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**Bibliography**

#  _**Articles**_

"Anatomical Relationship Between Urethra and Clitoris," by Helen E. OConnell, John M. Huston, Colin R. Anderson, and Robert J. Plenter. _Journal of Urology_ , vol. 159, 1892-97, June 1998.

"Aphrodites Appetite: The Ins and Outs of Eating for Great Sex," by Heather Corinna. _Scarlet Letters: A Journal of Femmerotica_ , May 1999.

Between Women: Activists Hope for Answers from the First Federal Study of Lesbian Transmission of HIV," by Sue Rochman. _Advocate,_ May 25, 1999, 73-74.

"The Big Lie: Lesbian Bed Death," by Suzanne Iasenza Ph.D., on GayHealth.com, reprinted from _In The Family,_ April 1999. www.GayHealth.com

"Cervical Cancer Risk and Papanicolaou Screening in a Sample of Lesbian and Bisexual Women," by Elizabeth J. Rankow and Irene Tessaro. _Journal of Family Practice,_ vol. 47, no. 2, 139-43, August 1998.

"Female Ejaculation: Perceived Origins, the Grafenberg Spot/Area, and Sexual Responsiveness," by Carol Ann Darling, J. Kenneth Davidson Sr., and Colleen Conway-Welch. _Archives of Sexual Behavior,_ vol. 19, no. 1, 29-47, 1990.

"Female = Woman, Right? Not Always…" www.butch-femme.net/butchfemmenetwork_039.htm

"Female-to-Female Transmission of Human Immunodeficiency Virus," by Helena A. Kwakwa and M. W. Ghobrial, _Clinical Infectious Diseases,_ January 10, 2003. www.journals.uchicago.edu/CID/journal/issues/v36n3/20886/20886.html

"FTM 101—The Invisible Transsexuals," by Shadow Morton, Yosenio Lewis, Aaron Hans, and James Green, editor, 1997. www.gendercentre.org.au/invisibletranssexuals.htm

"Genital Human Papillomavirus Infection in Women Who Have Sex with Women," by Jeanne M. Marrazzo, Laura A. Koutsky, Kathleen L. Stine, et al. _Journal of Infectious Diseases,_ vol. 178, 1604-609, 1999.

"Guidelines for Routine Health Care," by Dr. Lenore Tietjens-Grillo M.D., FACOG. www.man2manpdx.us/sex_std/transgender_issues_risks.shtml

"Health Related Behaviors and Cancer Screening of Lesbians: Results from the Boston Lesbian Health Project," by Susan Jo Roberts and Lena Sorensen. _Women and Health,_ vol. 28, no. 4, 1-11, 1999.

"Human Papillomavirus Infection: The Most Common Sexually Transmitted Infection," by Kathleen Stine. _Journal of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association,_ vol. 3, no. 1, 21-22, 1999.

"Lady Buggers," by Jennifer Block, _POZ,_ May 2003.

"Optimal Gynecologic and Obstetric Care for Lesbians," by Nina M. Carroll. _Obstetrics and Gynecology,_ vol. 93, no. 4, 611-13, April 1999.

"Predictors of Decreased Libido in Women During the Late Reproductive Years," by C. R. Gracia, M. D. Sammel, E. W. Freeman, L. Liu, L. Hollander, D. B. Nelson. _Menopause_ , 2004; 11:144-150.

"Seven Types of Female Orgasm or Annie Sprinkles Models of Orgasm," Annie Sprinkle, www.anniesprinkle.org/html/writings/7_types_org.html

"Transgender Health," by Jamie Feldman M.D., Ph.D., and Walter Bockting Ph.D., _Minnesota Medicine,_ July 2003/Volume 86.

#  _**Books**_

##  **Bisexuality**

_Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out,_ edited by Loraine Hutchins and Lani Kaahumanu (Alyson Publications, 1991).

_Bisexual Resource Guide,_ edited by Robyn Ochs (Bisexual Resource Center, 2001).

_Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture,_ by Carol Queen, 2nd edition, (Cleis Press, 2002).

_Bisexuality and the Eroticism of Everyday Life,_ by Marjorie B. Garber (Routledge, 2000).

##  **Erotica**

_As You Desire Me,_ by Fiona Cooper (Diva, 2004).

_Awakening the Virgin 2,_ by Nicole Foster (Alyson Publications, 2003).

_Best Bisexual Womens Erotica,_ edited by Cara Bruce (Cleis Press, 2001).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2005,_ selected and introduced by Felice Newman. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2005).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2004,_ selected and introduced by Michelle Tea. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2004).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2003,_ selected and introduced by Cheryl Clarke. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2003).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2002,_ selected and introduced by Amber Hollibaugh. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2002).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2001,_ selected and introduced by Pat Califia. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2001).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 2000,_ selected and introduced by Joan Nestle. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2000).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 1999,_ selected and introduced by Chrystos. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 1999).

_Best Lesbian Erotica 1998,_ selected and introduced by Jewelle Gomez. Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 1998).

_Best of the Best Lesbian Erotica,_ Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2000).

_Best of the Best Lesbian Erotica 2,_ Tristan Taormino, series editor (Cleis Press, 2005).

_Black Feathers: Erotic Dreams,_ by Cecilia Tan (HarperCollins, 1998).

_Dark Angels: Lesbian Vampire Stories,_ edited by Pam Keesey (Cleis Press, 1994).

_Daughters of Darkness: Lesbian Vampire Stories,_ edited by Pam Keesey (Cleis Press, 1993).

_Doc and Fluff: The Dystopian Tale of a Girl and Her Biker,_ by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 1996).

_Doing It for Daddy: Short Sexy Fiction About a Very Forbidden Fantasy,_ edited by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 1994).

_Electric 2: Best Lesbian Erotic Fiction,_ edited by Nicole Foster (Alyson Publications, 2003).

_The Escort,_ by Kay Vale (Diva Books, 2003).

_Friday the Rabbi Wore Lace: Jewish Lesbian Erotica,_ edited by Karen X. Tulchinsky (Cleis Press, 1998).

_Hot and Bothered 4: Short Fiction of Lesbian Desire,_ edited by Karen X. Tulchinsky (Arsenal Pulp, 2003).

_The Leather Daddy and the Femme: An Erotic Novel,_ by Carol Queen (Down There Press, 2003).

_Leatherwomen,_ edited by Laura Antoniou (Masquerade Books, 1998).

_Macho Sluts,_ by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 1989).

_Melting Point,_ by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 1996).

_No Mercy,_ by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 2000).

_On Our Backs: The Best Erotic Fiction,_ Volume 2, edited by Diana Cage (Alyson Publications, 2004).

_Peculiar Passions,_ by Ruby Vise (Diva Books, 2003).

_Pillow Talk II: Lesbian Stories Between the Covers,_ edited by Lesléa Newman (Alyson Publications, 2000).

_Speaking in Whispers: Lesbian African-American Erotica,_ by Kathleen E. Morris (Third Side Press, 1996).

_Switch Hitters: Lesbians Write Gay Male Erotica and Gay Men Write Lesbian Erotica,_ edited by Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel (Cleis Press, 1997).

_Up All Night: Adventures in Lesbian Sex,_ edited by Stacy Bias and Rachel Kramer Bussel (Alyson Publications, 2004).

_Virgin Territory_ and _Virgin Territory 2,_ edited by Shar Rednour (Masquerade Books, 1996, 1997).

##  **Gender**

_Becoming a Visible Man,_ by Jamison Green (Vanderbilt University Press, 2004).

_Body Alchemy: Transsexual Portraits,_ by Loren Cameron (Cleis Press, 1996).

_Brazen Femme_ : _Queering Femininity,_ edited by Chloë Brushwood Rose and Anna Camilleri (Arsenal Pulp Press, 2003).

_Butch/Femme: Inside Lesbian Gender,_ by Sally R. Munt and Cherry Smith (Cassell, 1998).

_Dagger: On Butch Women,_ edited by Roxxie, Lily Burana, and Linnea Due (Cleis Press, 1994).

_The Drag King Anthology,_ edited by Donna Troka, Kathleen Lebesco, Jean Noble (Harrington Park Press, 2003).

_Drag King Book: A First Look,_ by Del LaGrace Volcano and Judith "Jack" Halberstam (Serpents Tail, 1999).

_Female Masculinity,_ by Judith Halberstam (Duke University Press, 1998).

_Femme: Feminists, Lesbians, and Bad Girls,_ edited by Laura Harris and Elizabeth Crocker (Routledge, 1997).

_The Femmes Guide to the Universe,_ by Shar Rednour (Alyson Publications, 2000).

_The Femme Mystique,_ by Lesléa Newman (Alyson Publications, 1995).

_FTM: Female-to-Male Transsexuals in Society,_ by Holly Devor (Indiana University Press, 1999).

_Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us,_ by Kate Bornstein (Vintage, 1995).

_GenderQueer_ , edited by Joan Nestle, Riki Wilchins, and Claire Howell (Alyson Publications, 2002).

_Intersex in the Age of Ethics,_ edited by Alice Domurat Dreger (University Press Group, 1999).

_The Last Time I Wore a Dress_ , by Daphne Scholinski and Jane Meredith Adams (Riverhead, 1998).

_Lesbians Talk Transgender,_ by Zachary I. Nataf (Scarlet Press, 1996).

_My Gender Workbook,_ by Kate Bornstein (Routledge, 1998).

_The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader,_ edited by Joan Nestle (Alyson Publications, 1992).

_Read My Lips: Sexual Subversion and the End of Gender,_ by Riki Wilchins (Firebrand Books, 1997).

_Sex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism,_ by Patrick Califia, 2nd ed. (Cleis Press, 2003).

_Transgender Care: Recommended Guidelines, Practical Information, and Personal Accounts,_ by Gianna E. Israel, Donald E. Tarver, and Joy Diane Shaffer (Temple University Press, 1998).

_Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman,_ by Leslie Feinberg (Beacon, 1997).

_Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue,_ by Leslie Feinberg (Beacon, 1998).

_Transmen and FTMs: Identities, Bodies, Genders, and Sexualities,_ by Jason Cromwell (University of Illinois Press, 1999).

##  **Graphic Novels and Comics**

_Adventures of a Lesbian College Schoolgirl,_ by Petra Waldron and Jennifer Finch (NBM, 1998).

_Small Favors: Girly Porno Comic Collection,_ by Colleen Coover (Fantagraphics Books, 2002).

##  **Orgasm**

_Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women,_ by Julia R. Heiman Ph.D. and Joseph Lopiccolo Ph.D. (Fireside/Simon & Schuster, 1988).

_Camino al Orgasmo_ , by Sonia Blasco (Fireside, 1997).

_For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality,_ by Lonnie Barbach Ph.D. (Signet, 2000).

_When the Earth Moves: Women and Orgasm,_ by Mikaya Heart (Celestial Arts, 1998).

##  **Photography**

_Body Alchemy: Transsexual Portraits,_ by Loren Cameron (Cleis Press, 1996).

_Butch/Femme,_ edited by M. G. Soares (Crown, 1995).

_Drag King Book: A First Look,_ by Del LaGrace Volcano and Judith "Jack" Halberstam (Serpents Tail, 1999).

_Femalia,_ edited by Joani Blank (Down There Press, 1993).

_Her Tongue on My Theory: Images, Essays, and Fantasies,_ by Kiss & Tell (Press Gang Publishers, 1994).

_I Am My Lover: Women Pleasure Themselves,_ edited by Joani Blank (Down There Press, 1997).

_Nothing but the Girl: The Blatant Lesbian Image,_ by Susie Bright and Jill Posner (Freedom, 1998).

_The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage,_ by Midori (Greenery Press, 2001).

##  **Relationships**

_Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child: A Support Book_ , by Laura Davis (HarperPerennial, 1991).

_The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities_ , by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt (Greenery Press, 1998).

_The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-Term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships_ , by Betty Berzon (Plume, 1997).

_Lesbian Couples: A Guide to Creating Healthy Relationships_ , by D. Merilee Clunis and G. Dorsey Green, 3rd edition, (Seal Press, 2000).

_The Lesbian Couples Guide: Finding the Right Woman and Creating a Life Together_ , by Judith McDaniel (HarperPerennial, 1995).

_The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything from Heartthrob to Heartbreak_ , by Marny Hall (HarperSanFrancisco, 1998).

_The Lesbian Polyamory Reader: Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex_ , edited by Marcia Munson and Judith P. Stelboum (Harrington Park, 1999).

_Lesbian Polyfidelity_ , by Celeste West (Booklegger Press, 1995).

_Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships_ , by Jack Rinella (Greenery Press, 2003).

_Polyamory, the New Love without Limits: Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships_ , by Deborah M. Anapol (IntiNet Resource Center, 1997).

_Redefining Our Relationships_ , by Wendy-O Matik (Last Gasp, 2002).

_True Secrets of Lesbian Desire: Keeping Sex Alive in Long-Term Relationships_ , by Renata Stendhal (North Atlantic, 2003).

_When Someone You Love Is Kinky_ , by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt (Greenery, 2000).

##  **Sex Guides and How-To**

_Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women_ , by Jack Morin (Down There Press, 1998).

_Big Big Love: A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them_ , by Hanne Blank (Greenery Press, 1999).

_Down and Dirty Sex Secrets: The New and Naughty Guide to Being Great in Bed_ , by Tristan Taormino (ReganBooks, 2003)

_The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment_ , by Jack Morin (HarperPerennial, 1996).

_Exhibitionism for the Shy_ , by Carol Queen (Down There Press, 1995).

_Fantasy Made Flesh: The Essential Guide to Erotic Roleplay_ , by Deborah Addington (Greenery Press, 2003).

_Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot_ , by Deborah Sundahl (Hunter House, 2003).

_First Person Sexual: Women and Men Write About Self-Pleasuring_ , edited by Joani Blank (Down There Press, 1996).

_The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written_ , by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans, 3rd edition, (Cleis Press, 2002).

_A Hand in the Bush: The Art of Vaginal Fisting_ , by Deborah Addington (Greenery Press, 1996).

_The Lesbian Sex Book_ , by Wendy Caster and Rachel Kramer Bussel, 2nd edition, (Alyson Publications, 2003).

_Paying for It: A Guide by Sex Workers for Their Clients_ , by Greta Christina (Greenery Press, 2004).

_Safer Sex Handbook for Lesbians_ , by Cynthia Madansky and Julie Tolentino Wood (GMHC, 1993, pamphlet).

_Sapphistry: The Book of Lesbian Sexuality_ , by Pat Califia (Naiad Press, 1979).

_Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples_ , by Patrick Califia, 2nd edition (Cleis Press, 2002).

_Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving_ , by Betty Dodson (Crown, 1996).

_Sex Toys 101: A Playfully Uninhibited Guide_ , by Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah (Simon & Schuster, 2003).

_The Sexuality of Latinas_ , edited by Norma Alarcon, Ana Castillo, and Cherrie Moraga (Third Woman Press, 1993). In English and Spanish.

_Sexy Mamas: Keeping Your Sex Life Alive While Raising Kids_ (Inner Ocean, 2004).

_The Strap-On Book_ , by A. H. Dion (Greenery Press, 1999).

_The Survivors Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse_ , by Staci Haines (Cleis Press, 1999).

_Susie Sexperts Lesbian Sex World_ , by Susie Bright, 2nd edition, (Cleis Press, 1998).

_The Ultimate Guide to Adult Videos: How to Watch Adult Videos and Make Your Sex Life Sizzle_ , by Violet Blue (Cleis Press, 2003).

_The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women_ , by Tristan Taormino (Cleis Press, 1997).

_The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure_ , by Violet Blue (Cleis Press, 2002).

_The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness_ , by Miriam Kaufman M.D., Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette (Cleis Press, 2003).

_The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Turn Your Fantasies into Reality_ , by Violet Blue (Cleis Press, 2004).

_The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Resource for Men and Women_ , by Karlyn Lotney (Cleis Press, 1999).

##  **Sexual Politics**

_Annie Sprinkles Post-Porn Modernist: My 25 Years as a Multimedia Whore_ , by Annie Sprinkle (Cleis Press, 1997).

_Caught Looking: Feminism, Pornography, and Censorship_ , edited by the FACT Book Committee (LongRiver Books, 1986).

_Her Tongue on My Theory: Images, Essays, and Fantasies_ , by Kiss & Tell (Press Gang Publishers, 1994).

_I Used to Be Nice: Reflections on Feminist and Lesbian Politics_ , by Sue OSullivan (Cassell, 1996).

_On Our Backs Guide to Lesbian Sex_ , edited by Diana Cage (Alyson Publications, 2004).

_PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Identity_ , edited by Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel (Cleis Press, 1997).

_Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex_ , by Patrick Califia, 2nd edition, (Cleis Press, 1994, 2000).

_Sex Work: Writings by Women in the Sex Industry_ , edited by Frédérique Delacoste and Priscilla Alexander, 2nd edition, (Cleis Press, 1987, 1998).

_Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer Sex_ , by Patrick Califia (Cleis Press, 2001).

_Technology of Orgasm: "Hysteria," the Vibrator, and Womens Sexual Satisfaction_ , by Rachel P. Maines (Johns Hopkins University Press, 2001).

_Tristan Taorminos True Lust_ , by Tristan Taormino (Cleis Press, 2002).

##  **S/M and Fetish Sex**

_Coming to Power: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M_ , edited by SAMOIS, 3rd edition (Alyson Publications, 1987).

_The Compleat Spanker_ , by Lady Green (Greenery Press, 1998).

_Intimate Invasion: The Erotic Ins and Outs of Enema Play_ , by M. R. Strict (Greenery Press, 2004).

_Juice: Electricity for Pleasure and Pain_ , by Uncle Abdul (Greenery Press, 1998).

_The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual_ , edited by Pat Califia (Alyson Publications, 1988).

_The New Bottoming Book_ , by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy, 2nd edition, (Greenery Press, 2001).

_The New Topping Book_ , by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy, 2nd edition, (Greenery Press, 2003).

_The Second Coming: A Leatherdyke Reader_ , edited by Pat Califia and Robin Sweeney (Alyson Publications, 1996).

_The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage_ , by Midori (Greenery Press, 2001).

_The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners_ , by Lady Green (Greenery Press, 1998).

_The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies_ , by Jay Wiseman (Greenery Press, 2004).

_The Toybag Guide to Foot And Shoe Worship_ , by Midori (Greenery Press, 2004).

_21st Century Kinkycrafts_ , by Janet Hardy (Greenery Press, 2004).

##  **Spirituality and Sex**

_The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers_ , by Margo Anand (Tarcher, 1991).

_Lesbian Sacred Sexuality_ , by Diane Mariechild and Marcelina Martin (Wingbow Press, 1995).

_The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: How Couples Can Dramatically Enhance Their Pleasure, Intimacy, and Health_ , by Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams (HarperSanFrancisco, 2002).

_Radical Ecstasy_ , by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (Greenery Press, 2004).

_Sacred Sex_ , by Jwala (Mandala, 1993).

_The Tao of Natural Breating: For Health, Well-Being and Inner Growth,_ by Dennis Lewis (Mountain Wind, 1996).

_Urban Tantra_ , by Barbara Carrellas (Cleis Press, 2005).

##  **Womens Bodies and Health**

_The Black Womens Health Book,_ edited by Evelyn C. White (Seal Press, 1994).

_The Clitoral Truth: The Secret World at Your Fingertips,_ by Rebecca Chalker (Seven Stories Press, 2000).

_Cunt: A Declaration of Independence,_ by Inga Muscio (Seal Press, 1998).

_Dr. Susan Loves Breast Book,_ by Susan M. Love and Karen Lindsey (HarperCollins, 2000).

_Dr. Susan Loves Menopause and Hormone Book: Making Informed Choices,_ by Susan M. Love M.D. and Karen Lindsey (Three Rivers Press, 2003).

_Femalia,_ edited by Joani Blank (Down There Press, 1993).

_Getting Free: You Can End Abuse and Take Back Your Life,_ by Ginny NiCarthy (Seal Press, 1997).

_Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers,_ by Charles Moser Ph.D., M.D. (Greenery Press, 1999).

_The Lesbian Health Book: Caring for Ourselves,_ edited by Marissa C. Martinez and Jocelyn C. White (Seal Press, 1997).

_New Menopausal Years the Wise Woman Way: Alternative Approaches for Women 30-90,_ by Susun S. Weed (Ashtree Publishing, 2002).

_The New Ourselves, Growing Older: Women Aging with Knowledge and Power,_ by Paula B. Doress-Worters and Diana Laskin Siegal (Touchstone/Simon & Schuster, 1994).

_A New View of a Womans Body,_ by the Federation of Feminist Womens Health Centers (Feminist Health Press, 1991).

_Nuestros Cuerpos, Nuestras Vidas_ , by The Boston Womens Health Book Collective (Seven Stories Press, 2000)

_Off the Rag: Lesbians Writing on Menopause,_ edited by Lee Lynch and Akia Woods (New Victoria Press, 1996).

_Our Bodies, Ourselves: For the New Century,_ by the Boston Womens Health Book Collective (Touchstone/Simon & Schuster, 1998).

_Restricted Access: Lesbians on Disability,_ edited by Victoria A. Brownworth and Susan Raffo (Seal Press, 1999).

_The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians: Tips and Techniques from Conception to Birth—How to Stay Sane and Care for Yourself,_ by Rachel Pepper (Cleis Press, 1999).

_The Wisdom of Menopause: Creating Physical and Emotional Health and Healing During the Change,_ by Christiane Northrup (Bantam, 2003).

_Women En Large: Images of Fat Nudes,_ by Laurie Edison and Debbie Notkin (Books in Focus, 1994).

#  _**Magazines**_

_Bad Attitude_

Lesbian S/M fiction.
P.O. Box 39110, Cambridge, MA 02139

_Bitch_

1611 Telegraph Ave., Suite 515,
Oakland, CA 94612
(510) 625-9390
bitch@bitchmagazine.com
www.bitchmagazine.com

_Bust_

P.O. Box 1016, Cooper Station,
New York, NY 10276
subscriptions@bust.com
www.bust.com

_Curve Magazine_

1550 Bryant St., Suite 510,
San Francisco, CA 94103
Tel. (415) 863-6538
Fax (415) 863-1609
editor@curvemag.com
www.curvemag.com

_Diva_

3 Broadbent Close
20-22 Highgate High St., London N6 5GG
UK: 0800 45 45 66
US: + 44 20 8340 8644
edit@divamag.co.uk
www.divamag.co.uk/diva

_Dykes, Disability, and Stuff_

Available in standard print, large print, audio-
cassette, braille, DOS disk, or modem transfer.
P.O. Box 8773,
Madison, WI 53708
dykesdisabilityandstuff@juno.com

_Fat!So?_

P.O. Box 423464,
San Francisco, CA 94142
marilyn@fatso.com
www.fatso.com

_Girlfriends_

HAF Enterprises
3415 César Chavez St., Suite 101,
San Francisco, CA 94110
(800) 475-3763; (415) 648-9464
editorial@girlfriendsmag.com
www.girlfriendsmag.com

_LOTL Magazine_

Tel. + 61 2 8347 1033
Fax + 61 2 8347 2022
lotl@lotl.com
www.lotl.com

_Lespress_

Dyroffstr. 12, D-53113 Bonn, Germany
Tel. + 49 (0)228-9768044
Fax + 49 (0)228-9768048
info@lespress.de
www.lespress.de

_On Our Backs_

The Best of Lesbian Sex
HAF Enterprises
3415 César Chavez St., Ste. 101,
San Francisco, CA 94110
(800) 475-3763; (415) 648-9464
staff@girlfriendsmag.com
www.onourbacksmag.com

_Skin Two_

Unit 63, Abbey Business Centre, Ingate Place,
London SW8 3NS
Tel. +44 20 7498 5533
Fax + 44 20 7498 5565
editorial@twpublishing.co.uk
www.skintwo.com/magazine

_Transgender Tapestry Magazine_

IFGE, P.O. Box 540229,
Waltham, MA 02545
editor@ifge.org
www.ifge.org/tgmag/tgmagtop.htm

_Velvet Park_

210 Cook St. #311,
Brooklyn, NY 11206
info@velvetparkmagazine.com
www.velvetparkmagazine.com

#  _**DVDs and Videos**_

Hundreds of porn videos feature girl-on-girl sex. This list emphasizes woman-, trans-, and lesbian-produced videos and DVDs. Where to find videos and DVDs? You can purchase them from many of the mail-order and retail outlets in the resource listings in chapter 20 and from the producers (listed below). You can also rent videos and DVDs from The Blue Door.

##  **Video Sources**

Annie Sprinkles videos may be ordered from her

website: www.anniesprinkle.org
and from The New School of Erotic Touch
PO Box 3893,
Oakland, CA, 94609
(510) 428-9063
www.eroticmassage.com

Betty Dodsons videos may be ordered from

Betty Dodson Productions
P.O. Box 1933,
New York, NY 10156
(866) 877-9676
www.bettydodson.com

Bleu Visions

Bleu Productions, Inc.
P.O. Box 20280,
New York, NY 10011
info@bleuproductions.com
www.bleuproductions.com

Dirty Pillows Inc.

#19030
360 A Bloor St. W.,
Toronto, Ontario M5S 1X1, Canada
orders@dirtydirtypillows.com
www.dirtydirtypillows.com

Fatale Video

(888) 5-FATALE
www.fatalemedia.com

House O Chicks

2215R Market St., Ste. 813,
San Francisco, CA 94114
(510) 658-1719
dorrie@houseochicks.com
www.houseochicks.com

Hyena Films

info@hyenafilms.com
www.hyenafilms.com

New School of Erotic Touch

(800) 432-3767
wisdom@eroticmassage.com
www.eroticmassage.com

Passion Fruit Video

info@passionfruitvideo.com
www.passionfruitvideo.com

Sex Positive Productions/Good Vibrations

www.goodvibes.com

S.I.R. Video Productions

3288 21st St., #94 PMB,
San Francisco, CA 94110
sirvideoinfo@aol.com
www.sirvideo.com

TLA Video

www.tlavideo.com

##  **Erotica**

_Afterschool Special_ , directed by Apriluscious, 20 min., b/w, Fatale Media, 2001, VHS. Winner of Fatales first Real Lesbian Sex video contest.

_Bathroom Sluts_ , directed by Lulu Sanchez, 45 min., Fatale Video, 1991, VHS.

_The Black Glove_ , directed by Maria Beatty, 30 min, b/w, Bleu Visions, 1996, VHS/DVD.

_The Boiler Room_ , directed by Maria Beatty, 51 min., Bleu Visions, VHS/DVD, 1998. According to the producers, this was "the most graphic, hard-core, S&M lesbian film made in the United States."

_Clips_ , directed by Nan Kinney and Debi Sundahl, 30 min., Fatale Video, 1988, VHS. Three ten-minute lesbian-smut vignettes, including Fanny Fatales famous ejaculation scene.

_Dress Up for Daddy_ , 30 min., Fatale Video, VHS. Real-life lesbian lovers do Daddy/girl play.

_Elegant Spanking_ , directed by Maria Beatty, 45 min, b/w, Bleu Visions, 1996, VHS/DVD.

_Full Load,_ produced by Nan Kinney, directed by Barbara DeGenevieve, 100 min., Fatale Media, 2002, VHS. Scenes from www.SSSpread.com, a great (and much-missed) lesbian porn site for "hot femmes, studly butches and lots of genderfuck."

_Gallery Erotica_ , directed by Alpha, 75 min., Passion Fruit Video, 2002, VHS.

_Hard Love_ and _How to Fuck in High Heels_ , directed by Jackie Strano and Shar Rednour, 96 min., S.I.R. Video, 2000, VHS.

_Home Cookin,_ directed by Alpha, 48 min., Passion Fruit Video, 2002, VHS.

_Hungry Hearts_ , directed by Nan Kinney and Debi Sundahl, 30 min., Fatale Media, 1989, VHS.

_Ladies of the Night (Les Vampyres),_ directed by Maria Beatty and R. Pettet, 32 min., Bleu Productions, 2000, VHS.

_Pornograflics_ , directed by Angela Phong, Dr. Lau, and Miss Bea, 90 min., Dirty Pillows, 2003, VHS. According to Good Vibrations, an "exceptional collection of butch/femme vignettes. Gushing orgasms, surprise endings, magnetic butches, crafty and curvy femmes…"

_Private Pleasures_ and _Shadows_ , directed by O. Wow, 60 min., Fatale Videos, 1985, VHS. Butch/femme sex and fisting.

_Real Girlfriends Vol. 1_ , Ron Richardson and Lydia Swartz , 90 min., MWI Productions, 2001, VHS.

_Safe Is Desire,_ directed by Debi Sundahl, 60 min., Fatale Media, 1993, VHS. Take a trip to a lesbian sex club.

_San Francisco Lesbian Bondage Club,_ directed by Cindy Martin, 74 min., Pleasure-Dungeon Video, 1998, VHS.

_San Francisco Lesbians, vols. 1-10,_ directed by Cindy Martin, 75-85 min., Pleasure Productions, 1992-2002, VHS. Not only are these real lesbians having real sex—but they also feature a wide range of sexual styles.

_Sassy Schoolgirl,_ directed by Maria Beatty, 45 min., Bleu Visions, 1998, VHS.

_Seduction: The Cruel Woman,_ directed by Monika Treut and Elfi Mikesch, 84 min., subtitled, HyenaFilms, 1985, 35 mm, VHS. Inspired by the novel "Venus in Furs" (1870), by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch.

_Shes Safe,_ 40 min., Frameline Arts Foundation, 1993, VHS. If you think safe sex is, well, dry, check out this compilation of lesbian-made shorts.

_Suburban Dykes,_ directed by Debi Sundahl, 30 min., Fatale Videos, 1990, VHS.

_Sugar High Glitter City,_ directed by Shar Rednour, 80 min., S.I.R. Video, 2001, VHS.

_Take Her Down!,_ directed by Sondra Goodwin, 80 min., Fatale Media, 2002, VHS. Lesbian erotic oil wrestling party.

_Trannyfags,_ directed by Morty Diamond, 55 min., 2004, VHS. The sexual encounters of four gay transmen with both bio-men and each other. For info: www.mortydiamond.com.

_Turn Me Up, Over and On,_ directed by Carolyn Caizzi, 28 min., b/w, Fatale Media, 2003, VHS. Winner of Fatales 2003 Real Lesbian Sex video contest.

_Voluptuous Vixens,_ directed by Sadie Foxe and Sadie Valentine, 75 min., Sex Positive Productions, 2001, VHS/DVD.

##  **Sex Guides and How-To**

_Anal Massage For Relaxation and Pleasure,_ Joseph Kramer, 160 min., New School of Erotic Touch, 2004, DVD. Expert, hands-on demonstrations by professional bodyworkers, sex educators, and real-life couples, including one lesbian couple.

_Annie Sprinkles Amazing World of Orgasm,_ directed by Annie Sprinkle and Sheila Malone, 60 min., 2004, DVD/VHS. Carol Queen, Betty Dodson Ph.D., Cléo DuBois, Jwala, Barbara Carrellas, and others.

_Annie Sprinkles Herstory of Porn,_ directed by Annie Sprinkle and Scarlet Harlot, 69 min., Erospirit Institute, 1998, VHS. Annie Sprinkles film diary of 25 years of making porn. Based on the stage show directed by Emilio Cubeiro.

_Bend Over, Boyfriend,_ directed by Shar Rednour, 60 min., Fatale Video, 1998, DVD/VHS. Sex-ed goddess Carol Queen and friends.

_Bend Over, Boyfriend 2: More Rockin, Less Talkin,_ directed by Shar Rednour, 60 min., S.I.R. Video, 1999, DVD.

_Best of Vulva Massage: An Anthology of Erotic Touch,_ Joseph Kramer, 83 min., video; 115 min. video plus 120 min. additional teaching, DVD, New School of Erotic Touch, 2003, VHS/DVD. Featuring both male and female teachers, including Betty Dodson, Annie Sprinkle, Carol Queen, Deborah Sundahl, and Jwala.

_Celebrating Orgasm,_ produced by Betty Dodson, 60 min., 1996, VHS. Betty Dodson demonstrates her masturbation coaching techniques in private sessions with five different women.

_Faces of Ecstasy,_ produced by Joani Blank, 55 min., Fatale Media, VHS. Ten women and three men of diverse ages, sizes, and races masturbate to orgasm for the camera.

_Fire in the Valley_ , Annie Sprinkle and Joseph Kramer, 101 min., video; 180 min, DVD, New School of Erotic Touch, 2004, VHS/DVD. "The most comprehensive female genital massage in the world" now available for home study.

_G Marks the Spot: A GV Guide to the G-Spot,_ directed by Lena Hass, 57 min., Sexpositive Productions, 2003, VHS/DVD.

_Healing Sex: The Complete Guide to Sexual Wholeness,_ directed by Shar Rednour, 112 min., S.I.R. Video, 2004, DVD. Based on the groundbreaking book _The Survivors Guide to Sex,_ by Staci Haines.

_Hearts Cracked Open: A Documentary Film about Tantra for Women Who Love Women,_ directed by Betsy Kalin, Itchy Bee Productions, 2004. The first film on lesbian Tantra, featuring Annie Sprinkle, Evalena Rose, Pamela Madison, and Marcia Singer. For info: www.heartscrackedopen.com.

_How to Female Ejaculate_ , directed by Nan Kinney and Debi Sundahl, 60 min., Fatale Videos, 1992, VHS/DVD. Fanny Fatale shares her skill with a group of women whom she teaches to squirt.


Input: Generate a list of instructional videos and guides focused on various aspects of female sexuality, including female ejaculation, anal sex, masturbation, and BDSM. The list should include the title of each video, the name of the director or producer, the runtime, the production company, and the format (VHS or DVD). The videos should be produced by a variety of individuals and companies, including Annie Sprinkle, Betty Dodson, House O' Chicks, and Sex Positive Productions.

Response:
_How to Find Your Goddess Spot_ , Dorrie Lane, 30 min., House O Chicks, VHS. Dorrie Lane teaches G-spot play. Features the Wondrous Vulva Puppet.

_Linda/Les and Annie: The First Female-to-Male Transsexual Love Story,_ Annie Sprinkle, 32 min., 1990, VHS. Annies video documentary of her relationship with her FTM lover.

_Magic of Female Ejaculation,_ Dorrie Lane, 15 min., House O Chicks, VHS. Dorrie Lane shares her own experience of female ejaculation.

_Masturbation Memoirs 1 and 2,_ Annie Sprinkle, Carol Leigh, Dorrie Lane, and Juliet Carr, 60 min., House O Chicks, VHS. Dorrie Lane sought out sex experts in their sexual prime, women in their 40s and 50s, to share their experiences of masturbation.

_Masturbation Memoirs 3 and 4,_ Dorrie Lane, 60 min., House O Chicks, VHS. "…authentic footage of lovely Lesbos getting hot and bothered with themselves."

_Nina Hartleys Guide to Anal Sex,_ Nina Hartley, 45 min., video; 77 min. DVD, Adam & Eve Productions, 1996, VHS/DVD.

_Nina Hartleys Guide to Better Cunnilingus,_ Nina Hartley, 50 min., Adam & Eve Productions, 1995, VHS.

_Pain Game,_ Cléo Dubois, 54 min., Academy of SM Arts, 2000, VHS.

_Please Dont Stop: Lesbian Tips for Givin & Getting It,_ directed by Oriana Bolden, 74 min., Sexpositive Productions, 2001, VHS.

_Selfloving: Portrait of a Womens Sexuality Seminar,_ Betty Dodson, 60 min., 1991, VHS. Betty Dodsons womens masturbation workshop featuring ten women, ages 28 to 60, exploring their sexuality.

_Slide Bi Me,_ directed by Felice Amador, 72 min., Sexpositive Productions, 2001, VHS.

_The Sluts and Goddesses Video Workshop,_ Annie Sprinkle and Maria Beatty, 52 min., 1992, VHS.

_Talk to Me Baby: A Lovers Guide to Dirty Talk and Role Play,_ directed by Jackie Strano, 60 min., S.I.R. Video, 2003, VHS.

_Tie Me Up!,_ Cléo Dubois, Academy of SM Arts, 52 min., 2002, VHS.

_Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women,_ directed by Tristan Taormino and Ernest Greene, 210 min., Evil Angel Video, 1999, VHS/DVD. Based on Tristan Taorminos popular book. Taormino leads an all-star coed cast in a sexy anal sex workshop. Two volumes. If you liked the book, youll love the movie.

_Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women 2,_ directed by Tristan Taormino and Ernest Greene, 135 min., Evil Angel Video, 2001, VHS/DVD.

_Viva la Vulva,_ produced by Betty Dodson, 51 min., 1998, VHS. Betty Dodsons close-up on female genital anatomy with ten women posing for their pussy portraits.

_Whipsmart: A Good Vibrations Guide to Beginning S/M for Couples_ , directed by Laura Plotkin, 82 min., Sex Positive Productions, 2002, VHS/DVD.

_Zen Pussy: A Stimulating Meditation on Eleven Vulvas,_ Annie Sprinkle and Joseph Kramer, 60 min., Joseph Kramer Productions, 1999, VHS/DVD.


Input: Generate a comprehensive list of resources for the LGBTQ+ community, focusing on bisexual, butch/femme, disability, and health and safer-sex resources. Include the name of each organization or website, a brief description, and contact information such as mailing address, phone number, email address, and website URL. The resources should cover a wide range of topics, including support groups, educational materials, personal ads, forums, mailing lists, galleries, local connections, events, and numerous resources for dykes who identify as butch or femme, transgendered individuals, transmen, and FTMs. Also include resources for people with disabilities, illness, or natural changes throughout the life cycle and those who love them or care for them. The list should be organized into sections for each category of resource.

Response:
_**chapter twenty**_

**Resources**

#  _**Bisexuality Resources**_

Bisexual.org

Personals, chat, forums, resources.

www.bisexual.org

Bisexual Resource Center

Educational and support center. Publishes the _Bisexual Resource Guide,_ facilitates Boston-area support groups for people who are or think they might be bisexual, houses the bisexual archives, and organizes conferences. Website features resources and links.

P.O. Box 1026, Boston, MA 02117
(617) 424-9595
brc@biresource.org
www.biresource.org

#  _**Butch/Femme Resources**_

Butch-Femme.com

Online and real-world community. A large, active web portal since 1996, Butch-Femme.com offers personal ads, forums, mailings lists, galleries, local connections, and numerous resources for dykes who identify as butch or femme. Trans friendly.

webmaster@butch-femme.com
www.butch-femme.com

Butch-Femme.net

Online resources for butches, femmes, stone butches, transgendered individuals, transmen, and FTMs. Hosts email discussion lists (through Queernet.org): Butch-Femme, Stonebutch, TG Butch, Leather, Femme Talk, Femmephoria.

www.butch-femme.net

Butch-Femme Socials of the San Francisco Bay Area Hosts events in local bars, clubs, and other venues, including leather events. Open to all: dykes, queers, lesbians, FTMs, trannies, lipstick lesbians, butches, bois. ("You do not have to identify as butch or femme but most of us do.") Some events are clean and sober. Singles and couples, all ages. The group is made up of "artists, writers, academics, blue collar, leather, professionals, students, etc. We are ethnically, spiritually, politically and sexually diverse." To receive information on events, contact:

ButchFemmeSocials-owner@yahoogroups.com or B/F Socials of San Francisco/Oakland P.O. Box 99402, Emeryville, CA 94662-9402 (510) 812-5080

Butch/Femme Society

New York Citys oldest and largest butch/femme social and support group open to all lesbians and TG/TS who support the beautiful butch/femme dynamic.

P.O. Box 750652, Forest Hills, NY 11375
(212) 388-2736
bfsnyc@aol.com
www.butchfemmesociety.freeservers.com

#  _**Disability Resources**_

The Deaf Queer Resource Center

A nonprofit resource and information center. Website features links to chatrooms, mailing lists, and more. Publishes _FLASH_ , an email newsletter reaching 11,000 readers.

feedback@deafqueer.org
www.deafqueer.org

DisAbled Womens Network (DAWN)

Ontarios provincewide organization for women with all types of disabilities. DAWN is a feminist organization that supports women in their struggles to control their own lives. Website includes extensive links to disability resources. E-lists, events calendar, articles.

Box 1138, North Bay, Ontario P1B 8K4
dawnontario@sympatico.ca
http://dawn.thot.net

GimpGirl Community

Created by a group of young women with disabilities, from varying backgrounds, who faced a huge lack of support services for themselves and others like them. "We strive to enlighten, empower and support young women of all colors, creeds, and sexual preferences." Very inclusive definition of "women." Feature articles, opinion surveys, newsletter, bulletin board, and links to online sexuality resources for people with disabilities. Hosts a LiveJournal.com community, also called Gimpgirl. Maintains two mailing lists: QueerLadies, for queer women of all ages with disabilities, and Girlies, for young women aged 15-25 with disabilities.

ggc@gimpgirl.com
www.gimpgirl.com

Living

Mailing list for lesbian and bisexual women with disabilities, and the women in their lives.

"Although the primary purpose of LIVING is that of support, it is an unmoderated list and any topic may be discussed. Since women with disabilities are NOT defined BY their disability, we encourage content of nearly any kind." For information, contact:

living-owner@groups.queernet.org

Queering Diabetes

For lesbian, gay, bi, trans, intersex, queer, or questioning people who are diabetic (along with friends, families, allies, and significant others).

becca@queeringdiabetes.org
www.queeringdiabetes.org

Sexual Health

Provides access to sexuality information, education, mutual support, counseling, therapy, health care, products, and other resources for people with disabilities, illness, or natural changes throughout the life cycle and those who love them or care for them.

www.sexualhealth.com

#  _**Health and Safer-Sex Resources**_

##  **General Health**

Alcoholics Anonymous

The original 12-step program, which has helped millions of alcoholics.

P.O. Box 459, Grand Central Station,
New York, NY 10163
(212) 647-1680
www.alcoholics-anonymous.org

Al-Anon Family Groups

Support groups for family members of alcoholics.

1600 Corporate Landing Parkway,
Virginia Beach, VA 23454
(888) 4AL-ANON
wso@al-anon.org
www.al-anon.org

Boston Womens Health Book Collective

Authors of _Our Bodies, Ourselves for the New Century._ Numerous womens health links.

www.ourbodiesourselves.org

Callen-Lorde Community Health Center

Serves the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities and people living with HIV/AIDS.

356 West 18th St., New York, NY 10011
(212) 271-7200
www.callen-lorde.org

The Clitoris.com

Fascinating site with all sorts of information about female sexuality. Links to sources of information on anatomy, cancer, disability, childbirth, clit pumping, and masturbation.

webmaster@the-clitoris.com
www.the-clitoris.com

Community United Against Violence

CUAV is a 20-year-old multicultural organization working to end violence against and within lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer/ questioning (LGBTQ) communities. Offers a 24-hour confidential, multilingual support line, free counseling, legal advocacy, and emergency assistance to survivors of domestic violence, hate violence, and sexual assault.

24-Hour Support Line: (415) 333-HELP
Tel. (415) 777-5500
Fax (415) 777-5565
www.cuav.org

Co-Dependents Anonymous

P.O. Box 33577, Phoenix, AZ 85067
outreach@coda.org
www.codependents.org

Fenway Community Health Center

Comprehensive, community-based health-care clinic.

7 Haviland St., Boston, MA 02115
(617) 267-0900
information@fenwayhealth.org
www.fenwayhealth.org

Gay Lesbian Medical Association (GLMA)

GLMA works to combat homophobia within the medical profession and in society at large, and to promote the best possible health care for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered patients. Online referrals to doctors, dentists, therapists, and chiropractors sensitive to the needs of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, or intersexed people. Supports research in lesbian health through its Lesbian Health Fund.

59 Fulton St., Suite 107,
San Francisco, CA 94102
info@glma.org
www.glma.org

Healing Sex

Website of _Healing Sex_ , a DVD by Staci Haines, author of _The Survivors Guide to Sex_. Mixing documentary-style drama with education and mind/body exercises, the film follows a diverse cast of women and men healing from past sexual abuse. We witness their path to a more pleasurable and healthy sex life as they struggle to find peace, healing, and real intimacy.

www.healingsexthemovie.com

Kink Aware Professionals

International referrals to psychotherapeutic, medical, dental, complementary healing, and legal professionals who are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality. All listed professionals have volunteered to be available for referral to people involved in "kinky" sexuality (leather, S/M, fetish, and so on).

www.bannon.com/kap

Lesbian Health Information Network (LHINetwork)

A worldwide network for distributing information relating to lesbian health research, education, and services. Serves as a resource and networking tool for those involved in lesbian health. To subscribe, send a request to lesbian-health-owner@groups.queernet.org, including your full name, email address, how you heard about the list, and a brief description of your work in lesbian health.

Lesbian Health Research Center

University of California, San Francisco

The Lesbian Health Research Center (LHRC) is "specifically and uniquely concerned with the health and well-being of lesbians, bisexual women, transgendered individuals, and their families, and with the health care available to them." Sponsors an annual conference. Website features articles on various aspects of lesbian health and links to other queer-friendly health sites.

3333 California St., Suite 340,
San Francisco, CA 94118
Tel. (415) 502-5209
Fax (415) 502-5208
info@lesbianhealthinfo.org
www.lesbianhealthinfo.org

Lyon-Martin Womens Health Services

Provides personalized health care and support services to women and transgendered people who lack access to quality care because of their sexual or gender identity, regardless of their ability to pay.

1748 Market St., Suite 201,
San Francisco, CA 94102
Tel. (415) 565-7667
Fax (415) 252-7490
TDD (415) 252-7499
info@lyon-martin.org
www.lyon-martin.org

Mautner Project for Lesbians with Cancer

Direct services to lesbians with cancer, their partners, and caregivers as well as community education and advocacy.

1707 L St., NW, Suite 500,
Washington, DC 20036
Voice/TTY (202) 332 5536
Fax (202) 332-0662
mautner@mautnerproject.org
www.mautnerproject.org

Narcotics Anonymous

Twelve-step program for people in recovery from drug addiction.

World Service Office
P.O. Box 9999, Van Nuys, CA 91409
Tel. (818) 773-9999
Fax (818) 700-0700
fsmail@na.org
www.na.org

The Northwest Network of Bi, Trans, Lesbian and Gay Survivors of Abuse

Provides counseling, support, legal advocacy, shelter referrals, safety planning, and peer support to lesbian, bisexual, gay, and trans folks who are surviving abuse. Also provides community education, training, and consultation about battering /abuse and homophobia. Leather friendly, wheelchair accessible. Website features directory of local resources throughout the United States, Canada, and other countries. ASL interpreters on request.

P.O. Box 20398, Seattle, WA 98102
(206) 568-7777
(206) 517-9670 TTY MSG
info@nwnetwork.org
www.nwnetwork.org

Overeaters Anonymous

Twelve-step program for people in recovery from compulsive overeating.

World Service Office
P.O. Box 44020, Rio Rancho, NM 87124
Tel. (505) 891-2664
Fax (505) 891-4320
info@overeatersanonymous.org
www.overeatersanonymous.org

Susun S. Weed

Website of herbalist Susun S. Weed, with articles about womens health and information about courses offered by her Wise Woman Center.

www.SusunWeed.com

##  **STD Information and Prevention**

American Social Health Association

P.O. Box 13827,
Research Triangle Park, NC 27709
(919) 361-8400
std-hivnet@ashastd.org
www.ashastd.org

Avert.org

Lesbian, Bisexual Women and Safe Sex

www.avert.org/lesbiansafesex.htm

Centers for Disease Control National Center for HIV, STD, and TB Prevention

P.O. Box 6003, Rockville, MD 20849
(800) 342-AIDS
nchstp@cdc.gov
www.cdc.gov/nchstp/od/nchstp.html

Gay Mens Health Crisis (GMHC)

119 West 24th Street, New York, NY 10011
(212) 367-1000
LAP@gmhc.org
www.gmhc.org

Lesbian AIDS Project (LAP)

LAP provides HIV prevention education and support for women who have sex with other women. GMHC publishes the _Safer Sex Handbook for Lesbians_ (1995).

Lesbian Safer Sex

Safer-sex basics for lesbians, originally published by the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Community Services Center.

http://safersex.org/women/lesbianss.html

LesbianSTD.com

This is the site I recommend for information on lesbians, STDs, and safer sex. The goal of LesbianSTD.com is "to provide information and resources regarding sexual health and sexually transmitted diseases in women who have sex with women and to further our collective knowledge about lesbian STDs." The site offers findings from past and current research done at the University of Washington, including a 5-year Vaginal Health Project that began in 2003.

www.lesbianstd.com

National AIDS Hotline

(800) 342-2437
(800) 344-7432 (Español)

National STD Hotline

(800) 227-8922

Planned Parenthood Lesbian Safer Sex

www.plannedparenthood.org/sti/lesbian.html

San Francisco Sex Information

Free information and referral switchboard providing anonymous, accurate, nonjudgmental information about sex. SFSI answers questions by telephone and online.

(877) 472-SFSI or (415) 989-SFSI
Ask-Us@sfsi.org
www.sfsi.org

#  _**Online Resources**_

Many of the listings throughout this resource guide have an online presence, whether a website, bulletin board, or email discussion list. Check the appropriate subject categories to find Internet resources of interest to you. The online resources below provide portals to extensive information on the Web or assistance in finding Internet resources, or just dont fit into any of the specific subject categories and are too juicy to miss.

AltSex

Comprehensive site with information on all aspects of BDSM.

www.altsex.org

BMEZINE.COM

Body Modification Ezine is devoted to all forms of body modification. Contains photo galleries, articles, interviews, personal ads, and chat. Earn a free membership by submitting a photo or an article about your own body modification experiences.

www.bmezine.com

Dyke Planet

Pour les filles de Dyke PlaNET. Le premier site lesbien français.

webmistress@dykeplanet.com
www.dykeplanet.com

IRC Help

www.irchelp.org

Janes Net Sex Guide

Jane reviews hundreds of websites featuring "erotica, sexuality resources, escort services, telephone sex services, fiction, reality, art, anime, and alternative lifestyles."

www.janesguide.com/index.html

KUMA

"Dedicated to Black same gender loving womyn everywhere, whether it be BDSM, Leather or Cherry-Vanilla." Black lesbian erotic art, poetry, short stories and audio.

www.kuma2.net

Leatherdyke.com

Women-only community space with free membership, run by leatherdykes, for leatherdykes. Everything about this site, right down to the web-hosting company that hosts it, is owned by leatherdykes, and is done on a volunteer basis by BDSM-loving lesbians for other kinky dykes. Bulletin board, articles, mailing list, personals for members only.

www.leatherdyke.com

Lesbian.com

Large web portal.

www.lesbian.com

NOLOSE

The National Organization for Lesbians of SizE, ending the oppression of fat people and creating a vibrant fat queer community and culture. Trans inclusive. Annual conference, email list, events calendar with local listings, links to community members and supportive organizations, and LiveJournal community.

1204 Ave. U, Suite 1239, Brooklyn, NY 11229
(718) 622-7631
info@nolose.org
www.nolose.org

QueerNet

Provides dozens of email discussion lists for the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, HIV/AIDS, and S/M communities, as well as offering email and web hosting for individuals, projects, and nonprofits in our communities under the auspices of its parent organization, Online Policy Group (www.onlinepolicy.org). The website gives detailed information on how to subscribe to the lists, which include many supportive lists for women exploring all facets of sexuality and gender. (You can start your own list, too, with the enthusiastic support of the folks at QueerNet.org.)

www.queernet.org

SIECUS (Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States)

SIECUS develops, collects, and disseminates information on sexuality, promotes comprehensive education about sexuality, and advocates the right of individuals to make responsible sexual choices.

130 West 42nd St., Suite 350,
New York, NY 10036
Tel. (212) 819-9770
Fax (212) 819-9776
siecus@siecus.org
www.siecus.org

Society for Human Sexuality

A comprehensive online library of sexuality resources—one of the most useful sites on the Web. The site includes guides to sex-positive resources in Seattle, Portland, Vancouver, and San Francisco.

PMB 1276, 1122 East Pike St.,
Seattle, WA 98122
shs@sexuality.org
www.sexuality.org

##  **Erotica and Pay Sites**

CyberDyke Sex Network

Hosts a network of pay sites featuring explicit photos, illustrations, videos, and stories. DarkPlay (an artsy fetish and BDSM site) is the best known of the bunch; others include: Playbutch (butches stripping down), Shaved Dyke ("shaving head to…tail"), Big Beautiful Heaven (beautiful BBWs), Sapphos Girls ("sweet like honey dust and a feather…"), and Posteriority ("for backdoor girls"). Membership in the network provides access to all—sign up on any of the sites.

www.cyber-dyke.net

Femmerotic Network

Includes Heather Corinnas personal erotica site, Scarlet Letters, Scarleteen, Femmerotic.com, and more.

http://scarletletters.com/current/femmerotic.html

SexySappho.com

Pay porn site by lesbians for lesbians featuring video and photo galleries of real lesbians: butches, femmes, trannies, queers, and andros. Custom videos, too. Want a video of a hot lesbian porn star who calls your name?

info@sexysappho.com
www.sexysappho.com

Shades Beyond Gray

"Queer/pansexual erotic journal by and for the freaktribe," made up entirely of submitted material, images, stories, poetry, and columns.

soc@shadesbeyondgray.com
www.shadesbeyondgray.com

Transsexual-Man

Hot, hot, hot erotic images of Buck, a very hot (did I use that word already?) transman. Buck is not shy about putting his genitals on display—including his testosterone-enhanced clit. Photographs, downloadable videos, including explicit sex and S/M with both women and men. Pay site.

www.transexual-man.com

##  **Mailing Lists**

You can find an email discussion list to match just about any interest you can imagine. Youll find information on specific email discussion lists throughout this resource guide.

Many email discussion lists of interest to lesbian, bisexual, and queer women are hosted by QueerNet, which provides a wonderful service by supporting mailing lists for the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and BDSM communities. The 200 QueerNet lists serve more than 36,000 subscribers. QueerNet is supported entirely by donations. The complete list of lists (with technical instructions) can be found at: www.queernet.org.

Joan Korenman maintains a large list of "genderrelated" lists.

www.umbc.edu/wmst/forums.html

Lesbian.org maintains the mother of all lesbian lists:

www.lesbian.org/lesbian-lists

##  **Where to Meet Girls on the Web**

A number of lesbian Web portal sites offer personal ads, either independently or through services like www.match.com. Youll also find personal ads posted on community-specific sites catering to leatherdykes, older dykes, women of color, bisexuals, butches and femmes, and more. Below youll find a list of sites offering personal ads, bulletin boards, and other resources to help you hook up. C

lassic Dykes

www.classicdykes.com

Lesbians Click

Directory of links to online lesbian communities.

www.lesbiansclick.com/Online_Communities/index.html

Lesbotronic

www.lesbotronic.com

The Pink Sofa

www.thepinksofa.com

Strap-on.org!

Progressive, queer-centered, sex-positive, girl-friendly online community.

www.strap-on.org

Technodyke.com

www.technodyke.com

#  _**Play Parties and BDSM Organizations**_

The BDSM Events Page

International calendar of leather conferences and other events.

www.thebdsmeventspage.com

EU BDSM

BDSM information site for the European Union. Includes a directory of organizations.

www.eubdsm.com

Informed Consent

U.K. directory of BDSM groups, events, shops, and more. Personal ads sorted by gender and interest, so you can seek F4f (female Top seeking female bottom) as well as f4F (female bottom seeking female Top).

www.informedconsent.co.uk

Scene USA

Listing of BDSM organizations in the United States. Scene USA lists BDSM groups, clubs, nightclubs, and munches (think: potluck in fetish gear) by city and state. Cruise for local contacts or submit news of your BDSM community.

webmaster@darkheart.com
www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

##  **United States**

**Arizona**

Arizona Power Exchange

Pansexual BDSM organization. Weekly and monthly events, including play parties, demos, hands-on educational opportunities with instruction from local BDSM players. Occasional womens play parties hosted by Arizona Amazons.

P.O. Box 67532, Phoenix, AZ 85082-7532
www.arizonapowerexchange.org

**California**

The Exiles

A social and educational organization in San Francisco for women with a positive personal interest in S/M between women. Publishes a monthly newsletter. Monthly educational and social events, information on local play parties.

P.O. Box 14338, San Francisco, CA 94114
(415) 835-4739
membership@theexiles.org
www.theexiles.org

LARAWW

Los Angeles Radical And Wicked Women is devoted to the educational and social well-being of the womens BDSM, leather, and fetish communities. LARAWW welcomes all women and transfolk, 21 years of age and over, regardless of sexual orientation or preference.

la_raww@hotmail.com
www.laraww.org

Power Exchange

Adult sexual play space in San Francisco. Hosts Wet Wednesdays, women-only parties held the first Wednesday of each month.

74 Otis St., San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 487-9944
power_exchange_girl_party@hotmail.com
www.powerexchange.com

Queen of Heaven

Carol Queens infamous San Francisco play parties are open to invited guests and their guests. "QOH is a pansexual pagan event, although an attendee need not identify as either pansexual or pagan; s/he simply must be comfortable enough sharing an erotic space with others." Safe-sex rules apply. To get on the party list, contact Queen at:

2215-R Market St., Suite 455,
San Francisco CA 94114 or
mail@carolqueen.com

SF Citadel

Play space, leather community center, and BDSM education center in San Franciscos South of Market district. Regularly scheduled play parties, classes, discussion groups, and other activities serving the kink community. Sign up for the event announcement list on the website.

245 8th St., San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 626-1746
info@sfcitadel.org
www.sfcitadel.org

**Colorado**

Collar

Colorado Leather Lesbian/Ladies Alternative Resource is an information and support group for all women interested in the BDSM/Leather lifestyle. All self-identified women are welcome, whether lesbian, bisexual, or heterosexual. Its main purpose is to provide a safe forum for discussion, education, and exploration with regard to BDSM/Leather issues. Hosts and supports a variety of activities such as monthly meetings, play parties, group outings, community education, and fund raisers. To get involved in the local group or the Internet discussion group:

info@denvercollar.com

Thunder in the Mountains

Annual pansexual BDSM conference.

www.thunderinthemountains.com

**District of Columbia**

LLABIA

Leather Lesbians and Bisexual Information Association of Washington, D.C. Provides information, support, and social opportunities. Monthly parties and other events are open to leather women who enjoy woman-to-woman S/M. "All S/M dykes, straight, bisexual and transsexual/gender women are welcome. FTM transgender bois/boys/men who feel they have a place in the S/M womens community are also welcome."

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LLABIA

**Illinois**

CLAW

Chicago Leather Alliance of Women is a monthly discussion group for women of all sexual orientations involved in the BDSM lifestyle. Hosts women-only and pansexual parties.

mjc312@aol.com

The Next Generation Chicago

A Chicago-based pansexual Support/Education/ Discussion/Social group for people ages 18-35 who are interested in BDSM.

http://www.tngc.org/tngc/index.html

**Iowa, Missouri, Nebraska**

Janet R. is a contact person for an informal network of kinky women in Kansas City, Des Moines, Omaha, and Lincoln. Contact Janet R. at:

P.O. Box 32732, Kansas City, MO 64171
(816) 523-4154
photojan@aol.com

**Maryland**

FIST

Females Investigating Sexual Terrain

Open to women 21 years of age or older who are interested in S/M, leather, or fetish sex between women. FIST hosts an email announcement list for notices about upcoming events of interest to women. FIST does not host parties, but helps publicize parties for women in the Mid-Atlantic area. FIST does hold periodic educational and social events.

P.O. Box 41032, Baltimore, MD 21203
FISTWomen@aol.com
FISTWomen-owner@yahoogroups.com
http://members.aol.com/FISTWomen

**Massachusetts**

MOB New England

Social and play group for women 21 and over who are interested in woman-to-woman BDSM or kink sexuality. "Welcome to our big, scary gang of chain wielding, sex radical, queer women—the MOB!" Website links to the groups online events calendar.

P.O. Box 391927, Cambridge, MA 02139
info@mobnewengland.org
www.mobnewengland.org

**New York**

Dyke Uniform Corps (DUC)

A private association of women of honor, integrity, and discipline ("Yes, Sir!") whose mission is to explore common interests in wearing military and law enforcement uniforms within the S/M, leather, and fetish communities.

DUCNY@aol.com
www.dykeuniformcorps.com

Lesbian Sex Mafia

Founded in 1981, LSM is a support and information group for lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual, and transsexual women interested in S/M. Website lists monthly programs a well as NYC events for the BDSM community. Go here to find out about New York City-area play parties. Also links to BDSM groups in the United States and Europe.

P.O. Box 404, 70A Greenwich Ave,
New York, NY 10011
(212) 726-3844
LSMNYC@hotmail.com
www.lesbiansexmafia.org

Submit

Play parties for women and transgendered people. Presented by Red, first Thursday of every month.

(718) 789-4053
www.submitparty.com

TES Womens Group

The Eulenspiegel Society of New York is one of the oldest S/M groups in North America. The TES Womens Groups purpose is to network, socialize, and share knowledge and experiences among sisters in the BDSM scene.

tes@tes.org
www.tes.org/welcome.html

**Oregon**

Lulus Pervy Playhouse

A group for S/M women from Portland and the surrounding area. Open to women 18 years of age or older, lesbians, bisexuals, heterosexuals, and transgendered women who identify as female. Hosts monthly play parties.

lululist@excite.com
www.spiretech.com/~awntie/lulu.htm

PDX/Bad Girls

Portlands lesbian social and educational BDSM/ leather club. Welcomes self-identified women over 18 of all sexual orientations who are interested in consensual BDSM with other women.

contact@pdxbadgirls.net
www.pdxbadgirls.net

**Pennsylvania**

Philly Fetish Resource Guide

www.phillyfetish.com

**Texas**

Bound by Desire

For lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual, and transgendered women interested in dominance and submission and S/M. Monthly educational, informational, and social events in Austin.

P.O. Box 3733, Austin, TX 78704
contact@boundbydesire.org
www.boundbydesire.org

**Virginia**

The Black Rose

A pansexual support, education, and social group for adults who share an interest in expressions of power in love and play, including D/S (dominance and submission), B/D (bondage and discipline), fetishism, and cross-dressing. You must be over 19 to attend functions. See website for information on the womens group.

P.O. Box 11161, Arlington, VA 22210
(703) 715-6507 information hotline
info@br.org
www.br.org

**Washington**

The Wet Spot: Seattles Sex-Positive Community Center

The Wet Spot provides meeting and event space for sex-positive organizations. Events include regular women-only parties as well as meetings and workshops. Details about specific events are available on the website. Membership is required for some events. You must be over 18 to attend events at The Wet Spot.

(206) 270-9746
info@wetspot.org
www.wetspot.org

**Wisconsin**

Bad Grrrls

A support group for women who do S/M in Madison. Contact A Womans Touch (see Retail and Mail Order) for current information.

Satyricon

Pansexual, pangender BDSM social group in Madison. For more information, contact Ellen Barnard at A Womans Touch (see Retail and Mail Order, below).

##  **Canada**

Libido Events

A small production company promoting sex education and other Vancouver events celebrating alternative sexuality in our culture. Past events include workshops by Midori, Laura Antoniou, and Deborah Addington.

www.LibidoEvents.com

The Pussy Palace

A somewhat irregular womens night at a mens bathhouse. "There is lots of sensual dancing, cruising and sexy outfits of all descriptions."

(416) 925-XTRA (9872) x2115
info@pussypalacetoronto.com
www.pussypalacetoronto.com

Vancouver Leather

Website with calendar of events, links to local organizations.

www.vancouverleather.com/bdsm

Vancouver Women in Leather

VWL is a nonprofit organization dedicated to claiming a space for all women who are into leather, fetish, or a BDSM lifestyle.

Contact: Bird (604) 779-6434
http://vwleather.com

##  **Europe**

For more information about European resources, subscribe to Leather Letters, an occasional email newsletter about woman-to-woman S/M. The emphasis of Leather Letters is on European events, but it also contains news from other continents. To subscribe, contact: tania@xs4all.nl

**Austria**

Sadomasochismus in Österreich

Austrias pansexual S/M group; website features links to other European S/M resources.

sadonis@bdsm.at
www.bdsm.at

**England**

Informed Consent

Website packed with information on the BDSM community in the U.K., including events, personal ads, and a listing of organizations.

P.O. Box 152, Manchester, England M20 2YZ
webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk
www.informedconsent.co.uk

SM Dykes Manchester

For women who do S/M with women. Supports lesbian and bisexual S/Mers through monthly meetings, workshops, play parties, and an annual conference. Also escorts women who are new to the scene (or new to the area) to mixed BDSM club events.

SMDykes@SMDykes.org.uk
www.smdykes.org.uk

**France**

Les Maudites Femelles (LMF)

c/o Nathalie Dalla Corte
13 rue Beautreillis, 75004 Paris, France

**Germany**

Knights of the Round Table

Hosts play parties in Hamburg.

Die_Tafelrunde@hotmail.com

Lifeguard

Support network for S/M women.

neuce@informatik.uni-muenchen.de
www.mela.de/Frauen

SchMacht!

Germanys nationwide network of bisexual and lesbian women (including transgendered people) interested in BDSM. Publishes a newsletter and hosts play parties and educational events.

c/o AHA
Mehringdamm 61
10961 Berlin
www.schmacht.org/front_content.php

**The Netherlands**

WALP

The primary aim of Women at Amsterdam Leather Pride (WALP) is to create a social and educational network for leatherwomen within Europe and to encourage connections between leatherwomen in Europe and other continents. WALP is for leatherwomen of all persuasions and all nationalities. All straight, bisexual, and transsexual women are welcome. XX-transgender boys/men and FTM transsexuals in transition who feel they have a place in the womens community are also welcome at WALP. Holds an annual WALP Conference.

P.O. Box 842, 2300 AV, Leiden
Tel. +31-(0)71 512 8632
info@walp.nl
www.walp.nl

Wild Side

Welcomes all women with a personal and positive interest in S/M with other women—from total novices and beginning players to old-guard leatherdykes, poly bi-girls, professional sex workers, and straight women with a taste for playing with women. Transsexual women are welcome as well. Wild Side hosts regular workshops and play parties, as well as the occasional educational weekend (SM Academy: Classes I, II, & III). _Wild Side News_ is published four to six times a year.

Rozenstraat 14, 1016 NX, Amsterdam
www.wildside.dds.nl

**Sweden**

LASH

The club for women who like it rough. Established in 1995 in Stockholm. Lash welcomes all women dykes, lesbians, bisexuals, transsexuals. Publishes ten newsletters per year; sends email announcements of events. Hosts monthly play parties.

c/o SLM Stockholm
Box 172 41, 104 62 Stockholm, Sweden
Tel. 4673-992 62 82
clublash@hotmail.com
www.welcome.to/clublash

#  _**Polyamory Resources**_

alt.polyamory

Home page for the Usenet newsgroup alt.polyamory, with links to mailing lists and web pages about polyamory and organizations friendly to polyamory, including local groups. Also links to a directory of poly- and alternative-friendly counselors.

www.polyamory.org

poly-dykes

Mailing list open to self-identified women who wish to discuss the problems, joys, and general issues that arise in the practice of nonexclusive relationships between women. For subscription information, contact:

poly-dykes-owner@groups.queernet.org

#  _**Retail and Mail Order**_

Many sex toy stores offer workshops and other programs of interest to lesbian and bisexual women. Some stores also post information about local events. Most retail outlets also welcome mail-order business.

##  **Mail Order Only**

Aslan Leather

Manufacturer of leather, rubber, and vinyl strap-on harnesses and BDSM gear for all genders and sexualities. Lifetime guarantee on all products. Dildo harnesses, bondage gear, and whips can be purchased at many of the stores listed here or direct from the manufacturer. Owned by a self-identified transgendered butch whose interest in S/M, role play, and strap-on sex plays a large role in the creation of Aslan designs ("we make toys to fit your fantasy"). The website picture gallery is well worth the trip.

Box 102, Stn. B,
Toronto, ON, M5T 2T3, Canada
(416) 306-0462
carrie@aslanleather.com
www.AslanLeather.com

Black Hanky Toys

S/M toys made by two experienced leatherdykes, a top and a bottom, with over 40 years of S/M experience between them. Rattan and thermoplastic rods and canes for players who "crave an intense and beautiful pleasure/pain experience."

silva@blackhankytoys.com
www.blackhankytoys.com

Blowfish

Blowfish tests and reviews every product they sell: they watch the videos, play with the toys, squirt the lube, and offer their opinions on everything they carry. Toys, books, DVDs, videos, comics, and safer-sex supplies, including nitrile gloves sold by the hundred-count and opera-length black latex gloves.

P.O. Box 411290, San Francisco, CA 94141
Tel. (800) 325-2569; (415) 252-4340
Fax (415) 252-4349
blowfish@blowfish.com
www.blowfish.com

Blue Door

Adult video rentals; features a selection of lesbian videos, from _Suburban Dykes_ to _Leather Bound Dykes from Hell_.

ETP, Inc.
P.O. Box 64378, Sunnyvale, CA 94089
Fax (408) 733-2372
blueinfo@bluedoor.com
www.bluedoor.com

CDS Bookstand

Books and videos for the transgender community.

JoAnn@cdspub.com
www.cdspub.com

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dj@djknowsdicks.com
http://djknowsdicks.com

Extreme Restraints

Manufactures and sells, well, _extreme_ bondage, fetish, and sexually stimulating gear.

(866) 4MY-BDSM
info@extremerestraints.com
www.extremerestraints.com

The Frugal Domme

Reasonably priced S/M toys. Catalog available for $5.

TFD Enterprises
P.O. Box 1801, Pacifica, CA 94044
domina@frugaldomme.com
www.frugaldomme.com

Glyde Dams

Source for latex dams.

Glyde USA
P.O. Box 9783, Seattle, WA 98109
Tel. (206) 283-7664
Fax (206) 284-7554
glydeusa@aol.com
www.sheerglydedams.com

Innerspace

Manufacturer of acrylic dildos and other toys.

(818) 897-4444
info@innerspace1.com
www.innerspace1.com

JTs Stockroom

Carries an impressive line of S/M and bondage gear. Website features a sizzling gallery with photos of toys and gear modeled by JTs staff.

2140 Hyperion Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90027
Tel. (800) 755-TOYS; (323) 666-2121
Fax (800) 357-8697; (323) 913-5976
info@stockroom.com
www.stockroom.com

LesbianSexToys.com

Online lesbian-owned sex toy store.

www.lesbiansextoys.com

Liberator

"Bedroom adventure gear," including wedges, ramps, cubes, and other shapes designed to support a variety of sexual positions.

OneUp Innovations
6300 Powers Ferry Road, Suite 600, Box 346,
Atlanta, GA 30339
(866) 542-7283
customerserv@liberatorshapes.com
www.liberatorshapes.com

Sorodz

Handcrafted S/M toys.

P.O. Box 10692, Oakland, CA 94610
(510) 482-8252
info@sorodz.com
www.sorodz.com

Stompers Boots

Engineer boots, biker boots, lace-up boots, riding boots. They carry womens boots.

323 10th St., San Francisco, CA 94103
Tel. (415) 255-6422
Fax (415) 255-6424
info@stompersboots.com
www.stompersboots.com

Vixen Creations

Women-owned and -operated manufacturer of handmade silicone dildos and plugs. "Worth every inch." Visit the website to order online or to find a Vixen retailer near you.

1302 22nd St., San Francisco, CA 94107
(415) 822-0403
sales@vixencreations.com
www.vixencreations.com

Xandria Collection

For over 30 years, the Xandria catalog has offered a wide array of vibrators, dildos, lingerie, leather, videos, books, and more.

P.O. Box 319005, San Francisco, CA 94131
(800) 242-2823; (415) 468-3812
info@xandria.com
www.xandria.com

##  **Retail Stores**

**United States**

A Womans Touch

A feminist store operated by Ellen Barnard, M.S.S.W., and Myrtle Wilhite, M.D., M.S., A Womans Touch offers toys, books, and safer-sex supplies. "We celebrate sexuality and pleasure for women and those who love them." The website features Ask Aphrodite and Ask Dr. Myrtle, some of the best advice columns youll find on the Web. Carries nonlatex gloves and dams.

600 Williamson St., Madison, WI 53703
(888) 621-8880; (608) 250-1928
wmstouch@midplains.net
www.a-womans-touch.com

Come Again Erotic Emporium

Woman-owned store offering toys, books, and lingerie, plus a catalog of books and fetish magazines.

353 East 53rd St., New York, NY 10022
(212) 308-9394

Condomania

Retail stores and mail-order catalog of condoms and safer-sex supplies. Stocks an extensive array of products, including nonlatex barriers.

7306 Melrose Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90046
(323) 933-7865
351 Bleecker St., New York, NY 10014
(212) 691-9442
info@condomania.com
www.condomania.com

Early to Bed

Chicagos first women-owned, women-oriented, boy-friendly, queer- and trans-positive sex shop. Website lists vegan-friendly products (no animal products testing). Workshops, author appearances. Offers PleasureWare Parties for at-home group shopping in the Chicago area.

5232 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago, IL 60640
(866) 585-2BED (2233)
(773) 271-1219
info@early2bed.com
www.early2bed.com

Eves Garden

Woman-oriented store and catalog of toys, books, and videos.

119 West 57th St., 12th floor,
New York, NY 10019
(800) 848-3837
customerservice@evesgarden.com
www.evesgarden.com

Forbidden Fruit

Every day is Valentines Day at Forbidden Fruit, a woman-owned and-operated business whose mission is to "help create erotic self-awareness and improve intimate communication in relationships." Operates a toy store, fetish wear boutique, and body modification studio.

Ordering: (800) 315-2029

_Intimate Items Boutique and Educational Center_

512 Neches St., Austin, TX 78701
(512) 478-8358

_Fantasy Boutique_

108 E. North Loop Blvd., Austin, TX 78751
(512) 453-8090

_Body Arts Salon_

513 E. Sixth St., Austin, TX 78701
(512) 476-4596

info@forbiddenfruit.com
www.forbiddenfruit.com

Good Vibrations

Promoting sexual pleasure since 1977. "At Good Vibrations, we believe that sexual pleasure is everyones birthright, and that access to sexual materials and accurate sex information promotes health and happiness. Our goal is to serve as a resource for quality products and information, to model honest communication about sexuality, and to take every possible opportunity to promote the philosophy that sex is fun and natural. We hope youll join us in our pursuit of pleasure!" Three retail locations and a mail-order catalog of books, toys, videos, and safer-sex supplies, including nonlatex dams and gloves. Check the website for the schedule of store events.

_Stores:_

1620 Polk St., San Francisco, CA 94109
(415) 345-0400
603 Valencia St., San Francisco, CA 94110
(415) 522-5460
2504 San Pablo Ave., Berkeley, CA 94702
(510) 841-8987

_Mail order:_

938 Howard St., Suite 101,
San Francisco, CA 94103
(800) 289-8423
(415) 974-8990

customerservice@goodvibes.com
www.goodvibes.com

Grand Opening!

"No matter what your persuasion, youre always welcome at Grand Opening! Since weve been open, thousands of people have visited and have been made to feel at home in our cozy little boutique. We are hoping youll enjoy the same homey atmosphere when visiting us from your desktop or laptop!" Offers many workshops and other events. Two retail stores and an online catalog of books, toys, and videos.

Orders: (877) 731-2626

318 Harvard St., Suite 32,
Brookline, MA 02446
(617) 731-2626

8442 Santa Monica Blvd,
West Hollywood, CA 90069
(323) 848-6970

office@grandopening.com
www.grandopening.com

Madame S

Fetish fashion, bondage furniture, and BDSM gear. Companion store to the famed Mr. S.

321 7th St., San Francisco, CA 94103
Tel. (415) 863-WHIP
Fax (415) 863-7798
service@madame-s.com
www.madame-s.com

Mr. S Leather & Fetters USA

310 7th St., San Francisco, CA 94103
Tel. (415) 863-7764; (800) 746-7677
Fax (415) 863-7798
www.mr-s-leather.com

Purple Passion/DV8

Toys, magazines, books, and fetish clothing for men and women—rubber, leather, chain mail, patent leather, and PVC. Custom corsets, ballet shoes with 9" heels, boots by Westco, leathers by Vanson, medical supplies, vibrating nipple clamps, dildos, vibrators, and pages of butt toys. "We have rated most of our impact toys, ranging from 1, which is soft and sensuous, to 5, which is heavy and severe." Yeow!

211 West 20th St., New York, NY 10011
Tel. (212) 807-0486
Fax (212) 807-6165
info@purplepassion.com
www.purplepassion.com

The Smitten Kitten

A truly feminist store: "We put our money where our mouth is and our pussy where our politics are."

2223 East 35th St., Minneapolis, MN 55407
(612) 721-6088
(888) 751-0523
info@smittenkittenonline.com
www.smittenkittenonline.com

Spartacus Leathers

300 S.W. 12th Ave., Portland, OR 97205
(503) 224-2604

Stormy Leather

"A San Francisco landmark for 15 years, Stormy Leather is a woman-owned company dedicated to providing the highest quality garments and toys. There is something for everyone here: beginners, intermediate players, and pros." Specializes in leather and PVC fetish wear. Known for its beautiful corsets and attractive, durable dildo harnesses. Hosts events in its San Francisco store.

1158 Howard St., San Francisco, CA 94103
(800) 486-9650
online@stormyleather.com
www.stormyleather.com

Toys in Babeland

Sex toy shops run by women, dedicated to providing women and others the support, information, and equipment they want to have fun and fulfilling sex lives. "We sell sex toys to make money, make friends, and change the world. We share a belief in every persons right to define their own sexuality and gender, and to pursue pleasure in any way that does not harm others. We are S/M, transgender, queer, straight, vanilla, and bi friendly." Retail stores and a catalog of toys, books, and videos, including nonlatex gloves.

_Stores:_

711 East Pike St., Seattle, WA 98122
(206) 328-2914
94 Rivington St., New York, NY 10002
(212) 375-1701
43 Mercer Street, New York, NY 10013
(212) 966-2120
(800) 658-9119
www.babeland.com

**Canada**

Come As You Are

Cooperatively owned store and mail-order catalog of toys, books, and videos, including nonlatex gloves. Website features resources on sex and disability. "Our approach to sexuality is one of respect, openness, humor, communication, and responsibility. We are service and community oriented. We are accessible and disability-positive _. Nous offrons des services limités en français_."

701 Queen St. W.,
Toronto, ON, M6J 1E6 Canada
(877) 858-3160; (416) 504-7934

Venez tels quels

Tel. (514) 495-0444
Fax (514) 495-0464
info@veneztelsquels.com
mail@comeasyouare.com
www.comeasyouare.com

Good for Her

"Torontos cozy, comfortable place where women and their admirers can find a variety of high quality sex toys, books, videos/DVDs, seminars, sensual art, and much more—including nonlatex gloves. Women-focused and queer owned and operated." Store space is wheelchair accessible.

175 Harbord St.,
Toronto, ON, M5S 1H3 Canada
(877) 588-0900
(416) 588-0900
www.goodforher.com
whats@goodforher.com

Lovecraft

Retail stores and online catalog of toys, books, videos, and lingerie. Yorkville store is wheelchair accessible.

27 Yorkville Ave.,
Toronto, ON, M4W 1L1 Canada
(877) 923-7331
2200 Dundas St. East,
Mississauga, ON, L4X 2V3 Canada
(905) 276-5772
www.lovecraftsexshop.com

Venus Envy

Education-oriented sex and book store. "Our goal is to provide women and their partners with a respectful (and fun!!) place where they can find tools and toys to explore their gender and sexuality." Sells nonlatex gloves.

1598 Barrington St.,
Halifax, NS, B3J 1Z6 Canada
(902) 422-0004
venus@venusenvy.ca
110 Parent Ave.,
Ottawa, ON, K1N 7B4 Canada
(613) 789-4646
ottawa@venusenvy.ca

www.venusenvy.ca

Womyns Ware

Retail store and catalog of toys, books, and fetish gear. "Products, services, and an environment for the celebration and empowerment of womens sexuality." Sells nonlatex gloves. Strong emphasis on education.

896 Commercial Dr.,
Vancouver, BC, V5L 3Y5 Canada
Tel. (888) WYM-WARE (996-9273);
(604) 254-2543
Fax (604) 254-5472
info@womynsware.com
www.womynsware.com

**Europe**

Sh!

A womens sex shop.

39 Coronet St.,
London N1, U.K.
(0207) 613-5458
info@sh-womenstore.com
www.sh-womenstore.com/intro.html

Tiberius

Leather Latex and Tools

Wien 7, Lindengassw 2, Austria
43 1 522 04 74
leather@tiberius.at
www.tiberius.at

#  _**Sex Education Workshops, Classes, and Resources**_

Many sex toy stores offer classes, workshops, and demonstrations. (See "Retail," above.)

Betty Dodson

Betty Dodson Ph.D. is famed for her masturbation workshops, in which women explore the varied experience of orgasm through practicing masturbation skills.

www.bettydodson.com

Center for Sex and Culture

Classes, workshops, library of sex ed materials, social gatherings, and hands-on, practical skills-building events.

info@centerforsexandculture.com
www.sexandculture.org

Cléo Dubois Academy of SM Arts

Cléo Dubois teaches safe erotic bondage and S/M play to couples and singles in the privacy of her fully equipped dungeon. With Sybil Holiday, she offers the Erotic Dominance Intensive For Women, a four-day course in powerful eroticism.

P.O. Box 2345, Menlo Park, CA 94026-2345
Tel. (650) 322-0124
Fax (650) 326-2639
CleoDubois@sm-arts.com
www.sm-arts.com/home.htm

The Fairy Butch Dynasty

Karlyn Lotney (aka Fairy Butch) offers ongoing sex ed classes in San Francisco. "Dyke Sex: Nuts & Bolts" and "Dyke Sex: Power Tools."

fb@fairybutch.com
www.fairybutch.com

Midoris Fire Horse Productions

Classes for both beginners and experienced players in a variety of BDSM techniques. Taught by Midori and other presenters in the USA, Canada, and Europe. See website for calendar of classes.

(415) 282-6555
584 Castro St. #843, San Francisco CA 94114
midori@fhp-inc.com.
www.fhp-inc.com

QSM

The Q stands for "quality" (as in quality S/M) not "queer." Offers classes in S/M and power play for all sexes and orientations in San Francisco.

(415) 550-7776
qsm@sonic.net
www.qualitysm.com

San Francisco Sex Information

Offers a 55-hour training course in all aspects of human sexuality, in a positive, supportive atmosphere.

www.sfsi.org

Tristan Taormino

Learn about anal sex (and other sexual pleasures) from author Tristan Taormino, whose lectures, workshops, and demonstrations are hosted by sex toy boutiques, leather conferences, and universities throughout the United States and Canada. Schedule of upcoming appearances can be found on her website.

www.puckerup.com

Vulva University

Online classes from the House O Chicks: Sex and Intimacy, Advanced Orgasm, Sex and Sprit, and more.

www.houseochicks.com/vulvauniversity/index.html

WorkshopPlayshop.com

Elaine Miller and Silva Tenenbein, "two opinionated leatherdykes with an enormous and eclectic accumulation of skills," offer demos and workshops in Vancouver on flirting, fisting, bondage, drag, BDSM, porn writing, and more. Miller and Tenenbein say, "Come and Participate. Not necessarily in that order."

A New Perspective Workshops and Seminars
P.O. Box 814, Station A,
Vancouver BC, V6C 2N6 Canada
(604) 253-2850
workshops@workshopplayshop.com.
http://workshopplayshop.com

#  _**Tantra and Bodywork**_

Annie Sprinkle

Classes, workshops, rituals. "Learn to breathe into orgasm, experience a sex magic erotic massage ritual, learn ancient and modern sexual techniques."

www.anniesprinkle.org

Barbara Carrellas

Author and sex educator Barbara Carrellas teaches basic Tantra, breath and energy orgasms, and her signature Urban Tantra workshop, blending the techniques of Tantra and Tao with the intense stimulation and heightened awareness of S/M.

www.barbaracarrellas.com

Body Electric

Teaches touch, conscious breath, and honoring the wisdom of the body. Offers women-only workshops, including "Celebrating the Body Erotic for Women," "The Lusty Crone," "Dancing the Fire Within," and "Sacred Intimacy for Women," in Seattle, Oakland, Atlanta, Boston, and New York.

6527-A Telegraph Ave., Oakland, CA 94609
Tel. (510) 869-4383
Fax (510) 653-4991
info@bodyelectric.org
www.bodyelectric.org/women_index.htm

Jwala

Masseuse, rebirther, and designer of sensual boudoirs, Jwala has taught Tantra internationally for over 20 years in Australia, England, India, Germany, and throughout the United States.

http://tantra.com/jwala

Womens Sexuality Center

Pamela Madison offers workshops and classes with the goal of sexually empowering women through education. Lesbian classes include Tantra, with both evening and weekend-long workshops. Classes offered in Santa Barbara and Sausalito.

30 West Mission, Suite 8,
Santa Barbara, CA 93101
(805) 563-1071
(866) QTANTRA
info@womensexualitycenter.com
www.womensexualitycenter.com
www.pamelamadison.com

#  _**Transgender and Intersex Resources**_

American Boyz

Serves people who "were labeled female at birth but who feel that is not an accurate or complete description of who they are," including FTMs, butches, transmen, drag kings, boychicks, she-bears, shapeshifters, transfags, tomboys, passing women, two spirits, tranny boys, intersexuals, and significant others, friends, family members, and allies. AmBoyz provides education, support, social events, newsletters, publications, email lists, and hosts the national True Spirit Conference.

212-A So. Bridge St., Suite 131,
Elkton, MD 21921
Tel. (410) 392-3640
Fax (410) 620-2024
info@amboyz.org
amboyz@amboyz.org
www.amboyz.org

Butchdykeboy.com

Intersection of Bostons Queer, Transgender, and Gender Queer Communities. Resources, rants, and information for everyone on queer, transgender, and gender queer issues.

butchdykeboy@aol.com
www.butchdykeboy.com

Drag Kings

Announcement list for show dates, news, and other information from drag king performers and fans. Write the list owner. For information, contact:

dragkings-owner@groups.queernet.org

FTM Informational Network

The FTM Informational Network website is packed with information—legal and political news, sources for testosterone, packin gear in several sizes, personal stories, shaving tips, and clothing advice.

webmaster@ftminfo.net
www.ftminfo.net

FTM International, Inc.

FTM International represents a diverse group of transgendered men: "We come from different backgrounds, include every imaginable sexual orientation, and are multi-cultural. We range in age from our teens to our 70s and include persons who are just beginning to examine gender issues as well as persons who have been dealing with them for many years. We are here to help—whether in the form of providing information, or through our newsletter and other publications, through support from volunteers who are willing to help if you need someone to talk to, or through our list of online mailing lists and links, and also through our monthly meetings and special events."

1360 Mission St., Suite 200,
San Francisco, CA 94103
(415) 553-5987
www.ftmi.org

IFGE

The International Foundation for Gender Education, founded in 1978, advocates for freedom of gender expression. "We promote the understanding and acceptance of all people: Transgender, Transsexual, Crossdresser, Agender, Gender Queer, Intersex, Two Spirit, Drag King, Drag Queen, Queer, Straight, Butch, Femme, Homosexual, Bisexual, Heterosexual, and of course, You!" Also publishes _Transgender Tapestry._

P.O. Box 540229, Waltham, MA 02254
(781) 899-2212
info@ifge.org
www.ifge.org

Intersex Society of North America (ISNA)

"The Intersex Society of North America (ISNA) is devoted to systemic change to end shame, secrecy, and unwanted genital surgeries for people born with an anatomy that someone decided is not standard for male or female. ISNA works toward this end primarily through public education and through reforming medical education." Contact them through their website:

www.isna.org

Press for Change

A political lobbying and educational organization working to achieve equality and respect for all transsexual and transgendered people in the United Kingdom. The well-written website reads like a London _Times_ of the trans world.

editor@pfc.org.uk
www.pfc.org.uk

TransGenderCare

Provides health information for MTF and FTM transsexuals, with extensive information on transitioning.

www.transgendercare.com

Transgender Health Program

Provides anonymous, confidential, free support in British Columbia for transgendered people, their family members, partners, and friends. Website offers care guidelines, online library, links to other resources.

Three Bridges Community Health Centre
1292 Hornby St.,
Vancouver BC, V6Z 1W2 Canada
Phone/TTY: (604) 734-1514
(866) 999-1514 (toll free in BC)
transhealth@vch.ca
www.vch.ca/transhealth

TransHealth.Com

The online magazine of health and fitness for transsexual and transgendered people.

www.trans-health.com

Youth Gender Project

Youth-led organization working to empower and advocate for trans, gender-variant, and questioning (TGQ) youth in the San Francisco Bay area.

www.youthgenderproject.org