delightful things you can do with it before you even kiss. A healthy-looking mouth sends signals to potential partners on subtle levels. Make your entire mouth even sexier by giving it extra attention the next time you brush your teeth. Along with  your lips, brush your tongue to make it look smoother and sexily pink, and be sure to brush the roof of your mouth\u2014an oft-forgotten spot that, if ignored, can contribute to bad breath. \n\nLips are unabashedly sexual, and they cannot be hidden. So turn up the volume, already. Delight in your lips. They are the most expressive, sensual erogenous zone we've got\u2014and they're right there on your face. When someone is interested in you, he'll look at your lips almost as much as your eyes. To subliminally suggest sex, you can slyly direct him to look at your lips throughout the communication, whether you're talking or not. \n\nDeepen the color of your lips even just slightly and you'll draw erotic attention to this powerful visual erogenous zone. You don't need to wear lipstick, though sexy shades (or even a tinted moisturizer) go a long way to attract attention and magnetize your prey. Keep your lips exfoliated by rubbing them lightly with your toothbrush daily, or use your regular exfoliating scrub lightly on your lips each time you use it on your face. This will slough off any dead cells, keep away dry flat bits, and make your lips look supple and naturally healthy. Follow up with a moisturizing balm and a coat of something glossy for extra-sexy appeal. \n\nOur lips swell during arousal, giving off a rosy flush that communicates passion and lust to our lovers on an  animal level. Amp up the lip plump by drawing blood to them via daily exfoliation. Several companies now sell \"lip plumping\" glosses and lipsticks (most notably Lip Venom by Du Wop) that boost your lips slightly or smooth out the lip surface and fill in the cracks to make lips look larger. \n\nIf you feel your lips need more than a gloss or a tingly boost from lip plumpers, there are a number of multi-step lip care regimens you can employ to get your lips in ultra-pretty, kissable shape. Beyond using a high-quality moisturizer such as Nivea, Lanc\u00f4me, Laura Mercier, or even Biotherm, a lip-beautifying routine might be just what the lip doctor ordered. The multi-step methodology typically includes exfoliation, extracting impurities (using a lip mask), smoothing, moisturizing, and promoting the production of collagen (to prevent aging and wrinkles where your lips meet facial skin). Brands include Serious Lip Treatment by MD Skincare, Eminence Lip Trio Kit, and Mary Kay's Satin Lips two-step process. \n\n# **Talented Tongue**\n\nUnlike our lips, our tongue is a naughty, haughty, pink, wet, fleshy, unashamedly sexual body part\u2014and therefore typically kept hidden. A muscle of many tactile talents, the tongue is a clever little package of muscles, glands, and sensitive nerves. Nerves lead from the tongue to the brain, which within an instant of contact sends sensations of touch, scent, and taste. The \"flavor\" of anything we put in our mouth is a complex combination of taste, smell, touch, texture or consistency, and temperature sensations. \n\nYour lips, tongue, and mouth are controlled by hundreds of muscles that never rest as you smooch, smile, scowl, unconsciously clench your jaw, or suck on your tongue. This diligent network of muscles allow us to soften our lips, pull them apart, draw them closed to an _O_ , and to point or lightly stroke with our tongue. You can lengthen your tongue, shorten it, or move it in a variety of directions while kissing, and your neck and jaw muscles work in tandem to give your tongue greater versatility. These muscles also make the insides of the mouth into a means of suction that can draw lemonade through a straw, or give a kiss an especially naughty twist when you lightly give his inquiring tongue a sucking tug. There are dozens of strokes, licks, and various combinations of suction that you'll want to incorporate into your oral arsenal. \n\n# **Mouth Moves**\n\nThese basic moves might sound silly at first, but try them a few times to get the hang of them. They'll be the basis for kissing techniques later in this book, and they'll get your mouth in shape, make you aware of your mouth's moves, and give you ideas for ramping up your personal kissing style. Try these at home when you're alone, even in front of a mirror if you want. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Pucker your lips. Hard and small, softer and wider, very soft and very wide (a half-smile). \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Purse your lips. Like blowing a kiss: firm and short, soft and fluid, like Marilyn Monroe. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Point your tongue. Stick it out a little, then a lot. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Look in the mirror and soften your tongue. Extend it soft. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Sweep your tongue around your lips\u2014pointed and hard, then flat and soft. \n\n\u2740 Suck on your sensitive little finger\u2014a little, then a lot. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Kiss the palm of your hand softly, then more firmly; then see how it feels to mash your lips into it. Your palms are sensitive and perfect for practicing the sensations of kissing his lips, face, neck, and more. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 On the back of your hand, practice tongue strokes and see how they might feel for your sweetie. Poke, lick, flatten your tongue and sweep, draw letters of the alphabet with the tip. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Make your lips into an _O_ and suck on your palm. Apply suction to draw sensation to the area and then lightly rub your teeth across the sensitive spot. \n\n# **The Wicked Kisser**\n\nFeeling naughty, darling? Draw them into your wicked web by making your whole aura into a seductive hot zone, with your kisses at the center of it. Before you learn to seduce someone else's senses with your super-sensual kisses, you'll need to get in touch with the sensuality and sexuality in your own body. \n\nNot everyone feels she's hot all the time, and not everyone needs to be told how to feel sexy, but doing a few nice things for yourself can get you in the right head space for kissing. Then you can build a set of tools (a sensual checklist) to give you confidence and sexiness when you may not be feeling so hot, are feeling nervous, or really want to unleash every trick in the book on your unsuspecting target. \n\n# **Sex Up Your Lips, and the Rest Will Follow**\n\n## _**Touch**_\n\nSplurge on a massage or spa treatment to get back in touch\u2014literally\u2014with your body. Let someone else do all the work while you relax and enjoy healing touch from a massage therapist. Or take a hot bath and treat yourself to some new lotions and potions\u2014have a self-care beauty night. Create some private time to touch your own body the way you'd like a lover to, and let your fantasies run wild. \n\n## _**Sight**_\n\nHow you look affects how you feel. Purchase items or treatments that make you look polished, sexy, and hot. Get a manicure or pedicure, a facial, a haircut\u2014go in for a wash-and-dry style, just for fun. Indulge in a new lip color or gloss, a new makeup color, or accessories for your ears, hair, and neck. Buy a new item of sexy, comfortable clothing, something relaxed but seductive\u2014or put on an old favorite. \n\n## _**Smell**_\n\nAromatherapy really works to make us feel sexy, sensual, and at ease with ourselves. If you're the kind of person who wears a fragrance, then you've got it covered with your favorites, but you can also mix things up with a new scent, just for kicks. Those who prefer more subtle ways of scenting their skin should pick up a sexy-smelling new lotion\u2014with a bit on the nape of the neck, your world smells instantly sexier. If your hair covers your ears, you can put a little scent in your hair, or use a yummy-smelling conditioner for when things get deliciously close. \n\n## _**Sound**_\n\nGreat music to kiss by is covered later in this book\u2014right now you're going to focus on making yourself sound sweetly seductive. Becoming intimate, in the build-up to the moment of a kiss, means weaving a spell with everything about your mouth: every word you speak\u2014even whispered\u2014will have to be sexy and seductive. Make your voice one of your captivating charms, and learn how to modulate it effectively to the point of contact, and beyond. \n\nFind your sexiest voice. Some people have a difficult time hearing their own voice and might find that trying a few voice exercises gives them a sexier and more resonant sound. Practice speaking not from your throat but from the center of your chest, and power the air from your stomach muscles. Stretch the muscles on your jaw, lips, and tongue to relax your face. Learn to speak softly by lowering your volume (loudness) and pitch (lower notes), but play with resonance. \n\nTry a sentence in a low whisper, deeper than your normal voice. Then try it louder, still a bit deeper. Next, hum, keeping your mouth closed. Now speak the sentence in your low whisper, but with the same resonance as the hum. You'll use these different techniques to find the sexy voice that works best for you, and also to gauge volume over music, to match up with your kissing partner's volume, and turn it down as you move in for a kiss. \n\n## _**Taste**_\n\nHow you taste to your kissing partner is one thing (more about flavored kisses and other tricks in a bit), but how cultivated and sensual your tasting abilities are is another thing altogether. Wake up those taste buds! A delicious kiss can be like a long, delirious drink of water when you're thirsty,  and you'll want to be able to drink in how your lover tastes to the fullest. Sharpen your sense of taste, and heighten your sexuality, by sampling food with aphrodisiac qualities. \n\nFoods with sexual reputations cover a variety of sumptuous textures, perfect for getting you in the right kissing state of mind. Some classics: strawberries with chocolate sauce, a salad of quartered figs, shredded basil with drips of balsamic vinegar, warmed honey, avocados, vanilla bean (can be in ice cream), licorice, candied rose petals, and mango or papaya spears wrapped in mint leaves. \n"}
{"input": "  \n\nTitle: Kissing: A Field Guide\n\nSummary: This section of the book provides a humorous and informative guide to identifying different types of kissers and their preferred kissing styles. It includes a list of common types of kissers, such as the Rock Star, Yuppie, Art School Brat, and Supervillain, and describes their appearance, attitude, ideal first kiss, and kissing don'ts. The section also includes a list of common types of kisses, such as the First Kiss, Goodnight Kiss, Romantic Kiss, and Good-bye Kiss, and describes their characteristics and when they are typically used.\n\nPrompt: Write a detailed guide to identifying different types of kissers and their preferred kissing styles. Include a list of common types of kissers, such as the Rock Star, Yuppie, Art School Brat, and Supervillain, and describe their appearance, attitude, ideal first kiss, and kissing don'ts. Also include a list of common types of kisses, such as the First Kiss, Goodnight Kiss, Romantic Kiss, and Good-bye Kiss, and describe their characteristics and when they are typically used. Use a humorous and informative tone throughout.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 4_**\n\n**KISSING: A FIELD GUIDE**\n\nFirst, let's see who's on the menu, and what he might taste like for a nibble. A field guide to identifying the different types of kissing animals in the smooching zoo can help you find the perfect fit. Will he kiss like a Rock Star, or make love with his lips like a Geek Boy? Learn the difference, see how they like their first kisses, and wow the kiss-target of your dreams into kissing bliss with the right techniques. \n\n# **The Hunters and the Hunted**\n\n## _**Rock Star**_\n\nAppearance: Fashionably disheveled, trendy, and sexy. \n\nAttitude: Ready to rock those lips harder than Judas Priest. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Backstage, in the limo, in a trashed hotel room, or in an atmospheric alleyway. \n\nKissing don't: Rock stars are born to rock. Let the rocker make the first move. \n\n## _**Yuppie**_\n\nAppearance: Wrinkle-free. \n\nAttitude: Willing to fog up glasses and spill latte for the greater good of kissing. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Tastes like Starbucks or California Zinfandel. \n\nKissing don't: Loves playfully aggressive kissers, hates overeager or domineering. Know the difference. \n\n## _**Art School Brat**_\n\nAppearance: Thrift-store trendy; no spending limit on hairdo. \n\nAttitude: While others kiss like lower beasts, to them kissing is an art. \n\nIdeal first kiss: After completion of most recent master-piece, or off-hours in the studio. \n\nKissing don't: Too sensitive to make the first move, they'll give up and make a video blog if you wait for them to kiss you. \n\n## _**Marketing Executive**_\n\nAppearance: Sinister, like a politician. Nice suits. \n\nAttitude: There's a time for kissing and a time for world domination of my brand\u2014er, work. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Office, after hours. \n\nKissing don't: Never talk during kisses, unless it's dirty talk about corporate branding. \n\n## _**Supervillain**_\n\nAppearance: Evil like the Marketing Executive but with more Spandex and a fluffy white cat. \n\nAttitude: Hell-bent on destroying all that is good and nice. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Secret lair, private island, castle, top of the Washington Monument after starting clock on doomsday device. \n\nKissing don't: Never smooch in front of the do-gooder enemies and heroes. It just doesn't look right. \n\n## _**Hero**_\n\nAppearance: Proud, big chin, cape. \n\nAttitude: Evil must be stopped, blah, blah, blah. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Suspended over a pit of alligators right before escape, after saving you, or out of costume when you think he's someone else. \n\nKissing don't: This one's IQ plummets like a lead balloon with a kiss, so only kiss after danger has passed\u2014unless you're the danger. \n\n## _**Gangster**_\n\nAppearance: Changes by location; can be gold chains, a pimpin' ride, and baggy pants, or Italian suits and fedoras. \n\nAttitude: Gimme some sugar, baby. \n\nIdeal first kiss: After watching _Scarface_. \n\nKissing don't: Not during _The Sopranos_ or in front of \"the boys.\" \n\n## _**Romantic**_\n\nAppearance: Bedroom eyes and mussy-touseled hair. \n\nAttitude: Kissing is a beautiful thing shared between two people. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Mountaintop, picturesque vista, picnic for two, movie theater. \n\nKissing don't: The first kiss has to be perfect with this one; don't rush it. \n\n## _**Man Slut**_\n\nAppearance: Partly undressed; gold chains or cutoff jean shorts a bonus. \n\nAttitude: Who's going home with the king tonight? Or, who's next? \n\nIdeal first kiss: As often as possible. \n\nKissing don't: Don't expect that quantity means quality\u2014this one's been around the block and back (and forth, and back) because he's not one for polishing his technique. But for quickie smooches, it's always a sure thing with a slutmuffin. \n\n## _**Male Model**_\n\nAppearance: A little too perfectly done, and all eyes are on him. \n\nAttitude: Kissing me will make you look like a star. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Only in flattering lighting, no tongues, and definitely no hickeys. If anyone sees it, it will have to look perfect. \n\nKissing don't: Under no circumstances do you mess up the hair! The hair is sacred. \n\n## _**Rough Trade**_\n\nAppearance: Sexy stubble, jeans, work boots, and a dimpled smile. \n\nAttitude: I work hard, and I kiss like I mean it. \n\nIdeal first kiss: At the end of a great date, with him taking the lead. \n\nKissing don't: Unless you smell like you ate too many cocktail weenies, it's tough to go wrong with this easy-going smoocher. \n\n## _**Geek Boy**_\n\nAppearance: Clothes don't fit, soft and sweaty hands, pale skin, blinded by sunlight, brain like a supercomputer. \n\nAttitude: Afraid of girls but can't stay away. They tend to be inexperienced kissers, yet sincere. Once uncorked, their sensual powers are frightening. \n\nIdeal first kiss: Um, any. \n\nKissing don't: Quick movements will frighten them, but soft kisses will soothe. \n\nAnyone can kiss. But a kisser who knows her moves is a force to reckon with. A scandalous agenda helps, but becoming familiar with the full range of kisses\u2014what they mean, how to use them, and when to bring out the big guns\u2014makes them roll over and bark the minute your lips enter the room. With all the right moves, that Goodnight Kiss will be a doozy, you'll know how to deliver the prefect Taste of What's to Come, and how to identify and avoid the horrifying Fish Tank Kiss. \n\n# **Types of Kisses**\n\nSome kisses are standard\u2014the Goodnight Kiss is known by kissers worldwide as the end of a perfect, or less than perfect, night. Other kisses are magic tools and a bit more mysterious, such as the Nuzzle. Whether they're famous or infamous, know your weapons and predicaments, and you'll be a kissing superstar. \n\n## _**The First Kiss**_\n\nThe most talked about, written about, and stressed about kiss on the planet, the First Kiss is the stuff that fond  memories are made of. Or scary urban legends. It's usually thought of as the first kiss between would-be lovers but it can sometimes happen so spontaneously that it's as if you're not in control\u2014the body is having its own fun while the brain spins its wheels in giddy confusion. A first kiss is a romantic kiss, and if it's shared between friends, it can change _everything_. \n\n_**Great First Kisses**_\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\nThe Sweetheart Kiss  \nThe Lusty Kiss  \nThe Kama Sutra Kiss  \nThe Mad Mack Attack Kiss \n\n## _**The Goodnight Kiss**_\n\nAt the end of the evening, when you and your date are about to part ways, it's time for the Goodnight Kiss. Sometimes this is the much-anticipated First Kiss, though it can also be a sweet thank-you for a nice evening, or a kiss known as the Taste of What's to Come. All humanoids know that a Goodnight Kiss can turn into so much more. That's why we like it. When this kiss is shared between friends who feel a spark of attraction beneath all that friendship mumbo jumbo, we see just how close two friends can get. If you want to stay neutral yet let him know you like him more than a pat on the back, a well-placed Goodnight Kiss lands on the cheek. If you want to send a direct message that you're attracted, plant a light one on the lips. \n\n## _**The Romantic Kiss**_\n\nEverything is perfect\u2014or not\u2014for this intimate and compelling kiss. Romance is so much more than the setting\u2014you can have a romantic kiss in a beautiful garden on a summer's day or at a bus stop in a crappy neighborhood. What matters is the intimacy, the connection, and the rose-colored glasses. When you both feel hot for each other and the whole world melts away, it's a Romantic Kiss,  no matter where you are, who's watching, or what's going on around you. This kiss is all about the two of you, and it makes you the only two people in the world. \n\n## _**The Good-bye Kiss**_\n\nThis can be the fondest farewell, or the kiss-off, depending on how your date went. As a parting gesture it can be sweet and romantic, nervous and exciting, or a final sayonara that can be bittersweet or cold. Typically a kiss on the lips, it can also be a kiss on the cheek or forehead if you don't know him very well or want to keep your friendship within limits. Usually the \"good-bye\" is said while delivering the kiss\u2014but some sneaky dates might turn the Good-bye Kiss on the cheek into a Romantic Kiss with a quick turn of the head. Be on guard! \n\n## _**The Sweetheart Kiss**_\n\nLight like a butterfly, yet it sends electric shocks up and down his spine\u2014this kiss is delivered sweetly and packs a punch. This is one of the more erotically potent kisses without getting too naughty. The Sweetheart Kiss is a style  of kiss that can be delivered anywhere, anytime you want to focus his attraction to you. These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue, planted on any exposed part of the body that looks inviting. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Purse your lips, then press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. After that, move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation. \n\n## _**The Lusty Kiss**_\n\nThis is much like a Sweetheart Kiss, but with more pressure, and you linger as long as you want\u2014make it last, and it'll be lusty. In addition, use your hands on his face, neck, and hair (unless he's a male model), and include subtle movements of your head\u2014but no tongue yet. This is the kiss that lights his fire, a nice transition from Sweetheart-kissing to French-kissing (see below), and it says that you're ready to do more than peck each other on the lips or cheeks. Give this one when you're ready to really show 'em you want 'em bad, and you're willing to be bad to get what you want. \n\n## _**The Taste of What's to Come**_\n\nTruly mischievous kissers of every gender know all about this kiss\u2014and it's a secret weapon used by femmes fatales worldwide. This is the kiss that the female double agent gives James Bond so he doesn't blow her cover, the kiss that says you're as hot for him on the inside as you look on the outside. Often a full-mouthed French Kiss (see below), it has an urgency and lust matched by no other kiss; it shows him you've got more moves to make him melt than he can imagine. With this kiss you are the aggressor\u2014you lead the kiss from beginning to end. \n\nPull him close, making eye contact. As you pull his lips to yours, slide your hands up to the back of his head (or cradle his neck if his hair is perfect), and press your body fully against his. Then leap into the kiss, pressing against him more as you pull him into you, firmly caressing his neck or head with your hands the whole time. French-kiss deeply, then pull away as you pull his head back. Smile wickedly, and continue eye contact. \n\n## _**The Kama Sutra Kiss**_\n\n_The Kama Sutra_ has long been revered as a source for romance and eroticism, being simultaneously sexual and subtle in its lingering appreciation of all the senses involved in a simple act of intimacy. The Kama Sutra Kiss, a nose-and-lips combination, is an excellent cuddling, sensual, and nuzzling kiss that can even be done in public without being too brazen. A sign of genuine affection, intimacy and tenderness, it can last from a few seconds to several minutes. The Kama Sutra can be done on any part of the body, but creases, folds, and bends, such as the nape of the neck, between the shoulder blades, behind the ears, and under the jaw, are ideal. \n\nIt's simple and feels sexy. Start by moving your lips close to the target area on his skin. Purse your lips for a kiss. Right when you make contact with skin, inhale and gently press your lips and nose into the skin, moving your head back and forth slightly to rub your face around on the spot. Give little Sweetheart Kisses as you nuzzle. This kiss is also wonderful for slowing down any bedroom action, deepening intimacy during lovemaking, or making a seduction into a pivotal take-down experience. It's like the \"slow food movement\" of kisses. \n\n## _**The Drunk Kiss**_\n\nSometimes confused with the Romantic Kiss, the Drunk Kiss happens more times then we want it to. It tastes like booze, makes you dizzy, and often leaves you with a sense of confusion and regret the next day (along with a pounding headache). Drunk Kisses are sloppy, drooling, and unattractive to passersby, yet for some reason you always think you look really glamorous and hot while you're going at it. In reality, to sober observers, you actually look like a Nature Channel documentary on gastropod mating\u2014two pink slugs wrestling in slow motion under a waterfall. And if you can't remember it the next day, be certain that everyone else will. \n\n## _**Gladiator Kiss**_\n\nThis kiss is all him Tarzan, you Jane, and if you don't mind being moved around like a diminutive doll, when he's good at it, the Gladiator can be a pretty fun ride. Having a guy grab you and kiss you hard, as though he really means it, is hot, especially if he pulls you close and the kiss takes you by surprise\u2014sometimes this is an instant turn-on. At worst, you'll feel as if you were being mauled by Bubba tryin' to \"show the little lady how a man kisses.\" You are  the conquest, and sure, it's all romantic in his eyes, but you might feel like a tenderized steak when he's done molesting your lips. \n\n## _**Mad Mack Attack Kiss**_\n\nIt's a stealth kiss. You sneak up on your kissing target and\u2014smooch! Can be done on total strangers you find really hot (avoid Armed Services personnel and guys with bodybuilder girlfriends), or on your sweetie when you want to give him a naughty surprise. Afterward, you may choose to pretend that nothing happened, keep walking to the snack table, or stick around for his bewildered reaction. \n\n## _**French Kiss**_\n\nThe most famous kiss in the world is a full, open-mouthed kiss using tongue and lips together in perfect harmony\u2014hopefully. You do not need to be French to deliver an excellent French Kiss. (And as of this writing, there is still no such thing as a Freedom Kiss.) The kiss begins with the meeting of slightly parted lips, then the lips open, and out come the tongues for a little _parlez-vous_. A side effect of  French-kissing is that both parties will have an increased amount of oral lubrication (read: drool), which is a turn-on for some and a gross-out for many others. Some kissers can French for seemingly hours and find it a wonderful pastime. \n\nFrench-kissing can get pretty wet, so if slippery kisses don't float your boat, then alternate French Kisses with smooches on the neck, ears, and other kissable body parts. Sips of water also help\u2014they give you a second to breathe and smile seductively before diving back in. French-kissing is also not limited to the mouth; some people find fun in Frenching their lover's ears and even the nose! One of the great things about the French Kiss is the creative freedom that comes with it: you can improvise, try out new techniques, or use a variety of techniques to craft your own French Kiss style. There are no rules for this kiss, other than that you enjoy it! \n\n\u2740 Run your tongue around the teeth and gums  \n\u2740 Play with the tongue, taste it, push it around, caress it  \n\u2740 Nip at his teeth, lips, and tongue with your lips  \n\u2740 Kiss or probe deeply and gently with your tongue  \n\u2740 Apply suction on the tongue  \n\u2740 Dart your tongue in and out, slowly or rapidly  \n\u2740 Suck gently with your mouth  \n\u2740 Pull away slightly in midkiss, then go in for more \n\n## _**Angel Kisses**_\n\nSo light they almost tickle, these kisses are not done with your mouth, but rather with your eyelashes. Angel Kisses consist of fluttering your eyelash against a sensitive (and sexy) body part to deliver a feathery tickle. Popular Angel Kiss spots include his cheek, lips, eyelids, ears, neck, nipples, and genitals. \n\n## _**Eskimo Kisses**_\n\nA playful favorite for many lovers, these kisses are done with the nose instead of the mouth. Typically, you and your partner rub noses together in an Eskimo Kiss. But see the Kama Sutra Kiss (above) for techniques on other parts of the body. \n\n## _**Snuggle Bunny Kisses**_\n\nSo romantic, so cute\u2014this is the ultimate in intimate, loving kisses. You don't need to be in love to share Snuggle Bunnies; you share these nuzzling, closed-mouthed, soft-lipped pecks and smooches of all kinds, on exposed areas of skin, when you're lying down, wrapped around each  other, at a tender, quiet moment. These signify extreme affection for one another. They are perfect before and after sex, in front of a fire or TV, or even on a picnic blanket in a public place. \n\n##  **Scary Kisses**\n\nKissing isn't always butterflies and bunnies\u2014there are kisses (and kissers) out there that make us want to flee. Or at least will have you checking your watch midway through what started as a sexy smooch but turned into the longest twenty seconds of your life. \n\nBut what if you really like the guy? Teach him what you like in kissing. Play a kissing version of follow-the-leader: tell him to do exactly what you do. Reward good behavior with yummy noises, moaning, squeezes with your hands. Discourage deviation from your lesson by pulling back to stop the kiss. \n\n_**Is he a scary smoocher? Learn to identify these hazardous kisses:**_\n\n**The Fish Tank Kiss:** Every girl's nightmare. He's totally cute, funny, the conversation is good\u2014but then you kiss and it feels like he's trying to clean the inside of your mouth as if it was a fish tank. As the minutes pass more slowly than you ever thought possible, you wonder if he's actually looking for treasure. His tongue is too hard, and it darts about quickly and all pokey. You are usually too stunned to decide whether you should wait it out or hold up a \"send help\" sign. Toss this one back into the sea. \n\n**The Chewing Gum Kiss:** You've seen these before\u2014a couple joined at the mouth, lips locked in a deep French-kissing session that looks like they're about to gnaw each other's head off. Don't worry, everyone will be fine, but this combination of French Kiss and Fish Tank Kiss with extreme jaw movement looks pretty scary if you watch too many horror movies. \n\n**The Limp Noodle:** So sad, the Noodle. When you lock lips and start to French, and his lips just hang there and his tongue lies there like a slug, you have a Limp Noodle on your hands. No matter how much you push, massage, and prod his tongue to bring it back to life, it plays possum, dead in the middle of the road. There is nothing you can do\u2014you're basically giving mouth-to-mouth to this guy. \n\n## _**Mercy Kisses**_\n\nSometimes you kiss for fun, and sometimes you just have to give a kiss out of pity\u2014hence the Mercy Kiss. You give these kisses when you feel bad about something, want your date to look good (even though you aren't into him), or just feel sorry for the poor sap. Only in the movies do these kisses turn into a blazing romance. If you end up on the receiving end of a Mercy Kiss, just enjoy it and then excuse yourself to go wash your cat. \n\n## _**The Zombie Kiss**_\n\nAnother nightmare kiss many of us have experienced, which seems to come from beyond the grave. It's as if all the life drains out of him as he comes in for a kiss: the eyes flutter, clamp shut, or roll back into his head. His face goes slack and lifeless. And the most horrifying part of all: his mouth opens up into a gaping maw, threatening to swallow you whole. Sometimes the Zombie Kisser comes at you like a lost extra from _Night of the Living Dead_ , mouth agape, with a shiny pink sluglike tongue pointing out at you. Scream! Run! Barricade the doors and windows! \n\n## _**The Zoolander Kiss**_\n\nEver wonder what it would be like to kiss an international male model? The Zoolander makes you feel like you're a pretty prop designed to make him look good as he poses, shifts, and gives his \"sexy\" face to the world while kissing you. Would he notice if you were gone? Probably not. The Zoolander Kiss is meant purely to compliment the physical beauty of the man kissing you\u2014it's not for anyone's actual physical pleasure. It's used when trying to impress others or to make someone jealous. \n"}
{"input": " \n\nTitle: Deliver a Knockout Kiss\n\nSummary: This section of the book provides detailed instructions on how to deliver a memorable kiss. It covers various techniques, including light, intermediate, and intense, as well as tips on using your hands and body movements to enhance the experience. It also discusses the importance of identifying and utilizing your partner's hot spots.\n\nPrompt: Write a comprehensive guide on how to deliver a knockout kiss. Begin by explaining the importance of having a variety of techniques at your disposal and the role of style, delivery, and hot spots in making a kiss memorable. Then, list and describe the different categories of kissing techniques, including light, intermediate, and intense. Provide examples of each type of technique and explain when and how to use them. Finally, discuss the importance of using your hands and body movements to enhance the kiss and describe how to identify and utilize your partner's hot spots. Use a detailed and informative tone throughout.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 5_**\n\n**DELIVER A KNOCKOUT KISS**\n\nThe kiss that conquers all is your key to paradise\u2014so it's important to have a full arsenal of techniques at your disposal. Anyone would be lucky to plant one on your lips\u2014especially when you've got the skills to make him melt. \n\nIt's all about style, delivery, and hot spots. With a range of methods to choose among you can develop your own kissing style. Depending on how you feel, or how hot you want him to feel, you can start with nibbles, progress to licks, and on to passionate lip presses. Or make it hotter by adding light lip suction and tongue-to-tongue caresses. Meanwhile, between techniques, you can whisper sweet nothings into his mouth, exciting him even more. \n\nYou'll want to know a full range of techniques so you can adjust your style to match that of your partner\u2014an extremely valuable skill. For instance, if your kissing partner starts out lightly grazing your lips, will you know how to return the kiss\u2014or how to gently take it to the next level? Then, when your kissing session really heats up, use advanced, expert tricks to show him you're a make-out master. And don't forget that great kissing isn't just about using your mouth\u2014it's about making the most of your hands and body movements and smooching those sexy hot spots all over his body. \n\n# **Techniques**\n\nKissing techniques come in three main categories: light, intermediate, and intense. Lighter techniques are perfect for first kisses, short kisses, starting out a kissing session, cooling off a particularly hot encounter, and ending a kiss. Intermediate techniques are yummy filling\u2014use these for the duration, mixed liberally with light or intense techniques, depending on how you want the make-out session to go. Intense techniques are exactly that\u2014serious turn-ons, secret weapons, the techniques you pull out when there's no turning back. \n\nIn your kissing sessions, try a sequence of light kisses, followed by intermediate, then intense, then a brief pause, and repeat. People with glasses might want to take them off for an extended kissing session, and people with orthodontic braces will want to take care not to press too hard. Experiment with tempo and pacing. Practice the following techniques on the palm of your hand (the sensitive hollow, in the middle), then on a very lucky test subject. \n\n# **Appetizers**\n\n_**Nibble.**_ Nibbles are little bites using only your lips, or your upper lip with your tongue. When you nibble on a part of the body, lightly nip or squeeze the skin between your lips. You can nibble lightly, or with as much force as your lips can muster\u2014either way, the sensations will be pleasant. You can nibble anyplace on the body that sticks out: lips, nose, earlobes, nipples, or on wider expanses of skin such as cheeks, neck, chest, and stomach. \n\n_**Graze.**_ When you graze an area of his body, you simply brush your lips over it. This can be done with small, short movements, or long, wide strokes. Imagine your lips as a paintbrush. Try slow strokes or quick circles. A pair of lips can graze any area of his body, and this is a very sexy way to get acquainted with the scent of your sweetie's skin. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Trace.**_ Similar in technique to grazing, tracing can be done in all the same ways, but instead using the tip of your tongue. Trace around his lips as if applying lip balm, or trace strokes, shapes, and patterns on other parts of his body\u2014especially any hot spots. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Breathe together.**_ With both mouths open, nothing is sexier than inhaling someone's breath\u2014literally taking his breath away. Take turns. \n\n_**Sweet kisses.**_ These are light, full-mouthed kisses, but with no tongue. Push your lips forward slightly, but keep them soft (and your mouth closed). Try your best to press evenly with your upper and lower lip at the same time. These kisses should linger for only a moment or two, no more than the length of a full breath. Purse your lips, then press, then move to another technique or pull back. If you linger for a second, move your head slightly (instead of your lips) for a variation. \n\n# **Dish of the Day**\n\n_**Speak.**_ Whispering or speaking gently into your partner's open mouth between kisses is incredibly arousing. Tell him how much you enjoy what you're doing, how good his lips/ tongue/kisses feel, how sexy he looks kissing you, or how excited you are. You can even tell him where you want him to touch or kiss you, if you're feeling daring. Moaning into his mouth is also extremely hot. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Lip presses.**_ These are similar to \"Sweet Kisses\" above, but without any movement, and more pressure. It sounds simple, yet it is very effective in focusing his attention on  your desire\u2014this technique communicates sensual directness. Purse your lips, press firmly against his lips, pull back. Repeat more slowly, controlling the kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Bottom lip/top lip.**_ This technique focuses your attentions on his top or bottom lip. You can play with one at a time, or single out one for extra-special attention. The popular lip for this technique is the bottom one, but the top lip is equally sexy and intimate to engage. Lick the lip you choose, nibble it, graze it, suck, and even give it a tiny bite. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Corners of the mouth.**_ Don't neglect the corners of his mouth when you're kissing\u2014it's easy to forget when you have a pair of sexy lips to nibble on! The corner is where the lips meet, at the edges. This is a highly sensitive area, and it deserves the sweetest kisses, lip presses, licks, and nibbles\u2014but it is so sensitive that you shouldn't overdo it. \n\n_**Open mouth, no tongue.**_ A terrific transition technique that can be used over and over at every stage. Open your mouth a little (never open wide) and kiss wetly, with a lot of lip motion. It's tempting to let your tongue poke out just a bit, but this kiss is much sexier (and there's less saliva) when you keep it in your mouth. Push, suck, pull, rub, and massage with your open lips, but never cover his whole mouth with yours or it'll have a suffocating effect that many people detest. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Roof of the mouth.**_ This is a highly controversial kissing area because it is so sensitive. Some guys like having the roof of the mouth lightly licked\u2014and if your kissee does, then do it a little, and back off. Others might dislike the sensation because it feels like a tickle, and they'll want to scratch it. Of course, if you're playing mischievous sex games and teasing each other, tickling the roof of his mouth is a sexy and highly intimate way to \"get his goat.\" \n\n# **Dessert**\n\n_**Suck.**_ I touched on light to moderate suction in earlier techniques, but when you're playing for higher stakes, creating  a vacuum with your lips and mouth sends a direct message of sex to your lover. Keep your lips soft and create a seal with your mouth, removing the air a little, or a lot. Suck lips, teeth, tongue, neck\u2014it doesn't have to be a perfect seal, and you can slip around playfully and even make a few sexy noises while you're at it. \n\n_**Lick.**_ Moisten your tongue before you lick, but be sure that it isn't too wet\u2014we all know how awful a slurpy lick can be. Point your tongue yet keep it soft (practice!), and brush it across his lips, lick the corners of his mouth, lick under his chin (if he's not too stubbly). Lick the neck, ears, and nape (base) of the neck. Use wide, flat strokes on wide areas. Make circles, spell words, or press with your tongue as you lick. You can even lick his teeth and tongue. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Probe.**_ This technique consists of inserting your tongue into his mouth and slowly, sensuously exploring the teeth and tongue, or the whole of his mouth. Don't rush this one, or use a hardened tongue, or the technique will backfire. Take your time and savor every moment, every flavor, every sensation. \n\n_**Tongue only.**_ This is a no-lip, tongue-only kissing technique. It will make you giggle and smile, or it will make you both very aroused. Make eye contact before you move in for the kiss, opening your lips in a half-smile and extending your tongue in an upward curve. When you reach his tongue, keep your tongue out of your mouth and play your two tongues together, taking a long time to feel the textures and flavor of his tongue, and have fun dancing your tongues around together. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**French-kissing.**_ Like the tongue-only technique, but advanced. This is an open-mouthed, full-contact kiss with both tongues completely engaged. Purse and press your lips together to begin the kiss, then, at the moment of contact, part your lips and sneak a gentle lick of his lips with your tongue. If his lips part (I bet they will), gently slip your tongue past his lips to taste his tongue. You may pull your tongue back and disengage to repeat the whole kiss over again, or you can linger and continue French-kissing. Touch and caress each other's tongues, taking a long time to feel and sense textures and tastes. Lick the center of his tongue, and the sides. Lick his front teeth, upper and lower. Take your time, and enjoy varying the pressure of your tongue and lips. Don't forget to keep your  lips in gentle motion\u2014with this technique, \"frozen\" or hard lips feel weird. \n\n# **Rock Your Body**\n\nYou're not just a pair of lips and a tongue when you're engaged in a kiss\u2014you have much more at your fingertips (literally) to stimulate your sweetie with and keep him riveted to your lips. Use your hands to touch his shoulders and neck, hold his cheeks (on his face, ahem), or cradle the back of his head. You can caress or grab, knead or massage. Stroke his hair, or if your passions are high, run your hands through his hair, or all over his sexy bald head, should that be the case. Touching his face will be a big, highly charged (and amazingly intimate) turn-on, so caress the forehead, eyes, cheekbones, jawline, even the lips, all while you are kissing. Keep your hands in motion throughout your kissing session. \n\nEye contact is also extremely important, though when your faces are very close you will want to close your eyes. The more eye contact you make between kisses, the more intense your kisses will become. When your heads come together for a kiss, close your eyes just at the point you feel your eyes straining, to avoid giving him a lingering view of you with your eyes crossed! \n\nA little movement behind the kiss feels heavenly. Move  your head just a little as you kiss\u2014but not so much that he has a hard time following your lips. Subtle movements will change the angle of your lips slightly, resulting in a very passionate kiss. The more intense your kissing becomes, the more you can nuzzle and push with your head and lips\u2014his reactions will tell you to keep going, or you can follow his lead. If he wants you to keep going, he'll return your push with enthusiasm, a return push, or even a little moan. \n\nDon't forget to smile between, and during, kisses. Smiling is extremely seductive, and it lets him know you're really enjoying yourself. And, occasionally, stop kissing and enjoy the pause that refreshes: hold his head in your hands, gaze into his eyes for a count of four, then resume kissing. \n\n# **Hot Spots**\n\nAlso known as erogenous zones, hot spots on the body make terrifically sensuous places to use your kissing techniques. While genitals are definitely an erogenous zone, I have left them out of the discussion for the purposes of this book. \n\n_**Cheek.**_ Kissing, grazing, and nuzzling the cheek feels wonderful and is almost guaranteed to make anyone smile. A light peck on the cheek can be a friendly greeting, a good-bye, or an excellent first-date kiss. \n\n_**Ears.**_ Kisses, licks, and gentle sucking can drive some guys absolutely wild. This is a serious hot spot, and even the lightest breath here will send shivers up his spine, raise ample goose bumps, and generally get instant attention. Some men become extremely aroused when you lick their ears or suck on an earlobe. Be highly aware that everything you do near an ear is very, very loud. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Eyes.**_ There's something uniquely tender about kissing someone's closed eyelid. Not many people do it, but it's very pleasant and quite unforgettable. Give him sweet kisses on his (closed) eyelids, eyebrows, the outside corners of the eyes, or just beneath the eyes. \n\n_**Fingers and hands.**_ Grab a hand and kiss and lick the upturned palm, or kiss, lick, and suck the fingertips. This technique is a man-melter, especially if you simulate fellatio on a finger (or fingers), while making eye contact. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Feet and toes.**_ Admittedly not a technique for everyone, yet one that some people really love giving and receiving. Some might get so turned on by having their (clean) feet kissed (top and underside), or having their toes sucked, or the sole of their foot licked, that they can barely control themselves. Others may be too ticklish or too self-conscious about their feet to enjoy it. Ask first. If he likes it, you can also rub his foot on your face and neck (or breasts!), and massage a foot as you kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Forehead.**_ A very tender, romantic place to kiss. A kiss here says, _I care about you_. \n\n_**Neck.**_ Like the ears, the neck is super sensitive and a sexually supercharged place to kiss. Lick, kiss, nibble, graze, even suck and bite on it\u2014though be aware that your kissee may not want you to leave any marks. Make his neck a canvas for all the different brushstrokes your tongue can paint, and remember that the harder you press with lips and tongue, the more aroused he'll get. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Shoulders.**_ An often-neglected area for kissing that communicates romance and tenderness. Not as sensitive as the neck, the shoulders do respond erotically to kisses, and they can give any human deep shivers. \n"}
{"input": " \n\nTitle: The Rules of the Game\n\nSummary: This section of the book provides guidance on kissing etiquette and how to handle various kissing scenarios. It covers both the dos and don'ts of kissing and discusses the importance of communication and consent. The section also includes tips on dealing with kissing catastrophes, such as encountering a bad kisser or accidentally biting too hard.\n\nPrompt: Write a guide on the rules of kissing, including both the dos and don'ts. Begin by discussing the importance of communication and consent in kissing and explain how to handle it if things go wrong or if your partner is a bad kisser. Then, provide a list of dos and don'ts for kissing, covering topics such as hygiene, body language, and respect for boundaries. Finally, discuss how to handle various kissing catastrophes, such as accidentally biting too hard or encountering a bad kisser. Use a helpful and informative tone throughout.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 6_**\n\n**THE RULES OF THE GAME**\n\nIt's impossible to pick a great kisser out of a crowd. You just never know who's got the sweetest smooches until you kiss, and you certainly can't tell by looking. The only true way to know is to take the leap and kiss the toads\u2014and know what to do when everything goes wrong. We all know what to do when things go right: enjoy it, relax, go back for more, and more! Unfortunately, things don't always go so great and it's good to have a backup plan in case your make-out session turns into a make-out catastrophe. \n\nIf the hottie you finally get to kiss turns out to be a dud kisser, you need to decide whether it's worth continuing or you should execute your exit strategy. This has happened to every girl and boy alive, and how you deal with it can  change your partner's kissing habits for the better, or teach you how to pick a better kisser next time. Sometimes, it's our own approach that spoils the mood or turns a romantic kiss into a tragicomedy. Know your etiquette for every kissing scenario, and you can't go wrong. \n\n# **Kissing Do's and Don't's**\n\nKissing is one of life's greatest pleasures that can be shared by two. But not everyone is a perfect kissing match, and certainly not all kissers are created equal. Sadly, we encounter over a lifetime of kissing quite a few kissers who make elementary\u2014or truly awful\u2014kissing _faux pas_ , and it makes us wish that everyone with a pair of lips got their own user's manual. \n\nWouldn't it be great if there was a mandatory kissing politeness class in every high school? Here students would learn that kissing isn't a face-chewing contest. You do not get points for trying to box the tonsils with your tongue. Licking your lips too suggestively before a kiss looks really scary and gross. And above all, kissing is something you do together, rather than to or at another person. \n\nIt might be a very long time until kissing etiquette becomes required for graduation into the real world. Until  then, there are a few things to know that will keep you and those you kiss happy to be smooched. Show the following list to anyone you know who might benefit from the advice it offers. Even a friend who's dating someone she just discovered is a bad kisser\u2014it might give her some ideas. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Beautiful, brushed teeth, fresh breath, and supple, moisturized lips make you a delight to kiss. Anything less is a drag. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's okay to pull away and take a break from kissing without saying anything. It's okay for someone to want to stop completely and offer no explanation. You can talk about it later. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 It's not okay to expect a kiss in return for anything. Kisses are gifts, not currency. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Cradling your partner's head and face feels wonderful. As long as you're not trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Kissing isn't the checkered flag and starter gun to feel up  your date. Lip contact is not an invitation to ass grabbing or unhooking a bra. The good bits aren't going anywhere, and it is in your best interest to take your time. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 A kiss does not signify a willingness to have sex, ever\u2014no matter what kind of kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Never approach a kiss with an open mouth, or with an extended tongue. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Never open your mouth wider than your kissing partner's lips. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Poking with your tongue is annoying. You are not trying to make a phone call. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Not everyone will like the things you like, and that's okay. You may love to have your sensitive ears licked and breathed on, but he might hate it with a passion. Be open to all kissing styles. \n\n  \n\n\n\u2740 Whenever you're in doubt about how things feel for your kissing partner, or even if it's the right time to kiss, ask. Your partner will be happy you care enough to ask. \n\n# **About Hickeys and Love Bites**\n\nIn previous sections about biting and sucking, I've cautioned about leaving marks on his skin, also known as hickeys or love bites. These marks happen when teeth bruise the skin or suction leaves a rashlike discoloration on the skin. The suction created by your mouth draws blood to the surface of the skin, breaking the little capillaries, and scraping your teeth over the skin makes them break even more, blossoming into blood bruises that can range in color from pink to purple. \n\nOverall, it's very bad for your skin and the nerve endings, and some say it can cause nerve damage. But for people who love these marks, and the way it feels to get a hickey, it's not a huge concern. Often these marks are made unknowingly\u2014it can be totally unintentional, a result of passion. People with sensitive skin or those who bruise easily will get hickeys often from little stimulation of their skin. \n\nNot everyone wants marks from kissing. The reasons can be many, including looking improper at work\u2014bosses, office mates, and customers may find hickeys offensive or unprofessional. If he asks you not to leave visible marks on his neck, do not take it personally or try to second-guess his reasons. It may seriously compromise his work environment or professional reputation, or he just may not want marks on his neck for the entire world to see. Family  members tend to frown on hickeys, as do officials, so if he's going to be appearing in court, seeing valuable or new clients, working in sales, or visiting relatives, be careful. \n\nIn general, it's a no-no to leave marks in visible places but forgivable in hidden spots. This varies from person to person. He simply might not like the way they look. Be sure to ask him how he feels about love bites before your kisses start to stray away from his mouth, and he'll be able to relax knowing he's with a considerate kisser. \n\n# **Kiss Catastrophes and Remedies**\n\nThere are great moments in kissing\u2014and then, most unfortunately, there are moments we simply wish had happened to someone else. Kisses should be shared, savored, mutually enjoyed. But sometimes that garlic you had for dinner turns into a horrifying burp, or you collide painfully when you wanted to connect soulfully, or the guy you thought might be a kissing artist is a kissing ingrate, a slobbery mess. What to do? Consult the following kissing cures and you'll be smooching a suitable partner like your sexy-bad self again in no time. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss and he said no. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ It's almost impossible to believe he could resist your wiles\u2014and yet somehow, he did. Do not fret or take it personally. Did he tell you why? If not, ask. Believe what he tells you and take it at face value as the truth, and decide later if you think he (or his answer) is for real\u2014while you decide if he's still worth it. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You have an awful rash from his stubble. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ See the next chapter for beard burn solutions. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ Your mouth slobbered too much at the wrong moment. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ It happens to the best kissers among us. We taste something good and our mouths overflow in the most ungrateful way. Apologize, smile, and laugh it off. Jokingly offer him a napkin. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ Burps or hiccups (yours) during a kiss. Worse, other gases are expelled. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ This is one of the most embarrassing of bodily mishaps. All you can think is Body! How can you betray me so?! Since these things are involuntary and we have little or no control over them, all you can do is say \"oops,\" smile, and laugh at the foul cards you have been dealt (hopefully not too foul, or you'll want to suggest kissing in a different room, or in a wind tunnel). \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ He turned out to be an awful kisser. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Consider whether he is good enough overall to retrain and keep. If not, it's time to say goodnight. Politely end the kiss with a smile and a few small parting pecks (try to avoid hurting his feelings with your sighs of disappointment), and thank him for a nice time. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You want him to go away! \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Moan really, really loud while kissing. Keep your eyes open and let your eyeballs roll up into your head with ecstasy. Between kisses, rock to and fro while humming. Continue your _Exorcist_ impersonation as needed. Alternatively, say an abrupt \"Thanks!\" and be on your merry way. \n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You had gum in your mouth, you hid it, and he found it. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Fess up on the spot. Ask if he is horrified. Tell him _you_ are. Instantly get over it. Continue kissing. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You bit a little too hard. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Did you give an unwanted surprise, or did you actually draw blood? Say you're sorry that you're so hungry and suggest that you adjourn for a snack (unless you have to apply a tourniquet to his tongue or face). \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ You went in for a kiss too fast and bonked heads/noses/teeth. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ Giggle. Laugh. Pretend it hurt you a little more than it really did, and apologize. Ask if you can try again, and act silly about being extra careful. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**What went wrong:**_ He keeps doing something you don't enjoy or that annoys you. \n\n_**Treatment:**_ If you want to keep kissing him, gently let him know you don't fancy the painfully hard lip sucking. Or if it's something really annoying, stop the kissing altogether  and be upfront about what's bugging you. Chances are good you're not the first to be bugged by this particular behavior, but you might be the first to let him know about it. This is helpful to him in the long run; you're doing him a favor. You can also politely suggest an alternate behavior: \"You know, I really like to start kisses with both mouths closed and work up to tongues after a long time. Can we try it my way for a little while?\" \n"}
{"input": "  \n\nTitle: Take Your Kissing to the Next Level\n\nSummary: This section of the book provides advanced techniques and tips for enhancing the kissing experience. It covers a variety of tricks and treats, including temperature play, biting, underwater kissing, and sharing drinks or candy. The section also discusses the importance of flavor and suggests ways to make your kisses more appealing, such as using flavored lipsticks and avoiding stubble burn.\n\nPrompt: Write a guide on how to take your kissing to the next level. Begin by discussing the importance of having a few advanced tricks and treats ready for action. Then, provide a list of techniques, such as temperature play, biting, and underwater kissing. Explain how to perform each technique and include any tips or warnings. Next, discuss the importance of flavor in kissing and suggest ways to make your kisses more appealing, such as using flavored lipsticks and avoiding stubble burn. Finally, provide a list of flavor favorites, including both foods and drinks, and discuss the importance of good oral hygiene. Use a helpful and informative tone throughout.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 7_**\n\n**TAKE YOUR KISSING TO THE NEXT LEVEL**\n\nBeing a great kisser isn't just knowing the techniques of a good kiss, though that certainly helps. No, what transforms a good kiss into a badass, knee-buckling experience is having a few wicked tricks ready for action, anytime. Want to make him do a double-take the next time you kiss? Or make that first kiss the most arousing he's ever tasted by giving it a little twist he's never experienced? \n\nDon't just make yourself the master of the kiss with advanced tricks and treats. Be a kiss guru to lovers and friends by learning tricks that are turn-ons and tricks that make kissing more pleasant for everyone. Tell your friends how to give kisses that taste like their lover's favorite candy, or be the bringer of sage advice on how to cope with  stubble and the rash from mega mack sessions that result in beard burn. \n\nBest of all, these tricks and treats make your kissing world a lot spicier. Make your kisses legendary, the stuff of campfire tales, with advanced kissing techniques passed down through the ages from secret kissing societies and kissing masters, revealed here for the very first time. \n\n# **Tricks and Treats**\n\n_**Cold.**_ Chill the temperature of your mouth with ice or a cold drink before a kiss. Ice cream cools and flavors your mouth. You can even pass an ice cube mouth to mouth. This is a fun surprise trick. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Heat.**_ Make your mouth very warm before a kiss for an exciting surprise. Swish a hot beverage around for a second or two, swallow, then give him a kiss. \n\n_**Tickle.**_ Point your tongue into a hard tip and use it to tickle any area you like by flickering it in short, rapid movements. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Bite.**_ Easy, now\u2014take small, light bites with your teeth on lips, tongue, or areas of skin. Start very light, and be aware that some guys may not want you to bite them at all, or to leave marks (for a variety of reasons). If he appears to like it (moaning, pushing into your mouth), bite just a little bit harder. Give him almost what he wants\u2014then a little bit more. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Underwater.**_ While swimming, pull him under the surface for a smooch. The cold water will intensify the warmth of your mouths, and the water around the seal your mouths make feels amazing. A fun variation is kissing in the shower or under a waterfall. \n\n_**Upside down.**_ This is a lot of fun, and a very playful way to kiss. No one has to hang from a fire escape like Spider-Man (though it looks like fun), and it doesn't take a lot of coordination. One of you hangs your head off the edge of a bed, over the arm of a couch, or off the side of a swimming pool, and see what it's like to match mouths upside down. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Tongue suction.**_ This is a very naughty trick\u2014you essentially treat your partner's tongue as if it were a sensual lollipop, and give a little gentle in-and-out suction. Make a small _O_ shape with your mouth around his tongue, apply a little suction, and slide your lips back and forth, up and down his tongue. Vary your suction and rhythm, and pause intermittently to let the sensations sink in. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sharing a drink.**_ Have you ever really _shared_ a drink? Hold a small amount of delicious drink, such as Champagne or ambrosial fruit juice, in your mouth, and when you kiss, let a sip drain into his mouth. The sexier the beverage, the better. Daring kissers can employ this technique from above, letting the liquid literally drip into his  waiting mouth. To start, sip the liquid, kiss him, let a little bit slip into his mouth, then pull away as more liquid comes out. If it gets messy, lick it off his lips, chin, and neck. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sharing candy.**_ Decadent and delicious, nothing beats a slow-melting piece of butterscotch or peppermint shared by two. Pop it in your mouth, enjoy, and then pass it with a kiss. After a while, ask for it back. Repeat until the candy is gone. You can do this over the course of a party, movie, or make-out session. Can also be done with chewing gum. \n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n  \n\n\n_**Sizzling candy.**_ Some candies \"pop\" or fizz when they make contact with the wet surface of your tongue. Shared by two, these candies can give a French Kiss quite a kick. \n\n_**Wind tunnel.**_ Suck the air from your partner's mouth, either slowly or rapidly, depending on the mood. Breathe hot air back in. This can progress to breathing into each other's mouth, a highly charged, sexy game. \n\n_**Swap techniques.**_ Tell him you want to be kissed using a technique he really enjoys receiving, then switch and kiss him in one of the ways you really like to be kissed. This is a fantastic way to learn what he likes and to show him what techniques you like best. \n\n_**A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration**_\n\n_**A Room with a View**_ , Helena Bonham Carter and Julian Sands \n\nShe's ambushed in a field of beautiful flowers. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Blade Runner**_ , Harrison Ford and Sean Young Sexy, beat-up tough guy kissing scene that sizzles. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Bull Durham**_ , Susan Sarandon and Kevin Costner An outrageous build-up to an outrageous kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Casablanca**_ , Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman \n\nA searing good-bye kiss. \n\n_**Gone with the Wind**_ , Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh \n\nThe ultimate conflict-turned-passionate kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**The Matrix Reloaded**_ , Keanu Reeves and Monica Bellucci \n\nShe wants to know what Neo's true love (Trinity) experiences when they kiss. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Notorious**_ , Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman Long, unusual, playful, arousing. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Sixteen Candles**_ , Molly Ringwald and Michael Schoeffling \n\nUnforgettable, like many first kisses. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Some Kind of Wonderful**_ , Mary Stuart Masterson and Eric Stoltz \n\nKissing lessons that turn into much more. \n\n  \n\n\n_**Spider-Man**_ , Kirsten Dunst and Tobey Maguire Deep superhero kisses after a heroic battle can't be beat. \n\n# **Some Other Hot Make-out Flicks**\n\n_Belle de Jour_  \n_Henry and June_  \n_Dangerous Liaisons_  \n_Secretary_ (kinky)  \n_Eyes Wide Shut_  \n_The Scent of Green Papaya_  \n_Y tu mam\u00e1 tambi\u00e9n_\n\n# **Flavored Kisses**\n\nDo you taste good? Flavor your mouth with candy, tasty herbs (mint, basil, fennel), ice cream, or a drink of something delicious. He'll never forget that kiss if it tastes like butterscotch, peppermint, chocolate, or even something more exotic like basil, tamarind, or vanilla. Some will even get a charge out of the flavor of coffee or wine. But your kissee won't be back for more if your mouth is stale or tastes like an ashtray. \n\nWhen you know you'll be with someone you want to kiss, keep flavorful items nearby to make your mouth yummier. In a pinch, at a restaurant or bar, you can chew on a variety of garnishes readily available\u2014some might even be in your cocktail glass or sitting demurely on the edge of your dinner plate. \n\n_**Flavor Psychology**_\n\nTo be: cool  \nNibble: mint \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: sassy  \nNibble: lemon \n\nTo be: playful  \nNibble: lime \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: brazen  \nNibble: basil leaves \n\nTo be: mischievous  \nNibble: parsley \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: feisty  \nNibble: ginger \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: naughty  \nNibble: a cherry \n\n  \n\n\nTo be: dirty  \nNibble: an olive \n\nSome items might sound good for flavoring your mouth but are really a bad idea. These include mouthwash (especially Listerine), cough drops, garlic, nuts and seeds (too grainy, yuck), Cheetos, and artificially flavored drinks or snacks, which often leave a sour aftertaste. Never try to cover up strong flavors (such as the garlic you ate at dinner) with gum or mints\u2014it never works, and tastes really gross. \n\n_**Kissing Flavor Favorites**_\n\n\u2740 mints\u2014Altoids are intense!  \n\u2740 butterscotch candy  \n\u2740 red wine  \n\u2740 Champagne  \n\u2740 peaches  \n\u2740 cassis  \n\u2740 vanilla  \n\u2740 chocolate  \n\u2740 watermelon  \n\u2740 cinnamon  \n\u2740 licorice  \n\u2740 bubble gum  \n\u2740 honey  \n\u2740 sex \n\nIt's important to keep in mind that there might be flavor factors going on in your body that can adversely affect your flavor from within. Multivitamins can make your mouth taste like a health food store. Antihistamines (and drugs in general, be they prescription or otherwise) can make you taste like chemicals. And strong foods such as curries, garlic, asparagus, broccoli, beets, and red meats will affect your flavor as well. Cigarettes will make you taste like tobacco at best, and like an ashtray at worst. \n\nYou can, of course, sweeten yourself from within. If you take vitamins or antihistamines, try to drink lots of water and citrus juices to neutralize the funk these pills leave behind. Make your essence sweeter by adding citrus and other fruits, honey, and cucumber to your diet. Pineapple, lemon, lime, mango, papaya, banana, fresh ginger, and vanilla all make you taste great, and a few days of drinking creative smoothies with these ingredients will make your mouth into a decadent, kissable dessert. \n\n# **Flavored Lipsticks and Gloss**\n\nRemember junior high school, when the big thing was gooey-sweet strawberry lip gloss? Well, times have changed, and today's flavored and scented lipsticks and glosses  come in a variety of consistencies, colors, and flavors. To see a selection of the yummy treats you can spike your smooches with, take a trip to your nearest department store cosmetics counter or to Sephora. There are over a dozen makeup brands with gloss flavors in everything from latte to raspberry frosting, even chocolate martini. These lines of lip glosses add light sparkle and shine while flavoring and scenting your lips with candy flavors such as caramel, cherry, mocha, and more. And to make your kisses more alluring and interesting, the gloss in most of these products plumps up your lips a bit and tingles\u2014a sensation that can be felt by both kissers. \n\nMAC makes vanilla gloss, and Stila has passion fruit, watermelon, lime, and more. On the opposite end of the spectrum is the daily wear lipstick by Chanel, which is not flavored but smells literally like roses, a far cry from stinky, waxy-smelling drugstore shades. \n\nFlavored glosses and lipsticks make your lips smell inviting and taste sweet, but they're not for everyone. A fresh application combined with a heavy make-out session will have you both sticky from ear to ear, a natural, sometimes fun consequence, but one to consider. Some guys don't like lipsticks or glosses on their kissing partners, preferring to kiss _au naturel_ instead. \n\nWhen in doubt, ask. And don't forgo something you  really like for the sake of only one guy. On the other hand, many men will enjoy that you went the extra step to make kissing a little sexier, a little naughtier, and they won't mind a little stickiness for the sake of good, not-too-clean fun. If he's worried about messing it up, tell him you've got plenty more where that came from. \n\nYou're not limited to lip gloss if you want add an extra something to your kisses, and you don't have to color your lips if you only want to play around with scent or sensation. Lip moisturizers often contain menthols that cool and tingle your lips, resulting in a decadent icy-hot feeling. And when you kiss, it's a sensation shared by two! Look for brands such as Carmex and Blistex Medicated. Last, but not least, if you're looking to shine up your lips by adding glitter, know that it will turn your kisses into an abrasive, exfoliating, grit-in-the-teeth experience. \n\n_**Set the Mood with Music to Make Out By**_\n\n\"A Love Supreme,\" by John Coltrane  \n\"Avalon,\" by Roxy Music  \n\"Dummy,\" by Portishead  \n\"Endtroducing,\" by DJ Shadow  \n\"Exile,\" by Gary Newman  \n\"Fear of Fours,\" by Lamb  \n\"Heaven or Las Vegas\" and \"Victorialand,\"  \nby Cocteau Twins  \n\"Into the Night,\" by Julee Cruise  \n\"Kind of Blue\" and \"Sketches of Spain,\" by Miles Davis  \n\"Ki Oku,\" by DJ Krush  \n\"Le roi est mort,\" by Enigma  \n\"Let's Get Lost,\" by Chet Baker  \n\"Mezzanine,\" by Massive Attack  \n\"Passion Soundtrack,\" by Peter Gabriel  \n\"Play,\" by Moby  \n\"So Tonight that I Might See,\" by Mazzy Star  \n\"Telegraph,\" by Bjork  \nany album by Al Green  \nany album by Barry White  \nany album by Billie Holliday \n\n# **Stubble Burn\u2014and How to Avoid It**\n\nWhen he nuzzles your neck like a big happy kitty and he has just a hint of stubble, it can feel delicious in that scratchy-rough-yummy kind of way. But if you smooch for any period of time and he has short, prickly stubble, it can become quite uncomfortable and leave you with an angry burn\u2014on your face and lips! Exfoliation, the hard way. The more vigorous, intense, and extended the session, the higher your risk for rash. Some men grow facial hair faster than others, and a number of guys have stubble that seems razor sharp the minute it pokes out of his skin. When he's so kissable you have to throw caution to the wind, there are a few things both of you can do to ease the sting of stubble burn. \n\nFirst, know that a mack session with a stubbly guy is going to be like using a dry exfoliant on your face and lips. Try to go into the kissing session without washing or moisturizing your face, as your tender or moist face will just make you more susceptible to irritation. Afterward, wash your face and lips gently with a soothing cleanser and pat dry. Apply a moisturizer that is noncomedogenic, fragrance-free, and doesn't contain any mineral oils; otherwise, your face will break out or become irritated. If you're bright red and feeling the burn more than usual, use a moisturizer with aloe vera. Don't exfoliate the areas for at least two days. \n\nThere are many things he can do to help. He should be shaving with a really good, brand-new razor: opinions are heavily in favor of the Gillette Mach 3. Of course, if he skips a day or two of shaving, the stubble will be much softer and more comfortable to kiss than fresh stubble. Very short stubble, say, about 5-10 hours old, can be the most painful type, as the hairs are at their shortest and most inflexible. Ideally, he should skip a day of shaving, and then take great care to soften the stubble with hot water, hot towels, or even an application of hair conditioner. \n\nBoth parties should use a good lip salve afterward to condition the lips and help them heal. Blistex Clear Advance is the most highly recommended in this category. \n"}
{"input": "   \n\nTitle: The Make-Out Artist\n\nSummary: This chapter discusses the importance of creating a connection, building tension, and being confident in your make-out skills. It provides tips on how to use body language, eye contact, and subtle manipulation to become a legendary make-out artist. The chapter also includes a quiz to help readers determine their style of kissing and provides recommendations on techniques to use based on the results.\n\nPrompt: Write a guide on becoming a make-out artist. Begin by discussing the importance of creating a connection and building tension. Provide tips on how to use body language, eye contact, and subtle manipulation to become a skilled make-out artist. Include a quiz to help readers determine their style of kissing and provide recommendations on techniques to use based on the results. Use a confident and encouraging tone throughout.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 8_**\n\n**THE MAKE-OUT ARTIST**\n\nBeing a make-out artist is all about style and confidence. Armed with the tips presented in this guide, you now have dozens of foolproof techniques for kissing your man _du jour_ from start to finish\u2014even better, from head to toe. As a freshly styled kissing artist, you don't need to set your sights on world domination or creating an army of male slaves. Perhaps you're just tired of being the \"good girl\" kisser, and you'd like to be the man-magnet for a change. Or maybe you're on the prowl for a down-and-dirty fling. \n\nYou don't even have to be a saucy dresser to be a first-rate kisser; you can employ your powers to attract, seduce, and kiss unforgettably anytime, anyplace, in any guise. This chapter will help you put your newfound tools  together to become a femme fatale kisser: chemistry, technique, subtle manipulation through body language, and of course, mind control. This is going to make you a legendary make-out artist. \n\n# **Create a Connection**\n\nIn chapter 1 of this book I talked about chemistry and making a connection with your physical cues. To get the make-out session started, it's all about the messages you send\u2014your body language gives him the right idea. Focus that language through your eyes. Even though you've got the techniques rehearsed and have styled those prettiedup lips to perfection, eye contact is truly the focus of all your efforts. Every move you make hinges on what you do with your eyes. If you keep your eyes closed in movie-kiss imitation bliss, no guy will think you are interested\u2014or _interesting_ \u2014for real. \n\nAnyone can make out by pretending to surrender to the moment with dreamy closed eyes, or staring at his lips (preferably not at the floor, or the clock)\u2014but an artful lover makes eye contact whenever possible. Not all the time; as with driving, you'll want to keep your eyes moving. Direct them to the places you want him to think you find interesting, like his lips and neck, and where he puts his hands\u2014 but always come back to the center of who he is: his eyes. Most important of all, this will make him feel special and draw him in even closer. \n\nReel him in like a fish, and keep smiling. The easiest way to disarm, relax, and intrigue a man is with a smile. Even a light smile while kissing will make you appear that much more inviting. As you kiss, let a smile dance constantly on your lips. This really turns guys on: knowing he's the one making you smile is an instant hook. It boosts his ego like crazy. A smile also sends him the message that you have a great sense of humor, you're approachable and open, and being around you is safe and a good time. \n\n# **Keep Your Confidence High**\n\nHe might be making the moves, but you're really the one in the driver's seat at all times\u2014and you know it. While making out, stay aware of how you look from the outside. Borrow bits and pieces of your kissing moves from kissing scenes in films you think are hot. (See chapter 7, \"A Smooch with a View: Best Movie Kisses to Watch Together for Inspiration.\") If you ever get a chance to peep at another couple making out, watch skilled kissers and sexy vixens closely to see how they smile, make eye contact, hold their heads, and laugh. These skills are a snap to make your  own. Take mental notes, and try them out. \n\nMake your make-out strategies \"idiot proof\" by going over the techniques in this book step by step, repeatedly, and don't leave anything to the last minute. Prepare yourself carefully to make sure you feel comfortable beforehand: you feel sexy in your outfit, you have a few topics to chat about, and you have a backup plan if the make-out session fizzles. \n\nIf you're klutzy, plan to distract him by giggling when you bonk noses. Smile wickedly at your prey when you happen to spill your mimosa all over the hors d'oeuvres as you run your hands through his hair. Act as if to say, _I meant to do that. Watch me now!_ A sense of humor layered with a sense of erotic purpose and determination will make him forget all about the spilled drink\u2014especially if you reveal a bit of cleavage when you mop it up. Then you get to say, as professionally and seriously as possible, \"Now, where were we?\" \n\nDon't worry about your body image\u2014it's all in the lips, the head, and the hips. You've got a sexy boy toy lined up as your erotic plaything: this situation won't be around forever, so make the most of what you've got to offer. Chances are, you're a lot sexier than you think\u2014because sexy comes from inside, not outside. If you're worried about stacking up to others, in breast size or some other measurement, remember that bigger boobs won't make you sexier, they'll just make you someone with big boobs. Big breasts don't make you a hot kisser, either. And yes, men can say insensitive, critical, inappropriate things. If you find yourself making out with one of these clueless dudes, change the channel. Excuse yourself, and go make out with someone more worthy of your mad skills. \n\n# **Build Tension**\n\nYou'll start any make-out session with an appropriate choice of opening kisses: Chapter 2 tells you how to get started. Continue with an assortment of techniques described in chapter 4, including the Sweetheart Kiss, the Lusty Kiss, the Kama Sutra Kiss, Eskimo and Angel Kisses (starting out with no lips), or even the jump-him-now Mad Mack Attack Kiss. Then, once you've started that fire, turn up  the heat by building erotic tension with your hands. \n\nMove your hands to the part of your body where you want to focus his attention: the nape of the neck, eyes, lips, cleavage, or lower. Straighten your clothing (even though you know it's going to have to be straightened again), smooth your hair back, coyly replace a fallen bra strap. Or reach over and smooth out a wrinkle on his shirt or trousers. \n\nEvery once in a while, between kisses, touch yourself in ways that are suggestive, but never _too_ outrageous. Naughty girl\u2014you can even pretend your hands are his eyes. If you're seated, rub your calves or smooth your hands over your legs. Rub your hands over your arms almost as if you are cold, but slowly. Glide your hand across the back of your neck, feeling the softness of your skin, and even give it a momentary, gentle, stress-relieving rub. Rest your hands on your hips, or on your thighs. \n\nUse your feet as well\u2014feet are quite sexy. Take off a shoe and rub your ankle or foot. Or let one foot do a little recon, sneaking forward to touch his toe for a moment as if by accident, then back. Good feet, doing the dirty work. Then let one foot sneak up against his foot and apply a steady pressure, bringing his attention to the possibilities of both of your bodies touching. Gauge his reaction. See if he returns your pressure or moves away. \n\n# **Accelerate His Attraction (without Giving Away Too Much)**\n\nA good speaker will stand so that his or her body is \"open\" to everyone listening, especially toward one person in particular. A make-out artist will do exactly the same while kissing. Have your feet apart, knees together (for now, anyway), and keep your arms open and uncrossed. Try to keep your head tilted down slightly to suggest directness in your kissing focus. Keep eye contact, but mix it up. You're one-on-one, so keep your eye contact consistent while kissing, but take 5-to-10-second visual breaks to let him look at you, too. \n\nIf he's primed for more and you want to know if you should turn up the heat, he'll give you signs and clues that are your green light. Unless he's really pawing on you or taking control, look for these \"keep going\" gestures: smiles, nods, little \"mmh\" noises that punctuate the breaks in your kisses, or small physical prompts like mirroring your kisses. He'll show increased attraction with his body (besides the, um, obvious) by leaning into you more, applying more pressure with his lips, and pulling you closer. \n\nGive him what he wants\u2014almost. And then a little bit more. You can direct his hands, which will likely be wandering. If he has them at the small of your back, slide them up your waist and to the sides of your breasts, all  the while kissing, and then back to your waist. Turn down the heat with lighter kisses. Then bring his hands back near your breasts, and turn the heat back up with a hot, passionate kiss and a lower lip nibble. Now pull back for a smile. \n\n# **Make-Out Techniques: Light and Flirty or Down and Dirty**\n\nReview your quiz answers from chapter 1 to see what style of kissing vixen you are, and determine your course of make-out action based on how you scored. Let your inner Sweet Lips, Power Puss, Hot Lips, or Miss Pure Delicious Poison guide the way. Are you a little of each? No problem! Pick the ones you like to make a style all your own. \n\n## _**Sweet Lips Chic**_\n\nUse your loveliest blossoms to attract the bees to your honey: no matter how you want your kissing sessions to go, your best technique depends on your smile, a knowing look, and easy laughter. Make the most of your Sweet Lips techniques by really working up the first-kiss tips. If you identify with the sexy librarian type, the area where you most need polish will be how to get started. You'll get the best guidance from the \"First Kiss Do's and Don'ts\" in chapter 2. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ He melts in your mouth, not in your hands. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Sweetheart Kiss, Angel and Eskimo Kisses, Romantic Kiss, Snuggle Bunny Kisses. Get your specifics from the \"Appetizers\" and \"Dish of the Day\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Light and sunny. Daytime picnics, beaches, private pretty vistas, romantic walks, sunsets. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ Lip gloss, rose-colored glasses. \n\n## _**Power Puss Vogue**_\n\nReady to strike the right pose, pucker up, and reel in your bohunk with sass? Power Girl, in this book you get the most from tips about eye contact, and seek out any kissing fix-its in sections on how to deal with guys who don't kiss as well as they look. You've got the power to pull in anyone you want. You can do what you want with them\u2014be ready to decide whether to go all the way or not. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ Slippery when wet. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ First Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, Taste of What's to Come, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses. Get your finer points from the \"Appetizers,\" \"Dish of the Day,\" and \"Dessert\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Hot and steamy. Bars, clubs, parties (especially theme parties), after-hours bashes, and even on your doorstep as a Goodnight session. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ A sexy scent (perfume, moisturizer, body butter) and tasty lip gloss. \n\n## _**Hot Lips Bombshell**_\n\nGet ready, Bombshell, because when you kiss a boy, he's not going anywhere until you set him free. Delivering a powerful opening kiss is as easy for you as taking candy from a baby boy\u2014and so is letting him know that _you're_ the candy he needs. And you've got the smoldering gaze to back it up. Polish up your pout and make your kissing techniques shine by making the most of tips and tricks on what to do once you're in place and the conversation's flowing. You need the most help in focusing on hands, arms, legs, and feet, and using them to your best advantage. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ Dangerous curves. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Taste of What's to Come, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, Romantic Kisses, more French Kisses. Pick your pinpoint techniques mostly from the \"Dish of the Day\" and \"Dessert\" menus in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Heat wave, all the way. Anything that gets you close and personal is where you can work your magic: an intimate corner of a pub, a booth, in a corner at a wedding dinner, the interrogation room, the scene of the crime, private parties, dark movie theaters, museums, cocktail affairs, and boardroom affairs. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ A compact mirror for lipstick fix-its when you need the pause that refreshes (or you get caught) and super-sexy underwear. \n\n## _**Miss Pure Delicious Poison**_\n\nMen: they're what's for dinner. Style, panache, and a touch of supervillainess insanity make you the most magnetic and kissable woman in the room, whether you're arriving in an explosion of smoke, gliding in on the backs of your henchmen, or simply sitting on your mechanical throne stroking your fluffy white cat. Who cares if you come on too strong when you're the one holding the ray gun? Making men melt with your lips comes naturally; the only spot you need to perfect is the switch\u2014when things don't go as planned, you get cranky. Don't seek vengeance\u2014just keep your exit strategies in line. And don't forget that turning _down_ the volume of your kissing powers can be just as powerful as cranking them up. \n\n_**The attitude:**_ When I'm bad, I'm better. \n\n_**The techniques, in order:**_ Mad Mack Attack, Lusty Kiss, Kama Sutra Kisses, French Kiss, reverse Gladiator Kisses, tease him down with  some Sweetheart Kisses, then come back with more French Kisses. Choose heavily from the \"Dessert\" menu in chapter 5. \n\n_**Ideal make-out conditions:**_ Your affections and your make-out sessions are like a storm. They rage in, wreak havoc, and subside just as quickly. Dramatic conditions suit you best: castles, underground labs, back rooms, rooftops, evil lairs, tech conferences, haunted woods, abandoned shacks, private islands, penthouse suites, ice fortresses, and secret hideouts. \n\n_**Make-out checklist:**_ Daytime disguise in your purse or utility belt, and edible body butter. _**Wicked flirt checklist:**_ Bad girl, good girl. It's an endless cycle. Now you're ready to join the party. Don't leave the house without your utility belt, magic lasso, and kick-ass bag of kissing tricks and techniques. Make notes and try to keep track of your conquests\u2014kissing legends all have lists on their refrigerators, too. \n"}
{"input": "    \n\nTitle: Kissing Games\n\nSummary: This chapter discusses various kissing games that can be played in different settings and with different numbers of people. It includes games for parties, such as Spin the Bottle, Sixty Seconds in Heaven, and Kissing Bunny, as well as games for just two people, such as Ice Princess, Blindfold Swap, and Catch Me If You Can. The chapter provides detailed instructions for each game and encourages readers to have fun and be creative with their kissing skills.\n\nPrompt: Write a guide on kissing games that can be played in different settings and with different numbers of people. Include games for parties, such as Spin the Bottle and Sixty Seconds in Heaven, as well as games for just two people, such as Ice Princess and Blindfold Swap. Provide detailed instructions for each game and encourage readers to have fun and be creative with their kissing skills.", "response": "\n\n**_Chapter 9_**\n\n**KISSING GAMES**\n\nKissing is seductive, kissing is playful; but kissing is also a technique to be learned and refined like an artist, and a skill to be played like an athlete. A girl who is a make-out artist will go down in history as a legend whose kisses are talked about and compared to the finest paintings or the most erotic sculptures a guy would ever want to wrap his lips around. But if you really want to play the game like a skilled gambler, laying down a winning hand the moment you get to his table, I know you're ready if you've learned the techniques in this book. And when it comes to kissing games, I know you're going to play to _win_. \n\nAs of this writing, there is yet to be a Kissing Olympics, though every Valentine's Day around the world,  various cities hold kissing contests. Power Puss alert: can you imagine finding the guy you'd kiss forever, and then showing the world you actually can? Well, in Nanning, China, there's a kissing contest in which one couple kissed for seven hours nonstop to win. But that's nothing compared to the Houston, Texas, couple who kissed for 22 hours straight in 2009: a bridal company organized the \"Longest Kiss Contest\" to win a dream wedding. Hopefully, the grand prize included a case of medical-grade ChapStick. \n\nIt's one thing to be primed to win a gold medal for kissing\u2014that makes you a top player. It's another to have a roster of kissing games at your disposal, and to know which game would be most suitable in a particular situation, so you can walk away the smiling champ. There are games for two and games for groups. Now it's time to learn the games, and the rules of engagement. Even if you're already engaged. \n\n# **Party Games**\n\nYou've got the right attitude and the skills to pay the lip gloss bills; now it's time to show who's the Queen. At racy parties where there are a number of hotties out and about, the best way to break the ice is with a kissing game. You can play kissing games in large or small groups, in a room off to the side or in the middle of the show\u2014for the maximum, delicious tension of seeing who's attracted to whom, and for the pleasure of showing off. Small parties or gatherings can turn entirely into a kissing game. Any way you do it, playing with a crowd of fun-loving, adventurous kissers is a blast. Achieve liftoff with the following kissing party games. \n\n## _**Spin the Bottle**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ an empty bottle. \n\nThe most common kissing game in the world. A group of any size sits in a circle and people take turns spinning an empty bottle. The person spinning the bottle has to kiss whomever the bottle ends up pointing to; the group can self-determine if same-sex kissing is okay, or not\u2014it's all in fun. Then the person who was kissed gets to spin the bottle to see whom she kisses next. Variations on this game  include going in a circle to make sure everyone gets a turn and deciding whether the kissers do the deed in front of the group or run off to a closet or bathroom for the kiss. \n\n## _**Sixty Seconds in Heaven**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ an empty bottle, a private space (closet), red lipstick, and a timer. \n\nThis is a classic, handed down through the ages by teenagers of all stripes. It's a great add-on to Spin the Bottle: The person who gets control of the bottle spins it twice and sends the random couple into a closet for 60 seconds. To increase the stakes, the pair must prove that they shared a kiss\u2014with red lipstick. To play this game to win, one partner slathers their lips with the red lipstick and kisses the other as many times as possible on any area of exposed skin (face, neck, arms, etc.), leaving one lip print for each kiss. When the 60 seconds is up, the closet is opened and lip prints are counted. The pair who left the most lip prints wins. This game can also be played with pairs of already-established couples\u2014each pair of love bunnies gets 60 seconds to kiss as much as possible and win the game. \n\n## _**Kissing Bunny**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a stuffed animal (like a bunny). \n\nSit in a circle and arrange yourselves either guy/girl or randomly; you'll be kissing whomever sits next to you. The stuffed bunny is the stunt bunny\u2014the kissing double. One person takes the bunny and kisses it where they'd like to be kissed, then passes the bunny to the person on their right. The recipient has to kiss them on that spot. Then the person with the bunny kisses the bunny, passes it to the right, and gets their kiss, and so on. After one full circle, reverse the process and pass the bunny to the left. Variations: no part of the bunny can be kissed twice; or, for true gamblers, combine it with Spin the Bottle. \n\n## _**Pass the Apple**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a few apples. \n\nA circular seating arrangement is best for this one as well, so arrange yourselves either guy/girl or randomly; you'll be kissing whomever sits next to you. One person takes an apple in their mouth and bites it, then passes it with their mouth to the person on their right. The recipient has to receive the apple using only their mouth, grabbing it with a bite. This will take some giggly coordination  between the two of them. The apple will get smaller and smaller\u2014until you need a new apple. After one full circle, reverse the process and pass the apple to the left. \n\n## _**Who's for Dessert?**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ whipped cream, chocolate sauce, cherries, or any other lickable dessert topping that's handy. \n\nThis game can be played going around the circle or with the randomness of Spin the Bottle. The person who gets to receive the kiss takes the whipped cream or topping and places it where they'd like to have their \"kiss.\" They can put it wherever they want, or you can set limits. The person who spun the bottle (or whoever's turn it is to do the kissing/licking) has to creatively kiss or nibble the dessert topping off. \n\n## _**The Mystery Kiss**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ blindfolds, scarves, ties, or handkerchiefs. \n\nSeparate an even number of guys and girls (or however you want to mix it up) and stand across the room from  each other, with the men blindfolded. Each girl selects a guy, quietly walks over and kisses him, making sure not to let him know who she is. Playing music will help hide any noise that might give your identity away. After each girl gives a guy a kiss, the ladies line up across the room from the men. The boys take off their blindfolds and try to guess who kissed them. If the boy guesses correctly, the girl is \"out.\" The game continues until there is only one left. Next, swap blindfolds and the guys get their turn. \n\n# **Games Just for Two**\n\nAre you ready to go one-on-one? A little hand-to-hand, or lips to\u2014other places? Kissing games for two are a great way to melt the ice (literally, in one of these games) or spice up what might be an ordinary date, an evening around the house, or anytime you want to make the most of what's right in front of you. \n\n## _**Ice Princess**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a drink with ice cubes in it or a cup of ice. \n\nGet an ice cube; start with it in your mouth, running it over his lips, his cheek and jaw, down his neck, or even his forearms and the sensitive hollow in the palm of his hand. Continue back up to his mouth and then it's his turn. \n\n## _**Ice, Ice, Baby (More)**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a drink with ice cubes in it or a cup of ice, and a timer. \n\nLay your victim down and place an ice cube on his stomach. Then have him gently sit up, allowing the ice cube to slide down his stomach. Wherever it lands, you have to lick and kiss for exactly one minute. \n\n## _**Chocolate Kisses**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ fudge sauce or warmed chocolate syrup, and a spoon or paintbrush. \n\nA delicious turn-on that lets you tease and tempt, or even draw or write messages on your lover's body. With a bottle of hot fudge or chocolate syrup in hand, have your partner lie down or lean back in a comfy chair. Take his  shirt off (or pull it up) and draw or paint on a part of his body with the chocolate. Now lick and kiss it off. \n\n## _**Back to the Drawing Board**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ lipstick and edible body paints (or colorful dessert topping). \n\nLightly draw lip prints someplace on your partner's exposed skin (lipstick or gourmet body paint works well for this). Then fill each of those marks with your own lips! This is especially fun with the body paints. \n\n## _**Blindfold Swap**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ two blindfolds, scarves, ties, or handkerchiefs. \n\nBoth partners blindfold each other. Without using your hands, take turns giving exactly ten kisses to each other. \n\n## _**Catch Me If You Can**_\n\nTell him you want him to give you one kiss but you're not going to let him. When he tries to kiss your cheek, turn your head. If he aims for your lips, duck so he gets your nose. Spice it up by teasing him a little: when he's the one resisting your kisses, try to persuade him to give in and let you kiss him. This is a great game for a dating couple. \n\n## _**Queen of Hearts**_\n\n_**Requirements:**_ a deck of playing cards. \n\nRemove all the hearts from a deck of ordinary playing cards. One of you shuffles the hearts, fans them out between you, and the other randomly chooses a card that decides how many kisses you will give. Variation: use dice and assign the following body parts to a six-sided die: \n\n1\\. : cheek \n\n2\\. : forehead \n\n3\\. : lips/mouth \n\n4\\. : neck \n\n5\\. : palm of the hand \n\n6\\. : anything goes \n\n## _**Not a Drinking Game**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a film that includes a repetitive activity that could be used for a typical \"drinking game.\" Examples: watching _The Thin Man_ and taking a drink every time the characters do; watching a Coen Brothers film and drinking every time an expletive (such as _f**k_ ) is used; whenever Buffy kills a vampire. You can even watch kissing movies, as recommended in chapter 7. \n\nWhenever the repetitive activity (drinking, swearing, vampire slaying) happens onscreen, you and your partner kiss, but you can't touch each other in any other way until the movie is over. \n\n## _**Macho Man**_\n\n_**Requirement:**_ a guy who brags about how strong he is. \n\nDoes he think he's tough? Tough enough to get to kiss you? Challenge him to do a set of push-ups\u2014where you make the rules. Lie flat on your back on the floor with your arms at your sides. His assignment is to \"drop and give you twenty\"\u2014twenty kisses. He does push-ups over you, and every time he comes down he gets a reward: a kiss. \n\n## _**Stare Down**_\n\nYou and your partner have a staring contest; the goal is not to blink. The longer you keep your eyes open, the longer he gets to kiss you. \n\n## _**Hey, Driver: Stop Signs**_\n\nWhile the two of you are driving, if you come to a stop sign that is a three- or four-way stop, the passenger has to kiss the driver that many times. \n\n## _**Anything for a Kiss**_\n\nHere, almost anything goes: except kissing. The object of the game is to try to get him to kiss you by doing as you wish to him. You can do anything to lure him to your lips, but you cannot kiss him. Then switch, and he does the same to you. The person to last the longest without giving in wins. \n\n## _**Invisible Ink**_\n\nWith the tip of your tongue, spell a word on the upturned palm of his hand\u2014or the inside of his forearm, his neck, or for the more adventurous, a place he can't see at all. If you want, spell out an instruction, such as \"Kiss my right shoulder.\" If he gets it right, he either follows the instruction (which is its own reward) or gets to kiss you once anywhere he likes. If he gets it wrong, you get to do what you want to him. Take turns spelling words with your tongue. \n\n## _**The Magic Word**_\n\nEach of you decides on a particular word at the beginning of the day, or on a day you have scheduled for a date, but don't tell each other what it is. Throughout the day (or during the date), if either of you says the other person's word, you have to drop everything and kiss the other person immediately. \n"}
{"input": "     \n\nTitle: About the Author\n\nSummary: This section provides a brief biography of the author, Violet Blue, highlighting her accomplishments and credentials. It mentions her various roles, including blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning best-selling author and editor, podcaster, reporter for Web TV show GETV, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media. It also mentions some of the media outlets she has written for, such as the _San Francisco Chronicle_, _Forbes_, _O, The Oprah Magazine_, and the UN-sponsored international health organization RH Reality Check. Additionally, it mentions some of the institutions she has given lectures at, including UC Berkeley, UCSF, and tech conferences such as ETech and SXSW.\n\nPrompt: Write a brief biography of the author, Violet Blue, highlighting her accomplishments and credentials. Mention her various roles, including blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning best-selling author and editor, podcaster, reporter for Web TV show GETV, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media. Also mention some of the media outlets she has written for, such as the _San Francisco Chronicle_, _Forbes_, _O, The Oprah Magazine_, and the UN-sponsored international health organization RH Reality Check. Additionally, mention some of the institutions she has given lectures at, including UC Berkeley, UCSF, and tech conferences such as ETech and SXSW.", "response": "\n\n**ABOUT THE AUTHOR**\n\n**VIOLET BLUE** (tinynibbles.com) is a blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning best-selling author and editor of more than two dozen books in five languages, podcaster, reporter for Web TV show GETV, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media such as CNN and _The Tyra Banks Show_. She is the sex columnist for the _San Francisco Chronicle_ , with a weekly column titled \"Open Source Sex,\" and she runs a podcast by the same name with more than 8 million downloads and counting. Violet is also a _Forbes_ Web Celeb and one of _Wired_ 's Faces of Innovation. She writes for media outlets such as _Forbes_ ; _O, The Oprah Magazine_ ; and the UN-sponsored international health organization RH Reality Check.  Violet gives lectures to cyberlaw classes at UC Berkeley, human sexuality programs at UCSF, and tech conferences (ETech and SXSW), in addition to sex crisis counselors at community teaching institutions and Google Tech Talks. Her tech blog is at techyum.com, and she publishes DRMFREE audio and e-books at DigitaPub.com. \n"}
{"input": " Title: Copyright and Publication Information\n\nSummary: This section provides information about the copyright and publication details of the book. It includes the copyright statement, which specifies the year and owner of the copyright, as well as any restrictions on the use or reproduction of the material. It also includes the publisher's name and address, as well as the country where the book was printed. Additionally, it may include information about the cover design and illustrations, as well as the edition of the book and any relevant ISBN numbers.\n\nPrompt: Write a section that provides information about the copyright and publication details of the book. Include the copyright statement, which specifies the year and owner of the copyright, as well as any restrictions on the use or reproduction of the material. Also include the publisher's name and address, as well as the country where the book was printed. Mention any information about the cover design and illustrations, as well as the edition of the book and any relevant ISBN numbers.", "response": "\n\nCopyright \u00a9 2014 by Violet Blue\u00ae. \n\n  \n\n\nAll rights reserved. Except for brief passages quoted in newspaper, magazine, radio, or television reviews, no part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying or recording, or by information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. \n\n  \n\n\nPublished in the United States by Cleis Press Inc.,  \n2246 Sixth Street, Berkeley, CA 94710. \n\n  \n\n\nPrinted in the United States. \n\nCover design: Scott Idleman \n\nCover illustration: marabird/Getty Images \n\nTest design and illustrations: Frank Wiedemann \n\n  \n\n\nFirst Edition \n\n10987654321 \n\n  \n\n\nTrade paper ISBN: 978-1-62778-040-7 \n\neISBN : 978-1-62778-057-5 \n\n  \n\n\nLibrary of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is available \n"}